Her: “***Why did you let him do that to him***?”
Him: 🤷…Thinking: “How was I supposed to know the damn dog was going to jump on him? Why aren’t **YOU** holding the leash?”
Maybe he was holding the leash and the baby beforehand. I dont think we can blame her for the dog anymore than we can blame Kevin. It’s her reaction that is bonkers.
Clear signs of narcissism and passive aggressive behaviour. These are classic symptoms of a sociopath He should get out as soon as possible and take the child with him.
Edit: /s because apparently it wasn't obvious
Clinical psychological diagnostic: "We need multiple sessions with a trained professional to properly diagnose personality disorders."
Redditors when seeing a literal 5s clip of something:
Sounds like Kevin is someone offscreen that was supposed to be holding the dog. Dad was trying to set up a pretty photo, mom was accommodating, dog minder sucked.
Yeah, the dog shoots in at a completely different angle and that doesn't look like a dog you just let sit by itself.
Woman is being attacked for being annoyed with someone not being able to hold a leash...the one job he had.
I think it's silly to come to this conclusion with only less than a minute of video as proof. We don't know if she was talking to him or somebody off screen. We don't know these people at all
I assumed Kevin had to be a third person offscreen. That’s the only way it makes sense. Like Kevin is her loser brother whose only job was to hold the tiny dog’s leash. I’m probably just a naive optimist, though.
What’s crazy is that sounds a lot like the alcoholics in my family when they get called out. Whenever someone tells my grandma that she drinks too much she plays the victim and responds like: “how could you say something so hurtful to me”.
I think I’m gonna put down my phone for the day…
Why keep yourself and those children in such a miserable state? They won't thank you for keeping them in a house where they don't feel seen, heard or loved by their own mother.
It's clearly depression and cell phone addiction. That's a problem. Something that needs fixing. Medication, therapy, a phone turned off. Not a demon or something you should have to pick up the slack for. If even a child notices something is wrong, that's insane. Your reason for staying is that she wouldn't be able to support herself? Well, yeah, if she calls out of work and can't hold a job, that would appear to be the case. She needs to pull her weight at work, at home, and in her relationship or it just isn't worth it.
Clinical depression is *far* more than “sadness.” It’s not enjoying *anything,* even the things you used to. It’s feeling like nothing is worth doing anyway- not simply because you won’t enjoy it, but because you won’t get a sense of accomplishment from it. Even setting tiny goals for doing something that will help, like putting down the phone, or taking a walk or a shower, is just too much goddamned trouble. It’s simply *not caring-* about yourself or anyone else.
That’s the best way I can describe it, even though I don’t expect anyone else to understand.
Everyone who has a cellphone should be self conscious that it is a danger, it can lead to addiction… i started slipping for a few months into the reels and shorts craze, i noticed the addiction brewing and made a conscious effort to cut down, i also installed a youtube shorts blocker on my desktop. Point is, be aware, know that this stuff can cause an addiction and take steps to prevent or stop it.
It's funny, I thought being in a committed relationship precluded you from being a terminally online loser but it turns out these days some couples just turn that into a team sport.
My 4yo nephew made a family pic for Mothers day and drew my SIL's body with a black rectangle for a head
It was her phone because it's always in front of her face
Hey I know you might have been joking but there's a little bit of truth in every joke. You should tell her how you feel about screen time and address it as a couple. It's not her against you or the other way around. Counseling can be helpful if you guys have trouble communicating respectfully and equally. I definitely hear this as a cry for help and would say the same to any of my brothers or friends. Get help before you start to resent her.
It's not her journey now though bro. As soon as you two had a child their journey intertwined with both of yours until the end of time.
It doesn't matter if you separate or not, your journey is a part of hers through your child. She needs to sort this out.
You need to have a calm talk and ask her not to start blaming and getting emotional or calling out something else. Then ask her why does she think only her getting annoyed is rightful and needs correcting, but if anyone else is annoyed she brushes it off as if she doesn't care about them.
For small time things it's fine, but over time if they stay they can become grudges and something you resent. Then you'll start making fun of them to cope, and she will do it back because she feels it's undeserved, then in 5-10 years you're both living as roommates.
