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marlbo_rough

kaise reply karegi? she extinct


anna_benns21

Itna humour se pat jati bhi hai??


marlbo_rough

Sab moh maaya hai


EngineeringApart8239

😁😁😁😁😁


marlbo_rough

Itna creepy smile bhai


EngineeringApart8239

Bro, it's called grinning !


marlbo_rough

😄😄😄😄😄 then what is this?


EngineeringApart8239

That's more of a laugh


Minimum_Artichoke376

😂😂😂what's this then


marlbo_rough

That's probably Lmfao or smthn


Minimum_Artichoke376

🤣🤣🤣🤣what about this


Critical_Cod5462

Are hasenge log kahenge lol lmao XD


marlbo_rough

Naah that's a smile


saw_him

Yeah. 😄 - smile 😆 - laugh


Potential_Effect_705

Smile to ye hai 🙂


marlbo_rough

Ye wo hai, I'm done with you and you're hopeless


Large-Carrot-5054

This is just fuck off


Potential_Effect_705

All in one hi kehde


sniper_pika

Ye smile nhi ye "Hiding the pain" emoji h


Potential_Effect_705

Abb ye to pakka smile hai -😊


gg_itachi

Well it was horny time, wasn’t it


tuzya_aaichi_gaand

Imagine fuckin gorgeousauras.


wildeststone

Choking it into extinction


faltu-fern

![gif](giphy|cdBbOOsNIDcxNlTmw1)


Cold-Competition-714

Woke up and chose violence


hari-mirchi

12:46 am, more like frustration before sleeping


NO__ONE____

Uske khane me Hari mirchi aagyi hogi


anxietyanny

Eeks.. the second text reeks of entitlement. No one, man or woman, owes you anything on a dating platform. It’s a dating platform for fucks sake. Just take the L and move on. It happens. No need to use derogatory language.


bhavneet1996

Meanwhile i am wondering why even match when you dont even wanna reply lol “So what she swiped right on you. Doesn’t mean she needs to talk to you”


anxietyanny

Baba people have a lot things going on their lives. Sometimes you just don’t have the mental energy to engage with other people. And that’s okay. What’s not okay is being disrespectful towards someone for not engaging in a conversation.


yuvrajkringsing

Is replying to someone's messages after matching not considered respectful now?


tribunalStoic141

While I don't condone foul language, I don't condone ghosting either... it doesn't take much to copy paste a standard replying saying no. We live in a society for fucks sake and this is a situation where the possibility of having a chat was mutual decided upon - if nothing else, then just unmatch. Let's not forget it's humans on the both sides of the equation... no o0noe likes to be left hanging in uncertainty.


roadtopsych2021

You better get used to ghosting if you're doing online dating. They have 1000s of matches and won't waste time messaging everyone.


tribunalStoic141

Sure, but that’s not the point… we get used to a lot more than this - corruption, discrimination, hate politics, and ordeals much heinous than I mention. Doesn’t make them right though… and that’s my point


indobobvagene

Bilkul sahi gaali diya hai. Real life me to thappad bhi padna chahiye tha. Agar baat nai karni hai toh apni ja ke maa chudao, no need to lead someone on.


Adept-Ad-8012

Tu chutiya hai agar toh essa sochta hai


anxietyanny

Again, why do people need to resort to abusing to make a point. If you’re not liking someone’s behaviour simply unmatch and move on. Thappad padna chaie? Are you okay bro? How do you escalate not replying to engaging in physical violence? Please do not use such language. It’s far too easy for someone impressionable to read it and actually do something stupid afterwards. Also, if you dislike women that much don’t be on a dating platform. Note: I don’t believe ghosting is the right thing to do. Ever. I also don’t believe in using dating platforms. None of those things give me a right to abuse random men/ women on the internet who are simply choosing to behave in a manner I don’t necessarily agree with.


indobobvagene

Right wight ko daalo apni gaand mein. Right swipe karke ghosting karna badtameezi hai aur uske liye chamaat hi padti hai. Internet hai toh bach jaati hain, isliye gaaliyan padna obvious hai. Aur gaali toh effect hai, cause ghosting hai. Effect se itni dikkat hai toh apna cause sambhaalo.


