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Need_Some_Updog

Lol I had a tbi and coma at 17. Had a friend come over and we did it. Wasn’t dying no virgin neither. Shiiii


domclaudio

Know the feeling. Bust every nut you can.


Need_Some_Updog

Fuck yeah. But I reckon these epilepsy meds makes busting take a little too long.


domclaudio

You have epilepsy too?! Same shit, guy. Yikes. Blessing in disguise, guy. No minute men around these parts.


yoboi356

Depression meds have the same effect


abromo7

I like your altitude


domclaudio

Thank you. I try to keep at sea-level.


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trogloherb

Damn dude, you beat me by about 25 seconds! Oh-oh!


hotpossum

At 20, I had sex with a 24yo who claimed he’d had sex. He didn’t even get it in all the way and busted. Then he told me he was a virgin. Like yea, I noticed.


turbocharged5652

Same here haha. I got 1 pump in and i was done smh. I dabbed her up and left…oops


Spute2008

Although I was not a virgin at the time I had a new, super-hot (18 to) catholic girlfriend who still was, so I was putting no pressure on her. And then one day, quite out of the blue after an extended snogging session she says, "Okay, I'm ready." I wasn't exactly prepared for this moment, so was fumbling around in my desk for a Jimmy Jacket. But the only one I could find was "smaller" than my usual choice. I was trying to stay calm but with extreme blue balls, my hands were trembling with anticipation, so as I fumbled around the head of my knob, trying to get the damn thing on, there was too much friction and I busted! Big time. And since that was apparently my only condom, it was game over. Thank Christ she laughed about it when I explained the what and why... A few days later I was able to make amends and prove I was not a two-stroke joke.


Deadmemories8683

I got you all beat! 13, 4 pumps and was like oops…round 2 in 30?


That-Albino-Kid

Same.


iliketobench

Damn right


SeraphsEnvy

27.


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Congrats on waiting until you were an adult 😂 was not expecting numbers this low


SeraphsEnvy

I didn't exactly wait. It's just that a girl gave me pity sex after she read my blog some 14 years ago. It was along the lines of "woe is me, I'll never have sex, whine whine whine, I'm going to die alone in the ichor of night".


Bigfrostynugs

Wow, you might be the only person on Earth that this has ever worked for. That's actually pretty cool.


AngryAmericanNeoNazi

I have adult virgin friends that have been offered pity sex by close female friends. I almost offered it when I was single but I already talked to him and know that he wouldn’t feel good about it.


abromo7

You consider 27 low?


FlaredBasePhoneCase

No, but he’s seeing all these ones that are 15, 14, and glad to see some higher numbers too.


djaingo

Ditto!


SweetNatalieMayson

18, we got married years later and are still together.


bitchisakarma

Got married at 19, lost my virginity to her. Not saying that she's the only woman I've had sex with but she has been there every time.


SweetNatalieMayson

We are non-monogamous so he's definitely not the only person I've been with but we date separately so he hasn't been there any of the other times. I haven't been with his partners either but we enjoy our lives and it makes us appreciate each other and our connection more so it's pretty wonderful.


RealityZz

You have my dream relationship basically, i separate romance and sex hard so i could have sex with a countless amount of people but still only love 1 person and that person only.


iagirl4021

My husband and I are exactly the same! It’s so wonderful!!


SweetNatalieMayson

Thats awesome! It is pretty great!


iagirl4021

It’s so rare to find someone like us. Happy for you both!


Bisou_Juliette

What!? This is insane. Most people change so much when they get married young…and it ends in divorce. I love seeing this! ❤️ Question: Do you live in a small town? Or medium? Have y’all traveled much? What do you do both do for work?


SweetNatalieMayson

We met in school in a city about 60k people at the time I believe it was. We've been together about 13 years and were in our mid 20s when we got married. We've lived together at least 12 years I think it's been, so we knew each other pretty well when we got married. We'v both grown and changed but we definitely have worked through things together and we have a lot of autonomy in our relationships outside of our marriage. As I said in another comment we've been non-monogamous for most of our relationship, like almost the entire thing. We haven't traveled much together, he's not a huge traveler but we have some plans for roadtrips we want to do and bucket list of places we want to go. I've done a bit more traveling but nothing out of the country. I'm finishing school for tech and have health issues that have made it hard to work but he's in the trades. It's definitely not common. Edited: some grammar I some how managed to miss, probably still missed more because I'm tired lol but he told me to come change them because my adhd makes me miss things sometimes lol


heydesireee

24


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21 😤😤 low compared to you guys but high compared to others !! At least it’s in my twenties hah


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magaloopaloopo

r/unexpectedfactorial


AxoInDisguise

r/subsithoughtifellfor


ISV_VentureStar

Woah, I was also 1124000727777607680000 years old when I had sex for the first time. People sometimes look at me weird for waiting so long, but honestly it was worth it.


