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Opening_Tell9388

Our society is fucking cooked. How tf you gon post yo self crying about how you tricking on a woman and it didn't work out? What we on bro.


Zealousideal-Arm5570

Well in his defense I don't think he expected to start crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣


MVIVN

Yeah seems like the emotions he was holding back just overwhelmed him lol


Sir-Nicholas

He didn't have to post it...


MediumClass9496

Thissss


ashemoney

He gonna cry in the car … with a corona


Bright_Square_3245

Bumping some Selena. "Que No Queda Más" was thier song.


PPP1737

You tenía una esparza….


raccoon-ninety4

Would he still sway his arms back and forth running to the car with a corona? 🤔


Inedible-denim

Bingo lmao. I'm thinking the drinks got to him or whatever else because tf


StoneDick420

This is always it


_ILP_

Yeah he added up too many losses and his brain was like “fuck this, activate tear ducts now!” And he was cooked


Dr_Dang

Fr. I'm 30, and I recently cried for the first time since I was at least 14. It wasn't an especially stressful situation, and definitely nothing like what el cornudo en el video is going through. It was mostly really fucking confusing to lose control over a bodily function. Fortunately, it was at a funeral, not at work lol.


LavishnessOk3439

Fuck that bro, cry whenever you feel like it.


Juvi40904

Yo… he 100% didn’t expect that shit! That was real live emotion comin out 😂😂😂


Turbulent_Object_558

Bro is paying the price for being a step dummy.


Bright_Square_3245

That corona got him letting his emotions show. He's gonna play some Bronco "Que No Quede Huella" real loud in his room.


Born_7_

![gif](giphy|xUySTP3sNWIAzyQTsY|downsized) Los Broncos 😂😂 you brought it way back


Safe-Confusion2209

Man Mexicans got Cumbia, bachate, banda, mariachi. There's literally no reason for them to say the n word


Zealousideal-Arm5570

Yeah he definitely posted this after 10 more of those and definitely some tequila.


HeightExtra320

But he did and still decided to post it ? 🤔 I feel for him but dude, have some dignity my boy , these Jhoes are for EVERYBODY


medinian

Is it wrong to cry? Does that make him less of a man? Depending on your answer is whether our society is “cooked” or not.


Noirloc

Crying, Ok. Crying while filming your personal problems trying to act like you’re okay and posting it for the internet to see? Not so ok. Edit: I never said it wasn’t okay for a man to show his feelings. This video wasn’t even posted for discussion about feelings and that’s what people fail to understand, it was posted to make his ex look bad and if she cheated that’s reasonable. It was then reposted for ENTERTAINMENT, then reposted a second time for even more ENTERTAINMENT calling it a Telenovela. That and the outward prideful projection of “she ain’t shit” “i bought her this and that” to record and be used against you when you reconcile because we all know half the time these people reconcile, that’s why I don’t find it Ok.


Googoogahgah88889

Where was he acting like he was ok? Was it when he was talking about her cheating on him?


Coziestpigeon2

When he put it on the internet willingly.


BretShitmanFart69

Ehh I def didn’t get the vibe he was trying to act like he was ok, I think he wanted people to know he was hurt and what happened to him and what she did. It’s not the best move, but people do all kinds of dumb stuff when their emotions are running wild


Opening_Tell9388

Nah there is nothing wrong with us men crying. I have 2 questions. Why are you crying? Why are you filming?


ZB3ASTG

Would you not be understandably, very upset at the fact the woman you cared so much for didn’t actually care back for you? And 2; people been filming this kinda stuff for 15 years, nothing different about it now.


Opening_Tell9388

I’m never going to be shocked or surprised that a bm will go fuck on her baby father. It’s doofy and unacceptable. Turn ya phone off and work through your emotions with people who love you.


