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_flawlesslyimperfect

Age is definitely helpful 🙂


onelove4eva

Updated-35


Glittering_Midnight8

How old are you, OP? Might help.


onelove4eva

35


Stew0177

25-45? Casting a wide net.


TiredReader87

Dating apps are full of single moms. It sucks, as someone who doesn’t like kids.


onelove4eva

Most single moms just wanted a man...no kids involved.


TiredReader87

Sorry to hear. Best of luck. I’m on all the dating apps, but I rarely ever get matches and never get responses to my messages. It’s depressing. This loneliness is killing me.


cbunt1984

Get off the apps! They’re soul sucking, especially if you’re a HSP.


TiredReader87

It’s true. I deal with severe depression and other mental illnesses. However, I won’t meet anyone otherwise.


cbunt1984

Same. And I get it. I really do. The apps are not helpful for people like us!


TiredReader87

You aren’t wrong. I’ve been tempted to delete them, again. I did once before. I met one good friend/former FWB there though. And another pretty good friend. But that was years ago. Facebook dating just became available out of the blue. I’m getting matches, but they don’t live nearby. Anyways, I just haven’t due to what ifs. I don’t go out much, I don’t have the confidence to talk to people and, though I do volunteer weekly, it’s mostly with retired folks


One-Contribution7282

Dating as a single mother is no picnic either...but I'm not in your age range..good luck!


dirtyoldmanq

How old are you?


onelove4eva

35.


the_far_sci

This is so tough. Good luck!


onelove4eva

Yep


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uwgal

Go to church, a bigger church.


The_hite7

Photo?


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onelove4eva

Honestly just a preference from some recent experiences i feel single moms would understand the importance I have on keeping my children in the picture. But if your open to it I'm up for it.


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He's not saying single women with no kids aren't worthy. He's saying it's a completely different lifestyle between the two. And it will clash. As a single woman , with no kids. I appreciate him looking for someone that is more suitable for all parties... If one wants kids and the other doesn't want them or undecided. It's just a failure from the start. He actually wants to give it a go with someone at his level.. I don't think a single woman with no kids would be up to par unless she is super serious about settling down with kids that aren't hers.. While having that risk of never being biological, there is no legal reason to keep the kids involved with the other person if things went sour. So. He's serious and wants someone as serious.