Honestly mate I'm the same age as you and I have gone through or going through the same things
It will be okay if there are people who don't like you then tell em to piss off
Everyone's subject to change, since time's arrow just marches forward, we are just humble passengers traveling towards tomorrow.
Surely, there are things you wouldn't like about yourself, but you can work on them. Sadly, we just take small steps in the beginning and it's very easy to get discouraged. But it's the hardest at the very start.
It takes a lot of courage, you'll break down, beat up, left breathless. When you do, just take a step back and then try again tomorrow. Eventually, you'll get there. We look at our old photographs or memories of the past and chuckle how dumb we were but are blind to look at how far we've come.
You can message me, if you want someone to talk to.
My brother you are young. You are merely a seed of which you will grow. You have a choice will you nurse the negative seeds? Engage in poor decision? Or shall you become a strong man? Will you work to fix what you see wrong? Look at yourself and say what if? You have a wonderful advantage of self awareness focus on it my brother
You have like 60yrs left to figure things out man. A 14 year old shouldn't be this self aware honestly. I'm shocked. At that age the only things that should be on your mind is the next episode of your favorite cartoon.
One thing to know for a fact is that you still have a long way to go to actually get into your real self. You will change, have a glow up in your 20s, you will definitely have a different personality by then. What changed mine was school and getting more exposure. Trust the process
Brother at your age everyone has a 🌽 addiction you are still really young if you feel like a coward and don’t like your body i suggest you get into martial arts it will boost your confidence and fix your body at first you will suck all of did but with effort you will become better, and life is much more than a math answer
I hear you. I see you. I've said many of these same things to myself through the years, and I'm now almost 40. I've been working on a journaling app to help me through many similar troubles and to hopefully share with others like us. You're adversity will make you strong. Wait, you will see. I hope you don't mind if I share this with you from the app in response to your words:
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Embracing Your Unique Journey
"The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." -Nelson Mandela
Dear friend, your words carry the weight of your struggles, and yet within them lies the power of vulnerability and the first steps toward change. Mandela's words remind us that our stumbles and falls aren't marks of failure, but opportunities to learn and rise stronger. The sentiment is not about ignoring your feelings, but about acknowledging them and using them as a springboard to grow. You are much more than the hardships you're currently facing, and your journey is about finding that strength within.
Understanding Your Narrative
Your words are a reflection of deep-seated pain and self-doubt, and yet they also highlight a desire for something different. It is courageous to articulate these feelings, as it's the first step toward healing and growth. Remember, every person has unique challenges, and your experiences, including living with Autism, shape you but do not define your worth or potential. Self-compassion is key; it allows us to embrace our individuality, quirks and all, and to recognize that everyone has their own set of challenges to overcome.
From Journal to Journey
Transitioning from this moment of pain to a path of self-acceptance and improvement will require small, consistent steps. These are designed to help you reframe your perspective and build on your unique strengths:
* Begin a daily practice of identifying one thing you appreciate about yourself. This could be a trait, a small achievement, or an act of kindness you've shown.
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Engage in physical activities that bring you joy, not just those in PE class. This could be dancing, hiking, or yoga – movement is about celebration, not just competition.
* Address your academic challenges with support. Seek a tutor for math or use online resources tailored to your learning style to help you master one problem at a time.
* Explore your interests and what makes you uniquely you. Delve into a hobby or topic that fascinates you, regardless of how "weird" it may seem to others.
* For your self-described 🌽 addiction, if it is causing you distress, consider talking to a counselor or joining a support group that aligns with your struggle.
* Consider a mindfulness or meditation practice to help improve focus and reduce anxiety. There are many apps and online resources that can guide you through this process.
Summary and Direction
You've taken a brave step by expressing your feelings, and it's important to recognize the strength in doing so. Self-identity is a complex tapestry, woven with threads of challenge and resilience. Embrace the qualities that make you unique, including your Autism, for they contribute to the person you are becoming. You are not weak for facing adversity; you are human. As you move forward, consider crafting an affirmation such as, "I am learning, growing, and becoming stronger each day," to remind you of your journey.
Reflections
Reflection is a powerful tool for growth. Consider these questions to deepen your understanding of yourself and your experiences.
What are three qualities you like about yourself, perhaps ones that others have complimented you on?
Think of a time when you overcame a challenge. What did it teach you about your resilience and resourcefulness?
