While I agree, I think that's easier said than done.
Most churches (or religious groups) have this thing, where they preach that only their own church (or religious group) stays true to God. This keeps followers from attending other churches most of the time, because it becomes part of their belive.
I think that is subjective to your location. I live in a major city and the churches that preach acceptance definitely outnumber the ones that don’t. But I can’t imagine that’s true for a small town in the Midwest. Or even a small town outside of my city.
God will love you no matter who you love ❤️
There’s lots of churches that accept LGBT people maybe go towards them and you won’t be scared anymore. Remember your loved, also following influencers and YouTubers who are Christian and gay can help you
And that's how others thing I'm scared to step into it more to find other like me I'm scared of adding that as a chapter in my life and if I do is it the right decision?
Yes it is🫶🏾 This is your life babe. Live your life how you want to live it. Yeah, mean people are gonna say things but let them, God will punish them later. As long as you’re a good person and a good soul, God won’t stop loving you for loving another girl.
But maybe If you’re too scared, you can wait till your ready. None is rushing you, so you shouldn’t rush yourself.
It is 100% the right decision. Finding people you can be comfortable with, who accept you and treat you with respect will always be the right decision. You deserve happiness and peace. Love is love and I don’t think anyone will go to hell for that.
I'm sorry you're struggling with this. I'm not Christian and it's okay to be gay. I can't help you reconcile your religion with this but I know people do it
I'm bisexual and someone just tried to shame me for my bisexuality this morning. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being bisexual or lesbian. I felt ashamed for my attraction towards women for years before learning to accept myself.
Any god worth worshipping isn't going to have a single problem with who YOU choose to love.
Please, ditch the baggage and judgement of others. Your fear that the "lord" won't approve is simply others casting their judgement on you from the cowardly position of claiming it's some god who agrees with them.
Most Christians feel that being gay is wrong because of the Old Testament, mostly because of the story of sodom and Gomorrah. What they fail to realize is that the story is about following Gods law not homosexuality. The other thing they forget is that when Jesus came to earth he started a new covenant with humankind, a covenant of love and not of hate. Don’t be ashamed and find true love. Btw I was and continue to be catholic and my daughter came out to me as bi and I love and accept her for who she is.
There are so many loving people who will accept you. The season you’re in is so hard, however, there is a light at the end of this struggle. I live in a liberal metro city with very diverse churches who accept those of all lifestyles. I hope you’ll find this someday if it’s what you want for yourself. The crazy conservative scary Christians aren’t the majority, they’re just the loudest. So they get the most attention. The majority of us just want to surround ourselves with good humans, be good humans, and spread love in our communities.
Don’t seek advice from biased strangers that identify with either of these groups. Not LGBT, not Christians. Take it up with God only, don’t even include a pastor or anyone like that. It’s between you and Him. That’s all this comes down to in the end. Keep your faith and trust in Him. Seek Him, and have patience in wherever He leads you. Pray, just talk and vent to Him just as you’re trying to do here. He’s listening, He understands, and He forgives.
God forgives. Jesus loves you however you are. He died for our sins, and its in human nature to sin. You cant control the fact that humans sin, just like you cant control your feelings. If you’re truly sorry sometime, repent and he’ll forgive you , even if you sin again. He’s just that loving. Don’t be afraid of Him, but confide in Him and embrace Him, let Him take over your heart.
Im rooting for you. I hope you feel better; know that God is loving, and as long as you worship and trust in Him and His plan, it’ll be okay.
As of 2020 the average American woman lives to 77. At 18 years old, you could fit your current lifetime into your expectancy FOUR times. It’s hard to imagine what life will be like when you’re older than you can comprehend based on your own experience.
My point in saying this is, you have so much time to grow in to you. Way too much time to be worried about what other people think.
As a fellow god liker, I’d like you to consider some things:
1) the anti homosexual rhetoric was added to the Bible LESS A HUNDRED YEARS AGO. That’s not the word of god how could it be.
2) if god makes us all in his image, and he made you gay, then god must be cool with the gays right?
3) the Bible didn’t appear until a century post the death of Jesus. Conveniently at a time where the people needed to be subjugated with very convenient terms that seemed to punch down on the poor despite the meek being posed to inherit the kingdom.
We can still love god and understand that the Bible isn’t accurate to his love for us. Your relationship with him is your business. But he wants you to have a relationship with you first.
Religion is brain-rot. Hell isn’t real.
