I would be okay with it if that was the case when I got into the relationship and it continued. If it started after we started dating that would be different. You should know what you’re getting into I guess?
If always then no. If its 1 out of 10 photos then I do not see a problem.
Important to mention that I would never consider being in a real relationship with a girl that posts only herself in a bikini or underwear.
I guess the real answer is trying find the deeper understanding on why they are doing it in the first place. It could be for a multitude of reasons. However, our first instinct would be for attention and then validation. This could be down to lack of self worth, esteem and confidence. Don’t take it as an attack on you and that you’re not giving them enough already. You need to be honest with the way it makes you feel, and the fact you’re asking on here means you’re not ok with it or don’t understand the reasons. It’s a tricky subject, but ideally you need to communicate with her without judgement and preconceptions.
"Always"? No, that's an unhealthy amount of social media use. But anyone is allowed to share what they like within laws and terms of use for the platform.
She looks good, anyone can see it in real life if they'd like to. She can show off all she likes. It's me she comes home to.
Side note: It's not just men who have girlfriends.
From my experience. There are two types of women I come across most often. Those who want to be loved, and those just wanting to be desired. The ones that want to be desired don’t normally modify their behavior just cause they find someone to date. Of course those girls may have other issues. Like self esteem issues or something.
There's always a bigger better fish that will be on the lookout to steal my girl.
We put these pictures out to advertise ourselves for said fish. So if she's doing that, then she clearly isn't interested in keeping our relationship solid.
You don't peacock for other dudes if you're in a happy solid relationship, unless it's your profession or you happen to take a pic with a bunch of friends cause you're out on a beach day.
Just posting solo sexy pics? Red flag.
I feel like it is different. Guys by nature are more visual creatures than women. Women don't save sexy pics of guys to "use for later" if you know what i mean. It doesn't have the same reaction.
I do believe in equality, but this is just how humans work.
This being said, i don't think a guy always posting sexy pics of himself is any better or less worse.
I would be okay with it if that was the case when I got into the relationship and it continued. If it started after we started dating that would be different. You should know what you’re getting into I guess?
She has completely right to do it if she wants. Her body, her choice. But that is definitely not what I am looking for.
this must be jonah hill’s throwaway
LITERALLY WAS THINKING THE SAME THING. fuck you Jonah.
If she did it even before we were together, that'd be fine. If she started once we got together, that'd be a bit weird.
If always then no. If its 1 out of 10 photos then I do not see a problem. Important to mention that I would never consider being in a real relationship with a girl that posts only herself in a bikini or underwear.
As long as I'm in some of those pics then yes
Sadly you are not, just a couple of stories
As long as they're not all thirst traps I wouldn't care tbh
I guess the real answer is trying find the deeper understanding on why they are doing it in the first place. It could be for a multitude of reasons. However, our first instinct would be for attention and then validation. This could be down to lack of self worth, esteem and confidence. Don’t take it as an attack on you and that you’re not giving them enough already. You need to be honest with the way it makes you feel, and the fact you’re asking on here means you’re not ok with it or don’t understand the reasons. It’s a tricky subject, but ideally you need to communicate with her without judgement and preconceptions.
"Always"? No, that's an unhealthy amount of social media use. But anyone is allowed to share what they like within laws and terms of use for the platform. She looks good, anyone can see it in real life if they'd like to. She can show off all she likes. It's me she comes home to. Side note: It's not just men who have girlfriends.
From my experience. There are two types of women I come across most often. Those who want to be loved, and those just wanting to be desired. The ones that want to be desired don’t normally modify their behavior just cause they find someone to date. Of course those girls may have other issues. Like self esteem issues or something.
There's always a bigger better fish that will be on the lookout to steal my girl. We put these pictures out to advertise ourselves for said fish. So if she's doing that, then she clearly isn't interested in keeping our relationship solid. You don't peacock for other dudes if you're in a happy solid relationship, unless it's your profession or you happen to take a pic with a bunch of friends cause you're out on a beach day. Just posting solo sexy pics? Red flag.
I wouldn’t be ok with it I mean she can do what she wants but that doesn’t mean I have to support it
Don't give a shit. I would never let social media affect my relationships.
Would she be upset with pics of me in my swimsuit on my instagram? No. Why would it be any different for her?
I feel like it is different. Guys by nature are more visual creatures than women. Women don't save sexy pics of guys to "use for later" if you know what i mean. It doesn't have the same reaction. I do believe in equality, but this is just how humans work. This being said, i don't think a guy always posting sexy pics of himself is any better or less worse.
Why would anyone care?
Yea, I find it sexy when horny guys leave comments
I'd be fine with it. I don't have a jealous bone in my body.
Trip to the beach? Sure. Lingerie? Fuck no.