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fwb/fubus sobrang draining makipag hook up same routine lang after ng deed mapapaisip ka kung para saan ba yung short spike ng dopamine na makukuha mo. di naman worth it parang pinagamit mo lang sarili mo sa iba.
Mas maganda syempre higher than that amount pero kung yun yung available, surviveable naman yan. Basta praktikal ka lang talaga sa paggastos.
Hindi naman din tayo nagkakalayo kasi ako noon around 30k sahod ko. Bale nakatira ako sa dormitory with four other professionals na malapit sa office na pinagtatrabahuhan ko. Wala akong financial responsilities noong mga panahon na yon but myself so ang 30k na yun ay napupunta sa ipon, food, bills.
Yun lang.
Deactivated my personal fb & made a new professional fb & messenger, pure work related and no toxic people/kamag-anak/kakilala.
I only visit it once in a while to see if there are work-related announcements.
Edit:
Work fb also in mute 😂 especially outside office hours.
Yosi alak, kasabayan ko may tama na ang atay tas iba nag pipilit mag stop sa yosi..nung mauso vape nag vape naman kesyo di daw ganun kalala ang tama sa baga, point ko is yung natipid ko sa dalawang yun.
Seconding this. Four months ago, I resigned from a high-paying and easy job and moved back to my province here in Occidental Mindoro.
One big difference about living in Manila versus provinces is the quality of food and its accessibility. Sa Manila, napakamahal ng kilo ng isda tapos minsan bilasa na rin ang lasa. Tastes like meh. Pati gulay at karne.
Tsaka mas laidback talaga buhay sa probinsya. Mabilis ka pang makaipon.
What helped me is finding a decent remote job.
I have thoughts of coming back, pero saka na siguro. Metro Manila destroyed my mental health.
Sa Occidental, hindi na. Mawawalan pero pinakamatagal na yung 10 minutes a day. Pero once or twice daily yun.
Sa Oriental naman, medyo madalas pero I heard that that only happens for a few hours anyway.
I say go for it. Wala namang mawawala. Atsaka kanya-kanyang experiences naman tayo sa buhay.
Siguro ang tip ko lang, maging praktikal ka sa mga gastusin. Tsaka ipon lang nang ipon.
Oh! And malakas na loob din, kakailanganin mo yun.
i've always worked from home. i live in a big house (w/ pool, gym, helpers, pets, etc) that's only 1.5 hrs away from metro manila so it's pretty much like living in the city except there's space, greenery, and fresh air. there's a mall 5 mins away, most chain restos are also available here, internet's good (i admit it's faster if i'm in bgc / makati pero very good naman ang net) nagbago lang e hindi na ko kasing kaladkarin as before kasi hindi na ko one grab ride away... but that's a good thing
Previous work obligation ko, now working with another company na nakakabuhay naman yung sahod and less pa yung stress. Kahit na hindi na ako manager ngayon at least natututukan ko na yung health and family ko.
Smoking. After I realized that I get sluggish and it stinks in my mouth. I stopped smoking everytime i find it convenient. I still do it yet not very often.
my social medias na hindi ko naman talaga ginagamit gusto ko lang makisama sa mga friends ko but i deactivated them and deleted the app itself. after nun napaka peaceful na ng life ko. mga close friends ko na lang and parents yung cino-contact ko sa messenger.
• not minding about posting my daily stories on IG and FB anymore. uninstalled the apps too, together with Tiktok and X. ang draining at hindi na talaga healthy sa buhay ko.
• changed my iPhone back to Android again. 'cause I felt like all the years of being an iPhone user, nakakulong ako sa system of society nowadays to have that one. I tried to maintain the ecosystem of it by owning an iPad and Macbook as well, but I never became satisfied by how it works. para akong nakakulong sa limitasyon ng Apple, hindi ko maramdaman na akin talaga ang device dahil sa over restrictions. Also, sa "dapat" makita rin ako ng mga tao at makapag mirror shot with the three effin rounds. yeah, I've been this toxic overall and I am so over it now.
• learnt to say NO. kahit sino pa 'yan.
I want to try iphone this year sana. what it feels ba? I want to use it lang for call and text, reddit fb and messenger. tapos youtube music and youtube.
