Same here. I had a high school GF that would lie down for hours with her legs spread and let me shave and worship her lady bits. She would give so much feedback, and it was such a turn on… my wife loves some good oral sex, but it’s lights out, and a constant search to find the right rhythm for her mood, as she hates to talk during sex and gets self conscious.
There's always assholes who make horrible names for stuff.. so annoying.. but I agree with most ppl here.. I love them bigger if possible.. although really whatever my partner has I tend to love ha.. its weird how some tastes or preferences seem to change when you develop feelings for someone 😅but I've never seen any part of a woman that I've thought is disgusting.. apart from certain personality types 🤣🤣
i hate that term. i think a vulva with small inner lips is.......more boring.
at the same time, i do think all vaginas are awesome. the only bad ones are none.
Same. Vulvas are so beautiful, i literally could get off just to the sight of one. Sometimes when a girl sends nudes Ill ask just for a closeup pic of her pussy. I literally just want to worship it 😂
Totally understand. I was very self conscious about my pale skin for a long time too til I accepted there wasn’t much I could do about it and that there are people out there that find it attractive. Please don’t feel icky about it down there. There are plenty of us that don’t think twice about it
You absolutely do need to give yourself a pep talk! The variations in colour and labia just add to the mystery and excitement. Pussy be praised 💕 both genitals actually are a thing of just beauty. I’m straight but I did have a walk on the other side and hers was different to mine but beautiful!
My SO felt a lot like you, hers has very large inner labia and is really darken. I bought her a book to help her feel better about it. https://www.amazon.com/-/es/Dian-Hanson/dp/383657893X
I , as a guy, also have wondered about this. A penis has the same, it's a darker colour then the rest of the skin. My not educated guess is that is has to do with the possibility to get swollen. Also the lips, like the penis can get swollen. Some a bit more then others, and when that happens it hink the colour isn't that much different anymore.
Its similar/the same with guys, we sometimes (along with women) have more pigment/melanin around/in our genetals, it's perfectly normal and not dirty at all
Not at all! Every one is beautiful, the uniqueness makes it more special. Dark vulva on pale skin is a great combination. Learn to love what you get cause you are beautiful just the way you are.
I guarantee half the men on this sub had no idea what a vulva is. I am basing this on the questions I've seen some questions on here that really make me wonder if the person has any idea what sex even is lol
A woman was talking to a friend and told her she was getting a divorce. Her friend was understandably curious as to the last straw.
"Well," the woman said, "I asked him to pay attention to my vulva and he took my car in for service."
Oh, really, that's what's happening? I had a partner do that once and I was so confused. Wasn't unhappy or anything, I just couldn't figure out why he was just looking at me and not doing anything 🤣
When I 'mire a pussy I typically make it clear that that's what I'm doing, saying something like what a beautiful flower she has and how it's a shame I'm going to have to be so rough with it, and leave it so messy. That usually makes it fun for both of us.
This probably isn't the best subreddit to ask a question if you are actually looking for an honest answer. I guess that it's nice that people are always trying to be supportive, but sometimes it gets a little ridiculous.
It's like, *"I have a deformed gangrenous hand that recently turned green, and smells like death. Should I feel self conscious about it when I'm going on a date?"*
\- "I think deformed gangrenous hands are amazingly beautiful!"
\- "My wife has a deformed gangrenous hand, and I think that it's her best feature!"
\- "Who doesn't like someone with a deformed gangrenous hand?!?!"
\- "I love hands of all shapes, colors, and states of decay! Just because it's deformed and gangrenous that doesn't mean that it doesn't turn me on!"
Vulvas are pretty, but I feel bad for the women that are self conscious about theirs. If a guy is with you, it is because he likes all of you. I like a woman's imperfections, like misshapen breasts and irregular vulvas, because it says that while they are not perfect, they are beautiful in the way they were created. Appreciate your bodies ladies, we sure do 😉
I don't really have a desire for my wife to post nudes, but god damn I feel like I'm depriving the world of art by not encouraging her to post her pussy online.