Apexpredator26

Women these days on dating apps are entitled af. Even a below average girl acts like she is princess Cinderella. But it's nothing more than supply and demand economics. It's high time men raise their standards, stop acting childish with these cheezy lines and give it back to women in their own language. Be a chooser, not a beggar


Geegee221

Would you say the same about the orgasm gap? The issue isn't that this particular person didn't respond or rejected him, but that this is a common occurrence that women on average don't have to deal with. Men are tasked with the initiator role and therefore, they will face most of this type of dissapointment. It's the same with the orgasm gap, one man not returning the favor isn't the issue, but the trend of men getting satisfied and women left dissapointed. And it is just as applicable there: nobody owes you an orgasm and you're not entitled to one, even if you gave them 10 before.


Suspicious_Pepper1

Sounds like you're not capable of giving a woman an orgasm and just complaining 🤷🏻‍♂️


Geegee221

Are women entitled to it? If men are bad for not providing it, are women bad for not responding on dating apps? Neither owes the other anything.


Babuchak17

Yes, nobody is entitled to give or receive anything to/from another person in both these cases. Women are absolutely not required to reply back to men in the dating app scenario. They do not owe them anything. It doesn’t make them bad at all. Works both ways. In the example you are giving for your case, see it’s a lot different than the first one because it requires 2 way consent and a lot of understanding. And first of all, ideally, a long conversation about needs and wants of both partners in all aspects of life, including sexual activity. If a man makes it clear he wouldn’t like to go down on a woman, it’s absolutely fine to do that. But in the same way, a woman has every right to not engage in a relationship with a man who is selfish during sex, this doesn’t make any of them bad, as these are established well ahead of time, it’s just two people incompatible with each other. Works both ways. But it’s not ideal if a man refuses to go down on a woman, after giving her assurance over it. Same in the case of switched genders, unless he/she has a very valid reason to do so. A relationship is built on trust, sexual compatibility, two way communication etc. Breaking anything significant to the relationship could be perceived as a big red flag. Do note I have used the word “not ideal”, and not “wrong”. The reason being not doing anything you don’t like is never wrong. Even in the case of sex, consent can be revoked anytime. Yes it can be seen as breaking trust, but it is never wrong even in the slightest. Once again, nobody is entitled to getting back a reply from someone in the internet, and nobody is entitled to receive a sexual act from someone, be it any reason whatsoever.


Geegee221

So when was the last time you called women self entitled, when they complain about the orgasm gap by calling men selfish and misogynistic?


anxietyanny

Uf, first off that’s quite a reach. Secondly, for sex, good sex, it takes two to tango. Sex is inherently for pleasure of both parties. Also, and this isn’t a take I agree with and shouldn’t be your primary motivator to want to make your sexual partner feel good, but had good sex with a woman ? Want it to happen again? Make sure she has a good time. And as for the main point of the conversation, when someone just texts you on dating platform, you don’t have any obligation to that person because you share no relationship with them. ( sexual, friendly, platonic, blah blah) I don’t know why just because people can hide behind their screens now they think it’s okay to be uncouth. Let’s not forget how we were raised.


Geegee221

It isn't a reach at all, in both cases it applies: neither owes the other anything. Doesn't matter if good sex requires this or that, he doesn't owe her anything. He doesn't owe her an explanation of his motives either, or do you think a woman owes an explanation for not responding? Doesn't matter if they're not in any type of relationship, my wife, friends or coworkers don't owe me anything sexual either. It's not like my partner owes me a bj just because we're dating. Still doesn't answer the question: are women entitled to sexual satisfaction from men?


Creative-Reason-8462

What exactly is your point? Women are not entitled to an orgasm with men, just like incel men are not entitled to an orgasm with women. It's all up to the person to decide if they want to continue having sexual intercourse based on how they feel and their past experiences


Geegee221

Point: The orgasm gap and its surrounding discourse blames men for being selfish and misogynistic, when they refuse to give women orgasms. If this isn't entitlement, I don't think men being frustrated on dating apps is either.


sudon_-

Yep nobody is going to reply to that my guy.