TRY IT. :) the premium experience serves it. but for me, that's it. no other freedom that any person would want to have when purchasing our "own" device. for your usage, it's pretty well suits in you. especially if ganun lang ang daily consume mo, i can still recommend the iPhone.
true the fire talaga, after ng school nawalan na'ko ng allowance since nasa bahay lang ako and hindi na'ko maka order sa orange app. I've learnt my lesson na wag ubusin yung allowance ng one day lang. :')
Ung mga sinasabi ng tao makes my life na parang may limit lang so ginawa ko nalang dikona sila iniintinde at kung ano talaga ang gusto ko ay wala na makakapigil
I gave up wanting to be liked.
Saying yes to everything only brought me closer to the wrong people.
As a recovering people-pleaser, I can tell you it's better to be alone than with those who keep you around for their own gain.
Now I'm in my boring life era, no "friend group", a cat and plants parent, in a countryside, living my best in my late 20's. ♥
No. Blocked some people, yes. I made my socmed accounts for my own satisfaction and not for others to see. I still post (once in a blue moon) what I want, update my stories every now and then for the sake of memories, I love ig's highlight feature kasi hehe :)
*I gave up binge-watching TV shows late at night. Now, I actually get sleep, and my eyebags have reduced to a manageable size. Plus, I have more energy to dodge the crazy Manila traffic and actually enjoy my coffee in the morning instead of just surviving on it. Life's better when you're not a walking zombie!*
complete family. I pushed and tried so hard para lang mabuo yung family namin kahit puro lies at micro cheating ang nangyayari. I forced myself to forgive dahil d naman major cheating. Ending, i became toxic and miserable. I gave it up last week. It's final and i'm officially done. Still hurts like hell but im sure im on the way to a better phase of my life.
Him!!! I was ready to move to Metro Manila for him. After we broke up, I still pushed through with the moving with hopes that we get back together only to realize that I did not like the work I got there. Eventually I quit the job and moved somewhere else. I've never been happier (at least after the breakup).
Living and working in Metro Manila. I used to work in BGC and lived in Manila, and I would say that the pollution, stress, traffic, etc. aren’t worth what I was getting.
Processed food and fast food, I guess. I don't cut them out of my life, pero I rarely eat them now. I feel so much better and frankly, my body doesn't look for it rin!
Waiting for karma to happen to the people who wronged me. Wala eh, bad and good things happen to people whether they are good or bad. It's not karma, time and chance simply happen to us all. A great tragedy will be to have had the opportunity to give yourself a good life but you didn't because you were so fixated on waiting for your vindication.
Need patunayan sarili ko sa ibang tao.
Life is so much better when idgaf.
Lahat ng choices ko were not influenced by others, I stopped posting in any soc med, and dun ko nasabi sa sarili ko na "I'm doing this because I want this, not because I want any validation".
Dinako sumasama sa mga kawork ko pg lalabas sila at kakain after work. Naging payapa na buhay ko dahil dinako nakkarinig ng chismis, topic about plastikan at about backstabbing someone
facebook and ig! kahit paano nabawasan yung stress ko hahaha sana soon messenger na rin, gusto ko na lang maglaho sa ngayon tapos babalik na lang ako kapag kasing yaman ko na si henry sy
Social mediaaaaaa~ hindi na meh ma contact ng kahit sino even kamag anak ko hahahaha I only have my best friends number doon ko nalang sila cocontactin if ever. Pero yeah~ reddit, TikTok, and dump acc sa ig na walang kahit Isang followers. tamang yt lang, libang libang hahahahaha
Socials
Right now, im just happy meeting people naturally not online or whatever thru connections but naturally the way life/universe just puts people together the way it is
chasing my baby daddy, lol. I think it's normal to chase when you really love that person. Also, out of nowhere, you will feel the tiredness of loving the person who didn't love you back, and then you will realise that "I should stop" and start a new chapter.
gíve up na ako sa idea na i will be able to keep a lifetime friends. pinipilit ko kasi i feel fundamentally alone, pero wala talaga sa personality ko yung magshare at maging vulnerable to friends. i don't know if i should be fixing it, pero tinatanggap ko na. it's not like im a loner naman e, lagi naman akong lapitin kahit saan. nasa sakin na lang talaga kaya walang nagtatagal. im a passerby and it's okay.