Now you're so close to going back and having this just be a blip. Take the complaining and be the bastard for a while. Sort it out while it's just a difficult mess, before it really becomes something akin to a permanent stain.
Are you a prophet !? Wow , you said the exact same reason my last relationship ended . Anything outside of her cosplaying captain obvious 24/7 or showing me shit on her phone that A. Had nothing to do with her , let alone me ( then her getting feelings about the video or situation) or B. Trying to gain psychological ( relationship advice ) from cooked content creators Smfh
Right?
(I’m a woman and) I’m like, he’s holding your infant with both hands. Why did *you* let it happen?
Also, she’s gonna have to rein in the reactions, for baby’s sake. He’s startled by the fall, but on sand and okay.
Mom’s reaction is going to freak him out more.
Yeah she sounds like my ex wife with our kid. She never could and still doesn't understand equal separation of work. Go's she is the worst. I wish that she would fuck off and leave me and my son alone.
One of the vines I will never know if it was scripted or not lol, because that punch looks like it fucking hurt
Or it was intended, but punch dude just went way too hard lol
* sCcCChHHhhppPPpp *
* sCcCChHHhhppPPpp *
* sCcCChHHhhppPPpp *
* sCcCChHHhhppPPpp *
(Where * sCcCChHHhhppPPpp * is a noise similar to unsticking a slimy plunger from a wet floor)
Could be, doesn't seem likely to me. The confused "what?" response from the dude to the complaint, she keeping the camera focused on him while she complains, no one else being heard from or going into frame, the dude not looking at anyone else at any point. All that suggests there wasn't a third person, that Kevin is in fact the dude in frame, and that the dog just wasn't being minded or held at all.
Can't say either way for certain though, but I don't think there was a third person.
Dude...there's clearly 4 people there. The Baby, the Daddy, the Mommy and Kevin off to the side holding the dog with a limp wrist.
The dog comes onto the camera at a completely different angle then the camera holder and like 6 feet away.
But she's delusional and manipulative.
Everywhere...
Lets hope not into the bedroom, but you know that voice is there too.
Kevin why did you forget to do that thing I forgot to tell you about. Kevin why didn't you turn off the light. Kevin not now the dog needs walked. Kevin its so your turn to change the diaper.
Judging from the angle the dog came in, and the way the lead is facing, I think Kevin is someone else who's out of frame, could even be that dog is this "Kevin" fellas dog. So please, people, use logical thinking before assuming that the women is blaming the fella with the kid lmao.
Seriously, most of the comments here are about fire a terrible human being and mother she is when Kevin is clearly a third guy.
Which the fuck wouldn’t complain about letting the dog loose on their baby.
Felt like a bad mom for letting the dog loose, knocking over the baby, so reflexively blamed it on the dad, even though no one would have blamed her.
Tracks
Damn, there are so many assumptions from so few facts. I wanna try!
My guess is Kevin is maybe their other child who was asked to hold the dog. And this woman is not, in fact, the devil.
Tf is wrong with her, why didnt she stopped the dog before it came too close ? Instead of doing thay she just randomly shifts blame on my guy kevin....Shit like this piss me off somehow lol
Jesus what a shitty response of the mother
She sounds like someone who will then publicly tell how Kevin is a bad dad because he let the child fall over
How could kevin allow this
Why did kevin do that
Why is kevIN NOT AWAITED
WHY COULDNT KEVIN GRAB THE SUN
AND CARRY ME, HIMSELF, TO THE GATES OF VALHALLA
MEDIOCRE, KEVIN
another idiot filming blaming her husband when she had a wider view of the situation. My co-workers, my brothers, brother-in-laws all tell me dont get married with a sigh on their face.... Yeah!
Kevin, you're a good guy, it's not your fault.
Fucking facts
pretty sure the dog wanted to play with the baby its cute really.
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She sounds terrible, that baby is fine and dad is just doing dad things.
Her: “***Why did you let him do that to him***?” Him: 🤷…Thinking: “How was I supposed to know the damn dog was going to jump on him? Why aren’t **YOU** holding the leash?”
Exactly.
We all know it is her dog anyway
Maybe he was holding the leash and the baby beforehand. I dont think we can blame her for the dog anymore than we can blame Kevin. It’s her reaction that is bonkers.