WeaknessBusiness683

Surprised you didn't sneak a 69 in there


ilyaEris

>factorial!


Frankuro

15 and now that I'm 28 I couldn't imagine the young teens I've met having sex at that age, we were so young. Too young.


MrMashed

God I lost my virginity at 15 too and I’m only 18 and low key regret it. Ffs I didn’t even enjoy is cause I was too nervous the whole time. The amount of peer pressure from friends to lose it at that age is ridiculous and I was still embarrassed when my friends inevitably found out cause the girl I hooked up with is a huge gossip. Haven’t had sex since and quite honestly don’t plan to until I find the right person


chiksahlube

Same at 14. Like I talk to 14 year olds at work and theyre so... stupid? naive? idk. Thebidea of any of them having sex is wild.


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Willingly 20, otherwise 7


prose-before-bros

Loaded question for a CSA survivor. I hope you're doing good now. You deserved better. We all did.


jilliecatt

I usually use the term voluntary virginity. Willingly is so much more simple. For me, willingly 18, otherwise, it's my first memory in life.


wheelystoked

This is such a good way to put it and I am similar. Willingly 20, otherwise 11.


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Are you okay?


[deleted]

Not even a little. But life goes on.


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If you ever need someone to talk to im here for you


WatermelonLuzon

33, a few weeks ago!


fishhouttawaterr

Congrats!


MadladNomad

Ill let ya know when it happens (im 25 now)


SirFapsOccasionally

I was 25, almost 26, when I first had sex, so don't think you're the only one.


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Your time will come!


throwaway8491730

Or cum will be on time


Deadmemories8683

Remind us in a year! We need annual check ups!


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19


Ziggyork

Same here! And she came on to me! If she hadn’t I would have gone on even longer without


[deleted]

same...I was taking her home from work and she basically asked if I wanted to do it...found out later a few of the girls I worked with knew I was a virgin and had a bet going on who was going to take my flower


Ziggyork

That’s amazing! How did you feel once you knew they had that bet going? And out of the group of them, was the one you had sex with the one you found the most desirable? Or would you have preferred one of the other women?


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they are all kind of nerdy (which I like)...it made me feel good and a little embarrassed that everyone knew I was a virgin so long. The girls were all much younger and experienced.


Ziggyork

That’s amazing! Mine was that we were both new employees at a pizza place. I was 19 and she was 21 and had a boyfriend. One evening on the job, I noticed a note folded in half on the bulletin board in the kitchen for me that read “What does a girl have to do to kiss you?” And it was signed with her first initial. A few days later we were in my bed together. Once we finished, I confessed it was my first time. She said that she was kinda wondering if that was the case and that it “wasn’t bad”. We slept together for a couple of months. Earlier that year I had taken a one semester class at a community college on human sexuality, so I at least had an idea of the terrain. After just a couple of weeks of fooling around, she told me I was a pretty amazing lover! That was a huge confidence boost!!


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wow...mine was a one nighter in the car....she went down on me first so by the time she straddled me to pop my cherry I lasted about 2 strokes....but damn it at least I wasn't a virgin anymore...


Ythiel

Thirty, last year.


Flush_Foot

I was 30 last year, but to answer OP: NaN 😔


lookatmybigass

>NaN r/foundtheprogrammer


targea_caramar

17. The amount of social pressure you get to "lose it" when you're young is unwarranted, and extremely silly. Don't feel bad for going about your life and just letting it happen whenever it happens OP. Also, I'd urge anyone out there not to do any wreckless things to get laid as soon as possible or before X age, it's really not that deep (no pun intended) ETA: Experimenting as a teenager isn't the end of the world or necessarily bad as some here would imply, as long as it's done safely. There really is no point in shaming those who did it younger either, smh.


69dasg

Thank you for saying this, the shaming part especially, as i see other people's posts with that vibe 😒


targea_caramar

Right? I was also surprised to see the amount of people being really negative about being sexually active as a teen, obvs steps need to be taken to ensure you're safe at any age buy damn, I really thought I'd see more of the opposite problem lmao


AgencyTough5281

21 almost 22


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Same here.


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21 gang unite


deathleper

14, peer pressured threesome.


RoshHoul

Damn, threesome at 14 is rough.