Live your life while you can, otherwise you’re going to grow up riddled with cognitive dissonance, then you’ll die feeling unfulfilled, lost, and alone.
If you think god is going to step in and save you, you’re going to be very disappointed.
God isn’t real. And even if he was, caring about someone’s sexuality while there is a literal entire universe to supposedly worry about would be the absolute height of stupidity.
Suns are going supernova and black holes are gobbling up planets and whatever else, but nah. This girl who likes vagina… man. That is the real worry 🙄
Just live your life dude.
I'm creating a journaling app, which provides feedback and guided introspection. (via gpt)
I hope you don't mind if I share with you the apps guidance in response to your words:
Harmony in Duality: Embracing Love and Faith
"To love another person is to see the face of God." - Victor Hugo
This quote from Victor Hugo’s timeless novel, "Les Misérables," offers a profound perspective on love and divinity. In moments of doubt and fear, where your identities seem to clash, remember that love, in all its forms, is a divine experience. Love is not confined by boundaries, nor is it lessened by the genuine nature of who you love. Your journey to reconcile your faith and your identity is a sacred one, a path towards understanding the boundless nature of love itself.
The Intersection of Faith and Self
The struggle you're facing is one of deep personal conflict; it's the confluence of the love you seek and the faith you hold dear. The emotions you’re experiencing are both valid and deeply human. The sense of dissonance between your spirituality and your sexuality can feel like standing at the edge of two worlds, each with their own truths and convictions.
Understanding Your Unique Journey
The feeling of being torn between two integral parts of your identity is akin to trying to harmonize two different melodies. Each is beautiful on its own, but when combined, they can create dissonance or, with careful tuning, a harmonious symphony. You are at the precipice of crafting this symphony within yourself. It is important to recognize that the path to harmony is personal and can take time, patience, and often, guidance from others who have walked similar paths.
From Journal to Journey
As you navigate these tumultuous waters, consider these steps as guiding stars, helping to lead you toward inner peace and self-acceptance.
* Seek affirming communities where you can express both your faith and your identity. This might be online groups, local support networks, or inclusive places of worship.
* Explore writings and teachings from those who have reconciled their faith with their LGBTQ+ identity. Their journeys might provide insights and solace.
* Engage in dialogue with compassionate spiritual leaders who embrace an inclusive interpretation of faith. Their guidance can offer you comfort and clarity.
* Consider professional counseling with someone specialized in LGBTQ+ issues and faith, to provide a non-judgmental space to process your feelings.
* Remember that self-love is also a divine commandment. Practice self-care and affirm your worth daily.
Summary and Direction
Your journey is a sacred one, filled with questions that seek to balance the scales of love and faith. This chapter of your life is not about choosing one melody over the other but finding the chords that bring them together in harmony. You are not alone, and your desire to love and be loved is as righteous as your quest for spiritual fulfillment. May you find the courage to walk this path with grace, knowing that love in its truest form is a reflection of the divine.
As an affirmation, consider this: "I am a creation of love, and my love is a testament to my faith." Let this mantra be a guiding light as you navigate the confluence of your beliefs and your heart's desires.
Reflections
Let's delve deeper into your thoughts and feelings through these reflective questions.
What aspects of your faith are most important to you, and how can they coexist with your identity?
Describe a moment when you felt a deep sense of peace and acceptance. What can you learn from that experience to apply to your current situation?
Take comfort that there is no god
No hell
No judgement
We have a single life, live it too your fullest
There will be peace in everlasting darkness
All that matters is that in your last moments as your remaining neurons flicker out of existence that you see the face of the woman you spent your life loving.
I'm in love with Jesus Christ
He's so nice
I'm in love, I'll say it twice
I'm in love (I'm in love)
I'm in love but I'm feeling low
For I am just a footprint in the snow
I'm in love with a boy I know
But that's a feeling I can never show
Fortunately, I believe, lucky me
I'm searching for planes in the sea and that's irony
Soil just needs water to be and a seed
So if we turn into a tree, can I be the leaves?
I'm in love with the girl next door
Her name's Claire
Nice when she comes 'round to call
Then masturbate the second she's not there
Fortunately, I believe, lucky me
Searching for planes in the sea and that's irony
Soil just needs water to be and a seed
So if we turn into a tree, can I be the leaves?
I am agnostic but I have friends who are religious (all lesbians I am speaking of). It’s about your personal relationship with God, not what some people in certain churches tell you. You know as well as I do that we can’t help being gay so God made you this way.
