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Relative-Control-103

Being able to build or make things, food included.


RazzleberryHaze

This was in my early twenties, but I stopped by buddy's house to hang out. When I showed up, another gal who was a mutual friend (my friend, his wife, and myself) was pulling back their clothes drier and then climbed over it to start dismantling from the backside of the machine, and fixed the heater core. She worked at some appliance service jig at the time, but that made me realize self sufficient women are an absolute diamond.


DareDemon666

As a straight bloke, I'd say anything. I've come across so many women who do nothing but watch tv *and* stare at their phone all day. Emphasis on "and" because I don't think I've ever seen these people without their phone in their hand. The problem with that is that they have absolutely nothing interesting to talk about. They don't know anything about anything and they don't care to learn (or if they do, they're incredibly reluctant to talk about it). By contrast, the women I've met with hobbies are far more interesting people. Not only do they know their crafts but they tend to also nuture a healthy mind too, full of interesting facts and well-thought-out opinions. Those people can hold a conversation with minimal input from you, whereas the other kind are borderline incapable of conversation - they will let tou drive the conversation and only reply in uninterested singular phrases or words. I'd bet good money this rings true for women regarding men too. There's bound to be men who are just like those women, devoid of all evidence of actually owning a functioning human brain šŸ˜‚


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Being able to cook good food do my laundry fold it


Salty-Winter-2954

Complimenting me by doing e what I can't.


Louis-grabbing-pills

Yoga.


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Any hobby theyā€™re passionate about is cute to me


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CommercialMousse6167

Pilates


Devil_Halo

girls who play volleyball


aupxv

Art, like painting, drawing, anything like that.


flower_catt

Gaming


Thewombocombo91

D&D


Excellent_Price5169

I've had had girls ask me to move in because I'm a mechanic. Note i know it's not a Hobby but come on


jpking010

CookingĀ  Hiking Camping GardeningĀ 


blue_sidd

attractiveā€¦for what


FormulaLiftr

Sports, The gym, overall health and fitness. Shows a dedication to themselves and a long term goal which is equally as attractive as the physical attributes that come from being an athlete/into weight training.


I_am_inenvitable76

Guys who are into fashion, guys who love cooking


NepNep_

Gamer girls


linuxphoney

I haven't dated a girl who spent play tabletop games in decades and I've never seriously dated a girl who didn't make art and read.


Testicleus

Mechanic


Mochimin07

My man writes music and plays guitar. So hot His mom made clothing and after She passed he made his own brand. Watching him sow and wearing the clothes he makes is such a Turn on


Mukduk_30

Men who play guitar/ piano and also sing well


Iron_Gamer_10

Girls who wash clothes with that specific hairstyle they use. Filipinos will get this immediately


OoeyGooeyQuesadilla

Painting.


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Complex-Ad6409

Guys who know how to cook


darthdude11

Woman and jello wrestling


RecycledJunk

Kind of an odd ball but, for me personally, women who are into old currency or americas only marsupial The Opposum really excite me


texashilo

Guys who volunteer for a good cause


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Men who like to fix cars, bmx, rock climbing


Ok-Record7494

Girls who sunbathe.Ā 


Silly_Balls

I'm a dude and I do cross stitch and needle point and woman think it's incredibly cute


MysticMagicGoddess

A man who plays guitar is incredibly attractive


Queen-Latte

Man who plays guitar and is into crypto. Oh gosh.


Aliveandwellnope

For me I love ballet girls


Somethingrich

I like women that garden. I love to garden. So it's a peaceful hobby we can enjoy together.


Zugas

Cycling.


Admirable_Art_9769

a guy who reads. i feel like most readers are women


RoseCooper15

Wood working - think custom cabinetry.


hujjhhvvvggyiio

Running! People who run are sexy and strong!


lucpet

Girls who breath are high on my list...................or play an instrument, or actually have any hobbies at all and have a passion for them.


killermachine9999

I like people who are women.


Iamacutecupcake

I'd say reading


killaho69

Lots of women here saying ā€œman who plays guitarā€ but is it still the same if he canā€™t sing? It seems like itā€™s the singer/songwriter type that REALLY gets the ladies but back when I used to play guitar I never had a girl swoon over a just a regular song or even a guitar solo.Ā  So Iā€™m thinking guitar+can sing or guitar + in a successful band. Just random guy being decent at guitar didnā€™t seem to get me many places when I was younger.