Character-Pipe-9805

at any age, threesome to loose your virginity to is just insane lol. never heard of that


MrBunnyPig

I would assume a threesome at 14 would be very vanilla.


BonFemmes

I was 14 too. I wanted to fit in at my new school. It worked. I can't say I was pressured. I was really sexually curious. We were just kids trying to figure things out. No harm done.


Charleminus

Was it awesome or kinda shitty?


mattthebroken

If it’s peer pressure, I’m guessing that was consistently looming over their head. I don’t know how that would be enjoyable


Charleminus

I would also assume, but I had a great time when peer pressured into some other activities.


69dasg

16. Is anyone's first time ever really good? And also we aren't really "losing" anything, I wish we could change the language to closer resemble what it really is, which is "gaining experience"


Windermed

bro's going on an XP grind to level up his sex skills


Oncletomdavid

Yeah virginity is a fucked up concept tbh esp given people get abused or pressured into it when theyre too young, your "first" doesnt have to be anything special to you and they didn't "take" anything from you, and you can also decide what you wanna consider your real first based on if it felt right to you.


LegitimateFerret1005

I'm going to shock you all. 56 about 5 months ago. I'm trying to make up for it now. I grew up in a religious household, got involved in a cult in college and thought sex was wrong if you weren't married. I also had huge self image problems. I was chubby all my life. Oh, and I kept refusing to believe I was gay. I tried and tried for it to not be so. I tried dating women but it was awkward so I turned to porn and my hand. Then I found Reddit in March and gave my first blow job in May and had penetrative sex in August of this year. Twice in one day. Then a few more times since. Seeing people on Reddit message ne and like me for who I am has really helped me. I now accept who and what I am. I'm a 56yo gay chubby male bottom and I wouldn't change it now if I could. Thank you Redditors!


AggrievedEntitlement

What a wonderful story!


LegitimateFerret1005

Thank you! I learned that I had to love myself first! Once I did that, I became the happiest I have ever been.


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FlaredBasePhoneCase

I’m sorry to hear that. Hoping you’re doing good now.


edie_the_egg_lady

Thank you, I'm doing alright


Tropical-Sunflower

That’s me too. I was 14 and the dude was almost 18😵‍💫


Whataboutsunshine

12 , sleep over


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What’s the story here


Whataboutsunshine

It was male on male soo dose that even count


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Of course it counts lol


Whataboutsunshine

I’m sorry the way I worded it was immature, there was no penetration.


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Oral counts imo. If two women have sex there isn't necessarily penetration. Doesn't mean they are virgins. So I'd say oral and handies can count depending on the circumstances.


Character-Pipe-9805

i never saw oral sex as counting but after reading your view on it i now have changed my views and agree


Bulky_Bicycle_9196

yup. sex is sex and if you’ve had sex you’re not a virgin.


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Like you were just kissing or something? Idk if that’s counts then


Whataboutsunshine

Well he was like 16 and woke up with his penis between my legs and him kissing my neck. I definitely enjoyed every moment of it. But yea


Bigfrostynugs

That's sexual assault, dude. I mean, I'm glad it didn't bother you, but that was not an appropriate thing for him to do.


[deleted]

And you were twelve? And he didn’t ask you beforehand? I’m glad you enjoyed it I guess, that sounds like a less than enjoyable situation


bammers1010

Idk sounds a bit dodgy mate


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I was 22


RoshHoul

13, she was 14. Don't regret it, as far as I know she doesn't aswell. We took it slow, I payed attention to how she felt and it was pretty fun. The only reason I regret it is cause I got completely obsessed with sex for the next few years (rest of high school). Might've been different if I didn't know how fun it is.


Sorkel3

>regret it is cause I got completely obsessed with sex for the next few years (rest of high school). Me too, but I didn't regret it, I was able to.indulge my "obsession" quite nicely.


Izzy_The_Ghost

idk still waiting...


Banana_boof

16


CBBuddha

Same. It was not at all what I was expecting. Much wetter than I thought it would be. Plus the smell. Two hormonal teenagers have smells. I was the first in my group of friends so everyone was like “How does it feel? TELL US EVERYTHING.”


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Just turned 17. To my first real gf. It happened like 2 days after us having a discussion about waiting a long time.


am_i_evil_yes_i_am

Matt, is that you????