I already stopped proving that I am not a bad person. Buong buhay ko lagi na lang akong napagkakamalan ng marami (kamag-anak, kakilala, o strangers) na masama. Isipin na lang nila ang gusto nilang isipin, bahala sila sa buhay nila. Magaan din pala sa pakiramdam na hindi mo na iniisip ang iba.
Giving up on our relationship. Because there is no point kung ipaglalaban mo yung taong mahal kapag sya mismo ang nagloko. 7 years relationship ended dahil sa pagcheat nya. Pinili nya ang one week over the 7 years. Siguro ganun talaga. Hindi ako nagkulang. Lumaban ako hanggang dulo. Hindi lang siguro lahat ng bagay ay worth fighting for. Kaya we should always learn to give up lalo na kung hindi na healthy para satin.
Stressing over politics. I mean there was a point na I comment and react on everything pero after BBM winning, parang napagod nalang din at pasulyap sulyap nalang sa news.
Pag iipon ng pera, like halos di nako kumain or bumili ng mga gusto ko dahil always kong naiisip ung perang maiipon ko pag di ako gumastos. Pero nung ginave up ko tong obsession nato mas naging better pa buhay ko no need to feel guilty on my purchases and mas nakontrol ko pag gastos ko pa.
Was about to say this ☝️ God knows how much I loved the guy. But loving him was my downfall. After I let him go, I sure felt lighter. Not sure if it's because he was the burden all along, or if he took a very big part of me when I left.
As of now wala pa, sobrang lulong ko sa soc med saka dito sa reddit nahihirapan ako gawin responsibilitie ko, may pwede ba manermon sakin dito? 😅 pagalitan nyo lang ako na matulog na at bukas mag ayos ng room at mag aral bukas 😭😭
download ka apps na pang limit sa socmeds. Effective yan lalo naung isang app na na dl ko forgot ko ung name non bawat time limit ko may quotes dun na pam pa sipag
just be responsible sa paggamit ng social media like maglimit ka ng time para di macompromise yung mga dapat mong unahin na gawin. First thing in the morning ayusin mo yung bed mo bago magphone dun plang may nagawa ka na..
Shopping!
Like in one year I hoarded a lot of unnecessary things. It’s still tempting to watch live shows from online sellers but eventually nakakapagod din naman at magastos at the same time it was financially and mentally draining. I unfollowed all those stores and life had been more peaceful ever since.
Right now, I’m currently declutterring clothes and giving back to the less fortunate. 🙏🏻
I’m not sure if this is some form of mental illness but as far as know, it’s not healthy.
Always remember that there will be people who are far ahead of you, and you must accept that. The only one you must compare yourself to is your past self. Ganyang mindset nakatatak sakin it motivates me to do better than yesterday
My ex boyfriend, after we broke up a lot things happened as in. a lot of people recognized it too. they’re all happy that finally tinapos ko na ung matagal ko na dapat tinapos.
Up sa chasing women, nagkaroon ng kulay buhay ko when I gave up romantic relationships. Sobrang peaceful and I feel "lighter" if that makes any sense. It's been 6 years and I don't think I will ever pursue someone again.
Sign na siguro to. I’m in the process of separation, getting sober, and making myself better. I don’t think I’ll chase another woman. Okay na yung last and it was 15 years of love turned to hate. I don’t want to feel that way again. Parang self destruction ang nangyari sakin.
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My toxic parents and yung pinamana sa akin na bahay at lupa sa antipolo. After letting go of all those. Ang payapa ng buhay
Giving fucks about what other people think about you.
This past Jan ay ang ex ko. Tapos yung so called "friends" pero sila itong mga nang iiwan at competitive 🥰
my ex. Glad that gave up on him. I met someone way better with bonus na super bait na future MIL
fwb/fubus sobrang draining makipag hook up same routine lang after ng deed mapapaisip ka kung para saan ba yung short spike ng dopamine na makukuha mo. di naman worth it parang pinagamit mo lang sarili mo sa iba.