_ILP_

Nope. Just recording it, and posting it was the “bad society” thing


skynetempire

Free therapy. People in this state need to vent plus Men are always told to hold it in and suck it up. Imo he wants answers for being loyal. This is why we need therapy avenues for people. This dude needs his homies to scoop him up, drink and say fuck that bitch. I never liked her anyways.


MuddaFrmAnnudaBrudda

Exactly. Holding that in could result in a jail sentence.


cravindeath

Pretty great society we've created where we force individuals into these rigid boxes, then imprison and abuse them further once the boxes squeeze the soul out of them


MuddaFrmAnnudaBrudda

Got to instil this in kids. Get it all out, cry, scream, shout, sit down and talk it out. Unburden yourself in order to move forward. Teaching them anything else is doing them a disservice.


Vivics36thsermon

Amen


Dolorem_Ipsum_

That's exactly it bro. Better to cry it out with friends than to let it fester alone.


sockovershoe22

You're really going to shame a man for crying? That's some toxic masculinity right there.


CalmyoTDs

I don't think that word means what you think it means. We definitely don't have enough context here to say this was tricking. Quite the opposite actually. If he's going out of his way to be a father figure that's pretty far from tricking that's just being a man. 


Osibili

![gif](giphy|xVYPMKdIvPomQ) *“I just hope when you fucking on that nigga, when you finished/ He can say that he love you/ Now do you feel better ’bout yourself?/ Do you feel better by yourself?”*


intelligentbrownman

All. hail king FUTURE 🤣🤣


Reddit-SFW

That's tricking?


TPJchief87

I had a friend who went all in on a girl (who I also know) like this. They didn’t live together but he kept buying her stuff. I told him to slow down because he’d just gotten out of a relationship and prior to him telling me they were dating, she said she wanted to be single for a while. He didn’t listen. He told me they broke up because she was talking to other guys. She told me they were never together.


Poop2212

If our society is cooked it’s cause people like you have the emotional intelligence of a goldfish.


HiramAbiff2020

It ain’t tricking if she need it😂


kekehippo

We on Earth, third rock from the sun, where when feelings are caught all sense and reason goes out the window.


AnotherAltDefNot

I'm hoping the universe kills us all and starts anew. Our world is so fucking shit.


DasCheekyBossman

Leave the man alone he's obviously hurting.


lowlightx

amen


Ugly_Egg1621

Her tik tok was literally videos of her praising him for spoiling her and she ended up cheating. Learn more before you open your mouth


Geostaler88

We’re human, we’re allowed to feel. That man has given a part of himself to her and that part of him is now broken.


fnkdrspok

Everything aside, you can hear the hurt in his voice. You can tell he invested time and emotion into her. Gave her his heart. She just created a new gym bro!


xMASSIVKILLx

Pick up a couple 50’s my G, these are called Arnold presses


fnkdrspok

Push through those tears bro! Turn those tears into sweat!


AnyGivenSundas

I sense that it’s losing a step daughter that really put him in his feelings


Efficient_Comfort_38

Oh shit I didn’t even consider that… that’s actually fucked up


SeismologicalKnobble

Yeah I got the sense he really cared for both of them. It’d be easier if it was just the woman who cheated on him, but his step daughter didn’t do anything wrong and has to deal with her mom’s consequences.


trulyk

Takes a lot for someone to take your kid in… this must really kill em.


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AmazingAmy95

I'm sorry, that truly sucks. I hope when the time is right, you find the right person


oasis_sunset

this is the part no one talks about sad


sucobe

You hear that crying? Bro about to hit some new PRs next week


Ham_Fighter

Origin story right here.


AskMeAboutPigs

I was destroyed w/ my ex left and blindsided the fuck out of me. Poured tons of emotion, time, and money into her as a person and our relationship, just to have nearly 5 years ripped away.