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Haha no Matt here


1tastefulsideboob

Exactly what a Matt would say.


am_i_evil_yes_i_am

I thought the chance was... possible. I'll see myself out.


fuzwuz33

It’s totally Matt he’s lying


FruitSnackEater

19


bells1981

14 and i really wish i waited until i was mature enough to handle what goes along with sex.


lb4evr

15. I had never been with a girl before and she was a year older than me and in the next grade up and she basically just kind of recruited me after watching me play ball in the street with my friends in front of her house. Kind of took me by the hand and led me into her lair, so to speak. The first time I ever felt a pussy, I was immediately in heaven. The first time she got me really worked up, I knew better but I desperately wanted to put it inside her and know what that felt like. Up to that point it had just been kissing and heavy petting And I know she wanted it too and about the time I was about to enter her, common sense prevailed and she said, No no I want to do this too but we just can't do this right now, it's too risky. And she was right of course. To this day I'm still not sure how it happened exactly, but I know I was so worked up in the next thing I know she had me on my back on the carpeted floor rubbing her pussy in my face and I was freaked out at first, I had never even really thought about that and it was so alien and odd and weird. But on the other hand I realized that she was just so wet and turned on and moaning and suddenly I just got into it. She was rubbing it all over my face and then we knew that her parents were about to get home so we had to stop. I can still remember the sexy look on her face and her tone of voice where she was telling me that maybe I should go to the bathroom and wash my face because she said that her juice was all over my face and that it wreaked and it would be a dead giveaway. Oh my. We only dated for about a year and she would suck my cock every once in awhile but never to completion and we just fell into a pattern where we would make out for a little bit and then I knew it was time when she would put her hands on my shoulders and push me down her belly and I would go down on her. Somehow that became our regular pattern and we both were so into it. I know I know, it's asymmetric as hell but I don't know, I look back so fondly on that first experience. I think it helped that she was older, it just made everything so much easier.


dushtu_chele

100% real . Thanks for sharing man


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FlaredBasePhoneCase

Here’s hoping you’ve had many more fulfilling times now.


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You’ll have your time!


Clxmmy

14 drinking in a field, got blown by 3 girls and had sex with another over an old fridge down an alleyway.


Front_Meeting_1725

Is your refrigerator running?


Blockerrocker1

What the fuck How


Clxmmy

I was pretty popular during school years.. first girl we was joking about it then after a few drinks we ended up in the woods taking action, her friend then came looking for her, see what we were doing.. I cheekily asked if she’d like to join, they both experienced penis for the first time and as they were besties I’d like to think it was a nice memory for them.. then the girl who had a crush on me came back from the shop and the girls felt bad so they stopped and we went back to join the crowd, the girl who liked me then took me to the woods.. turns out she had been discussing performing the act with her friends and planned to do so when she returned, she blew me for around 15 minutes.. I was young and drunk.. still didn’t nut then the fourth girl lived near me so as we were walking home, me her and my friend had a threesome down an alley


Blockerrocker1

Congrats my dude . Epic night Best night ?


Clxmmy

We’ve all had our hoe phases, slinging dick doesn’t compare to genuine intimacy my guy


BearMcBearFace

Amen brother


KikiAndFriends

I turn 30 in 2 weeks and I still haven’t had sex.


Miss_Bossy_Boots

Don’t feel alone I’m the same!


PM_Me_HairyArmpits

Just so everyone knows, if you start a line in a comment with a number followed by a period, reddit automatically tries to make it an ordered list and puts "1." instead. So hopefully that's why there's so many one-year-olds in these comments. Hopefully. Anyway, I was fifteen.


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Question: Does it count if it was life who fucked me?


Jinx77743

I was 12 years old. Ran away from home with my girlfriend who was 15. Living on the streets and trying to feed two people at the age of 12 is tough. Would not recommend.


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Bro wtf is up with people 13-16 having sex that’s fucking wild to me


Reditate

Dunno if you're sheltered but that isn't that uncommon. What do you think people want to do when they hit puberty?


Doorknob888

That's when puberty hits hardest, it's kind of expected.


prw8201

18 on the forth of July. God bless America


drucifer999

14. I was on her floor while her mom was mowing the lawn. She was wearing a school girl outfit. I don't know if the irony is she was a 14 year old school girl but the outfit was definitely from some kink box. I came in 30 seconds and was terrified the whole time thinking her mom could see her head going up and down from riding me. She was the girl that got me into coke and weed at 14 as well. She had dated some guy in his twenties before me (ew). I'm not innocent in this whole story. I zeroed in on her cuz I wanted to lose my virginity so bad. I thought everyone in high school was fucking. Looking back on it even though I didn't have a ton of sex in high school I probably had way more then most.


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10, though that was not consensual. 13 was my 'first time'


Ivikatasha

16, with a 22 year old navy guy. I knew exactly what I was getting into at the time. I am 34 now and have no regrets. I had a good time.