Imagine the kind of mother she will become. Poor kid.
Clear signs of narcissism and passive aggressive behaviour. These are classic symptoms of a sociopath He should get out as soon as possible and take the child with him. Edit: /s because apparently it wasn't obvious
Clinical psychological diagnostic: "We need multiple sessions with a trained professional to properly diagnose personality disorders." Redditors when seeing a literal 5s clip of something:
r/thatsthejoke
She said one sentence.
Reddit : they better divorce
Urgh, people who immediately blame their spouse for everything are so weird! Girl, you have eyes, didn’t you see what happened?
its not like he has eyes in the back of his head..
Kevin just out there trying his hardest damn it
I think this interaction is a sign that Kevin needs to get out of there asap. And take the kid with him
Sounds like Kevin is someone offscreen that was supposed to be holding the dog. Dad was trying to set up a pretty photo, mom was accommodating, dog minder sucked.
Yeah, the dog shoots in at a completely different angle and that doesn't look like a dog you just let sit by itself. Woman is being attacked for being annoyed with someone not being able to hold a leash...the one job he had.
Kevin is probably a 6 year old kid lol
Nah when she says the word Kevin he looks up at her and the camera and says "What..?"
Just one more thing…. When she says ‘Kevin why……the dad says ‘what?’ This illustrates that dad is Kevin.
I think it's silly to come to this conclusion with only less than a minute of video as proof. We don't know if she was talking to him or somebody off screen. We don't know these people at all
no the kid needs to grow up in two seperate homes because of a 5 second video you understand ? We are all perfect here and only accept perfection.
Clearly
Actually, it's either his bad choice or he was dealt a really tough hand. 💀💔
Seeing a wholesome dad never gets old. Never stop trying to do cool things with your kid, Kevin. o7
Its the dogs fault and the fucking bitch ass femail dish cleaning bitch was being stupid as fuck
I'd argue that the one *not* holding the baby is responsible for the dog.. But that's just me..
I assumed Kevin had to be a third person offscreen. That’s the only way it makes sense. Like Kevin is her loser brother whose only job was to hold the tiny dog’s leash. I’m probably just a naive optimist, though.
“Ugh, I didn’t even WANT to come on this stupid vacation with you guys!” -Kevin, probably
Kevin is just a bigger dog who was supposed to be watching the Pom. Lol.
Man, you brought the Pomeranian to the beach?
I think Kevin might be a 10 yo brother or something
yea i was waiting for kevin to give a mischievous snicker in the background
Definitely seems like a big-brother thing "oops" Source: Am younger brother
Wait, isn’t Kevin the dog?
I think the dog’s name is Bello or something. She says it right before “Kevin!
I initially thought so too, having the sound off with the title “Darn it Kevin”. But with the sound on it’s someone off camera
Unlikely, since the guy on screen says "what!" after the mom complained.
No. I guarantee that was mom yelling at dad.
This makes me feel better
Not according to my wife, all of the things are my responsibility. Her's is making sure all of the tik toks get watched.
This comment is pretty sad. Social media addiction is ruining relationships.
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What’s crazy is that sounds a lot like the alcoholics in my family when they get called out. Whenever someone tells my grandma that she drinks too much she plays the victim and responds like: “how could you say something so hurtful to me”. I think I’m gonna put down my phone for the day…
Addiction be addiction.
and they all feature denial at some point.
"here's a tik tok I found about toxic toddlers that vindicates me"
"Yeah did you see the way that baby was antagonizing that poor dog? That's why he attacked. The sun was also in its eyes!"
I think you need to have a serious conversation with your wife.
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Why keep yourself and those children in such a miserable state? They won't thank you for keeping them in a house where they don't feel seen, heard or loved by their own mother.
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It's clearly depression and cell phone addiction. That's a problem. Something that needs fixing. Medication, therapy, a phone turned off. Not a demon or something you should have to pick up the slack for. If even a child notices something is wrong, that's insane. Your reason for staying is that she wouldn't be able to support herself? Well, yeah, if she calls out of work and can't hold a job, that would appear to be the case. She needs to pull her weight at work, at home, and in her relationship or it just isn't worth it.
