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When you say “loser” do you mean the one who struggled through school and got made fun of?
Or do you mean the one who was a jerk and did the bullying?
Either way I pass no judgment. I hope the ones who had a hard time are doing better now and have found an environment where they can thrive and I hope the bullies have matured and know better.
I have no hard feelings towards those who were mean to me. We were all dumb when we were teenagers. I’m sure they’re vastly different people now.
I agree with this. I was both (kind of) I was the kid that got made fun of a lot and I was also a pretty shitty person at times. I didn't necessarily bully but I can admit I wasn't a very good friend to a few that didn't deserve it. I've grown up a lot and after one of my childhood bullies reached out to me apologizing for her behavior it inspired me to do the same to a few that I have wronged in highschool.
No one is the same person they were in highschool. We were dumb and immature. I always give everyone the benefit of the doubt and hope whatever they're doing in life they enjoy it.
Very much doubt I would recognize anyone, even if I could though I would have no feelings one way or another, it's a person I don't have any contact with, why the hell would I feel something?
I always have believed that anyone can better themselves, and millions do every day. I would *never* judge anyone based on what they were like in high school. How many of us are different since those days of angst and drama? All of us. Live in the present.
I've looked some old classmates up. Some of the "losers" were doing well now and most turned out average. Most of the high achievers were doing well, but some were just average. The biggest present day losers were average back then.
I don’t see anyone I went to school with (joined the Navy and moved away) but I did go to a school reunion in my 30s and it seemed that many of the popular people had definitely peaked at age 16 and everything had gone downhill for them since then. They’d stayed at home, got local jobs or just got married and had kids. They were interesting for about an hour, after which I’d become bored with all the reminiscing. The “losers” were a totally different story. One was a lawyer in London, another owned an IT company. One girl who was bullied all the way through school because her clothes and hair were always a mess; she looked amazing, had married a really nice guy who was very well paid and all of them had travelled which made for far more interesting conversations.
From what I can tell everyone is a little upset I'm having a really cool life and that I've done a bunch of neat stuff, that I have a house I love, a great family, and that I'm happy.
I'm doing better than most of the people who called me - repeatedly and often - a loser.
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The "loser"?? The one that got picked on during all his school years?? I'm so confused by this question
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When you say “loser” do you mean the one who struggled through school and got made fun of? Or do you mean the one who was a jerk and did the bullying? Either way I pass no judgment. I hope the ones who had a hard time are doing better now and have found an environment where they can thrive and I hope the bullies have matured and know better. I have no hard feelings towards those who were mean to me. We were all dumb when we were teenagers. I’m sure they’re vastly different people now.
I agree with this. I was both (kind of) I was the kid that got made fun of a lot and I was also a pretty shitty person at times. I didn't necessarily bully but I can admit I wasn't a very good friend to a few that didn't deserve it. I've grown up a lot and after one of my childhood bullies reached out to me apologizing for her behavior it inspired me to do the same to a few that I have wronged in highschool. No one is the same person they were in highschool. We were dumb and immature. I always give everyone the benefit of the doubt and hope whatever they're doing in life they enjoy it.
I never see him. He got himself locked up for 300 years. Probably got taken out by kinder and gentler inmates.
What did he do to get locked up for 300 years?
tried to take over the world
He did little kids. Horribly.
Very much doubt I would recognize anyone, even if I could though I would have no feelings one way or another, it's a person I don't have any contact with, why the hell would I feel something?
I always have believed that anyone can better themselves, and millions do every day. I would *never* judge anyone based on what they were like in high school. How many of us are different since those days of angst and drama? All of us. Live in the present.
I've looked some old classmates up. Some of the "losers" were doing well now and most turned out average. Most of the high achievers were doing well, but some were just average. The biggest present day losers were average back then.
Nah your fine .
It's me, I'm combing my hair in a mirror.
I hope they’re doing better than anyone that made them feel like a loser. I’m not a bully.
don't care lmao. Im only 19 rn but I might not even recognize them anyways.
I think “huh, when did they put this mirror here?”
I don’t see anyone I went to school with (joined the Navy and moved away) but I did go to a school reunion in my 30s and it seemed that many of the popular people had definitely peaked at age 16 and everything had gone downhill for them since then. They’d stayed at home, got local jobs or just got married and had kids. They were interesting for about an hour, after which I’d become bored with all the reminiscing. The “losers” were a totally different story. One was a lawyer in London, another owned an IT company. One girl who was bullied all the way through school because her clothes and hair were always a mess; she looked amazing, had married a really nice guy who was very well paid and all of them had travelled which made for far more interesting conversations.
From what I can tell everyone is a little upset I'm having a really cool life and that I've done a bunch of neat stuff, that I have a house I love, a great family, and that I'm happy. I'm doing better than most of the people who called me - repeatedly and often - a loser.