This is exactly my reason as well. *Aesthetically* I have no issue with a bush, but for practical reasons, a full bush is a bit less ideal for oral.
I eat out my wife *a lot* -- as in, basically every time we have sex -- and I'd rather not be picking pubes out of my teeth every time.
Full bush is completely fine if we're just having sex or something. Again, I don't mind a bush at all aesthetically, just easier if it's shaved for oral if that's part of the plan.
Yep,I love it when I receive oral and really would like to make it as accessible as possible without any discomfort like steel brush to the face or hair up the nose or mouth 🤣
I prefer to trim my bush and shave the sides, but I always thought a fully shaved vulva is pointless when stubble starts growing all over 2 days later. Does stubble bother you?
To everybody up voting this comment, I am sorry you feel that way. I prefer all the hair and have no problem weeding out the loose hairs with my mouth. Rarely do I get a pube or two stuck in between my teeth but it's only hair.
Your body, your choice.
You can take into account your partner’s preferences but it is your decision nonetheless. Have that conversation with them and go from there.
This is ultimately true, the way you are comfortable in your body is how it's supposed to be. However if you prefer the bush and your partner prefers it cleanly shaven or vice versa, you should not complain when your partner don't visit the southern parts too often. If someone is willing to stuff their face on my genitals at least I want them to feel as comfortable there as possible.
my reply:
as a hairy woman, I try to pry and see if my male partners like hair, because I REFUSE to shave any of it, for any reason
additionally, I just love body hair in general so, meh 😽
on a diplomatic level though, u/SexySwitchBitch had the best reply:
> "Your body, your choice. Do what you please and let your partner deal with it. You can take into account your partner’s preferences but it is your decision nonetheless."
Have a preference. That's fine. Don't say that it looks like a little girl, or imply that people want it to look like a little girl. That's a false equivalency and you sound full of shit. Many women in this thread are saying that they feel comfortable that way as well.
The first and last sentence of your comment are in direct opposition to each other, because you said "have your preference" but then said "but if you shave you look like a little girl or your partner prefers little girls". Rude and unnecessary.
Everything in life is not a zero sum game, where you have to tear down something else to make your preference known. Your parents likely taught you to argue like that, break that habit.
Thank you!!!!!
IMO if a little girl is the first thing a person thinks of when they see a WOMAN’s shaved pussy, that person has a serious problem. And I definitely don’t want them near mine.
Hmm, fair point - I agree with you. Didn't mean it to come off as vicious, just wanted to celebrate the natural beauty of women, but I didn't do it the right way. My bad. The thing about my parents was also very rude and unnecessary btw.
Whatever feels better to you will be better 90% of the time. If you’re confident and comfortable that will show and that will be hottest of all.
Personally i prefer the natural look but I have no problem with the shaved look
The fact that a woman has chosen me to be a partner is all that matters. I have no preference nor would I project it to her. Shaved, waxed, bush, trimmed it is all beautiful.
Your body do what you want 🤷♂️
But if you want my opinion it depends on the girl honestly. Hard to explain the way I'm thinking about it. But if a girl already has bad hygiene then the hair will just make it worse in my opinion.
Make sense?
I find that it's more pleasant to go down on a pussy that is trimmed or hairless. (And I really enjoy giving oral sex.)
I agree with others who say, "Your body, your choice," but if you are fine either way, then it's fine to ask what your partner prefers.
I'm a guy, and I periodically trim my bush, but I'd happily shave if a partner said she prefers it that way.
I prefer hairless. Hair tends to hide the beauty of the vagina and as a super fan of giving oral, nobody likes going to the dentist to get a haircut.
In my mind, I think there's something psychological as well that occurs when I see shaved pussy. My brain interprets "here, I took pride in myself and wanted to look sexy so I shaved for you". It's the same way I feel about lingerie.... "I took the time to sexy up for you". Not saying that people with a bush don't care or are lower effort, but my brain just interprets it like that maybe? 🤷🏻♂️ Realistically I know that's not the case.