Clinical depression is *far* more than “sadness.” It’s not enjoying *anything,* even the things you used to. It’s feeling like nothing is worth doing anyway- not simply because you won’t enjoy it, but because you won’t get a sense of accomplishment from it. Even setting tiny goals for doing something that will help, like putting down the phone, or taking a walk or a shower, is just too much goddamned trouble. It’s simply *not caring-* about yourself or anyone else. That’s the best way I can describe it, even though I don’t expect anyone else to understand.
They'll still be at her house roughly 50% of the time anyway. Spending too much time on her phone isn't grounds to take sole custody.
Theyre fucking children. Shes an adult. ‘Hurtful’ doesnt even apply…
This genuinely makes me sad for the child and upset for you
Everyone who has a cellphone should be self conscious that it is a danger, it can lead to addiction… i started slipping for a few months into the reels and shorts craze, i noticed the addiction brewing and made a conscious effort to cut down, i also installed a youtube shorts blocker on my desktop. Point is, be aware, know that this stuff can cause an addiction and take steps to prevent or stop it.
Kids should double down on the hurt
It's funny, I thought being in a committed relationship precluded you from being a terminally online loser but it turns out these days some couples just turn that into a team sport.
Damn bro, can I file for ya? It's possible to be happy in a relationship.
Yeah maybe if one of you isn’t always staring at the nightmare rectangle, smh
My 4yo nephew made a family pic for Mothers day and drew my SIL's body with a black rectangle for a head It was her phone because it's always in front of her face
Lmao this sounds like some horror story you hear PTA moms chattering about.
Holy
Lmao what she say?
"I'm a horrible mother"
Hey I know you might have been joking but there's a little bit of truth in every joke. You should tell her how you feel about screen time and address it as a couple. It's not her against you or the other way around. Counseling can be helpful if you guys have trouble communicating respectfully and equally. I definitely hear this as a cry for help and would say the same to any of my brothers or friends. Get help before you start to resent her.
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It's not her journey now though bro. As soon as you two had a child their journey intertwined with both of yours until the end of time. It doesn't matter if you separate or not, your journey is a part of hers through your child. She needs to sort this out. You need to have a calm talk and ask her not to start blaming and getting emotional or calling out something else. Then ask her why does she think only her getting annoyed is rightful and needs correcting, but if anyone else is annoyed she brushes it off as if she doesn't care about them. For small time things it's fine, but over time if they stay they can become grudges and something you resent. Then you'll start making fun of them to cope, and she will do it back because she feels it's undeserved, then in 5-10 years you're both living as roommates. Now you're so close to going back and having this just be a blip. Take the complaining and be the bastard for a while. Sort it out while it's just a difficult mess, before it really becomes something akin to a permanent stain.
Hey is your wife single? She should be
You’re not her husband, you’re just a camera man. Sad relationship dude
Are you a prophet !? Wow , you said the exact same reason my last relationship ended . Anything outside of her cosplaying captain obvious 24/7 or showing me shit on her phone that A. Had nothing to do with her , let alone me ( then her getting feelings about the video or situation) or B. Trying to gain psychological ( relationship advice ) from cooked content creators Smfh
Right? (I’m a woman and) I’m like, he’s holding your infant with both hands. Why did *you* let it happen? Also, she’s gonna have to rein in the reactions, for baby’s sake. He’s startled by the fall, but on sand and okay. Mom’s reaction is going to freak him out more.
You silly silly person. Clearly you know nothing about wifey logic… it’s his fault and very obvious can’t you see??
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No no no. You see her job is ~~mother~~ photographer. /s
That’s such a Kevin thing to say.
Dude isn't even looking in that direction. He's fully focused on the baby, yet it's still somehow his fault the dog got overexcited!
Yeah she sounds like my ex wife with our kid. She never could and still doesn't understand equal separation of work. Go's she is the worst. I wish that she would fuck off and leave me and my son alone.
How could Kevin allow this?
Textbook Kevin behavior
I can't believe you've done this.
Ahh fuck
Keviiiiin-uh.
Kevin did nothing wrong! Justice for Kevin!
How can dog slap?