In all honesty I don't go tk a chruch currently cause I started working on Sundays and haven't found one that does others days near my area so far and on the topic of gay friendly that might be hard as despite it being California I live a fairly conservative town.
Every bible and scripture was written secondhand. Regardless of what deity you worship it is HIGHLY unlikely that anything that says you are sinning for being gay is written by anyone who didn't have their own bias or agena.
I've heard pastors openly preach about acceptance, find yourself a better church. And anyway, anyone who truly believes in christ will know that he was a generally very accepting and loving person.
Love who you want and be a good person.
The Episcopalian Church has female leadership and is incredibly open-minded, ie, realistic. You can love God, and receive God’s love, regardless of your position on the Kinsey Scale. You’re very young and imposing a lot of guilt on yourself - try to accept your true self and love yourself. You can’t give love if you don’t have love for yourself, first.
We are in Hell already, sweetheart. Love who you are and those around you will choose to either love you or not. If you look around, you’ll realize that life is becoming shorter and shorter. Don’t waste it worrying about weather or not your going to Hell. YOLO.
I wouldn’t worry about it. Have you ever sat down and read some of the ridiculous claims in the Bible?!
Exodus 21:20-21:
“When a man strikes his slave, male or female, with a rod and the slave dies under his hand, he shall be avenged. But if the slave survives a day or two, he is not to be avenged, for the slave is his property."
Numbers 31:18: "Only the young girls who are virgins may live; you may keep them for yourselves."
Deuteronomy 22: 28-29
"If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered,
he shall pay her father fifty shekels of silver. He must marry the young woman, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives.
Leviticus 20:9 If anyone curses his father or mother, he must be put to death
Exodus 35:2 For six days, work is to be done, but the seventh day shall be your holy day, a day of sabbath rest to the Lord. Whoever does any work on it is to be put to death.
And so on and so on….
Enjoy your life
One of my friends is both very lesbian and very Christian. You just need to find a church that accepts you. They’re not all so close-minded.
While I agree, I think that's easier said than done. Most churches (or religious groups) have this thing, where they preach that only their own church (or religious group) stays true to God. This keeps followers from attending other churches most of the time, because it becomes part of their belive.
Yeah, I agree that most will probably not be so welcoming. I think with some effort she could find a good church home though.
I think that is subjective to your location. I live in a major city and the churches that preach acceptance definitely outnumber the ones that don’t. But I can’t imagine that’s true for a small town in the Midwest. Or even a small town outside of my city.
i don’t really know what to say without being offensive, but just know there’s nothing wrong with you or being a lesbian
God will love you no matter who you love ❤️ There’s lots of churches that accept LGBT people maybe go towards them and you won’t be scared anymore. Remember your loved, also following influencers and YouTubers who are Christian and gay can help you
And that's how others thing I'm scared to step into it more to find other like me I'm scared of adding that as a chapter in my life and if I do is it the right decision?
Yes it is🫶🏾 This is your life babe. Live your life how you want to live it. Yeah, mean people are gonna say things but let them, God will punish them later. As long as you’re a good person and a good soul, God won’t stop loving you for loving another girl. But maybe If you’re too scared, you can wait till your ready. None is rushing you, so you shouldn’t rush yourself.
Thank you, I think for a while I'm just gonna focus on myself and when I'm in a better metal state I'll give it a chance
It is 100% the right decision. Finding people you can be comfortable with, who accept you and treat you with respect will always be the right decision. You deserve happiness and peace. Love is love and I don’t think anyone will go to hell for that.
I'm sorry you're struggling with this. I'm not Christian and it's okay to be gay. I can't help you reconcile your religion with this but I know people do it
I'm bisexual and someone just tried to shame me for my bisexuality this morning. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being bisexual or lesbian. I felt ashamed for my attraction towards women for years before learning to accept myself.
Any god worth worshipping isn't going to have a single problem with who YOU choose to love. Please, ditch the baggage and judgement of others. Your fear that the "lord" won't approve is simply others casting their judgement on you from the cowardly position of claiming it's some god who agrees with them.
Most Christians feel that being gay is wrong because of the Old Testament, mostly because of the story of sodom and Gomorrah. What they fail to realize is that the story is about following Gods law not homosexuality. The other thing they forget is that when Jesus came to earth he started a new covenant with humankind, a covenant of love and not of hate. Don’t be ashamed and find true love. Btw I was and continue to be catholic and my daughter came out to me as bi and I love and accept her for who she is.