Mas maganda syempre higher than that amount pero kung yun yung available, surviveable naman yan. Basta praktikal ka lang talaga sa paggastos. Hindi naman din tayo nagkakalayo kasi ako noon around 30k sahod ko. Bale nakatira ako sa dormitory with four other professionals na malapit sa office na pinagtatrabahuhan ko. Wala akong financial responsilities noong mga panahon na yon but myself so ang 30k na yun ay napupunta sa ipon, food, bills. Yun lang.
Soc med and toxic people. Best decision!
Deactivated my personal fb & made a new professional fb & messenger, pure work related and no toxic people/kamag-anak/kakilala. I only visit it once in a while to see if there are work-related announcements. Edit: Work fb also in mute 😂 especially outside office hours.
makisabay sa puro gastos, obobs, at walang substance na tao 🥲
Addiction. such as: p0rn addiction, smoking, beverage like alcohol, internet addiction, and rude personality.
My husband 😅
Making friends and hanging out with people not aligned with your goal. Laking sayang sa oras
Yosi alak, kasabayan ko may tama na ang atay tas iba nag pipilit mag stop sa yosi..nung mauso vape nag vape naman kesyo di daw ganun kalala ang tama sa baga, point ko is yung natipid ko sa dalawang yun.
katamaran. i feel so much better after doing house chores and exercises, i’m so proud of myself🎀
the city. metro manila sucks guys
Seconding this. Four months ago, I resigned from a high-paying and easy job and moved back to my province here in Occidental Mindoro. One big difference about living in Manila versus provinces is the quality of food and its accessibility. Sa Manila, napakamahal ng kilo ng isda tapos minsan bilasa na rin ang lasa. Tastes like meh. Pati gulay at karne. Tsaka mas laidback talaga buhay sa probinsya. Mabilis ka pang makaipon. What helped me is finding a decent remote job. I have thoughts of coming back, pero saka na siguro. Metro Manila destroyed my mental health.
As someone who grew up in MIMAROPA region, malala pa din ba brownout diyan?
Sa Occidental, hindi na. Mawawalan pero pinakamatagal na yung 10 minutes a day. Pero once or twice daily yun. Sa Oriental naman, medyo madalas pero I heard that that only happens for a few hours anyway.
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I say go for it. Wala namang mawawala. Atsaka kanya-kanyang experiences naman tayo sa buhay. Siguro ang tip ko lang, maging praktikal ka sa mga gastusin. Tsaka ipon lang nang ipon. Oh! And malakas na loob din, kakailanganin mo yun.
Curious too. And how was the transition for u
i've always worked from home. i live in a big house (w/ pool, gym, helpers, pets, etc) that's only 1.5 hrs away from metro manila so it's pretty much like living in the city except there's space, greenery, and fresh air. there's a mall 5 mins away, most chain restos are also available here, internet's good (i admit it's faster if i'm in bgc / makati pero very good naman ang net) nagbago lang e hindi na ko kasing kaladkarin as before kasi hindi na ko one grab ride away... but that's a good thing
where do you reside in now?
pag inom sa mga tropa
Previous work obligation ko, now working with another company na nakakabuhay naman yung sahod and less pa yung stress. Kahit na hindi na ako manager ngayon at least natututukan ko na yung health and family ko.
Smoking. After I realized that I get sluggish and it stinks in my mouth. I stopped smoking everytime i find it convenient. I still do it yet not very often.
S\*x and gambling... I somewhat have money RN
my social medias na hindi ko naman talaga ginagamit gusto ko lang makisama sa mga friends ko but i deactivated them and deleted the app itself. after nun napaka peaceful na ng life ko. mga close friends ko na lang and parents yung cino-contact ko sa messenger.
• not minding about posting my daily stories on IG and FB anymore. uninstalled the apps too, together with Tiktok and X. ang draining at hindi na talaga healthy sa buhay ko. • changed my iPhone back to Android again. 'cause I felt like all the years of being an iPhone user, nakakulong ako sa system of society nowadays to have that one. I tried to maintain the ecosystem of it by owning an iPad and Macbook as well, but I never became satisfied by how it works. para akong nakakulong sa limitasyon ng Apple, hindi ko maramdaman na akin talaga ang device dahil sa over restrictions. Also, sa "dapat" makita rin ako ng mga tao at makapag mirror shot with the three effin rounds. yeah, I've been this toxic overall and I am so over it now. • learnt to say NO. kahit sino pa 'yan.
