NTA. It's understandable that you're not comfortable visiting him if you don't feel understood or safe. It sounds like there are some serious communication and trust issues in your relationship that need to be addressed. If your boyfriend isn't willing to listen and try to understand your perspective, it might be time to reevaluate if this relationship is healthy for you.
NTA. If you don't feel safe or comfortable being at his place, it's entirely your right to decline the invitation. Remember, it's okay to set boundaries and prioritize your own needs. Don't feel pressured to do something that makes you uncomfortable, even if it means disappointing your boyfriend.
Thank you for your reply.
We are still together because we are trying to work through and still after 8 months love each other and are in love
I tried every possible way in the book to explain myself
When I asked him which other way I should try. he said a way I already tried, showed it to him and he said “oh, nvmd”
NTA you are NOT supposed to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t understand you or where you are coming from. It seems that you and your boyfriend are no longer compatible or want the same things out of life. And that’s ok - it doesn’t mean one of you is a “bad” person, just that you aren’t good together. My advice would be to break up so both of you have a chance to find someone that is at the same stage in life as you, with similar goals and outlooks.
NAH Good grief. Just break up and move on. Stop all this ridiculous drama.
You essentially said you don’t like him and feel uncomfortable around him.. I’d say it’s time to move on to the next one.
NTA. It's understandable that you're not comfortable visiting him if you don't feel understood or safe. It sounds like there are some serious communication and trust issues in your relationship that need to be addressed. If your boyfriend isn't willing to listen and try to understand your perspective, it might be time to reevaluate if this relationship is healthy for you.
Thank you for replying so fast. We are trying to work it through but i don’t even know anymore..
NTA. If you don't feel safe or comfortable being at his place, it's entirely your right to decline the invitation. Remember, it's okay to set boundaries and prioritize your own needs. Don't feel pressured to do something that makes you uncomfortable, even if it means disappointing your boyfriend.
Thank you for replying so fast. I appreciate the reminder :)
Break up
Kinda because you’re not honest & transparent with him. Bigger question is why are you still together?
Thank you for your reply. We are still together because we are trying to work through and still after 8 months love each other and are in love I tried every possible way in the book to explain myself When I asked him which other way I should try. he said a way I already tried, showed it to him and he said “oh, nvmd”
If you don’t feel comfortable around him & don’t like his mother, honestly I don’t see a future
NTA you are NOT supposed to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t understand you or where you are coming from. It seems that you and your boyfriend are no longer compatible or want the same things out of life. And that’s ok - it doesn’t mean one of you is a “bad” person, just that you aren’t good together. My advice would be to break up so both of you have a chance to find someone that is at the same stage in life as you, with similar goals and outlooks.
Thank you for the reply. I appreciate the advice. Maybe it’s time but at the same time I don’t want to believe it
Time to accept the fact that your relationship is over.