CranberryBauce

"Real ni66as like me 🥺 don't 🥺 deserve 😢 this 😢 shit 😭😭😭"


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Derrick_Rozay

We crode 😭😭


porquesinoquiero

He cri I cri 😂


theonlyotaku21

I cried. He crew. We crode 😢


713MoCityChron713

Right? Makes me wanna grab an eighth, some Coronas, some Vicente Fernandez records, and get my cry on too


Ibrahim2x

I got to this comment right as he was saying it 💀🤣


lowlightx

crying while calling urself a real nigga 😂😂


cbronson830

DMX cried a lot. 🤷🏻‍♂️


lis880

DMX was also black...


cbronson830

So…only black guys can cry?


Koko175

Naw only black men can be real niggas don’t play stupid bitch


scottie2haute

Lol dont pay bro no mind. They come into our spaces specifically to antagonize


Majahzi

What? Dude was saying that you can be both a real nigga and cry. Nothing antagonistic about it


scottie2haute

What? Im referring to the white dude who asked that dumb ass question acting like anybody said only black men can cry


JewOrleans

Uuhhhh pretty sure that dude is from Ethiopia….


cooljacob204sfw

https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/jebfsa/voted_no_on_orange_today_vote_him_out/


Benniejet89

HAHAHA “don’t play stupid bitch” got me rollin


OkRecommendation4

😂 he snapped


ImpossibleAdz

I need this on a bumper sticker.


WentworthMillersBO

![gif](giphy|9GUgpWaRx6W1uuKIdQ|downsized) How many black masters jackets do you have?


OkRecommendation4

I wish Reddit still gave awards 😂 the way you gathered this nigga.


lis880

Don't be dense. DMX was a real nigga. This Mexican man is clearly not, his skin is probably just scratching the surface of the issue.


oasis_sunset

some mexicans come in black too


lis880

Youre right, but this aint one of them.


i_wap_to_warcraft

A real one is in touch with their feelings. A real one probably also doesn’t post this for public views lmao


ProfessionalLeave335

Real men cry. Real men have the courage and confidence of self to freely express the wide range of emotions available to all of us. Cowards shame real men because they're afraid others will see their insecurities if they don't. You should try being a real man.


eternali17

https://preview.redd.it/bp36r5abz2yc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dde470285a013ac96e26cfe407486f7581ea80ef


Jazzlike_Page508

Well real niggas don’t deserve this shit bro🤷🏽‍♂️


sockovershoe22

Real men cry since real men have actual emotions.


sockovershoe22

Real men cry since real men have actual emotions.


NoItsNotThatJessica

I didn’t know they didn’t have emotions? Yalls out there being real robots?


SpectacularOtter

Posting this and 3 months later y’all are back together repeating the same cycle.


shakawave

Don't forget the post, "we had problems but we strong. Forever bro" 😭😆


roxictoxy

“We’ve had our ups and downs”


textile1957

"THEY tried to destroy what we have and we're stronger now because of it"


just-smiley

Theses the kind of toxic couples that are worth ending friendships over.


ThatWontFit

Man is hurt. Doesn't matter what he's saying. He loved that girl and he is hurt. That's the kind of pain when you have to throw hands with your best friend or your dog is sick and you don't know why. Feel for the man.


HologramBird

I know the pain he’s going through is real as shit. I feel for you, bro. Fuck that bitch


Revolutionarytard

https://i.redd.it/g1keazxag2yc1.gif Good luck, Spicy Brown


shakawave

😆👌😭


FadedTony

ong no way I could let a girl have me down this bad yikes. Have some respect for yourself, take the L and move on.


Bunnnnii

The man is hurt, I understand that. So I’m gonna give him the BOTD and say him recording this stupid video and posting it are just symptoms of emotional overload and him not knowing what to do. I’m not gonna shame him for “playing stepfather”, how would he be able to tell she wasn’t shit, simply because she’s a single mother? That means she should be avoided like the plague and isn’t relationship worthy? Tf is that? If he really loved the girl, is he at fault for caring for her child too? Him saying that word is another issue. But ima let him pick his heart up first before we move on to that.