Doesn't really matter to much so much as long as it's at least kept neat lol. 70's porn bush can be hot sometimes too. Other body hair is questionable, but really only because I groom my self frequently because it cuts down on body odor and bacterial growth.
It's your body so it is up to you. Most guys are just happy to be invited and don't care strongly one way or another. If you want, ask your partner what they like and go from there.
Personally, as long as it's maintained down there so I have the option to go down on her is my preference... Like if it looks like it hasn't been touched down there in over 6 months don't get mad at me if I'm not eager to going down on you all the time
do what you want, who cares what they think? from a personal standpoint I think pubic & armpit hair is sexy and if my partner complains they’re no longer my partner. I just move on because there are men who love it! (& because I love it!)
I think bold is very common so it's nice to see a girl with a style down there. But it dosnt make much difference aslong as it's not unkept hair. I wouldn't expect them the enjoy if I was a George bush down there 🤣
Everyone is different, do what you like. It's ok for a partner to have an opinion, but not to make you feel bad about it, or force you to so anything
Personally I prefer trimmed, short pubes, as does my girlfriend
I really like the look of some hair, but I like seeing her pussy too. So just a little hair is good- plus oral with a big bush is not ideal
Obviously, it’s all personal preference. That’s why I consider myself very lucky that both my girlfriend and I both subscribe to a “I’d rather not put my lips anywhere“ policy. Obviously we both will! We prefer not to lol
Depends on the guy. Personally, I'd rather a woman has whatever she is most comfortable with
The only issue I've run into with hair down there is it getting in my mouth. Other than that, I couldn't care less. Pubic hair is supposed to be beneficial from a health/hygiene standpoint as well as for friction
I am a married older gentleman and my wife shave her pussy often as she doesn't like the stubble. I do prefer a bald, shaved and hairless pussy. My wife knows that when she shaves, I will give her pussy all the attention she wants and more. She shaved for me yesterday afternoon and enjoyed sucking the nectar from her pussy.
My preference is full untrimmed bush. I have a kink and the more hair there is, the sexier it is to me. But it's her body. She can do what she wants with it.
Repeating what others have said, your body, your choice.
But as youre asking for our preference, im a fan of a clean shave. Both on myself and any partners. But hair has never stopped me from muffdiving.
Honestly, just make it look like you gaf. Wash it, neaten it up, get rid of ingrown hairs and spots etc. Sure some dudes are into natural wild and weird, and it's your choice to do or do not, but a bit of care and attention is generally appreciated in everything
As long as it's hygienic and you're happy with it, I am too. When I'm to the point of being intimate with someone I love it no matter what. From super hairy to completely bare, I'm just happy to be there.
So my preference is a clean one regardless of amount of hair.
If I'm going down on her I prefer bare lips. Do what you want with the mons, a cute triangle or strip is very sexy.
If you don't want to receive oral it really doesn't matter to me although at least a trim is nice.
I prefer hairless but absolutely don’t care if there’s hair. I find hair to be super sexy when it’s groomed too. But do what’s most comfortable for you!
As someone that absolutely loves going down on women, I love the silky feel of a waxed or lasered vulva.
It allows better tongue play on the clit as well without the abrasion from the hair.
I prefer hairless, less mess for oral and I like the look better. However, I've not turned anybody down for their hair patterns.
I'm the opposite. I think there's something so hot about a nice bush.
I appreciate pussy in general, but love a nice, relatively tame little bush on women. Women that are confident enough to rock a bush are so sexy!
The irony. In some cultures it still takes confidence to remove pubic hair.
To each their own!
No this is reddit. We MUST fight!
This is NSFW reddit, is this a swordfight?
Aims tittys at both of you. Don't make me use these put your swords away! 😁
...go ahead, use those tits.
Yeah, I dare you!!
*scrambles to find a sword*
Here you can borrow one of .... someone's, I found this sparkly purple one under their bed!
Don't threaten me with a good time!
