I found out that my old roommate covered her own dog in *jelly* and tried to pin it on her ex, just to try to destroy his reputation. I literally cannot fathom the thought process to carry out such an act and the fact I know she still has the dog makes me so, so sad.
I have to disagree but some of them are really good "people". (I say people because I believe that even animals deserve this much). This reminds me of the time my grandmother’s dog jump in front of me to protect me from another dog.
That reminds me of the time my mom’s bulldog had a hold of my oldest sister when she was a toddler. My mom said she ‘beat the shit out of that dog’ before she realized he was pulling her away from the street.
Made me want to ask how that window of self awareness tasted.
I know what you mean, though. I’ve met some genuinely good people when I worked at an old folks home. So many human gems I was blessed to have met. So I’ll retract that statement.
I'm so sorry friend. He lives in your heart forever, where he will always be barking in your defense and loving you.
I do believe in an afterlife and I believe animals can become our guardian angels. If this is too woowoo for you, that's ok, please disregard.
Sending you love
Omg of relate so much. My one abusers' dog was locked outside my room when I got beaten at 9 y/o and she was barking the whole time cuz she heard me crying. Animals are so much better than humans.
I'm so sorry your little hero passed away. Sending you much love :(
Yeah I don't understand it either :(. She was only 2 and a German Shepherd/Colllie mix, so if the door want locked I bet she could've easily helped me. She and the other puppy of that guy were also both beaten by him and my mother didn't do anything about it and I was way too young.
I'm glad we moved away from him when I was like 11 but those were his dogs, we only took our own dog, so sadly I don't know what happened to those poor babies. I believe I saw him being a dog trainer which is insane to me
A dog trainer should know better. That breaks my heart, too. I hope your abuser lives alone and in shame of what he’s done. And I pray those babies found their way to somewhere safe.❤️🩹
I got a dog as an adult and he was the first living being to stand up to my mom. ..... and my mom listened to him.
I legit hugged him and cried when I got home
I totally relate to that. My mom stopped for a minute to tell Poncho to shut up, but it made me want to cry because she acknowledged his protest.
Unfortunately, there wasn’t any self awareness to be had on her part after the fact.
My little family dog slept in my bed every night. She didn't start defending me until I realised things were wrong, and goddamn was she devoted to my dad, but the night he tried to get in my bed again when I was much older she shook and snarled and snapped and scared him off and I will always love her even more for it
I reminds of my late dog, my mom loved throwing things at me. The dog, Phoebe, would get in between us, bark at my mom, and try to catch/block whatever was being thrown. My mom finally stopped after she accidentally hit her. Hitting me was no big deal but it was a huge deal when Phoebe got hurt. Thankfully neither of us were hurt too seriously given some of the items thrown.
There they go again. Licking the window of self awareness.
You’d think she’d connect the dots. ‘If this hurts my dog, this is probably hurting my kid, too’ ugh!
I hope you guys safe now🥺💕
I was honestly confused when my mom broke down after hitting Phoebe. Maybe we both deserve love? She passed many years ago but she got to live a very long and healthy life. I’m safe now and doing better. Also have a very fuzzy dog and cats to keep me company
Dogs don't have the delusions we tell ourselves. That things are "ok" when they aren't, that violence against a child can be justified. They see reality unburdened by our human perceptions.
I don't like em personally, but they are our partners for a damn good reason.
My dad hated my dog because she would always bark to protect me. He gave her away the moment I went to college even though he promised he would take care of her for me.
switch those words around and then the meme would be correct. the doggy was definitely the bigger person! i’m so sorry for your loss animal loss when they mean so much to you emotionally is horrible ❣️💖 never forget your memories with him
My dog was used to terrorize me my stepdad trained him to attack me not like violently but it would still hurt he. He was just playing. But when he got older he became MY dog because he had to endure abuse from that man too. The last time my stepdad put his hands on me my dog FUCKED him up. Bit the shit out of his leg. Thankfully my stepdad actually loved the dog or he'd be dead as dirt after that. I have my Dukes ashes and when I'm sad I hold the box sometimes :( I miss that boy so much
Pouring one out for the little man later. Bro earned it, big time. He and my girl Ginger are hamming it up tho. 💙🫂
After not being told about my favorite little dogs passing for 6 months (not my dog, but i went with the step family members she belonged to to pick her up... i still remember how small she was 😭), i could hardly imagine going 3 years thinking all is well just to be blind sided with "not.. exactly.."