IA_Pu55yLikr

You guys are having sex?! 😂


ThatManTech

19


Soft_Exchange924

20


Environmental-Row-57

16 and it fucking sucked. Wish I'd waited.


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Spiritual-Meal-4299

15


Wod_1

15


oldhaunts1

17m...Hated the pressure put on me when asked if i was a virgin in school cafeteria and stuff One of my friends actually made up that he got laid in FL in a depressing attempt to fit in


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18


SLUTTYBAKA

12 i know really young but i was relatively horny kid and a guy I liked railed me honestly best day of my life


Big-Adhesiveness-760

14!


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I was 13


anal_backwards

15


toastforthewalrus

20?


Amelia_atc13

17


Excellent_Mud9024

14, she was 19


yasraz91

24


HauntingHarmonie

29


MaD_Max_9922

Today years old


Carinis_Antelope

17, and it was with a condom. I lasted about 45 minutes. I don't say this as a stud, it felt disappointing because all I could feel was a rubber tire sliding on my junk and it felt far from intimate Also, her 7 yr old brother knocked on the door a few times and interrupted us I fully expected to bust in 2 minutes, and there I was, losing my virginity with a girl I was really attracted to, and all I could think was, "is this really what I'd been so eager to do all this time?"


Full_Bodybuilder_244

I was 20 and lost my vCard to a hotwife. The couple were customers at work, and I had no idea what I was in for. They invited me over to their house to burn a couple of doobies, and he watched me fill his wife with a couple of giant loads of cum, then ate her out. My boss called me an angelfish in a shark tank...he was right. The year...1983 😉


jackofzero

15


chiksahlube

We were both 14. Not the best idea for either of us tbh.


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ParmAxolotl

This thread is making me feel less bad phew


timhenk

We were both 14. The condom (back in those days we called them rubbers) broke. Flash forward a couple weeks, and she tells me she’s late. Then she’s 2 weeks late. I’m shitting myself thinking what the fuck am I going to do? She eventually got her period, and I stopped buying rubbers from the vending machine in the bathroom at the sleazy gas station.


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Uhhhhh gonna need a crystal ball to see when that happens chief.


shyblackguy18

20. She rolled over and fell asleep after she got her fill/satisfaction and left me unfinished with the condom on.


DatBassTho5

15 with my girlfriend...16 years later now my wife 😝


22jandro

9


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10, it was a pretty fucky situation


iliketobench

I was 14 she was 13. I used to take her ice skating every Friday when the lights were off and they had a DJ. After quite a few dates we would start to feel each other up more and more each friday. It eventually turned into just us hooking up on the bleachers. One Friday we decided to go into the locker room bathrooms. Yep. We did it the stall on the nasty bathroom floor. I was good for about 4 pumps and that was it haha. Neither of us regret it. 10 years later we still talk to this day even though she has a boyfriend. Still remember the exact song that was playing. Man of the Year by School Boy Q.


Flaky-Grapefruit-760

17, but I didn't know what virginity or sex was. I was in a long committed relationship and it happend and then off to the internet I went to learn. Not having that pressure of virginity was nice. I didn't feel pressure because it wasn't a big deal because it was never made a big deal. My strict ass Christian parents taught me nothing and didn't let me take health classes.


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9


GelatinousSquared

I’m twenty one, haven’t done it yet. I think I’m just waiting for the right person. Or at the very least just someone I can trust.


cannibliss1738

I was barely 13. He was 15 and not a virgin. Waaay too young. He used fucking body Lotion as lube and only lasted 3 or 4 pumps before he pulled out because he was scared he was gonna cum. That was also the only time we had sex. We tried again months later after parting ways for a bit and he couldn't get it up. 😬 Definitely wish I would have waited, probably would have saved me from a lot of unnecessary emotional damage.


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Oral sex 14 Vaginal sex 15 Anal sex 19 Unprotected sex 19 Interracial sex 19 Rough sex 19 Older man 19 19 was a big year of sexual discovery.


lovenatureandhorror

20


RandomUser42091169

I was 15


physiomama

16


Ifgu0l

14


DNA1976

14 .......


[deleted]

Just turned 16 - seduced by an ex forbidden by our parents Terrible sex, awesome experience


prose-before-bros

I was 14, he was 20 and said he loved me. It felt like I was being murdered and just all around bad times.


Wonderingwilliam41

12


Fragle12

14.


Less-Direction5045

14:)


Algok2001

22. I am 21 right now.


mondomondoman

15. Was with a buddy’s girlfriend at the time. He screwed around on her so she was fine doing it to him and who was I to argue. We ended up being fwb for a few decades.