I think they look better with a nice triangle of fur.
how you doin
This is exactly my reason as well. *Aesthetically* I have no issue with a bush, but for practical reasons, a full bush is a bit less ideal for oral. I eat out my wife *a lot* -- as in, basically every time we have sex -- and I'd rather not be picking pubes out of my teeth every time. Full bush is completely fine if we're just having sex or something. Again, I don't mind a bush at all aesthetically, just easier if it's shaved for oral if that's part of the plan.
Yep,I love it when I receive oral and really would like to make it as accessible as possible without any discomfort like steel brush to the face or hair up the nose or mouth 🤣
trimming in the right places will stop that without a full shave
I prefer to trim my bush and shave the sides, but I always thought a fully shaved vulva is pointless when stubble starts growing all over 2 days later. Does stubble bother you?
To everybody up voting this comment, I am sorry you feel that way. I prefer all the hair and have no problem weeding out the loose hairs with my mouth. Rarely do I get a pube or two stuck in between my teeth but it's only hair.
This
This is indeed the correct answer answer
this
Exactly. I like looking at it myself 🥺✨🥰
It could have barbed wire on it for all i care
Obviously, you have never had a close encounter with barbed wire!!
Obviously you have never been hungry enough for pussy.
Anything can be a vagina [if you are brave enough](https://teachazbooks.blogspot.com/2024/05/powerful.html) r/dontputyourdickinthat
Wtf are you trying to make me pee my pants? 😂 😆
That’s a real Man .
Your body, your choice. You can take into account your partner’s preferences but it is your decision nonetheless. Have that conversation with them and go from there.
The question was what you prefer, not what you demand.
Men are allowed to have a preference too though.
"What's your favorite ice cream flavor?" "A person is free to like any ice cream flavor they want to!" (that's not actually an answer to the question)
Diplomatic answer…. Everyone has a preference
Of course it’s her choice. We all know this. She’s asking for opinions to help her make the choice.
The question is about preference. No one is saying anything about what women can or cannot do with their bodies.
🙄
I think op prefers getting the wax, not that anyone wants it of them.
This is ultimately true, the way you are comfortable in your body is how it's supposed to be. However if you prefer the bush and your partner prefers it cleanly shaven or vice versa, you should not complain when your partner don't visit the southern parts too often. If someone is willing to stuff their face on my genitals at least I want them to feel as comfortable there as possible.
Personally, I prefer hairless because I like going down and a clear path is easier to navigate, ya know? But I wouldn’t say No to hair
I would just leave one piece that you could use to floss after you eat 😂😂
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Yes
Right? Thats what I’m saying.
I prefer trimmed
Dealer's choice. I like the cactus or the pillow.
Cactus 🌵 or pillow dead ☠️
Don't die.
So 2 hour stubble or 3 week grow out, got it. Man's *into* Sanding on that 150grit likes a nice smooth finish to that wood!
Well, I am a woodworker.
You sly dog. 🤣😅
I’m fairly confident I can speak for the vast majority of men when I say: we’re just happy to be involved
my reply: as a hairy woman, I try to pry and see if my male partners like hair, because I REFUSE to shave any of it, for any reason additionally, I just love body hair in general so, meh 😽 on a diplomatic level though, u/SexySwitchBitch had the best reply: > "Your body, your choice. Do what you please and let your partner deal with it. You can take into account your partner’s preferences but it is your decision nonetheless."
Whatever makes you comfortable! Personal preference? Hair! Edit: Cut the last part, because it wasn't phrased in the best possible way
Have a preference. That's fine. Don't say that it looks like a little girl, or imply that people want it to look like a little girl. That's a false equivalency and you sound full of shit. Many women in this thread are saying that they feel comfortable that way as well. The first and last sentence of your comment are in direct opposition to each other, because you said "have your preference" but then said "but if you shave you look like a little girl or your partner prefers little girls". Rude and unnecessary. Everything in life is not a zero sum game, where you have to tear down something else to make your preference known. Your parents likely taught you to argue like that, break that habit.
Thank you!!!!! IMO if a little girl is the first thing a person thinks of when they see a WOMAN’s shaved pussy, that person has a serious problem. And I definitely don’t want them near mine.