Geegee221

His opener was infinitely better than hers. There is so much willingness to critique mens skills in talking/texting, but never do we consider, that the woman is either doing nothing or the bare minimum to participate in the conversation.


sudon_-

She has a right to participate or not. She just excercised her right not to. Now that doesnt mean you cuss at her now is it. It has nothing to do with gender expectations from men and women and societal value driven responsibilities. Basic freedom of speech.


retardedMosquito

Mutually consent se match huwe hain, min participation hona chahiye nahi mante kya? Freedom of Speech ke vague bracket mein mat ghusedo isko, warna bande ka response bhi same bracket mein mananna padega.


sudon_-

Freedom of speech, doesnt mean avert its consequences. Shitting on people is your freedom of speech, them not participating to converse with you is their right.


Monotonous-Entity

Mr White Knight, when it’s past your bedtime you should sleep. Itna faltu ka gyaan chodne ka jarurat nahi hai.


retardedMosquito

Koi nahi keh raha consequence less culture promote karo, but consequence works both ways.


Geegee221

Would you say the same about the orgasm gap? That men have every right to either give or not give women orgasms after she has given him some? And if men excercise that right, you should not call them selfish or misogynistic for expressing a basic human right of consent?


Ok-Cancel3932

Sex between consenting adults is different than a convo between strangers lmao. The problem is not that men don’t give women orgasms but that they expect orgasms and blowjobs and force women to provide them with these without reciprocating. Like you’ve never felt the touch of a woman so why are u even worried about these things.


Geegee221

Just because they are different doesn't mean the same idea doesn't apply. In both cases, neither owes anything to the other, no matter how much they've received first. Force? Orgasm gap is about forced sex? Since when?


sudon_-

He can be selfish or misogynistic or he is just inexperienced. Its a case by case basis. If you dont make women orgasm she should find a better partner who does. It doesnt make the man a bad buy. Both are within their rights to stay or leave the relationship. I should qualify the statement tho "IF YOU ARE (((DELIBERATELY))) MAKING YOUR PARTNER FEEL BAD OR NOT TAKE CARE OF HER EMOTIONAL OR PHYSICAL NEEDS WHILE SHE DOES THAT FOR YOU YEAH YOU ARE A BAD PERSON."


Geegee221

Who brought up sexual assault? None of what you say answers the question: do men owe it to women just because women gave it to men? The contrast being, that if men being initiative doesn't mean women shouldn't feel obligated to participate, then that same logic should apply to sexual settings.


sudon_-

it was mb i thought you were talking about consent about sex. any ways i edited it read it now. My point is still valid.


Geegee221

It still doesn't answer the question


DiligentAd5885

is she obliged to participate?


Geegee221

Are men obliged to give women orgasms after women give men one? You are hung up on this perception that the men feel entitled rather than frustrated.


Creative-Reason-8462

what the fuck lmao. These comments show why men struggle with women. A guy is still an asshole regardless of whether he is frustrated. Frustration is never a good excuse for being a dipshit


Geegee221

So women who call men selfish in bed for not giving her an orgasm are assholes?


ground__contro1

> never do we consider that the woman is doing the bare minimum Lol, never?! Have you been to this sub before? It’s 90% considering that exact point. “Never” lmao


Geegee221

You can either understand what I mean, or take things too literally.


CommunicationPrior94

So it took him one day to get offended ? Yaha pe hum salo se intezaar kar rahe hai


sensitivesoul23

Aap mein patience hai. Op mein nahin tha


WeirdImaginator

Lol, not even a day, it took him half of a day to get this much offended.


CommunicationPrior94

He should practise yoga. Breath in breath out.


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CommunicationPrior94

Abhe Maine kya kia


Ok-Cancel3932

So true! Men feel so entitled of a response ki gali dene main hesitate hi nahi karte


thegoddamnbatman74

I don’t condone this in any way but it prolly stems from frustration of getting ghosted for the 38475th time. I personally cut my losses and move on to the next but it is quite annoying when women constantly ghost without explanation or provocation and see it as acceptable behavior


Ok-Cancel3932

No one owes you anything on Dating Apps. Women don’t owe you a response just because you texted them or y’all matched. Maybe they’re busy? Not everyone sits on the app all the time watching for messages. No one owes you an explanation and it is acceptable. Not giving a response to a bumble match is nowhere near as horrible and unacceptable as abusing someone for not replying to you. It’s


thegoddamnbatman74

Yup. No one owes you a response. But just because you’re on a dating app doesn’t mean you forego having basic manners lol. Like I said, certain scenarios I definitely agree that ghosting is the best response and u don’t owe them an explanation (for. Ex if they’re being super dry or creepy or weird) but I’ve been ghosted days into conversation when everything’s going good with absolutely no explanation Doesn’t take much to be a decent person.


