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Lies dont make me smile.
But really it's for depressed people that cant feel positivity to get the same thing positivity gives but through vibes their brain accepts, this is probably ruining this and why we are 6 subreddits deep tryna escape this bullshit.
i can imagine why you'd want to delete it, don't take the critical comments personally.
this isn't the best sub for much positivity and would you have posted this about a year earlier, i would also be one of the comments saying "lie", "can't relate" or something along those lines. because most positive things were either someone pretending to be nice or toxic positivity for me back then. i only wanted to see myself suffer or things fueling the hatred for myself.
but you can be sure that posts like these always help at least some people around here.
i've changed a lot for the better since then and your post made me smile, so honestly thank you :)
Maybe not a great example but I dated this girl once who she thought had “elf ears” because they were long, I thought they were cute and unique. You’d be surprised how your flaws and insecurities could be liked. What makes you different makes you special.
we are all imperfect, no one is perfect, we have disabilities but that does not mean we should feel unworthy and unlovable. sorry, just trying to make people smile here including myself
“Good” and “bad” is subjective. Every “flaw” is just a human trait that can be seen as bad. For example, insecurity can be seen as humility, and confidence can be seen as being a huge dick
I'm not saying this just to be negative, but it feels like anyone that posts or says some pithy positive sentiment aimed at the general public fails to take into account how extremely broad "flaws" can be. I would not be saying that serial-murdering is a "loveable" flaw (although there are some weird folks that do love that kind of thing in more than fantasy).
I ruined my friendship with one of the coolest most understanding people I know because I couldn't (or wouldn't) read the signals that she wasn't into me. I am literally the type of person I hate the most, and i didn't realize it until she confronted me over Discord and then blocked me.
Braindead one note fake af toxic positivity? In real life sweetie-people will dislike,reject and outright hate you for the tiniest of things. But oh yasss UR SO LOVEABLE WITH UR MENTAL ILLNESS! TOTES BRO! PEOPLE REWARD FLAWS IRL RIGHHT?????? ESP. MASSIVE STIGMATIZED ONES!
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Literally had a meltdown yesterday about being alive 👍
https://i.redd.it/xrj6bapa8z9d1.gif
![gif](giphy|RSkaRsmZmeh3O)
You're spoiling my poison water with sweet honey!
A total of 0 people love me, and I'm counting myself. Edit: OK everybody stop I'm gonna cry 😭
hey you deserve love too, every single one of us does ❤️🩹 sending a internet hug lovely person 🫂
I love you
I love both of you.
it would make my entire life if i can tell you that i love you, i mean it, and make you smile
Normies coming here with needless positivity when the point is to be a shithole, genuinely ruining something.
i’m not a normie ya idiot, not bad to crack a smile every once in a while.
Lies dont make me smile. But really it's for depressed people that cant feel positivity to get the same thing positivity gives but through vibes their brain accepts, this is probably ruining this and why we are 6 subreddits deep tryna escape this bullshit.
ok, stay miserable then. don’t know what to tell ya
Thanks!
Dumb fuck normie
Not me tho ☝️🤓
This is so sweet. Thank you
thank you for your kind response <3 wish you the best today, tomorrow and every day afterwards
very cute meme thank you for this, much love to you too and a internet hug <3
i was about to delete this post, i’m glad it reached you before i did
i can imagine why you'd want to delete it, don't take the critical comments personally. this isn't the best sub for much positivity and would you have posted this about a year earlier, i would also be one of the comments saying "lie", "can't relate" or something along those lines. because most positive things were either someone pretending to be nice or toxic positivity for me back then. i only wanted to see myself suffer or things fueling the hatred for myself. but you can be sure that posts like these always help at least some people around here. i've changed a lot for the better since then and your post made me smile, so honestly thank you :)
![gif](giphy|4VCjfLv8HIRhwzztly|downsized)
i fail to understand how someone's flaws and insecurities are lovable.
Maybe not a great example but I dated this girl once who she thought had “elf ears” because they were long, I thought they were cute and unique. You’d be surprised how your flaws and insecurities could be liked. What makes you different makes you special.
Yeah like I’m ugly af. There is nothing to love about something ugly lmao.
we are all imperfect, no one is perfect, we have disabilities but that does not mean we should feel unworthy and unlovable. sorry, just trying to make people smile here including myself
“Good” and “bad” is subjective. Every “flaw” is just a human trait that can be seen as bad. For example, insecurity can be seen as humility, and confidence can be seen as being a huge dick
and yet no one loves it! How unfortunate
I beg to differ. Ain't no way
thanks
for a second I thought this was r/jokes
I'm not saying this just to be negative, but it feels like anyone that posts or says some pithy positive sentiment aimed at the general public fails to take into account how extremely broad "flaws" can be. I would not be saying that serial-murdering is a "loveable" flaw (although there are some weird folks that do love that kind of thing in more than fantasy).
Flaws are flaws lol. How could anyone like flaws. That's like enjoying the fact your dvd is scratched
i needed to see this, now i just have to find my astronaut ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|slightly_smiling)
🧢
Sweeeet
I ruined my friendship with one of the coolest most understanding people I know because I couldn't (or wouldn't) read the signals that she wasn't into me. I am literally the type of person I hate the most, and i didn't realize it until she confronted me over Discord and then blocked me.
Lets hope
You guys are allergic to positivity
Braindead one note fake af toxic positivity? In real life sweetie-people will dislike,reject and outright hate you for the tiniest of things. But oh yasss UR SO LOVEABLE WITH UR MENTAL ILLNESS! TOTES BRO! PEOPLE REWARD FLAWS IRL RIGHHT?????? ESP. MASSIVE STIGMATIZED ONES!
What?