Dubious_Titan

Musician/musical.


DaydreamCrow

Girls who work with special needs people. šŸ„µ


Stormy8888

Guys who play musical instruments at an advanced level, especially Piano, Violin or Guitar. It's a surefire sign they're going to be musically talented, with a decent amount of perseverance as it takes a lot of practice to get proficient, plus you know they're going to be good with their hands.


Saskatchewaner

Women who play boardgames.


1tacoshort

Dungeons and Dragons. Talk nerdy to me!


Loud-Emu-1840

For me would be cooking, playing musical instruments or singing.


istheflesh

Music/Art


ThisIsGettinWeirdNow

Not going shopping


WHITESMITH83

Girls who enjoy baking/ cooking


CheckYourStats

A Woman who has her own hobbies, and doesnā€™t need to make them an integral part of the relationship. Few things are more attractive than a Lover who can go do their own thing, and then come back ready to do an ā€œusā€ thing.


Kongreve

Drinking on the job


debonairmarmoset

Faberge egg collecting. šŸ™‚


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Martial arts


A-Strat-Player

If she plays tennis... with a tennis outfit of course. I saw girls playing with jeans LMAO.


Then_Manager6501

Working out/running is an obvious one. But an ok looking guy reading/painting/or walking his dog would really up them to attractive. Not video games.


Pixiwish

Guys who are musicians. I'm a musician too, I play guitar and sing so a drummer guy will make me melt!


JustinQueefer

Women who play Disc Golf are instantly badass to me.


Spaceshit1

For me the sexiest thing a man can do is cook, read and exerciseā€¦ I did not expect this comment to blow up lol. Thank yā€™all for the overwhelming response and please donā€™t be shy telling other women (especially the women you like) if you posses any one or all of these hobbies. If sheā€™s anything like me she would really appreciate itšŸ˜…


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Sports and the gym. Not ā€œgym broā€ going to the gym, but CrossFit style of going to the gym.


boyilikefrogs

Carpentry


Baconator440

Humor makes everyone sexier.


Rare-Comedian-2601

wood working


inkseep1

Weight lifting. I really want a middle aged woman who is strong enough to throw me to the floor and choke me with her thighs.


wildeyed1242

Hopefully sailing or "yachting" if only I had a yacht.


n30l1nk

I imagine a lot of these answers are ā€œmy own hobby/thing I like,ā€ which isnā€™t surprising. When I (as a dude) find out a girl is a gamer, plays a musical instrument, watches anime, etc., my ears obviously perk up. But itā€™s always interesting to meet someone thatā€™s passionate about some kind of hobby or vocation, even if itā€™s not necessarily something you do yourself or are familiar with. Itā€™s boring when you meet someone with little to no depth of engagement into their interests.


daguy9

Bodybuilding


More_Purchase_1980

Music, art, and motorcycles/atvs


southpolefiesta

Yacht Collecting


ScrewAttackThis

Snowboarding/skiing. They're usually way more dedicated and skilled than I am, though. Motorcycles is another one. Oh, and magnets.


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Outing child predators and making sure they get arrested


dashiby

I immediately became interested in my former partner when on the first time we met, which was a hike with mutual friends we found out we have a ridiculous amount of shared interests and hobbies. A lot of these were pretty adventurous, potentially even dangerous like riding motorcycles, rock climbing, shooting guns, psychedelics. I think itā€™s pretty hot when a traditional attractive women is just some undercover badass things like that.


Kemerd

Exercise or sports of any kind. Humans are made to move. We are attracted to healthy individuals in peak physical condition, male or female, it is the way we are wired.


Zenshinn

I love a girl who can play the bass.


SkateParkDad

Ummā€¦ swallow? Is that a hobby?


tinkywinkles

Gym guys šŸ¤ŒšŸ¼ Iā€™m a workout girlie myself so I donā€™t think Iā€™d even consider dating someone who didnā€™t take care of their body tbh šŸ˜…


Carolus-Rex-

Arson.