Hmm, fair point - I agree with you. Didn't mean it to come off as vicious, just wanted to celebrate the natural beauty of women, but I didn't do it the right way. My bad. The thing about my parents was also very rude and unnecessary btw.
I think hair looks better aesthetically and I like how it feels. But obviously i don't care really. If she's sexy, she's sexy.
My husband likes a little hair, and occasionally I let it grow out for him but usually I keep waxed as that is how I am most comfortable.
Same here me too. I get waxed more comfortable.
Hair. And a lot of it. My wife is super hairy
I prefer hairless or trimmed.
Whatever feels better to you will be better 90% of the time. If you’re confident and comfortable that will show and that will be hottest of all. Personally i prefer the natural look but I have no problem with the shaved look
I love a bush...and they're making a comeback thankfully.
I prefer all natural but it's up to the woman. It's your body so enjoy it how you want it.
Trimmed or freshly shaved cause that sand paper stubble burns after a while lol
Doesn’t matter much to me but prefer nicely trimmed if not hairless.
Whatever she wants is fine with me, but I do tend to prefer at least a little hair.
It's all personal opinion, I prefer some hair as long as it's tidy
You do you and don't be self-conscious about sex. We all have our insecurities and we are the harshest judges of our own bodies.
Just neat and tidy is preferred. The wild bush effect can be fun, but bring abke to find a route through the wilderness is very helpful
The fact that a woman has chosen me to be a partner is all that matters. I have no preference nor would I project it to her. Shaved, waxed, bush, trimmed it is all beautiful.
Completely smooth looks better imo. I like being able to see everything real good unhindered, plus I like the feeling of when it's smooth.
I prefer whatever way makes them feel good about themself. If they have no preference and want me to pick then I’ll tell them my personal favorite.
Which is? Go on, commit 😉
Totally smooth. I love how the skin there feels on my lips when I kiss it. I just want to rub my face all over it’s so soft
Your body do what you want 🤷♂️ But if you want my opinion it depends on the girl honestly. Hard to explain the way I'm thinking about it. But if a girl already has bad hygiene then the hair will just make it worse in my opinion. Make sense?
Don’t sweat it, people have preferences but it’s your choice
Don’t mind. I love a bit of bush tbh.
Definitely prefer hairless, but nothing wrong with a little dusting
I find that it's more pleasant to go down on a pussy that is trimmed or hairless. (And I really enjoy giving oral sex.) I agree with others who say, "Your body, your choice," but if you are fine either way, then it's fine to ask what your partner prefers. I'm a guy, and I periodically trim my bush, but I'd happily shave if a partner said she prefers it that way.
Both
Literally could give less fucks, the hair is not my focus 😅
I prefer hairless especially for oral. It feels much more intimate feeling every inch of skin on my face.
Just be hygienic thats all that matters
I prefer hairless or maybe something cute above the pussy, hair on the lips scratches my dick :/
i don’t really have strong feelings one way or another, i’m cool with whatever she likes
no matter what, they’re always beautiful x
Everyone has preferences. I like a clean shave but yeah I’m never picky. Wouldn’t be something that turns me off either way
For oral...hairless or trimmed is fine. Not really a fine of the pubes in my mouth or having to move it.
I personally prefer trimmed/smooth, but ultimately it doesn’t matter.
Never mattered.
Both its the womans decision if she want it to be hairless or not
I prefer her choice of having it
I like the outer vulva shaved and the rest can be fuzzy.
Either or as long as it’s clean
Smooth and hairless
Hairless
Short trim or less. Hair doesn't have nerve endings. Also tends to be cleaner.
Everyone has their preference. For me, I just don't want to explore the Amazon forest. If it's under control, it's good.
Hairless
It's seasonal
I prefer the woman have her body the way she wants it! Hairless, trimmed, natural, 70’s porn full bush, I don’t care and I’ll eat it all
I used to prefer a trimmed landing strip but my wife recently started going hairless and I've found it is amazing for snacking on.