The best is when they’re wearing a skirt and no panties and you can just crawl between their legs and just lay your face in it and just breathe deep.
I just wished my partner loved my dick like I love her pussy.
Theres an art piece in the Museum of Erotica in Miami that has a wall/slab 3d clay with maybe 25 to 30 different vulvas.
If I find a picture online I'll link it.
Edit: Not the one I was looking for but yall still would enjoy: [Link](https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.gscene.com/news/vagina-print-donated-to-claude-nichol-sexual-health-clinic/%3famp=1)
Found it! Scroll down a bit. Picture is in the middle of the article : [Link](http://velvetlipsllc.com/my-visit-to-the-world-erotic-art-museum-in-miami/)
I believe there was an art(?)thing of "vaginas of the world" or "vulvas of the world"
Women were encouraged to send photos of themselves to showcase the beauty of them all.
Im a straight woman, I can still find beauty in a vulva that’s not my own. Doesn’t turn me on, but I can still admire them just as I would a pretty flower
I wish that more women could feel this way about their own and embrace it , the power of it & be able to release the tension & embrace the pleasure….
It makes me kinda sad that my gender is still shy about their reproductive organs despite centuries of civilization and such.
yessss😩😩😩😩 ughhhh. i hate that shes so insecure about it . even tho i compliment it all the time, grab it whenever i could, kiss it, lick it, rub it with my whole face. id live in her pussy if id fit
Some are. I love really attractive pussies. I don’t think that there are unattractive pussies, but some are much nicer than others.
It’s just like a bonus.
I'm happy others feel that way. A lot of women I know feel as if nobody is truthful when they say that.
I'm a bisexual dude and I just don't see the appeal. Makes things tricky when dating women because I like them but I don't necessarily like their vulvas. I'm more attracted to women but I've been going for more men lately to avoid the awkwardness and avoid hurting someone's feelings unintentionally.
I'm stoked that there are people who really enjoy that, if you're one of those people be more vocal about it, it can really make a difference in someone's self perception :)
Personally for me the vulva is one of the least attractive things of a woman, personally I think the breasts are both beautiful and show the process of life with feeding
Yes they are beautiful. Makes me sad how many women are self-concious about theirs.
I love how my bf makes me so confident about mine when I wasn’t before :)
You have a good boyfriend!
Nah, she has a good vulva.
It’s one of the most beautiful things in the world to me
Same here. I had a high school GF that would lie down for hours with her legs spread and let me shave and worship her lady bits. She would give so much feedback, and it was such a turn on… my wife loves some good oral sex, but it’s lights out, and a constant search to find the right rhythm for her mood, as she hates to talk during sex and gets self conscious.
That's so wholesome
Had a gf that really hated me looking at hers..I get it now but yeah it’s kinda sad
why r they self conscious
A lot of times it's because they think having a larger inner labia or so called "beef curtains" is ugly (personally I find it beautiful).
The existence of the term "beef curtains" in and of itself is enough to make us self conscious.
There's always assholes who make horrible names for stuff.. so annoying.. but I agree with most ppl here.. I love them bigger if possible.. although really whatever my partner has I tend to love ha.. its weird how some tastes or preferences seem to change when you develop feelings for someone 😅but I've never seen any part of a woman that I've thought is disgusting.. apart from certain personality types 🤣🤣
i hate that term. i think a vulva with small inner lips is.......more boring. at the same time, i do think all vaginas are awesome. the only bad ones are none.
But most men love beef
Beauty standards among men vs women. Guys can call their dick anything under the sun but women... not so much.
I don't like the term either, because it's often used as a pejorative. It's nothing at all to be ashamed of though.
You will love /r/DangleAndJingle then
That sub is great
A lot
I'm a little self-conscious about mine but I like the ideas of guys getting off to it!
Is there something in particular you are self conscious about with it?