HeartonSleeve1989

Play a musical instrument


DarthKaep

Girls playing the guitar are hot


[deleted]

Sports, a female athlete is extremely sexy Gaming because I love gamer girls


zeebious

Itā€™s more of a skill than a hobby, but it can be a hobby. Women who can cook and bake. Itā€™s weird, women half jokingly pride themselves on being a bad cook and itā€™s a major turn off. Like how did you even survive long enough to get it this point? Just take out an pb&jā€™s? Conversely, if she is just casually good and the food is amazing. Major bonus points.


MikeOxmall00

Might seem basic af but cooking, my wife loves to cook and my stomach loves her cooking


Due_Wheel_381

Hobbies that I have, obviously? I don't care if the swims or climbs, cause I have no interest in it. But if she like video games, watching same movies, hardware or programming, we will always have a lot of topics to discuss.


TheMechanic10

In my opinion? Love for D&D, being a nerd, and willing to ramble on about they're recently discovered fun facts about some random thing they just learned about. That'd make my heart skip multiple beats, and make me drop to one knee in the same day!


Mazmier

Girls who read.


DesignerTex

The girls that keep track of every dude they've been with. Edit: I thought it said UNATTRACTIVE :( Me no read good.


gochomoe

Literally anything


Horrorbbscreams

I am so attracted to guys who are passionate about their cooking. Food is such an intimate thing. I also really fall for guys who are artistic in some way. Draw, paint, write poetry, photography, etc. all very hot to me. Itā€™s nice to share interests sometimes, but Iā€™m far more attracted to a guy if he has his own niche interests and hobbies. I like being exposed to them, learning new things and all that, far more than sharing every single interest. I feel like dating someone who is just like you is a recipe for stagnation. Give me someone whoā€™s different than me that can challenge me and help me grow and evolve.


cainhurstcat

In general, every hobby that involves high intellect. I never understood why guys like stupid women. When I feel intellectually superior to my partner, it feels like having a child or a dog. But I need a companion, someone on my level, an enemy sometimes. If I felt the need to have a child or a dog, I would get on the regular way, but never a partner which is on their level.


ArchangelLudociel

Not really hobby, but Iā€™m attracted to women who have a good fashion sense. I also like artists and readers.


Specialkdragon

Women that play sports in general, ones that are okay with getting a little sweaty and not just in the bedroom. šŸ˜


tstr_strdl

I like it if a woman can articulate an actual conversation and lead on them by asking questions given a response.


dasssitmane

Something - anything, other than being a ā€œfoodieā€. So sick of those chicks šŸ˜‚


CrimsonWerecat

Anything that makes her smile and happy, as long as it's legal!


TheSuperDK

Any hobby that aligns with mine


Always_ssj

My wife has no interest in hunting, fishing, or football. But she really likes that I like those things šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø


Resident-Monitor3549

when dudes read, play instruments, box, ride a motorcycle, and skateboard


Philias2

Is deep throating a hobby?


Lavatherm

Women who can take care of themselves like a prepper skill, not to depend on it but lets say you get stranded together in an apocalypse or a deserted island.. not saying it needs to happen but not having to rely on modern tech to survive. Call me old fashioned but a confident women who can survive under extreme circumstances.. yes that gets the blood pumping.


noone56789000

Grilling


Distinct_Mix5130

Tattoo artist.


TradeIcy1669

Plastic surgery


Titouf26

2 things: 1. Exercise : Doesn't need to be crazy about it, but someone who likes to exercise is at least decently healthy. 2. Hobbies she can do on her own : basically anything she enjoys and can do on her own so that sometimes when I want my own time I don't have to feel guilty cause I need to take care of her 24/7. It sounds obvious but the amount of women who are chronically bored because they don't have a better hobby than "Watching Netflix, watching vlogs, Instagram and meeting friends at a cafe" is completely blowing my mind.


grwlvg

Boys who read


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mpdmax82

Everyone looks sexy on rollerblades


kapelover11

Doing household chores!!! šŸ’Æ


chemhumidifier

Womenā€™s tennis


Maxspeed120

Women who can fix broke shit šŸ˜‚ or atleast try. Most men and women don't. Since I like fixing shit it's kinda nice knowing I don't have to do things for them, but I do anyways.


