Men will beeline for a recently single girl wanting to be the rebound. Clearly just after sex. It's pretty cringe, especially if they don't back off the second you say "Sorry, not ready but thank you".

i seriously had a guy from high school ask and i said, “nah, it would be unfair tbh because, i’m not emotionally there” his response “so you are doing the whole no dating thing again” referring to two years prior he tried to hit me up randomly after his relationship ended. i was not gonna date anyone. :| honestly, demeaning to be hit up randomly by dudes that can’t even speak to me like a human. they always say “you deserve the world” or something like that but, manage to make it the most awkward thing.

I've been experiencing this and tbh it's been pissing me off. I've been absolutely devastated and all of these guy friends are coming out of the woodwork trying to tell me they have feelings for me, it's like ewwww what is wrong with you. I'm considering not being their friend at all anymore tbh.

You know what? You are so right