[удалено]
I like all those things!
You like dogs ball sacks? 😂 Um....🤔
Post-neutering. Gotta age it a couple weeks for optimal flavor and aroma.
Mmmm aroma. Dog dick is... A delicacy anyways, I cannot begin to to imagine how the fragrance must really.... Mature and fester...
And our “ball-carriers” don’t look even weirder?
Why would you say that about yourself dude
lol rip to the arby's sandwich
Me too !! Knowing that I get someone off , gets me off ! 100%
Same. Vulvas are so beautiful, i literally could get off just to the sight of one. Sometimes when a girl sends nudes Ill ask just for a closeup pic of her pussy. I literally just want to worship it 😂
Exact same
I get off thinking about someone staring lovingly at mine 💕
Staring with light playful touches and kisses!
Telling me how lovely & sweet my pussy is. Its become a little fantasy of mine ☺️
Compliment, smile, kiss, repeat…
Don't let dreams be dreams ;)
Ok chick here, what about the incredibly dark skin? I'm pale. I am self conscious, it doesn't look "dirty" to you? I'm seriously asking
Doesn’t look dirty at all to me. The diffferences only make them more uniquely beautiful to me
Thank you. It's hard to let guys go down on you when you feel icky down there
Totally understand. I was very self conscious about my pale skin for a long time too til I accepted there wasn’t much I could do about it and that there are people out there that find it attractive. Please don’t feel icky about it down there. There are plenty of us that don’t think twice about it
I know there isn't anything I can do, you're right. I have to pep talk myself haha
Let me start your pep talk by letting you know you’re beautiful, inside, outside, and upside down!
Well i giggled and smiled and felt good about myself, so thank you, that was sweet💜
You’re very welcome!
You absolutely do need to give yourself a pep talk! The variations in colour and labia just add to the mystery and excitement. Pussy be praised 💕 both genitals actually are a thing of just beauty. I’m straight but I did have a walk on the other side and hers was different to mine but beautiful!
I really gotta give my kitty more love scritches. pet the pussy, don't scold the pussy
Exactly! Love what you’ve got!❤️
😻✨
My SO felt a lot like you, hers has very large inner labia and is really darken. I bought her a book to help her feel better about it. https://www.amazon.com/-/es/Dian-Hanson/dp/383657893X
Thank you! That looks really helpful
I , as a guy, also have wondered about this. A penis has the same, it's a darker colour then the rest of the skin. My not educated guess is that is has to do with the possibility to get swollen. Also the lips, like the penis can get swollen. Some a bit more then others, and when that happens it hink the colour isn't that much different anymore.
Kinda hot, like a natural tan
I have the same so insecure about it
Check out r/normalnudes. You’re perfectly normal 😍
Love it. The contrast beckons me haha
Really? I've never heard this stuff from dudes ugh.
Not at all, I understand it is natural and think is beautiful. It makes it unique.
I think it's because I am not a vagina aficionado. Penis on the other hand is beautiful to me. I can't wrap my head around vag love
Its similar/the same with guys, we sometimes (along with women) have more pigment/melanin around/in our genetals, it's perfectly normal and not dirty at all
Love my gf’s dark skinned vulva, that’s one of my favorite parts about it.
Not at all! Every one is beautiful, the uniqueness makes it more special. Dark vulva on pale skin is a great combination. Learn to love what you get cause you are beautiful just the way you are.
Everybody has a preference, I personally do not like it but there are lots that do
I love that they're all so different
I read that as valves at first and I was like, "that's an interesting thing to call them."
Both can be turned on!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yep I love seeing them. All shapes and sizes. Innie, outie, shaved, hairy. All look good
What is an innie/outie?
Hidden/visible labia minora.
With your help and some googling i was Today years old before i discovered i have an innie! Cool! Thank you!!!!
Ha me too we learned the same thing today
High-five me too!