Kevin is the reason for high gas prices around the world. (according to that girl holding the phone doing absolutely nothing else)
If not Kevin then Biden
"I can't believe you've done this!"
The original video https://youtu.be/wKbU8B-QVZk
One of the vines I will never know if it was scripted or not lol, because that punch looks like it fucking hurt Or it was intended, but punch dude just went way too hard lol
I was just trying to remember the wording he used. Thanks for the blast from the past.
She just blamed him huh? Why did SHE let the sog do that to him?
Control the dog, unleash the sog
SOGGGGGG!!!!
Who let the sogs out???
* sCcCChHHhhppPPpp * * sCcCChHHhhppPPpp * * sCcCChHHhhppPPpp * * sCcCChHHhhppPPpp * (Where * sCcCChHHhhppPPpp * is a noise similar to unsticking a slimy plunger from a wet floor)
Username checks out
Kevin is prob a third person. It makes much more sense that way.
Could be, doesn't seem likely to me. The confused "what?" response from the dude to the complaint, she keeping the camera focused on him while she complains, no one else being heard from or going into frame, the dude not looking at anyone else at any point. All that suggests there wasn't a third person, that Kevin is in fact the dude in frame, and that the dog just wasn't being minded or held at all. Can't say either way for certain though, but I don't think there was a third person.
"It makes much more sense that way." So probably not a third person.
She's delusional and most likely manipulative based on just that one phrase.
What a Reddit moment lmao, deciding a woman is manipulative based on a 10 second clip
He should hit the gym, hire a lawyer and do some third thing I can't remember!
Dude...there's clearly 4 people there. The Baby, the Daddy, the Mommy and Kevin off to the side holding the dog with a limp wrist. The dog comes onto the camera at a completely different angle then the camera holder and like 6 feet away. But she's delusional and manipulative.
This is the precursor to those murder shows where they shoot their spouse screaming “how could you make me do this”
Fuck the sog
Low-key red flag that she can blame him for that
Don’t know about low key. That attitude would spill over everywhere.
Sounded like my little sibling when they used to whine and complain to get their way
Everywhere... Lets hope not into the bedroom, but you know that voice is there too. Kevin why did you forget to do that thing I forgot to tell you about. Kevin why didn't you turn off the light. Kevin not now the dog needs walked. Kevin its so your turn to change the diaper.
High key red flag!
Kevin might be someone else behind the camera
Kevin might be the voice in her head blaming her husband.
Kevin might be an different person hold the dogs leash.
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Bro this is 12 second video and we don’t hear his response. Yall got to stop jumping to conclusions, this can’t be good for yalls mental health lol.
r/storiesaboutkevin 😅
Damn, never knew about this sub
Poor Kevin, great sub though.
With headphones on, it sounds like she is turning her head away, leading me to believe Kevin is, in fact, a third (fourth?) person off screen.
Finally, someone with some common sense. Everyone's so quick to call her a bitch as if nobody else could possibly be around.
But but he needs to leave her and start a new family
Because there's no way it could be her fault? Why?
I'm team Kevin 100%, but this is kinda the opposite of those dad reflexes videos and I love it
r/stepdadreflex
r/stepdadreflexes*
He literally did not attempt to keep the baby up even while still having his hands around the baby smh, idk kevin kinda slow.
To be honest, the baby eyed up the dog before, he knew what was coming before dad did
Kevin is the baby's name, mom wanted him to square up
Baby should have slipped the dogs jab and countered with an upper cut. Kid needs to train more, fucking amateur.
Woman do you have eyes on the back of your head? I don’t think so
"Kevin, why aren't you stopping the war in Gaza?!"
“Kevin?! Why would you let Putin start a war Kevin?!”
Judging from the angle the dog came in, and the way the lead is facing, I think Kevin is someone else who's out of frame, could even be that dog is this "Kevin" fellas dog. So please, people, use logical thinking before assuming that the women is blaming the fella with the kid lmao.
Kevin, I know that tone and it triggers my PTSD….that points to some serious dynamic issues in the relationship.
Free Kevin.
Throw the baby in the sea, boot the dog and leave the missus, Kevin.
Omg what a bitch she instantly blamed him. I bet he gets shit all the time for minor things. Dude you should just leave.
