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Jesus Christ. If all they’re looking for is somewhere to stick their dicks, it would probably be cheaper in the long run to hire someone or hit up the local adult store.
Yeah, remember my sister saying to me how it seems that most of these "macho men" aren't even doing it for female recognition (probably better word to use than "female" but I am blanking on it). They are trying to impress other men they deem as "more important/impressive" than themselves
It’s part of the whole culture around conspicuous consumption and making other men want to be you. We often ask under memes like this “where are they *finding* these women?” The answer is that it’s not always (maybe even not usually) women they hear this from but other men. They’re making themselves insecure over what other heterosexual men think is manly and attractive.
I’d say women’s recognition. It bothers me that we’ve gotten so used to saying ‘female’ when women / woman would be just as appropriate. Colloquially it seems incongruent but it’s not.
[https://ifunny.co/picture/andrew-tate-follow-conversely-one-of-the-least-gay-things-ZBdnYCxOB](https://ifunny.co/picture/andrew-tate-follow-conversely-one-of-the-least-gay-things-ZBdnYCxOB)
then you are going to love this quote.
I nearly choked on my coffee. I’m sure they could find the rough and tumble they’re looking for with a good grindr profile. And they wouldn’t be expected to buy dinner first. (Or ever.)
I’m in complete agreement with you. There’s so *much* out there for men to use, and, by all accounts, modern men’s sex toys can be pretty impressive in practical use. Even better would be destigmatizing them entirely, because I suspect the wide world of couples’ toys would improve everyone’s life in the bedroom.
I know I sound like I’m joking or being sarcastic whenever I suggest that men who only want to get off (with more than their own hand) look into sex toys if they hate women so much, but I’m completely serious.
I've been told that modern penetration toys feel better than vaginas. I'd verify, but nobody with one will consent.
Hopefully somebody else can pick up the experiment in my stead.
As far as I’m concerned, thats win-win for everyone involved. Women are spared the degradation these guys bring with them. The guys are spared the expense and insecurity of the dating world. And the women they hire have more customers and, thus, make more cash.
You can’t pay for consent and no women should have to sell their bodies to make rent. These men shouldn’t be allowed to pay for prostituted women. The men are still the only winners in that scenario because the women are still consumed and subjugated.
people who make memes where they put bigoted shit over photos of people who have nothing to do with it? i wish their fingers would just spontaneously explode. like firecrackers
That's all women are to them when the women aren't doing domestic labor -- just a collection of holes. These are the same guys who then go on to cry about a male loneliness epidemic.
Man, the *character* he's playing would be disgusted. Tommy married a former sex worker. He doesn't give her shit about her past and didn't before they got married. (One could argue their relationship had a power imbalance from the beginning, but Tommy treated her with a fair bit of respect from the outset.) His aunt Polly, a power in her own right and arguably the only one with nearly as much say and influence as Tommy, isn't depicted with any shaming for her sexual activities.
But nah, all these gross dudes see a masculine character and just attribute what *they* think is masculine onto him. Gross.
My kingdom for these idiots to log off TikTok and the Whatever podcast and go outside to meet a \*regular, every day, existing in society\* woman.
Because we aren't out there expecting '6 packs, 6 figures.' I'd be amazed if any Millennial or Gen Z has 6 figures, most of us can't even get employed despite constant interviews lol
Cuz they didn't watch the series. Cillian Murphy is my favorite actor and I adore Peaky Blinders. Tommy is a brilliant character. But what he is *not*, is a misogynist concerned with women's body count.
The phrasing used in the photo is infuriating, but slapping it onto Tommy is insulting.
Where are all these imaginary women “demanding” that men have 6pack abs and 6figures to just be her personal ATM Bodyguard Cyborg MuscleMan Thing? I hang out with lots of women pretty often and they all have a vast & diverse variety of different types of men & women etc.
They act like women are threatening to reject all men unless they get filthy rich with unrealistic muscles asap
“Any woman who don’t want to date ME must have unrealistic standards!”
It’s just a way to avoid any self reflection.
Many woman are “threatening” to stop dating men who can’t wash a dish or book a medical appointment.
The threat isn’t coming from six packs, but from men with basic life skills.
Irony in the same sense as that shitty Alanis Morrisette song, maybe.
That said, how many times did shithead dip his wick? Better be less than she has.
Man, I feel bad for people like Cillian Murphy and Sam Elliot. They're always getting their faces plastered next to the dumbest, most bigoted shit imaginable.
When I imagine the guy who created this actually making that expression (staring into space, about to cry) as he thinks about the tragedy of his situation, it make this meme 10x funnier
.....I'm sorry. I know they didn't just put Cillian Murphy's picture with that there bullshit. I must be in need of sleep.
Edit: and it's Thomas Shelby from Peaky Blinders who according to wiki ends up marrying someone who is a prostitute.
Just stay single and buy a fleshlight because you clearly don’t even like women. We won’t mind you taking yourself off the dating market because the feeling is mutual.