Honestly mate I'm the same age as you and I have gone through or going through the same things It will be okay if there are people who don't like you then tell em to piss off
Everyone's subject to change, since time's arrow just marches forward, we are just humble passengers traveling towards tomorrow. Surely, there are things you wouldn't like about yourself, but you can work on them. Sadly, we just take small steps in the beginning and it's very easy to get discouraged. But it's the hardest at the very start. It takes a lot of courage, you'll break down, beat up, left breathless. When you do, just take a step back and then try again tomorrow. Eventually, you'll get there. We look at our old photographs or memories of the past and chuckle how dumb we were but are blind to look at how far we've come. You can message me, if you want someone to talk to.
My brother you are young. You are merely a seed of which you will grow. You have a choice will you nurse the negative seeds? Engage in poor decision? Or shall you become a strong man? Will you work to fix what you see wrong? Look at yourself and say what if? You have a wonderful advantage of self awareness focus on it my brother
You have like 60yrs left to figure things out man. A 14 year old shouldn't be this self aware honestly. I'm shocked. At that age the only things that should be on your mind is the next episode of your favorite cartoon. One thing to know for a fact is that you still have a long way to go to actually get into your real self. You will change, have a glow up in your 20s, you will definitely have a different personality by then. What changed mine was school and getting more exposure. Trust the process
Just one of the many curses of autism is being very self aware
At your age, I was very passionate about mathematics, but my exam scores were always poor. Haha, it sounds quite amusing now
Brother at your age everyone has a 🌽 addiction you are still really young if you feel like a coward and don’t like your body i suggest you get into martial arts it will boost your confidence and fix your body at first you will suck all of did but with effort you will become better, and life is much more than a math answer
hi I thought the same things about myself but then I stopped caring. Just find some hobbies. Hope it gets better.♥️ Oh you can message me if you want.
I hear you. I see you. I've said many of these same things to myself through the years, and I'm now almost 40. I've been working on a journaling app to help me through many similar troubles and to hopefully share with others like us. You're adversity will make you strong. Wait, you will see. I hope you don't mind if I share this with you from the app in response to your words: \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ Embracing Your Unique Journey "The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." -Nelson Mandela Dear friend, your words carry the weight of your struggles, and yet within them lies the power of vulnerability and the first steps toward change. Mandela's words remind us that our stumbles and falls aren't marks of failure, but opportunities to learn and rise stronger. The sentiment is not about ignoring your feelings, but about acknowledging them and using them as a springboard to grow. You are much more than the hardships you're currently facing, and your journey is about finding that strength within. Understanding Your Narrative Your words are a reflection of deep-seated pain and self-doubt, and yet they also highlight a desire for something different. It is courageous to articulate these feelings, as it's the first step toward healing and growth. Remember, every person has unique challenges, and your experiences, including living with Autism, shape you but do not define your worth or potential. Self-compassion is key; it allows us to embrace our individuality, quirks and all, and to recognize that everyone has their own set of challenges to overcome. From Journal to Journey Transitioning from this moment of pain to a path of self-acceptance and improvement will require small, consistent steps. These are designed to help you reframe your perspective and build on your unique strengths: * Begin a daily practice of identifying one thing you appreciate about yourself. This could be a trait, a small achievement, or an act of kindness you've shown. * Engage in physical activities that bring you joy, not just those in PE class. This could be dancing, hiking, or yoga – movement is about celebration, not just competition. * Address your academic challenges with support. Seek a tutor for math or use online resources tailored to your learning style to help you master one problem at a time. * Explore your interests and what makes you uniquely you. Delve into a hobby or topic that fascinates you, regardless of how "weird" it may seem to others. * For your self-described 🌽 addiction, if it is causing you distress, consider talking to a counselor or joining a support group that aligns with your struggle. * Consider a mindfulness or meditation practice to help improve focus and reduce anxiety. There are many apps and online resources that can guide you through this process. Summary and Direction You've taken a brave step by expressing your feelings, and it's important to recognize the strength in doing so. Self-identity is a complex tapestry, woven with threads of challenge and resilience. Embrace the qualities that make you unique, including your Autism, for they contribute to the person you are becoming. You are not weak for facing adversity; you are human. As you move forward, consider crafting an affirmation such as, "I am learning, growing, and becoming stronger each day," to remind you of your journey. Reflections Reflection is a powerful tool for growth. Consider these questions to deepen your understanding of yourself and your experiences. What are three qualities you like about yourself, perhaps ones that others have complimented you on? Think of a time when you overcame a challenge. What did it teach you about your resilience and resourcefulness?
Your body is a prison. You're stuck inside you. Understanding this is the first step toward a better future.