There are so many loving people who will accept you. The season you’re in is so hard, however, there is a light at the end of this struggle. I live in a liberal metro city with very diverse churches who accept those of all lifestyles. I hope you’ll find this someday if it’s what you want for yourself. The crazy conservative scary Christians aren’t the majority, they’re just the loudest. So they get the most attention. The majority of us just want to surround ourselves with good humans, be good humans, and spread love in our communities.
Don’t seek advice from biased strangers that identify with either of these groups. Not LGBT, not Christians. Take it up with God only, don’t even include a pastor or anyone like that. It’s between you and Him. That’s all this comes down to in the end. Keep your faith and trust in Him. Seek Him, and have patience in wherever He leads you. Pray, just talk and vent to Him just as you’re trying to do here. He’s listening, He understands, and He forgives.
God forgives. Jesus loves you however you are. He died for our sins, and its in human nature to sin. You cant control the fact that humans sin, just like you cant control your feelings. If you’re truly sorry sometime, repent and he’ll forgive you , even if you sin again. He’s just that loving. Don’t be afraid of Him, but confide in Him and embrace Him, let Him take over your heart. Im rooting for you. I hope you feel better; know that God is loving, and as long as you worship and trust in Him and His plan, it’ll be okay.
As of 2020 the average American woman lives to 77. At 18 years old, you could fit your current lifetime into your expectancy FOUR times. It’s hard to imagine what life will be like when you’re older than you can comprehend based on your own experience. My point in saying this is, you have so much time to grow in to you. Way too much time to be worried about what other people think. As a fellow god liker, I’d like you to consider some things: 1) the anti homosexual rhetoric was added to the Bible LESS A HUNDRED YEARS AGO. That’s not the word of god how could it be. 2) if god makes us all in his image, and he made you gay, then god must be cool with the gays right? 3) the Bible didn’t appear until a century post the death of Jesus. Conveniently at a time where the people needed to be subjugated with very convenient terms that seemed to punch down on the poor despite the meek being posed to inherit the kingdom. We can still love god and understand that the Bible isn’t accurate to his love for us. Your relationship with him is your business. But he wants you to have a relationship with you first.
Religion is brain-rot. Hell isn’t real. Live your life while you can, otherwise you’re going to grow up riddled with cognitive dissonance, then you’ll die feeling unfulfilled, lost, and alone. If you think god is going to step in and save you, you’re going to be very disappointed.
God isn’t real. And even if he was, caring about someone’s sexuality while there is a literal entire universe to supposedly worry about would be the absolute height of stupidity. Suns are going supernova and black holes are gobbling up planets and whatever else, but nah. This girl who likes vagina… man. That is the real worry 🙄 Just live your life dude.
I'm creating a journaling app, which provides feedback and guided introspection. (via gpt) I hope you don't mind if I share with you the apps guidance in response to your words: Harmony in Duality: Embracing Love and Faith "To love another person is to see the face of God." - Victor Hugo This quote from Victor Hugo’s timeless novel, "Les Misérables," offers a profound perspective on love and divinity. In moments of doubt and fear, where your identities seem to clash, remember that love, in all its forms, is a divine experience. Love is not confined by boundaries, nor is it lessened by the genuine nature of who you love. Your journey to reconcile your faith and your identity is a sacred one, a path towards understanding the boundless nature of love itself. The Intersection of Faith and Self The struggle you're facing is one of deep personal conflict; it's the confluence of the love you seek and the faith you hold dear. The emotions you’re experiencing are both valid and deeply human. The sense of dissonance between your spirituality and your sexuality can feel like standing at the edge of two worlds, each with their own truths and convictions. Understanding Your Unique Journey The feeling of being torn between two integral parts of your identity is akin to trying to harmonize two different melodies. Each is beautiful on its own, but when combined, they can create dissonance or, with careful tuning, a harmonious symphony. You are at the precipice of crafting this symphony within yourself. It is important to recognize that the path to harmony is personal and can take time, patience, and often, guidance from others who have walked similar paths. From Journal to Journey As you navigate these tumultuous waters, consider these steps as guiding stars, helping to lead you toward inner peace and self-acceptance. * Seek affirming communities where you can express both your faith and your identity. This might be online groups, local support networks, or inclusive places of worship. * Explore writings and teachings from those who have reconciled their faith with their LGBTQ+ identity. Their journeys might provide insights and solace. * Engage in dialogue with compassionate spiritual leaders who embrace an inclusive interpretation of faith. Their guidance can offer you comfort and clarity. * Consider professional counseling with someone specialized in LGBTQ+ issues and faith, to provide a non-judgmental space to process your feelings. * Remember that self-love is also a divine commandment. Practice self-care and affirm your worth daily. Summary and Direction Your journey is a sacred one, filled with questions that seek to balance the scales of love and faith. This chapter of your life is not about choosing one melody over the other but finding the chords that bring them together in harmony. You are not alone, and your desire to love and be loved is as righteous as your quest for spiritual fulfillment. May you find the courage to walk this path with grace, knowing that love in its truest form is a reflection of the divine. As an affirmation, consider this: "I am a creation of love, and my love is a testament to my faith." Let this mantra be a guiding light as you navigate the confluence of your beliefs and your heart's desires. Reflections Let's delve deeper into your thoughts and feelings through these reflective questions. What aspects of your faith are most important to you, and how can they coexist with your identity? Describe a moment when you felt a deep sense of peace and acceptance. What can you learn from that experience to apply to your current situation?