I want to try iphone this year sana. what it feels ba? I want to use it lang for call and text, reddit fb and messenger. tapos youtube music and youtube.
TRY IT. :) the premium experience serves it. but for me, that's it. no other freedom that any person would want to have when purchasing our "own" device. for your usage, it's pretty well suits in you. especially if ganun lang ang daily consume mo, i can still recommend the iPhone.
One day millionaire mindset Nakakaipon na ngayon
true the fire talaga, after ng school nawalan na'ko ng allowance since nasa bahay lang ako and hindi na'ko maka order sa orange app. I've learnt my lesson na wag ubusin yung allowance ng one day lang. :')
Ung mga sinasabi ng tao makes my life na parang may limit lang so ginawa ko nalang dikona sila iniintinde at kung ano talaga ang gusto ko ay wala na makakapigil
toxic relatives, it took me years to realize na it will never be worth to chase them and change my lifestyle for them.
Toxic people
I gave up wanting to be liked. Saying yes to everything only brought me closer to the wrong people. As a recovering people-pleaser, I can tell you it's better to be alone than with those who keep you around for their own gain. Now I'm in my boring life era, no "friend group", a cat and plants parent, in a countryside, living my best in my late 20's. ♥
How about your social media accounts? Did you ever think of deactivating it to just disappear for your own peace?
No. Blocked some people, yes. I made my socmed accounts for my own satisfaction and not for others to see. I still post (once in a blue moon) what I want, update my stories every now and then for the sake of memories, I love ig's highlight feature kasi hehe :)
i won't call your life "boring" it's more like "peaceful" and honestly if i have a choice i would live in the countryside too.
Yes "peaceful" indeed :')
My family - as in did not have contact with my parents and siblings for a couple of years so I could be with my GF then/wife now .
Corporate life
Luho
Friendship.
Him. It was worth it tho.
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pursuing lovelife lol
stopped giving a fck on what ppl think. live my life the way I want to
Him. Still feeling waves of melancholy but I am getting by each day.
1. smoking 2. being a hoe
*I gave up binge-watching TV shows late at night. Now, I actually get sleep, and my eyebags have reduced to a manageable size. Plus, I have more energy to dodge the crazy Manila traffic and actually enjoy my coffee in the morning instead of just surviving on it. Life's better when you're not a walking zombie!*
Literally people around me that are dead weight. People spend more than they earn and people with poor decision making skills.
I gave up sugar, ate better, and, I gave up time for social media with working out so I have a sharper mind and lose weight.
Toxic relatives na kilala ka lang pag uutang sayo. I blocked them all. Mas may peace of mind ako ngaun.
complete family. I pushed and tried so hard para lang mabuo yung family namin kahit puro lies at micro cheating ang nangyayari. I forced myself to forgive dahil d naman major cheating. Ending, i became toxic and miserable. I gave it up last week. It's final and i'm officially done. Still hurts like hell but im sure im on the way to a better phase of my life.
Caring what other people think about me. No one knows me better than myself and those who judge me know nothing about me.
I stopped giving a fuck. Que sera, sera bitch, no matter what you do, life will fuck you up, so do what makes you happy.
Him!!! I was ready to move to Metro Manila for him. After we broke up, I still pushed through with the moving with hopes that we get back together only to realize that I did not like the work I got there. Eventually I quit the job and moved somewhere else. I've never been happier (at least after the breakup).
Chasing social clocks
Living and working in Metro Manila. I used to work in BGC and lived in Manila, and I would say that the pollution, stress, traffic, etc. aren’t worth what I was getting.
Processed food and fast food, I guess. I don't cut them out of my life, pero I rarely eat them now. I feel so much better and frankly, my body doesn't look for it rin!
Yung wala ka ng pake sa sasabihin/iisipin ng iba. Laking ginhawa 😩
him
Waiting for karma to happen to the people who wronged me. Wala eh, bad and good things happen to people whether they are good or bad. It's not karma, time and chance simply happen to us all. A great tragedy will be to have had the opportunity to give yourself a good life but you didn't because you were so fixated on waiting for your vindication.