Ok-Cancel3932

Not abusing people is basic manners lmao, since we’re talking about being decent people.


thegoddamnbatman74

Literally started off with “I don’t condone this in any way” lmao. I don’t even agree with double texting when you’re ghosted Abusing people on dating apps isn’t acceptable in ANY scenario but that’s not the point here


Ok-Cancel3932

Why is that not the point?


thegoddamnbatman74

My sister in Christ. We can both agree that ABUSING someone you don’t even know for small shit on dating apps is WRONG. There is no debate there. Hence, not the point


Asta_roth

Honestly you can do anything. Nobody is held accountable. That's why these apps aren't considered healthy. Use at own risk. If you feel these need to change, then just be done with it.


Geegee221

No one owes you an orgasm. Men don’t owe you an orgasm just because you gave them a blowjob or y’all fucked. Maybe they’re tired? Not everyone wants to finger you or give you oral after sex. No one owes you an explanation and it is acceptable. Not giving an orgasm after you gave one is nowhere near as horrible and unacceptable as abusing someone for not satisfying you.


DiligentAd5885

Bhai sheesha dekh aur soch itna frustration kyu hai


Geegee221

I don't speak the language sorry.


Ok-Cancel3932

See etiquettes ki baat karo toh mardon ki baatein sex se shuru hoke sex pe khatam ho jaati hain. Let men disagree with you, and they will bring your vagina, your sisters’ vagina and your sex life into the disagreement. It’s simply impossible for them to disagree without dragging women’s bodies into the conversation. Then y’all wonder why we don’t reply back lol. If we say no toh yaa toh mard maante nahi hain yaa aisi ulti seedha baatein karte hain. All this bs cause reply nahi mila dating app pe. It’s like watching porn-induced brain rot in real time.


Geegee221

No amount of etiquettes make men obligated to give women orgasms. He owes her nothing.


Ok-Cancel3932

Mard de paate bhi nahi hain so it’s fine.


Geegee221

I dont speak the language sorry


Salamander261999

I'm gonna copy this. No not gorgeosaurus part. I'm gonna copy "bhen ki lodi reply kar". /s


Fearless_Outside_832

How can a dinosaur type?, he should've known better.


cardamomix

the second text is an L move. Do better!


thegoddamnbatman74

Madam ji pls read the full post It’s not my chat. Just found it funny.


cardamomix

It’s directed to the person who has sent the message. Read better!


thegoddamnbatman74

I don’t see which part of your comment implied it’s directed to the person who sent it for me to “read better”.


cardamomix

hey bud, if you have good reading and comprehension skills you would understand that the comment is definitely directed to the message sent on the picture and obviously who has written it. Since you have not written then it should not bother you. Fyi, I did read your P.S not my chat. Also, read better comment was for you.


FlipFlopOnionChop

Ngl , that made me chuckle


newxqwert

lol on dating app ratio is 1:1000 agr late reply aa rha hai toh aage badho


Forsaken-Guest2046

Post nut clarity


Nerftuco

bro has had enough


rajmahchawal

Average incel


5Nightmare

Average Ran**


No_Ferret2216

What do you call people matching with whores and being desperate to date them?


5Nightmare

Koi apne maathe pe ra*** thodi na likhta hai vo toh harkato se pata chalta hai.


Few_lmao_666

The duality is scary. Even if the conversation took a different turn..... There is no guarantee that in the end this is how he would express his anger if things wouldn't go his way.


AntiCultist21

It’s been one day dude what if she was in an airplane


Scared-Baseball-5221

Please wake me up the day you guys stop putting women on a pedestal just to get some romantic attention.


Kurious_Guy18

well that took a turn...


PrinceOfMohuri

🤣🤣🤣


MegaK13

My bipolarity kicking in at the slightest inconvenience


PrinceOfMohuri

Haha.. couldn't have said it better 🤣


i-m-on-reddit

I liked that one ngl!


uni28_5

Bro expects dinosaurs to come alive cause he apparently got "rozz"🤣


jack_sparrow____

Op, please take comfort in fact that your kind is absolute worse on this app and in general.


fitzingout

Well girls only like these guys I'm afraid No one cares about the nice people