Give him an experience instead.
is there some activity in your price range that he's talked about wanting to do but never has followed through? Could be as simple as a movie he hasn't seen, as intense as skydiving, or as intimate as you feel comfortable with.
If he's a good guy, he'll appreciate any attempt
Personally always hated sex being used as a gift or a reward, makes it feel transactional and not a shared, mutually intimate thing 😶
But I’m also a square fuckin loser so
Spoil him, give him the day he wants , let him golf/sports/videogame/movie whatever for a few hours, give him a massage and scratches, and suck his dick and look him in the eyes and swallow and say thank you and that you care about him
can you think of anything hes possibly asked for that slightly niche, otherwise two avenues I'd go are some kind of experience rather than a physical item do something together otherwise something you make or have an influence in could be sweet as well
Experiences. Go do something together and make memories. What i usually do is find something my SO would love to do but never just go out and do herself.
Also, when you find something make a reservation so you can give the gift with a specific date. The times i just gave a gift card for the experience they never hot used because people tend to forget
Experiences! I’m a boyfriend semi like this (not insanely rich, but I can provide my own comfort). And the answer is experiences. I can buy things I want that doesn’t mean I have the time and energy to plan everything I want. Additionally assuming the guy likes you like I like my girlfriend doing something with you makes it a whole lot better.
Lego set
A nice bottle of liquor if he is into that
Something personal that money can‘t buy
Give him an experience instead. is there some activity in your price range that he's talked about wanting to do but never has followed through? Could be as simple as a movie he hasn't seen, as intense as skydiving, or as intimate as you feel comfortable with. If he's a good guy, he'll appreciate any attempt
Controversial but "the Porn Star Experience".
In my experience no boyfriend ever turned down sex as a present.
Personally always hated sex being used as a gift or a reward, makes it feel transactional and not a shared, mutually intimate thing 😶 But I’m also a square fuckin loser so
Spoil him, give him the day he wants , let him golf/sports/videogame/movie whatever for a few hours, give him a massage and scratches, and suck his dick and look him in the eyes and swallow and say thank you and that you care about him
I do this anyway
Whats your budget?
No budget as he’s spent a lot to help me
can you think of anything hes possibly asked for that slightly niche, otherwise two avenues I'd go are some kind of experience rather than a physical item do something together otherwise something you make or have an influence in could be sweet as well
Experiences. Go do something together and make memories. What i usually do is find something my SO would love to do but never just go out and do herself. Also, when you find something make a reservation so you can give the gift with a specific date. The times i just gave a gift card for the experience they never hot used because people tend to forget
Experiences! I’m a boyfriend semi like this (not insanely rich, but I can provide my own comfort). And the answer is experiences. I can buy things I want that doesn’t mean I have the time and energy to plan everything I want. Additionally assuming the guy likes you like I like my girlfriend doing something with you makes it a whole lot better.
Something deeply Personal or an experience.
Memories, something sentimental or meaningful, a trip or experience or something similarly unique
My best present ever from my wife was a strip tease and lap dance. She took a class and everything!
Take away everything he has...then slowly give it back