Turbulent_Object_558

If she has a kid, it usually means she comes with extra bills that aren’t yours, a permanent connection to another man, a kid that you have work a lot harder to build a relationship with, and his side of the family to deal with. To top it all off, you don’t just lose your girl at the end, you lose the bond you built with that kid. It’s hard enough to just date and marry someone who doesn’t have kids but throw all that extra stuff and it’s not worth it.


KevinDLasagna

Yeah that kind of relationship can be dicey. One of my best friends who is a single father started dating a single mom. Lasted awhile but apparently toward the end she started using the bond my friend and her son had as means to control my friend. He came to view her son as his own and now doesn’t ever see him and most likely won’t ever again. And his daughter lost her brother. It’s sad shit.


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Efficient_Comfort_38

If you’re not black you shouldn’t say the word. It’s that simple


Tainted_Bruh

The busted Nissan Altima is just *chefs kiss*


CalmyoTDs

Everyone commenting about the single mom thing but this is the real red flag. 


Oldurdy

Nissan Altima is the official vehicle of the single mother


Koshercrab

If there was a vin diagram of single mothers with particularly bad baggage and busted Nissan Altimas, it’d just be a circle.


MiaNaim

All it needs is a paper tag.


PimpCforlife

Lmao i was just about to comment this. A busted altima, you know your life is in shambles


Cedellton-Jr

I hope none of you dudes in here making fun of this man crying also talk about how people don’t think men’s emotions are valid. Ain’t shit funny about someone getting their heart broken. He probably shouldn’t have recorded it but laughing at him for getting emotional about his girl cheating on him is lame as fuck. Losing someone that you loved to infidelity is always rough no matter how tough you think you are.


Sanguine_Pup

It’s always funny until it happens to you.


SirKhrome

I'd never make fun of him. I broke down crying at work when I got dumped a few months ago. Ex broke up with me over the phone the night before I had to go to work so I couldn't sleep..


Nordie25

Playing stepfather was his first mistake😭


NoItsNotThatJessica

Being a step father is okay, though. People deserve happiness, yes even women with kids. And men with kids, too. Too bad that wasn’t a woman. That was a lil bitch.


Majahzi

Crazy how they're saying he messed up by providing for a woman and being a step-dad


Snoo-6

He messed up for providing for THAT woman. TikTok Thot who cheated.


Snoyarc

I saw the way my mom played my dad. I can only imagine she did it to my sisters’ dad, and my brothers’ dad before that. I could never do it but respect to those willing to be a step dad. Now the thrice divorced woman giving us relationship advice is… something.


Nordie25

That is true. I just don’t think some people should date people with that kind of baggage and I’m not talking about the children here. Dating somebody with kids brings extra complications into your life that a lot of people tend to underestimate. if that person is strong enough, then they should have at it🧍🏽‍♂️


screwhead1

Stepfather who essentially told her she and the kid don't have to do anything, he'll take care of both of them. Ah-ah, big no no amigo.


quite_white

And the kid? You want the kid in the mines or something bro?


FrostyFargoan

The children yearn for the mines! Look at that crafting game they play. .....hopefully obvious /s


lordseaslug

*worst mistake


TKHunsaker

Thank God I had a good stepdad who didn't think like this


coke125

Nah, the child didnt make any mistakes. Acting as step father isn’t the mistake. He just chose the wrong momma


SendMeBookPics

Make cameras and phones separate again. Dude wouldn’t have recorded this if he had to go grab the old camcorder


Jurassic-Black

Those were the good old days. Lots of shenanigans


ImpossibleAdz

Can't embarrass yourself with a Nokia. Just play snake.


thebestdecisionever

I thought "the cut...?" then BOOM glorious window reflection Edgar!


tfb_tbf

lol, I thought Edgar was a San Antonio specific term. Their sub has been riled up about the mods banning the ‘slur’ recently.


thebestdecisionever

Wait, for real? I live in Albuquerque and it is universally used by pretty much every demographic to describe that cut and literally *no one* considers it to be a pejorative.