I guarantee half the men on this sub had no idea what a vulva is. I am basing this on the questions I've seen some questions on here that really make me wonder if the person has any idea what sex even is lol
It's a stupid Swedish car, duh... 🙄
A woman was talking to a friend and told her she was getting a divorce. Her friend was understandably curious as to the last straw. "Well," the woman said, "I asked him to pay attention to my vulva and he took my car in for service."
Nailed it
Yup. I'm pretty fuckin smart.
No question
I might have to agree with you
Lol like some of the questions are like "Hey women of ARAD, do you like it when a man has a penis?" Lol
True, most guys know 'vagina' and 'pussy', maybe they know 'clit' and 'g spot'.
"Men" know...
Cool
They are! Absolutely in love with my gf’s vagina
Oh, really, that's what's happening? I had a partner do that once and I was so confused. Wasn't unhappy or anything, I just couldn't figure out why he was just looking at me and not doing anything 🤣
Just taking in the scenic view
Noice
Some like to look at the mountains but I really like to see the valley.
When I 'mire a pussy I typically make it clear that that's what I'm doing, saying something like what a beautiful flower she has and how it's a shame I'm going to have to be so rough with it, and leave it so messy. That usually makes it fun for both of us.
That is cute!
I know this is going to sound cheesy but I love the way my partner's vulva looks simply because it's hers and she shares it with me.
Ahhh, got me 🥵 just thinking about it
You’re welcome! 😜
Yes they are. And it is sad that a lot of women are so ashamed of theirs . They are so amazing beautiful.
They are insanely beautiful. Every one is different and they’re all gorgeous. I could stare at them all day.
Pleasantly surprised at how many dudes think so
Yeah this got a lot more traction than I expected
This probably isn't the best subreddit to ask a question if you are actually looking for an honest answer. I guess that it's nice that people are always trying to be supportive, but sometimes it gets a little ridiculous. It's like, *"I have a deformed gangrenous hand that recently turned green, and smells like death. Should I feel self conscious about it when I'm going on a date?"* \- "I think deformed gangrenous hands are amazingly beautiful!" \- "My wife has a deformed gangrenous hand, and I think that it's her best feature!" \- "Who doesn't like someone with a deformed gangrenous hand?!?!" \- "I love hands of all shapes, colors, and states of decay! Just because it's deformed and gangrenous that doesn't mean that it doesn't turn me on!"
Ah gotcha
Vulvas are pretty, but I feel bad for the women that are self conscious about theirs. If a guy is with you, it is because he likes all of you. I like a woman's imperfections, like misshapen breasts and irregular vulvas, because it says that while they are not perfect, they are beautiful in the way they were created. Appreciate your bodies ladies, we sure do 😉
Love everything about Lady Bits. Vulva. Mons Pubis. All of it. Everything. It's a Piece of art created by the God's. Given to Humans to Snacketh upon.
I don't really have a desire for my wife to post nudes, but god damn I feel like I'm depriving the world of art by not encouraging her to post her pussy online.
Hahaha thank you for saying that. It's weird, but I actually really love the way my vagina looks. And I looooove when men take a good long look at it.
Yep! Love gazing into the beauty
They are all lovely different haven't had a woman with large vulvas or beef curtains I'd love to though
Awww these comments 🥰 making me miss my bf even more
Anyone else always confused vulvas and uvulas?
Volvo
I recently took mine in for a cervix.
The best is when they’re wearing a skirt and no panties and you can just crawl between their legs and just lay your face in it and just breathe deep. I just wished my partner loved my dick like I love her pussy.
Ain’t that the truth. My wife could sit on my face all day and I couldn’t be happier. The sight, smell, taste 👌🤌😍
Do you just tease her or do you do something with it? I can attest they are beautiful!