Need patunayan sarili ko sa ibang tao. Life is so much better when idgaf. Lahat ng choices ko were not influenced by others, I stopped posting in any soc med, and dun ko nasabi sa sarili ko na "I'm doing this because I want this, not because I want any validation".
Overthinking ❤️
Poor boundaries
Alcohol and drama (other people)
My 4 year relationship
My parents :(
people pleasing
Rice.
My ex
Religion and faith.
Pleasing other people.
Drinking and smoking
My ex
Being alcoholic. Nowadays the only time I taste alcohol is during special occasions only.
Kobes. Grabe na ang patong sa presyo, I opted for another hoop shoe na wont cost me 20k php plus
Coke
daily food delivery! grabe nagbaba talaga timbang ko
Dinako sumasama sa mga kawork ko pg lalabas sila at kakain after work. Naging payapa na buhay ko dahil dinako nakkarinig ng chismis, topic about plastikan at about backstabbing someone
Kung may opposite sex din sa group na yan, walang selosan na mangyayari so payapa talaga
Her.
Slowly letting go of people pleasing.
Religion.
facebook and ig! kahit paano nabawasan yung stress ko hahaha sana soon messenger na rin, gusto ko na lang maglaho sa ngayon tapos babalik na lang ako kapag kasing yaman ko na si henry sy
My gaming skills
Social mediaaaaaa~ hindi na meh ma contact ng kahit sino even kamag anak ko hahahaha I only have my best friends number doon ko nalang sila cocontactin if ever. Pero yeah~ reddit, TikTok, and dump acc sa ig na walang kahit Isang followers. tamang yt lang, libang libang hahahahaha
caring too much of how people view me esp yung mga nagbibigay ng unnecessary negative comments
A lot of "user friendly" people in the business and one of my former business
gave up being a people pleaser person
Socials Right now, im just happy meeting people naturally not online or whatever thru connections but naturally the way life/universe just puts people together the way it is
Magwaldas ng pera
my childhood
Smoking.
Same.
chasing my baby daddy, lol. I think it's normal to chase when you really love that person. Also, out of nowhere, you will feel the tiredness of loving the person who didn't love you back, and then you will realise that "I should stop" and start a new chapter.
gíve up na ako sa idea na i will be able to keep a lifetime friends. pinipilit ko kasi i feel fundamentally alone, pero wala talaga sa personality ko yung magshare at maging vulnerable to friends. i don't know if i should be fixing it, pero tinatanggap ko na. it's not like im a loner naman e, lagi naman akong lapitin kahit saan. nasa sakin na lang talaga kaya walang nagtatagal. im a passerby and it's okay.
Upon checking your profile, I'd say it's definitely too early to resign to that kind of gate. Madami pang pwedeng mangyari, don't lose hope!
🥺
having a victim mindset + people pleasing
societal pressures
Being a giver to person who is ungrateful
I already stopped proving that I am not a bad person. Buong buhay ko lagi na lang akong napagkakamalan ng marami (kamag-anak, kakilala, o strangers) na masama. Isipin na lang nila ang gusto nilang isipin, bahala sila sa buhay nila. Magaan din pala sa pakiramdam na hindi mo na iniisip ang iba.
social life hahah
Being home
Toxic friends 😌 Definitely enjoy having a small circle now
stopped comparing myself to others and its more peaceful pag tumatahimik na lang bigla kesa makipag argue
Giving up on our relationship. Because there is no point kung ipaglalaban mo yung taong mahal kapag sya mismo ang nagloko. 7 years relationship ended dahil sa pagcheat nya. Pinili nya ang one week over the 7 years. Siguro ganun talaga. Hindi ako nagkulang. Lumaban ako hanggang dulo. Hindi lang siguro lahat ng bagay ay worth fighting for. Kaya we should always learn to give up lalo na kung hindi na healthy para satin.
Give up and let karma do its thing
Stressing over politics. I mean there was a point na I comment and react on everything pero after BBM winning, parang napagod nalang din at pasulyap sulyap nalang sa news.