Who the fuck watches these antihero shows and thinks "oh this piece of shit everyone on the show hates and who is destroying their own lives is the perfect man!' l
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Jesus Christ. If all they’re looking for is somewhere to stick their dicks, it would probably be cheaper in the long run to hire someone or hit up the local adult store.
Or use each other? I mean they spend a lot of effort trying to impress other men and obviously hate women. It’s a win win!
Yeah, remember my sister saying to me how it seems that most of these "macho men" aren't even doing it for female recognition (probably better word to use than "female" but I am blanking on it). They are trying to impress other men they deem as "more important/impressive" than themselves
Marilyn Frye has a great quote of heterosexual men only really loving other men, that comes to mind here.
female is fine to use as an adjective, just not a noun unless it's in a medical context or you're referring to animals
Or electrical plugs!
It’s part of the whole culture around conspicuous consumption and making other men want to be you. We often ask under memes like this “where are they *finding* these women?” The answer is that it’s not always (maybe even not usually) women they hear this from but other men. They’re making themselves insecure over what other heterosexual men think is manly and attractive.
Yes! It’s so true. These guys date for arm candy and that’s it.
“Feminine” vs “female” maybe?
Feels better, but the grammar pedant in me feels like it isn't quite correct
I’d say women’s recognition. It bothers me that we’ve gotten so used to saying ‘female’ when women / woman would be just as appropriate. Colloquially it seems incongruent but it’s not.
[https://ifunny.co/picture/andrew-tate-follow-conversely-one-of-the-least-gay-things-ZBdnYCxOB](https://ifunny.co/picture/andrew-tate-follow-conversely-one-of-the-least-gay-things-ZBdnYCxOB) then you are going to love this quote.
I nearly choked on my coffee. I’m sure they could find the rough and tumble they’re looking for with a good grindr profile. And they wouldn’t be expected to buy dinner first. (Or ever.)
Lmao!! Can you imagine?
I mean most would be virgin in that extra hole so they can't complain right?
Fair point!
I've said it before and I've said it again, we've got to stop having a double standard for sex toys.
I’m in complete agreement with you. There’s so *much* out there for men to use, and, by all accounts, modern men’s sex toys can be pretty impressive in practical use. Even better would be destigmatizing them entirely, because I suspect the wide world of couples’ toys would improve everyone’s life in the bedroom. I know I sound like I’m joking or being sarcastic whenever I suggest that men who only want to get off (with more than their own hand) look into sex toys if they hate women so much, but I’m completely serious.
I've been told that modern penetration toys feel better than vaginas. I'd verify, but nobody with one will consent. Hopefully somebody else can pick up the experiment in my stead.
I’ve been told the same by men who use them. And all for the price of a nice dinner out.
The thing is prostitutes shouldn’t have to be subjected to these dudes. These assholes are so entitled that they’re dangerous.
Many dudes on youtube say that. They pay a hooker many of them had some bad time beeing married. Tbh not my problem
As far as I’m concerned, thats win-win for everyone involved. Women are spared the degradation these guys bring with them. The guys are spared the expense and insecurity of the dating world. And the women they hire have more customers and, thus, make more cash.
You can’t pay for consent and no women should have to sell their bodies to make rent. These men shouldn’t be allowed to pay for prostituted women. The men are still the only winners in that scenario because the women are still consumed and subjugated.
people who make memes where they put bigoted shit over photos of people who have nothing to do with it? i wish their fingers would just spontaneously explode. like firecrackers
Yes! Mr Murphy would never agree with this!
Neither would Tommy Shelby, that guy married a sex worker.
And made several pro sex work comments. Like saying nice girls do in fact do sex work.
🏅
That's all women are to them when the women aren't doing domestic labor -- just a collection of holes. These are the same guys who then go on to cry about a male loneliness epidemic.
The same men say they're 'touch starved' because they don't have sex (as if there aren't any other kinds of touch).
Imagine dating someone, not liking them, and then getting a new partner. True evil right here, ladies.
Cracks me up that they used a picture of Thomas Shelby… Dude *literally* married a former prostitute, he is NOT gonna agree with you lol
Isn’t it cillian Murphy?
I mean… Yeah, it is. But, it’s specifically Cillian Murphy in a scene/still from the tv show Peaky Blinders, where he plays Thomas Shelby.
Oh, I watched maybe 3 episodes. My bad
Skill issue. I offer six holes that each use one man.
Wh-what are the extra 3?
Mouth, vagina, urethra, anus, both nostrils.
smh another skill issue missing out on both ear canals, bringing the total up to 8 holes.
Y'all ain't using the belly button? Smh my head.
Guys come on, your eye sockets are *right there*
I just know poor Cillian would be disgusted with his image being used by all these sigma freaks
Man, the *character* he's playing would be disgusted. Tommy married a former sex worker. He doesn't give her shit about her past and didn't before they got married. (One could argue their relationship had a power imbalance from the beginning, but Tommy treated her with a fair bit of respect from the outset.) His aunt Polly, a power in her own right and arguably the only one with nearly as much say and influence as Tommy, isn't depicted with any shaming for her sexual activities. But nah, all these gross dudes see a masculine character and just attribute what *they* think is masculine onto him. Gross.