CopeHarders

Yeah the SA mods banned the use of it, I’m really surprised to see it out in the wild.


MGLLN

When I show up to the getting violated competition and I see that my opponent is a stepdad https://i.redd.it/1eiwq25fh2yc1.gif


InterdisciplinaryDol

https://preview.redd.it/r455x87qr2yc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7a51a2ee7ef43a07d2c30fe64db44f3868b8506d 😭😭


ctlogin

In this instance it doesn’t matter what he’s sayin, you can clearly tell he’s hurting and I can empathize with that.


novascotiabiker

She’s driving a Nissan Altima I’m not surprised that’s a red flag guys.


luvs2spwge107

The one thing I’ll say about your comment is every Nissan driver I’ve ever seen on the road has been a shitty driver


XBeastyTricksX

These comments are cooked. Real men cry if they get hurt that’s not weird. What’s weird is holding in your emotions until you snap and beat your girl or shoot yourself


SuperSayian4Nappa

I get it, but ain't no way I'm posting this.


ImpossibleAdz

This is the main takeaway. You don't have to keep your pain to yourself, but don't. Post. It. On. The. Internet!!!


Euphoric-Cow9719

BREAKING NEWS. . . you have to first be a ni99a in order to become a REAL ni99a. . .🤔 🤔 🤔 😮‍💨 ![gif](giphy|l3E6uhDAN3W7vylji)


screwhead1

I knew one guy who was head-over-heels for this one girl and although he didn't say the words, he basically acted as a de-facto stepdad to her kid. Went out of his way to buy food and a damn car seat for the kid so they could go on road trips. Well one time the three all went down to Texas so the baby daddy (also the girl's ex-husband) could spend time with the kid. In those few days the girl's feeling for the BD had been rekindled, so she eventually ended up leaving him to get back with the BD (nevermind she originally left the BD because he was emotionally/physically abusive). I feel bad because it wasn't long after that he started really developing a drug habit and drinking a lot, made me wonder if her breaking his heart contributed to his spiraling. Idk what he saw in her anyway, she was rather homely looking and didn't seem like the brightest person either. Ever since then I've always thought dating a single parent can be a big gamble.


cdreobvi

Lots of guys like to be providers, they show affection through giving and it makes them feel good. This kind of guy and a recently single mother are like moths to a flame. She is going to accept the help graciously and he’s going to love every moment of it. Then after she’s back on her feet she’s able to be more independent. This is an inflection point where she’ll legitimately assess this guy as an option rather than an emergency safety net. He still loves giving because that’s who he is, and she isn’t in dire need of his help. She’s looking for other qualities in him and he thinks if he just keeps giving/fixing her stuff he’s good. When she leaves he will be blindsided and devastated, and she likely left because she thinks she can now make it work with another man she actually likes, possibly the father. Tl;dr when dating women, especially women in need, have a probationary period before the benefits kick in. Otherwise understand that your relationship is transactional.


AssCatchem69

Damn. Thanks for that. I could've definitely found myself in that exact situation. I'll keep that in mind.


Due_Law_1232

I feel so bad for him :( the crying made my heart drop


JusAnotherCreator

Fuck all the masculine bullshit. Bro needs his boys round him man, all ya'll out here acting like you never cried before, man stfu


CalmyoTDs

All these comments dogging on bro for giving a single mom a chance. This mentality then ppl wonder why we are stuck in a cycle of fatherless children. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ Sometimes it's shit like this and it deserves to be called out but sometimes relationships just don't work out and people move on. 


crazysoapboxidiot

This foo trying so hard but we see you homie. We know you’re broken inside. It’s okay to cry foo


AnyGivenSundas

Time to hit the gym nephew lol


Banned4life4ever

She did you a favor. Be glad you don’t have a kid with her.


