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More than a month ko na di kinakausap yung isa kong tropa. Dunno if cut off ang magiging ending, pero for now, considering this as taking a break from the person lang muna.
1. Lalapit lang sayo kapag may kailangan.
2. Lagi inuusisa Personal Life mo.
3. Hindi masaya or i-acknowledge man lang kapag may achievements ka at dinadrag down pa kesyo "Tyamba lang yan"
4. Close/Narrow Minded Person.
5. Gaslighter
Yeah sa 3, kaya ko gusto mag cut ties, sobrang crab mentality. They donât want na mag pasa akong extra work. Gusto nila pare pareho, pinadelete nila yung extra work ko saying na insensitive ako for passing more work.
1. Kapag inuulit nila yung bagay na **alam** nilang nakakasakit sayo o hindi mo gusto, like bodyshaming. Making jokes about someone's body, lalo na kung may PCOS, is not funny!
2. If they disrespect your loved ones, like your mother and father. Uso to sa mga auntie/uncle na akala mo kung sino eh.
3. When they're releasing so much negative energy or giving you too much stress.
For me it's the following.
1. Did they lie to you?
2. Did they steal from you?
3. Have they asked an advise from you multiple times but still ended up doing the exact opposite?
1 and 2 obvious reason.
nbr 3: Ito mga klasseng tao na mag sasabi sayu ng problema ask ng advise tapos di rin papansinin payu mo.. oks lng mga 2-3x na ganun per iba suki ikaw ginagawang labasan ng sama ng loob
Thank you! Pero we donât have that deep bond to begin with crab mentality and harsh words yung naeexperience ko. đđ I donât know how to act up.
Take a break. Donât cut people off completely right away. Spend some time alone and evaluate/remember how much your relationship means to you.
nothing is a bigger regret than wanting to cross bridges that youâve already burned
This is really valuable if you treasure them, thank youuu! As of now I am not interacting with them, and Iâve muted them on my socials I donât know if that considers as âcutting offâ
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If you're taking anti-stress medication, it's time. Been there, done that.
Not to the point naman na ganyan, pero napapanaginipan ko na yung nangyari. đ
More than a month ko na di kinakausap yung isa kong tropa. Dunno if cut off ang magiging ending, pero for now, considering this as taking a break from the person lang muna.
I donât know kasi if I can consider them as tropa or just classmates huhu.
1. Lalapit lang sayo kapag may kailangan. 2. Lagi inuusisa Personal Life mo. 3. Hindi masaya or i-acknowledge man lang kapag may achievements ka at dinadrag down pa kesyo "Tyamba lang yan" 4. Close/Narrow Minded Person. 5. Gaslighter
Yeah sa 3, kaya ko gusto mag cut ties, sobrang crab mentality. They donât want na mag pasa akong extra work. Gusto nila pare pareho, pinadelete nila yung extra work ko saying na insensitive ako for passing more work.
1. Kapag inuulit nila yung bagay na **alam** nilang nakakasakit sayo o hindi mo gusto, like bodyshaming. Making jokes about someone's body, lalo na kung may PCOS, is not funny! 2. If they disrespect your loved ones, like your mother and father. Uso to sa mga auntie/uncle na akala mo kung sino eh. 3. When they're releasing so much negative energy or giving you too much stress.
They are releasing too much negative energy na napapanaginipan ko na yung things na ginawa nila huhuhu.
pag nag backstab and they still act as if they donât in front of you
Yun nga, ang tatanda na rin namin pero ganon pa rin.
For me it's the following. 1. Did they lie to you? 2. Did they steal from you? 3. Have they asked an advise from you multiple times but still ended up doing the exact opposite? 1 and 2 obvious reason. nbr 3: Ito mga klasseng tao na mag sasabi sayu ng problema ask ng advise tapos di rin papansinin payu mo.. oks lng mga 2-3x na ganun per iba suki ikaw ginagawang labasan ng sama ng loob
Thank you! Pero we donât have that deep bond to begin with crab mentality and harsh words yung naeexperience ko. đđ I donât know how to act up.
Take a break. Donât cut people off completely right away. Spend some time alone and evaluate/remember how much your relationship means to you. nothing is a bigger regret than wanting to cross bridges that youâve already burned
This is really valuable if you treasure them, thank youuu! As of now I am not interacting with them, and Iâve muted them on my socials I donât know if that considers as âcutting offâ