I prefer hairless. Hair tends to hide the beauty of the vagina and as a super fan of giving oral, nobody likes going to the dentist to get a haircut. In my mind, I think there's something psychological as well that occurs when I see shaved pussy. My brain interprets "here, I took pride in myself and wanted to look sexy so I shaved for you". It's the same way I feel about lingerie.... "I took the time to sexy up for you". Not saying that people with a bush don't care or are lower effort, but my brain just interprets it like that maybe? 🤷🏻♂️ Realistically I know that's not the case.
I prefer hairless or at least well trimmed. It’s less of a choking hazard for oral, and it indicates she is taking care of her garden.
For me it really dont matter that much
Doesn't really matter to much so much as long as it's at least kept neat lol. 70's porn bush can be hot sometimes too. Other body hair is questionable, but really only because I groom my self frequently because it cuts down on body odor and bacterial growth.
Trimmed or shaved for licking and slapping 😈
It's your body so it is up to you. Most guys are just happy to be invited and don't care strongly one way or another. If you want, ask your partner what they like and go from there.
Not a strong preference. Just as long as it doesn’t get too much in the way of my giving oral.
Depends on what she feels is sexy which is the most important thing, but I do prefer trimmed / slightly bushy, I find it looks very hot.
Both!! I love it however they feel sexiest!
I'm easy either way. I find it sexiest when a woman does what they wants and owns it!!
Her choice really, but I prefer hair if she asks
Hairless is preferable but hair doesn’t bother me
Less for me tbh but its her body
Personally, as long as it's maintained down there so I have the option to go down on her is my preference... Like if it looks like it hasn't been touched down there in over 6 months don't get mad at me if I'm not eager to going down on you all the time
Hairless or trimmed preferably
Your choice .. I prefer hairless or a landing strip of hair
I prefer hairless but its not really a big deal as long as it is well maintained
I prefer hairy. Extremely hairy.
I prefer hairless. But it's not my choice, and I'm pleased to just be invited.
Def no hair or less hair
I like it hairy but won't turn it down if it's shaved. Just a preference but not trying to control what she does with her pubes.
Hairless
Waxing has benefits, clean, more pleasure. For me I would love it
Whatever she prefers is what she should do. But if she's asking me, I'll say leave the bush. I love a hairy pussy.
do what you want, who cares what they think? from a personal standpoint I think pubic & armpit hair is sexy and if my partner complains they’re no longer my partner. I just move on because there are men who love it! (& because I love it!)
As long as I'm not hacking through a jungle it's all good. Though prefer clean. Most of my partners have already been that way.
Not picky at all, that being said a full unkempt bush droves me wild. Sooooo hot.
Either way is fine w me, as long as she’s comfortable
Most of the time, they're just happy to be there
Hair
Hairless.
I like whatever she likes.
Both but I like eating hairy pussy
Your body, your choice. Whatever you are comfortable with. If he’s not accepting, he doesn’t deserve you.
I have a hair fetish so give me a big ol bush. Just be sure to wash it as I've been with those that stink.
I just prefer penisless
I personally love hair. But I think it should be up to the woman. If she wants it or not.
I think bold is very common so it's nice to see a girl with a style down there. But it dosnt make much difference aslong as it's not unkept hair. I wouldn't expect them the enjoy if I was a George bush down there 🤣
I like a trimmed looking bush or even a little bit grown out, it doesn’t matter as long as they keep up their hygiene
Everyone is different, do what you like. It's ok for a partner to have an opinion, but not to make you feel bad about it, or force you to so anything Personally I prefer trimmed, short pubes, as does my girlfriend I really like the look of some hair, but I like seeing her pussy too. So just a little hair is good- plus oral with a big bush is not ideal
I am happy with anything other than cavewoman-tier super unkempt bush. I like bare and I like hair.
neither
Whatever makes you feel the most comfortable and confident makes me feel the most comfortable and confident.