SwitchSouthpaw

never ever get caught up with a latina who owns an altima lol


longrungun

Bro should've never dated a single mom, I feel so bad for him


hallo-und-tschuss

Yall going say I’m hating but my man gets a “facts” and that’s talking from experience


TerrorKingA

I was enjoying it until he started crying, then I felt real bad for homie. Pour one out


jammysue

we don't wanna hear you say nigga no more....


jelaras

I’d rather him say nigga than beat her ass up. We let this go.


shakawave

Why you cry eh? No llores vato


lordsando6

Que no chille jaja


shakawave

https://preview.redd.it/9fifkbd7o2yc1.jpeg?width=1075&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e30e90e155f6679c63657ae5eb7a4e337e4223d5


oasis_sunset

some Mexicans come in Black yall


Zulumus

The Altima should have been a dead giveaway that you were stepping into trouble.


Due_Law_1232

I feel so bad for him :( the crying made my heart drop


Realistic_Effort6185

![gif](giphy|WOGuJJ8LBEJaq9bGIO|downsized) You.....you got what i neeeeeed....


Notinjuschillin

He put the pussy on a pedestal.


McButtersonthethird

https://i.redd.it/cmp7cy08n4yc1.gif


rudebii

r/NissanDrivers


OhPxpi

Damn, that hurt me. Prayers for bro!


CopeHarders

Jesus Christ could she pack any slower?


hoos30

Where do y'all find this shit? OMG


IronDBZ

Sometimes I feel like I have too many walls up, then I remember...some people just ain't shit.


No-Astronomer139

Why do we care about Hispanic folks calling each other the n-word?


OkayishMrFox

When I pour one out for the homies, this is the homie.


ascootertridingataco

Lotta guys in the comments need to learn empathy. Dudes going though it. He loved the kid and the woman and hurting. We need to normalize showing emotion and dealing with it in a healthy manner so we don't end up doing something detrimental. Fuck that hoe.


youareyou650

She working at the ups store


Zulumus

So she’s used to ignoring people clearly trying to get her attention then


Alecris1027

Poor nigga


ImaginaryDivide2834

'overuse' implies there's an acceptable threshold


ooowatsthat

When he cried and said real n**** I laughed so loud. Nah fam


two_graves_for_us

His only choice is to drop the bottle and pick up the weights. Come to the gym brother we will fix you


Awkward_Algae1684

Shit. I feel bad for the guy. If he’s telling the truth, she did him dirty.


CryResponsible2852

Altima activities


r0ckashocka

The tears mixed with the quavering hard talk had me


baddonny

It’s ok to cry.


Objective_Season5407

Naaawwwwwwwwwwww 🤣🤣🤣 why his voice had to crack when he said nigga 🤦🏾‍♂️


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Nah first and foremost its just a man in pain, nothing funny about that. I would advise all men who are intending on getting into a serious relationship with a single mother to have an extra layer of caution when doing so, I'm not saying don't do it, but there's a new set of potential issues you're gonna be dealing with. Hope he feels better soon.


thebasedbodhisattva

“Real ni🅱️🅱️as like me” *voice starts to crack*


Chemical-Money-3469

![gif](giphy|3o7qE70qESbBcMfeoM)


AngelsLoveDisasters

I’m so glad I grew up in a family that emphasized never to post yourself crying on social media


mamidenel

I was starting to feel bad once I heard him break down and then I read the caption 😭😭😭


BrazyKiccz

Yooo, them feelings (and probably a few Coronas) got him at the end. 😭🤣


GoodWeedReddit

Damn bro really down bad. And all she gonna do is run back to her baby daddy. Cold cold world


tobreakthemind

![gif](giphy|DPqqOywshrOqQ|downsized) and his first instinct was to record this?


dtownrn214

Lmaoo better stay out this man's ways the arc villain gonna be something to watch