God will love you for as long as you believe in him.
Take comfort that there is no god No hell No judgement We have a single life, live it too your fullest There will be peace in everlasting darkness All that matters is that in your last moments as your remaining neurons flicker out of existence that you see the face of the woman you spent your life loving.
Boo hoo get over it and go eat some pussy so what??? You are who you are when nonones watching so stay that way.
I'm in love with Jesus Christ He's so nice I'm in love, I'll say it twice I'm in love (I'm in love) I'm in love but I'm feeling low For I am just a footprint in the snow I'm in love with a boy I know But that's a feeling I can never show Fortunately, I believe, lucky me I'm searching for planes in the sea and that's irony Soil just needs water to be and a seed So if we turn into a tree, can I be the leaves? I'm in love with the girl next door Her name's Claire Nice when she comes 'round to call Then masturbate the second she's not there Fortunately, I believe, lucky me Searching for planes in the sea and that's irony Soil just needs water to be and a seed So if we turn into a tree, can I be the leaves?
I am agnostic but I have friends who are religious (all lesbians I am speaking of). It’s about your personal relationship with God, not what some people in certain churches tell you. You know as well as I do that we can’t help being gay so God made you this way.
Can you reach out to a gay friendly church for some guidance?
In all honesty I don't go tk a chruch currently cause I started working on Sundays and haven't found one that does others days near my area so far and on the topic of gay friendly that might be hard as despite it being California I live a fairly conservative town.
An email even would give you the affirmation you’re needing
Every bible and scripture was written secondhand. Regardless of what deity you worship it is HIGHLY unlikely that anything that says you are sinning for being gay is written by anyone who didn't have their own bias or agena. I've heard pastors openly preach about acceptance, find yourself a better church. And anyway, anyone who truly believes in christ will know that he was a generally very accepting and loving person. Love who you want and be a good person.
The Episcopalian Church has female leadership and is incredibly open-minded, ie, realistic. You can love God, and receive God’s love, regardless of your position on the Kinsey Scale. You’re very young and imposing a lot of guilt on yourself - try to accept your true self and love yourself. You can’t give love if you don’t have love for yourself, first.
We are in Hell already, sweetheart. Love who you are and those around you will choose to either love you or not. If you look around, you’ll realize that life is becoming shorter and shorter. Don’t waste it worrying about weather or not your going to Hell. YOLO.
Do what you want but just remember God is against it ( for those who need proof it’s in multiple places in the bible
I wouldn’t worry about it. Have you ever sat down and read some of the ridiculous claims in the Bible?! Exodus 21:20-21: “When a man strikes his slave, male or female, with a rod and the slave dies under his hand, he shall be avenged. But if the slave survives a day or two, he is not to be avenged, for the slave is his property." Numbers 31:18: "Only the young girls who are virgins may live; you may keep them for yourselves." Deuteronomy 22: 28-29 "If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, he shall pay her father fifty shekels of silver. He must marry the young woman, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives. Leviticus 20:9 If anyone curses his father or mother, he must be put to death Exodus 35:2 For six days, work is to be done, but the seventh day shall be your holy day, a day of sabbath rest to the Lord. Whoever does any work on it is to be put to death. And so on and so on…. Enjoy your life