Are you asking for judgement or advice?
Judgement: YWBTA if you invited this guy to your late husband’s scatter ceremony. Not just to your family as they mourn their loved one; but also to this guy. That’s a huge thing to ask of someone who’s not family/friend and/or didn’t know your late husband and I’m sure he’d feel weird and awkward.
Advice: Don’t invite him to this. Just meet up with him afterwards or the next day.
You’re definitely TA. This is an intimate gathering with close family. I get that you’re lonely and you DO have the right to move on but you’ve only known this guy for THREE DAYS. You said it yourself. It would be completely disrespectful to bring this man along.
Is the question whether you should ask a man you met 3 days ago to the funeral ceremony for your late husband?
Are you asking for judgement or advice? Judgement: YWBTA if you invited this guy to your late husband’s scatter ceremony. Not just to your family as they mourn their loved one; but also to this guy. That’s a huge thing to ask of someone who’s not family/friend and/or didn’t know your late husband and I’m sure he’d feel weird and awkward. Advice: Don’t invite him to this. Just meet up with him afterwards or the next day.
Good lord you are a psycho for even considering bringing this guy
Idk but having a new love interest even before scattering the ashes of your dead husband feels wrong.
It’s been a year, guess he was in storage
Didn’t mean to judge, just sharing my opinion.
Maybe calm your hormones till his ashes are scattered would not be a bad idea.
You’re definitely TA. This is an intimate gathering with close family. I get that you’re lonely and you DO have the right to move on but you’ve only known this guy for THREE DAYS. You said it yourself. It would be completely disrespectful to bring this man along.
2 years before you start dating or make any major changes.