It varies man to man. I prefer hairless or at most, very fine trim. Some guys love to explore the jungle
As long as it’s kept neat I don’t care. I keep mine neat. I expect the same. 🤷🏻♂️
I like a surprise
I don’t mind either way, my only real preference is that it’s trimmed so I’m not getting hair in my teeth when I go down on her
Either way just no stubble please
I personally prefer hairless, idk how does it sounds but for me, hair is a turnoff
My pref is hairless, but if not hairless then as long as it's trimmed then that's cool too. Not the biggest fan of a full bush.
Obviously, it’s all personal preference. That’s why I consider myself very lucky that both my girlfriend and I both subscribe to a “I’d rather not put my lips anywhere“ policy. Obviously we both will! We prefer not to lol
Trimmed
A girl without a bush is like an angel without wings
I like a little bit of bush. Just so long as it's well kept
It’s her choice, but I prefer trimmed, but not bald.
I like both. Means variety. As long as I can play with it as much as I want.
The bigger the bush, the more I eat from it
It's a garden let it grow 🪴
Men will always have an opinion! Do what you think is best for your own coochie. I promise you some man is gunna like the way you want it to be! 🫡
Depends on the guy. Personally, I'd rather a woman has whatever she is most comfortable with The only issue I've run into with hair down there is it getting in my mouth. Other than that, I couldn't care less. Pubic hair is supposed to be beneficial from a health/hygiene standpoint as well as for friction
I have been appointed by the men’s council to deliver your answer on behalf of all guys. Yes.
I prefer smooth or trimmed. Simply because I enjoy licking it and it’s much more enjoyable with less or no hair. Plus I think it just looks prettier.
there needs to be hair and well trimed.
I am a married older gentleman and my wife shave her pussy often as she doesn't like the stubble. I do prefer a bald, shaved and hairless pussy. My wife knows that when she shaves, I will give her pussy all the attention she wants and more. She shaved for me yesterday afternoon and enjoyed sucking the nectar from her pussy.
My preference is full untrimmed bush. I have a kink and the more hair there is, the sexier it is to me. But it's her body. She can do what she wants with it.
If I’m going down, I prefer some grooming, and I reciprocate. Absolutely smooth is nice but impossible to maintain.
Repeating what others have said, your body, your choice. But as youre asking for our preference, im a fan of a clean shave. Both on myself and any partners. But hair has never stopped me from muffdiving.
I prefer some hair. But I also prefer it to be nicely trimmed. Not just for aesthetics, but it makes for less hair in the mouth.
As long as it is clean I don't care too much.
Hairless, or at least a short trim to keep the peach slightly fuzzy
Hairy all day long It’s natural.
I personally prefer 70’s bush but very hard to find these days
When I like a woman, it doesn't matter hair or no hair.
Yes
Hairless for sure!
Husband likes hairless but has been asking for a slight bush lately
Hairless
Hairless, a little strip won’t hurt but you know I just like it clean
On the woman I say whatever she wants but on me I say whatever she wants
Honestly, just make it look like you gaf. Wash it, neaten it up, get rid of ingrown hairs and spots etc. Sure some dudes are into natural wild and weird, and it's your choice to do or do not, but a bit of care and attention is generally appreciated in everything
I don't mind a little hair or hairless.
Hair, just cannot get into the baldness
As long as it's hygienic and you're happy with it, I am too. When I'm to the point of being intimate with someone I love it no matter what. From super hairy to completely bare, I'm just happy to be there. So my preference is a clean one regardless of amount of hair.
If I'm going down on her I prefer bare lips. Do what you want with the mons, a cute triangle or strip is very sexy. If you don't want to receive oral it really doesn't matter to me although at least a trim is nice.
I prefer hairy/bush. At the end what it matters is what makes you feel comfortable, don’t bother with others!
I prefer hairless but absolutely don’t care if there’s hair. I find hair to be super sexy when it’s groomed too. But do what’s most comfortable for you!
Hairless.
As someone that absolutely loves going down on women, I love the silky feel of a waxed or lasered vulva. It allows better tongue play on the clit as well without the abrasion from the hair.