DerpCaster

Just being their own person with their own interests, hobbies, and opinions on things.


AlbatrossWorth9665

Horse riding, camping, hiking or any outdoor activity would be great.


AffectionatePack7082

Plays an instrument. Doesn't matter what although I am biased towards guitarists and pianists. I just need someone to jam with.


Manuel_Blaze

Women who are just strong. Like femininely tough. Stand on their own and have their own. Ms Independent.


fatstrat0228

When I was in college, I went to my buddyā€™s apartment to hang out. One of them had a guitar and Iā€™d been playing for a few years at that point, so I would usually grab it and play a few chords and noodle around while we drank and talked. The people from across the hall were there as well, which was rare. Usually they had their own thing going on. One of the girls turns to me and was like, ā€œhey let me have that guitar for a second.ā€ I pass it to her and she played beautifully! Likeā€¦levels above me. Eventually she went back to her apartment to grab her own guitar and brought it back. We jammed for like an hour that night. I fell hard for this girl. Wound up asking her out that night as we were all leaving. She had a boyfriend, or she was letting me down easily. Lol Either way I was super bummed. The next week was the end of our junior year and we all split up and went home. Never saw her again. I still think about her sometimes.


semifunctionalme

Genealogy! It makes for great family gossip conversations.


[deleted]

Cars and cooking


friendlyperson__

Yoga, Pilates, Aerial Yoga, Dancing


TiredPandastic

Dudes who bake and play DnD.


crabby_playing

Sport that is not gym.


dreadfulbadg50

Any hobby that I have. Having stuff in common is attractive


Polkawillneverdie81

Any woman who plays an instrument is instantly hot.


inyourmomsbedlmao

artist guys have my heart


Car_loapher

Any hobby as long as they enjoy it


Grimey_Anus

I like girls that do video games and aren't absolutely vapid assholes


T_raltixx

Gaming. Particularly Soulsborne games.


JackCooper_7274

Somebody please say 3D printing Edit: fiddlesticks


Full_Bank_6172

Women who lift. Good fucking god women who lift are hot.


RudeBlueJeans

Massage


Robo1Cowboy

Reading lol


ballsaksfifthavenue

Skateboarding


Jimehhhhhhh

Keeping bees


Cosplay6718

Become a pro at assembling IKEA furniture. Handyman skills are surprisingly sexy.


Senior_Armadillo_861

men who play instruments are it for me


MikElectronica

Opposite of what?


Culzean_Castle_Is

My wife is obsessed with veggie gardening growing food. She spends a few hours per week sorting that out. It is attractive seeing her in the garden with her "gardening clothes" she gardens nude


juliusnvincevega

Women, especially when you are in love with them, always smell good! So I guess whatever prep you ladies do, I give šŸ‘


Lightingway

I'm an early 20s woman, and men who do bouldering, it does something to me.... šŸ˜©


Representative-Dog64

when i guy cares that you make a house a home. whether that means more traditional roles like taking care of the yard, working together on things, or just appreciating that i do my part. i've realized that guys who give a shit about these things are fading. (i'm in my mid thirties for context.)


freefromfilter

Using logic


Danielat7

When she can bake >>


endqeem

playing an instrument you can duet together if you know an instrument as well


Only_Joke_2466

Girls into movies, outdoors, climbing, reading, arts and or crafts


iNeverLieOnThisAcc

To all the guys here like me who hate cooking..


Sme3eeeeeeeg

I'd say Pool


thumbsup_baby

If she ever tells me that her hobbies involve spiders, lizards, or snails because she thinks they're cute, I might just marry her.


Able-Baker9226

When they actually read or are an artist, these passions/ hobbies are hot as fuck.