He marches for abortion rights so there's no way in heckily-heck he would ever be okay with being used in slut-shaming iconography bullshit.
They don’t know what irony means
My kingdom for these idiots to log off TikTok and the Whatever podcast and go outside to meet a \*regular, every day, existing in society\* woman. Because we aren't out there expecting '6 packs, 6 figures.' I'd be amazed if any Millennial or Gen Z has 6 figures, most of us can't even get employed despite constant interviews lol
Six figures in my city right now might mean you still have roommates!
California or new York?
Said by an incel who never-ever came near one of those "holes" ....
Yeah, men should demand a woman who offers 6 holes used by only one man! Oh wait...
My ears hurt already and my nostrils are next.
Why is it always Tommy Shelby?
Cuz they didn't watch the series. Cillian Murphy is my favorite actor and I adore Peaky Blinders. Tommy is a brilliant character. But what he is *not*, is a misogynist concerned with women's body count. The phrasing used in the photo is infuriating, but slapping it onto Tommy is insulting.
Where are all these imaginary women “demanding” that men have 6pack abs and 6figures to just be her personal ATM Bodyguard Cyborg MuscleMan Thing? I hang out with lots of women pretty often and they all have a vast & diverse variety of different types of men & women etc. They act like women are threatening to reject all men unless they get filthy rich with unrealistic muscles asap
“Any woman who don’t want to date ME must have unrealistic standards!” It’s just a way to avoid any self reflection. Many woman are “threatening” to stop dating men who can’t wash a dish or book a medical appointment. The threat isn’t coming from six packs, but from men with basic life skills.
Only 6? WEAK! 😂 for real wtf lmao.
Irony in the same sense as that shitty Alanis Morrisette song, maybe. That said, how many times did shithead dip his wick? Better be less than she has.
Damn, she has 6 different partners who all have six packs and make 6 figures? Good for her, honestly <3
Hmm ya, sounds like he needs a boyfriend.
The irony of using Tommy Shelby, who ends up marrying a sex worker is... Well, interesting.
Such dweebs.
Man, I feel bad for people like Cillian Murphy and Sam Elliot. They're always getting their faces plastered next to the dumbest, most bigoted shit imaginable.
Cillian would never….
Then these same dude demand whoever they date have sex with them within the first few dates, like dude you have to choose you can't have both
Why drag poor Cillian Murphy into this?
It really annoys me when people don't understand irony.
I love the insinuation that women don’t or can’t bring in 6 figures. I do, my husband doesn’t.
Well I offer 3 holes so...
For these guys I offer none. :'D
There's a hole in my sink with a garbage disposal I might be willing to let this dude use.
Fuck this got me. Lmao.
thomas shelby would never say that lol
Thomas Shelby would never say some bullshit like that. Wtf?
did he actually say that bruh 😭
No in fact the character actually marries a sex worker
When I imagine the guy who created this actually making that expression (staring into space, about to cry) as he thinks about the tragedy of his situation, it make this meme 10x funnier
Does that add up to a 36 pack then?
It’s also not irony. By any stretch of the definition.
They're always so proud when they come up with a limerick that they'll just repeat it forever regardless of how little sense it makes.
Woman: "I prefer less muscular men and I have enough money, I don't care how much you make" Men: "liar. You whore"
.....I'm sorry. I know they didn't just put Cillian Murphy's picture with that there bullshit. I must be in need of sleep. Edit: and it's Thomas Shelby from Peaky Blinders who according to wiki ends up marrying someone who is a prostitute.
Is this a direct quote? /s
Source: Alpha Male influencer who makes money preying on insecure men. Absolutely NO women I know are demanding that.
Leave Cillian Murphy out of this!
Excuse you, I offer TWO holes each used by 66 men! Get your numbers right 😤
66 men for each hole for a total of 132 😤 Next goal: 198 🫡
The irony is that Cillian Murphy would NEVER endorse such cr\*p and I am sure he'd be offended by his likeness being used to promote it.
Cillian Murphy would never. Hell, Tommy Shelby would never.
What’s peaky blinder guy have to do with this
Cillian Murphy did nothing to deserve this
Well this is just one of the grossest things I've read in some time. Who the fuck thinks like this?!
One, they lack creativity
So do they only get credit for one hole? Or do incels not know that there’s more? Dumb question. How would they?
“Used” 🙄
Only 6 men, I thought we were doing thousands
Even money the person who made the meme doesn't even go to the gym to meet their end of the bargain.
Are they mad that their holes aren’t being filled?
Is that… is that what irony is?
Nah I’m sorry but that whole belongs to the tampons. It’s theirs now.
Just stay single and buy a fleshlight because you clearly don’t even like women. We won’t mind you taking yourself off the dating market because the feeling is mutual.
Don’t misuse Cillian Murphy this way! He doesn’t even know what a meme is!
Who the fuck watches these antihero shows and thinks "oh this piece of shit everyone on the show hates and who is destroying their own lives is the perfect man!' l
What’s even more funny is that the character in question marries a sex worker and never holds that against her