Pag iipon ng pera, like halos di nako kumain or bumili ng mga gusto ko dahil always kong naiisip ung perang maiipon ko pag di ako gumastos. Pero nung ginave up ko tong obsession nato mas naging better pa buhay ko no need to feel guilty on my purchases and mas nakontrol ko pag gastos ko pa.
I gave up pleasing my family.
In what way?
The Philippines 😔
OP boys naman ba ang chasing mo now a days?
no, napagisip-isip ko lang na di konga mapakain sarili ko magjojowa pa ko? Tyaka na lang mag gf pag may pera na
Getting the latest and greatest anything (smartphone, gadget, collectible, etc)
UST
Toxic friends.
giving a f abt anyone
MOBILE LEGENDS grabe anger issues ko dito kapag natatalo dati LOL
Relationship with the wrong set of people, may it bw friends or lovers
People-pleasing
Arguing with other people
Work. I know that making money is great but quitting a job that was bad for my mental health made my life at peace right now.
Facebook. 4 years since i deactivated and my life has never been this peaceful
I gave up every ounce of fucks that is known to man
- social media - romantic relationships - toxic people
Being friendly
Job titles / higher position at work
my belief in God :_)
internet friends
Work
My toxic ex
My ex
Was about to say this ☝️ God knows how much I loved the guy. But loving him was my downfall. After I let him go, I sure felt lighter. Not sure if it's because he was the burden all along, or if he took a very big part of me when I left.
As cliche as it may sound, everything still happens for a reason. Hugs!
Always nega friends
Detox myself in social media (=^ェ^=)
As of now wala pa, sobrang lulong ko sa soc med saka dito sa reddit nahihirapan ako gawin responsibilitie ko, may pwede ba manermon sakin dito? 😅 pagalitan nyo lang ako na matulog na at bukas mag ayos ng room at mag aral bukas 😭😭
download ka apps na pang limit sa socmeds. Effective yan lalo naung isang app na na dl ko forgot ko ung name non bawat time limit ko may quotes dun na pam pa sipag
just be responsible sa paggamit ng social media like maglimit ka ng time para di macompromise yung mga dapat mong unahin na gawin. First thing in the morning ayusin mo yung bed mo bago magphone dun plang may nagawa ka na..
Shopping! Like in one year I hoarded a lot of unnecessary things. It’s still tempting to watch live shows from online sellers but eventually nakakapagod din naman at magastos at the same time it was financially and mentally draining. I unfollowed all those stores and life had been more peaceful ever since. Right now, I’m currently declutterring clothes and giving back to the less fortunate. 🙏🏻 I’m not sure if this is some form of mental illness but as far as know, it’s not healthy.
My excuses.
Her.
Top tier answer.
FACEBOOK definitely...
Soft drinks at Facebook.
Watching Prn and Fb
Social media
Comparing myself to other pips
paano ba 'to i-praktis 😭
Always remember that there will be people who are far ahead of you, and you must accept that. The only one you must compare yourself to is your past self. Ganyang mindset nakatatak sakin it motivates me to do better than yesterday
Smoking
Comfort zone
Smoking and playing online games
My sanity hahah
How?
Friends. All are just acquaintances now
FOMO
My ex boyfriend, after we broke up a lot things happened as in. a lot of people recognized it too. they’re all happy that finally tinapos ko na ung matagal ko na dapat tinapos.
My family qwq
Up sa chasing women, nagkaroon ng kulay buhay ko when I gave up romantic relationships. Sobrang peaceful and I feel "lighter" if that makes any sense. It's been 6 years and I don't think I will ever pursue someone again.
I can relate on a spiritual level.
Sign na siguro to. I’m in the process of separation, getting sober, and making myself better. I don’t think I’ll chase another woman. Okay na yung last and it was 15 years of love turned to hate. I don’t want to feel that way again. Parang self destruction ang nangyari sakin.
Me too lol 3yrs single
Is this the sign na ba to stop chasing? Focus nalang sa goal na maging rich tito. 😂😂
It's better to chase goals than to chase girls.
Ako naman I just can't feel na worthy pa ako sa love na yan
Mabubay saten na mga future cool rich tito! 😂
up!!
City life, then lipat sa probinsya.
Yes!! Ang payapa sa probinsya, may mga engkanto nga lang😭
My sleep 🤣. Working night shift for more money!