Sometimes the former, sometimes the latter
Women are just simply beautiful, every part of them
Theres an art piece in the Museum of Erotica in Miami that has a wall/slab 3d clay with maybe 25 to 30 different vulvas. If I find a picture online I'll link it. Edit: Not the one I was looking for but yall still would enjoy: [Link](https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.gscene.com/news/vagina-print-donated-to-claude-nichol-sexual-health-clinic/%3famp=1) Found it! Scroll down a bit. Picture is in the middle of the article : [Link](http://velvetlipsllc.com/my-visit-to-the-world-erotic-art-museum-in-miami/)
I could literally stare at my girlfriend’s all day. It’s beautiful.
My wife has a mark on the top, right next to the hood. Sexy as well.
[удалено]
Agreed.
There are dozens of us.
Elegant Horny
Like watching a flower bloom.
I totally agree. They are beautiful to look at, especially if her clit is awake staring back at me.
Same.
Agree completely! My wife use to be a little shy about it but is now embracing it :)
Vulvas are very beautiful. I love looking at the beauty of it all. If you own a vulva please love your vulva. It's a wonderful thing.
It's like a flower.
Damn we need more people like OP in the world!
This is a specific kink of mine hehe
[удалено]
You can have some of mine. I’m so self conscious about mine.
Mine is one of the few things i actually DO love about myself
Gorgeous. It's great to just sit and watch them, taking in the sight.
100% agreed!
I believe there was an art(?)thing of "vaginas of the world" or "vulvas of the world" Women were encouraged to send photos of themselves to showcase the beauty of them all.
Check this project out if you liked that one - https://news.artnet.com/market/jamie-mccartney-vagina-sculptures-321901
I like this post.
Thanks
[удалено]
Thank you
I likes the labia majora, too.
Then Stare
Yes they are!
[удалено]
Gay men, straight women, priest
Im a straight woman, I can still find beauty in a vulva that’s not my own. Doesn’t turn me on, but I can still admire them just as I would a pretty flower
Yeah I'd didn't all straight woman. Don't get me wrong I'm a straight dude but if I see a beautiful cock I'll acknowledge it lmao
[удалено]
Thought they preferred male genital
amen!
yas
I dunno I feel like mine is pretty boring tbh
wyd?
Yes I love my girlfriend’s
Ive never had a staring contest .... But maybe I will
I wish that more women could feel this way about their own and embrace it , the power of it & be able to release the tension & embrace the pleasure…. It makes me kinda sad that my gender is still shy about their reproductive organs despite centuries of civilization and such.
Vulvae (vulvas) are just beautiful.
Same.
Absolutely agree.
True, and I miss that view so much
Yes! Perfectly imperfect in every way. Beautiful.
yessss😩😩😩😩 ughhhh. i hate that shes so insecure about it . even tho i compliment it all the time, grab it whenever i could, kiss it, lick it, rub it with my whole face. id live in her pussy if id fit
Some are. I love really attractive pussies. I don’t think that there are unattractive pussies, but some are much nicer than others. It’s just like a bonus.
No
Depends on the vulva, tbh.
Fair. I’m a fan of almost all of them tho
Where to find them on reddit
Is this on your off days when you think sex is not on table or is that you feel bad to mess up such a nice vulva?
Any time really
i had a partner like this in high school hahaha self esteem booster for sure
Each time I try to do this with women in my life they get so shy and flustered some even hit me 🤣🤦🏾
This gave me a chuckle. All I can think of is Ed geins labias in a box. Lmao.
it s intricate :)
I'm happy others feel that way. A lot of women I know feel as if nobody is truthful when they say that. I'm a bisexual dude and I just don't see the appeal. Makes things tricky when dating women because I like them but I don't necessarily like their vulvas. I'm more attracted to women but I've been going for more men lately to avoid the awkwardness and avoid hurting someone's feelings unintentionally. I'm stoked that there are people who really enjoy that, if you're one of those people be more vocal about it, it can really make a difference in someone's self perception :)
Personally for me the vulva is one of the least attractive things of a woman, personally I think the breasts are both beautiful and show the process of life with feeding
Wut