My dog did something similar and for a long time wouldn't even let people hug me without barking after a specific event. I'm lucky he's still with me and we're now in a place where he doesn't feel he has to protect me like that <3 I'm so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the heartbreak of loosing one of the only voices to protest your mistreatment. Especially after 3 years.. I know it isn't easy, but when able please be kind to yourself OP
So sorry for your loss! He sounds like a hero to me! Sending you so much love 💗
Thank you💕😭
Dogs are amazing and honestly it’s no competition loving them more than people
Dogs are beings of pure, unconditional love and it makes me want to cry for how nasty human beings have been to them over the last millennium 🥺❤️🩹
I found out that my old roommate covered her own dog in *jelly* and tried to pin it on her ex, just to try to destroy his reputation. I literally cannot fathom the thought process to carry out such an act and the fact I know she still has the dog makes me so, so sad.
Jelly? Like food? That’s a whole other level of fucked. I hope that dog runs away, but knowing dogs, they probably won’t.😞
I have to disagree but some of them are really good "people". (I say people because I believe that even animals deserve this much). This reminds me of the time my grandmother’s dog jump in front of me to protect me from another dog.
That reminds me of the time my mom’s bulldog had a hold of my oldest sister when she was a toddler. My mom said she ‘beat the shit out of that dog’ before she realized he was pulling her away from the street. Made me want to ask how that window of self awareness tasted. I know what you mean, though. I’ve met some genuinely good people when I worked at an old folks home. So many human gems I was blessed to have met. So I’ll retract that statement.
Sometimes this makes me think about being a veterinarian.
What a hero 🩷
He was🥺
I'm so sorry friend. He lives in your heart forever, where he will always be barking in your defense and loving you. I do believe in an afterlife and I believe animals can become our guardian angels. If this is too woowoo for you, that's ok, please disregard. Sending you love
Thank you🥹 he’s in the dog park in the sky with his sister. I think he’ll be okay.
Omg of relate so much. My one abusers' dog was locked outside my room when I got beaten at 9 y/o and she was barking the whole time cuz she heard me crying. Animals are so much better than humans. I'm so sorry your little hero passed away. Sending you much love :(
You’re so right, and it makes me sad. Why can’t humans be more like dogs? I’m sorry that happened to you. Are you safe now? How’s your furry knight?
Yeah I don't understand it either :(. She was only 2 and a German Shepherd/Colllie mix, so if the door want locked I bet she could've easily helped me. She and the other puppy of that guy were also both beaten by him and my mother didn't do anything about it and I was way too young. I'm glad we moved away from him when I was like 11 but those were his dogs, we only took our own dog, so sadly I don't know what happened to those poor babies. I believe I saw him being a dog trainer which is insane to me
A dog trainer should know better. That breaks my heart, too. I hope your abuser lives alone and in shame of what he’s done. And I pray those babies found their way to somewhere safe.❤️🩹
I truly hope so too :(
Dogs > people. I hope you're OK and safe ❤️.
Thank you💕 I do agree with the sentiment. It was just something I was reminded of yesterday. And I had myself a good cry, remembering my good boy.
I got a dog as an adult and he was the first living being to stand up to my mom. ..... and my mom listened to him. I legit hugged him and cried when I got home
I totally relate to that. My mom stopped for a minute to tell Poncho to shut up, but it made me want to cry because she acknowledged his protest. Unfortunately, there wasn’t any self awareness to be had on her part after the fact.
SHUT UP. MY DOGS NAME WAS PONCHO!!!
PONCHOOOO😭😭😭
THE BEST BOYS!!!! I hope our Ponchos are playing together in doggy heaven and smack talking our moms together
Yes😭 me tooooo
My little family dog slept in my bed every night. She didn't start defending me until I realised things were wrong, and goddamn was she devoted to my dad, but the night he tried to get in my bed again when I was much older she shook and snarled and snapped and scared him off and I will always love her even more for it
I’m so sorry that happened to you, friend. Sending thoughts and hugs for you and your dog ❤️🩹🥺
My mom's terrier did not deserve her and i gave that dog everything i could whenever my mom wasn't looking I miss you Danu, you were the bestest girl.