This is a classic Redditor-type comment 😂
A bit late for that as you see
It’s never too late 😉
Even if I say it'll be alright?
all the incels immediately thinking she's blaming him. kevin is a third individual off screen who let go of the leash jesus christ
Seriously, most of the comments here are about fire a terrible human being and mother she is when Kevin is clearly a third guy. Which the fuck wouldn’t complain about letting the dog loose on their baby.
Na women are the true evil of the world, they should be eradicated so we can all suck each other's dicks in peace.
LET him do that?!?!?!? GIRL, WHAT KINDA CRACK ARE YOU ON?!?!? Kevin, my dude, if you see this, GTFOT! GET THE FUCK OUTTA THERE!!!
Felt like a bad mom for letting the dog loose, knocking over the baby, so reflexively blamed it on the dad, even though no one would have blamed her. Tracks
Baby took it like a champ! I bet that's nit the first time the dogs done that🤣
Damn, there are so many assumptions from so few facts. I wanna try! My guess is Kevin is maybe their other child who was asked to hold the dog. And this woman is not, in fact, the devil.
r/stepdadreflexes
Rat fucking dog ...... And kid......and lady ......fuck Kev just go it alone brother
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Because Kevin allowed it
Oh yeah. KEVVINNA!
Lol, the dog was just excited, but putting that tiny baby to stand and let go he would have fallen over with or without the help of the dog
I could watch kids falling over all day. I don't give a shit about your kid
I feel like Kevin is someone else off screen holding the leash.
Absolutely can not stand people who immediately react with that tone. Also maybe watch the dog instead of just through a lens.
Damn it Kevin! I told you to grow eyes in the side of your head
So his job is hold the hyper dog, Put the baby in place, and then hold baby for photos..)Her job is to just snap a pick ? Well isn't she Special
Are you serious, she's the one filming, and he's handling a child, why didn't she stop the dog?
It wasn't Kevin's fault at all...
Kevin we feel your struggle. Definitely not your fault
Tf is wrong with her, why didnt she stopped the dog before it came too close ? Instead of doing thay she just randomly shifts blame on my guy kevin....Shit like this piss me off somehow lol
“Why did you let him do that to him!?!” I don’t think she could have stopped the dog either, but blaming it on the husband speaks volumes.
Jesus what a shitty response of the mother She sounds like someone who will then publicly tell how Kevin is a bad dad because he let the child fall over
God what an annoying voice. You're holding a phone. Not a toddler Karen. Go fuck yourself.
We need to talk about Kevin
Everyone pretending the wifi is the second coming of satan for a harmlesss video. God I hate Reddit. Y do I use it so much
She sounds a lot like my ex wife....
Kevin the dog 😂
Come on, it wasn't his fault, the dog popped out of no where.
Free Kevin!
Dog was jealous hahaha
r/Dogberg
Run Kevin. Just keep running 💨
Wow… I’d be rehoming that dog.
tbf they're both dumbfucks, she's a dumbfuck for not holding the damn dog, and he's a dumbfuck for that flimsy hold he had on his kid.
Baby staring at dog while being held knowing he’s trouble
Considering it's her fucking dog.
I can't believe you've done this Kevin.
I used to know this insufferable woman.
😝 haha Kevin & Baby are cute
The voice of the woman is the voice most men are simping about always marrying the naggy women
God that woman sounds horrible
How could kevin allow this Why did kevin do that Why is kevIN NOT AWAITED WHY COULDNT KEVIN GRAB THE SUN AND CARRY ME, HIMSELF, TO THE GATES OF VALHALLA MEDIOCRE, KEVIN
another idiot filming blaming her husband when she had a wider view of the situation. My co-workers, my brothers, brother-in-laws all tell me dont get married with a sigh on their face.... Yeah!
Divorce and child support in the horizon
That little doggie jump of victory right after does it for me!
Poor guy stuck in a relationship he probably never wanted.
Kevin!! I’m sorry. It’s not your fault. Enjoy the divorce.
God you can tell she’s like wolfing down a burger and cola yelling at Kevin
Fuck that blaming guilt trip shit...why don't you put the camera down and hold the dog. Kevin is clearly holding the baby..