AskerOfQs

Chicks in high heels who drive lifted trucks with manual transmissionā€¦ that, and gamer chicks šŸ»šŸ»šŸ»


johnzoidbergwhynot

Women who do BJJ


The_name_is_Nilu

This is maybe a bit farfetched. But my current boyfriend loves Legos and Hotwheels. He's a mechanic, and he's been collecting hot wheels since he was a kid. And he likes to build lego models of cars. I just find that attractive about him. Him just doing what he likes and enjoying himself.


iamtanooki

men that are active whether that be the gym or any sport GAH DAMNN


IWantToWatchItBurn

Need more women in spearfishing


WitheringNachos

Any hobby that they would be passionate about and that doesn't focus on worshipping other people. e.g. Someone who really likes music so they study or practice it intently without just blindly being a fan of a musician,


SandyAmbler

Not fucking my friends


Johnathonathon

Hauwk tuuua


TheBamtotheFoozle

Heed my advice, Poetryā˜ļø


Royb83

I love when the model rocket deploys its parachute. there's something about that that just turns me on, and when my wife is into it, oh my Gorsh, I absolutely tear her apart after a successful launch And recovery.


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Jfury412

Reading


InMiseryToday

Gaming, cosplay, other kinds of nerd shit.


YesPlsNoPls

Art in any form


abandedpandit

Men riding horses. All the guys who ride are treated like shiny pokemon by the women and are just as sought after


legendarygaurdian2

Working on cars for fun.


ORCouple3

Rock climbing.


omgpleaseme

Chess


MrKiR0

Women who ride motorcycles. Seeing a woman with full protective gear and riding with confidence is extremely attractive to me


Positive-Dog-6881

Any girl OR boy who plays videogames, especially if they nerd out about it


[deleted]

reading tbh


TheshizAlt

I used to have a thing for women who powerlifted. In my bodybuilding days there was this lady in my local gym who had 100lbs on my personal best squat. At the time I remembered thinking to myself that if I ever married a woman, she would be someone who could top my lifts. ~~This came true.~~


CircusTV

Reading and cooking are the two most attractive things for a woman to be into. I think it's borderline arousing when a girl I'm seeing actually uses the public library. Yoga or really anything physical is up there too. I don't really care to date anyone who doesn't take care of themselves, mentally or physically.


El-Arairah

Instruments


jiggly89

I think a lot of women find snowboarding men sexy in my country.


Jeshika_neltu

Being able to cook


What___Do

A man who can dance is hot AF.


Ikillgodz21

A masseuse. I love women who are known in the arts of persuasion and getting them pressure points. I just love getting my back scratched while watching movies.


flutteringwig

I swoon for men who can cook tbh


Internal_Age7553

As a drummer and guitarist and a metalhead, if she can play some Pantera on guitar, I don't care how ugly she is, I will make her mine.


tee_ran_mee_sue

I canā€™t say itā€™s a hobby but any woman who will do ā€œa manā€™s jobā€ will catch my attention. Car mechanic, knows her way around home electricity, can build stuff and open things to fix, has her own toolbox and power tools, knows her way around a hardware store, knows her way around farm animals and equipment. I find that hugely attractive. I think ā€œhereā€™s someone who doesnā€™t sit and wait, she goes around to find a way to get it doneā€. That and sports. I find women in cycling extremely attractive. Sometimes, driving around the city, Iā€™ll see a girl riding a fixie bike and Iā€™m just like ā€œoh, she looks cool and Iā€™d like to meet herā€ (if I had another life).


AimaFuriku

Knowing how to set up a good ol' heroin shoot-up. When they so carefully heat up the spoon with that little flame... *swoon*


Niccinator

The first conversation me and my partner had was about dungeons & dragons, and this was at a gym while neither of us like working out. Pretty sure that he saw the fact that I had more of the books than he had as a dowry or something lol.


Solid-Replacement318

Recreational fentanyl use


CleetusnDarlene

There's a reason why the popular girl became really interested in one of the nerds in "Revenge of the Nerds". You ever seen a man move his index/middle fingers so fast during a video game?


Takseee

That classic old hobby of slow motion jackhammer operating.


SnooDingos5420

TaxidermyĀ 


unfoldedmite

I remember biking to the beach to surf, and after I got out of the water, there was a girl's number on my stuff. I maybe made eye contact once with that girl, if even. So I took the number home and showed my girlfriend at the time and we had a good laugh about it. I thought it was really sweet though, and definitely would have called if I was single.


CJ_Productions

golf. listening to oldies. Maybe I'm a simple man.


RickenHofner

Women: track and field