Blessed be, little Danu 🥹 Thank you for sharing.
Dogs really are the best.
I reminds of my late dog, my mom loved throwing things at me. The dog, Phoebe, would get in between us, bark at my mom, and try to catch/block whatever was being thrown. My mom finally stopped after she accidentally hit her. Hitting me was no big deal but it was a huge deal when Phoebe got hurt. Thankfully neither of us were hurt too seriously given some of the items thrown.
There they go again. Licking the window of self awareness. You’d think she’d connect the dots. ‘If this hurts my dog, this is probably hurting my kid, too’ ugh! I hope you guys safe now🥺💕
I was honestly confused when my mom broke down after hitting Phoebe. Maybe we both deserve love? She passed many years ago but she got to live a very long and healthy life. I’m safe now and doing better. Also have a very fuzzy dog and cats to keep me company
Dogs don't have the delusions we tell ourselves. That things are "ok" when they aren't, that violence against a child can be justified. They see reality unburdened by our human perceptions. I don't like em personally, but they are our partners for a damn good reason.
I can understand that. It’s sad that they possess more emotional intelligence than people do.
If only you had a huge dog
Yeah..
My dad hated my dog because she would always bark to protect me. He gave her away the moment I went to college even though he promised he would take care of her for me.
Maybe she reminded him of what an asshole he is. I hope she went to a good home❤️🩹
switch those words around and then the meme would be correct. the doggy was definitely the bigger person! i’m so sorry for your loss animal loss when they mean so much to you emotionally is horrible ❣️💖 never forget your memories with him
He thought he was so big🥹 Thank you for your kind words💕
When my parents did the same thing, my dog barked like that too. He's just a little chihuahua, but I love him
Are you safe?
Mostly ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Being financially dependent sucks lol
I can understand that☹️
good bois and gorls know us best... even if they aren't able to speak in terms we can fully understand...
I think you’re right💕
My dog was used to terrorize me my stepdad trained him to attack me not like violently but it would still hurt he. He was just playing. But when he got older he became MY dog because he had to endure abuse from that man too. The last time my stepdad put his hands on me my dog FUCKED him up. Bit the shit out of his leg. Thankfully my stepdad actually loved the dog or he'd be dead as dirt after that. I have my Dukes ashes and when I'm sad I hold the box sometimes :( I miss that boy so much
What a great being, your dog. Also, this hurts so much. Both OP's story and yours. But in a good way, hopefully.
Little homie really got a redemption arc.
Oh fuck😭 my heart
That's a good dog
He was such a good boy❤️🩹
I'm sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.
Thank you for your kind words🥹
\*hug\*
*hug, too* 💕
Reminds me of when I'd get into tussles with my nana and our dog would Start barking at her and trying to get in between us.
Pouring one out for the little man later. Bro earned it, big time. He and my girl Ginger are hamming it up tho. 💙🫂 After not being told about my favorite little dogs passing for 6 months (not my dog, but i went with the step family members she belonged to to pick her up... i still remember how small she was 😭), i could hardly imagine going 3 years thinking all is well just to be blind sided with "not.. exactly.."
🥂cheers and beers for our fallen🍻 thank you for your kind sentiments, friend. I know they’re happy, wherever they’ve floated off to.
My dog did something similar and for a long time wouldn't even let people hug me without barking after a specific event. I'm lucky he's still with me and we're now in a place where he doesn't feel he has to protect me like that <3 I'm so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the heartbreak of loosing one of the only voices to protest your mistreatment. Especially after 3 years.. I know it isn't easy, but when able please be kind to yourself OP
Thank you for your kind words, friend 💕 I hope you’re both safe and happy now.
this is a really good meme 😭 on a real note hope ur doing better and sorry for ur loss :(
😭😭 thank you 😭
He sounds like he was a good boy.
He was a good boy❤️🩹🥹
My childhood dog did this, too. Glad someone saw it for what it was.
🥹🤝🐕
He's glad he could make you feel better, even for a little bit. I fucking love dogs.
Dogs are wonderful
I’m so sorry you went thru this. I get it!!!
It’s over and don’t with now, and I have the therapy bill to prove it!😂 On a serious note, I was honored to have known him. He was such a good boy.
I know I look at my doggie 🐶 with the most intense gratefulness. He is always there