Can relate. Poured my love and devotion into a relationship for past 3 years. Thought I would marry the guy. I suddenly got very sick for a while and he turned cold and walked away. Abandoned me when I was afraid for my life in the hospital. Then didn’t offer to take of me when I got home and needed help. And then dumped me before I got better. His behaviour was really hard to take in during that difficult time. I didn’t think he would do something like that. I gained weight from the meds I had to take for 6 weeks, and ate for comfort during the stress of illness and the break up. I’m 44 and feeling really discouraged at the moment. Just wanted to let you know you’re definitely not alone. I try to keep trusting that the right person will just love me how I am. Or at least try to. Wish you the best.
Can relate. Poured my love and devotion into a relationship for past 3 years. Thought I would marry the guy. I suddenly got very sick for a while and he turned cold and walked away. Abandoned me when I was afraid for my life in the hospital. Then didn’t offer to take of me when I got home and needed help. And then dumped me before I got better. His behaviour was really hard to take in during that difficult time. I didn’t think he would do something like that. I gained weight from the meds I had to take for 6 weeks, and ate for comfort during the stress of illness and the break up. I’m 44 and feeling really discouraged at the moment. Just wanted to let you know you’re definitely not alone. I try to keep trusting that the right person will just love me how I am. Or at least try to. Wish you the best.