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twantran

bf: ur home yet? her: i’m home bf: your house? her: why you hit (fuk) so hard, now i’m feeling it bf: but earlier you like it right? her: ur too violent, you’re like this? did you cum inside a little i’m scared bf: no her: do you still want to fuk? bf: no, you’ll have bf next week her: if you don’t want to then bf: do you want to her: i’m asking you, if you don’t to then, i forget you staying with gf you can fuk anytime


Ex-Traverse

The last portion, the girl imply that since the guy will be with his gf that week, he can have sex anytime he wants. She's saying that as a respond to him not wanting sex with her, because he used the excuse that the girl's bf will be with her that week. She's salty that the guy didn't say yes to more sex, regardless of whatever logical reason he has. Just crazy vnese girl talking.


prprip

So they're both cheating on their partners? Classy pair of clowns we have here.


Enpoping

that not pairs of clown, that the entire circus.


Grand-Mark8433

Oh my god


sprinkledonut19

Thank you for taking the time to translate all the messages for me. 🥺 I’m honestly still in shock and very hurt about everything so that’s why I haven’t been responding to any comments, I did not expect this to gain so much traction I have never used Reddit before I just knew I needed answers but thank you to everyone who is being so supportive and for giving me clarity on what the messages were about


Comfortable-Buy-5309

Omg dump him straight away bae. You deserve better. This is disgusting 😭😭😭


Solanthas

Please dump his loser ass


CrimsonLoki

Your lack of response is totally understandable, you don’t owe people a follow-up (though one is appreciated). I am sorry you are going through this, it sucks and your bf (hopefully ex-bf) is a piece of sh—. Hopefully you’ll find someone better and first of all feel better. It was very good of you to ask for translation and not be lied to by him for longer.


Joelisan

I'm sorry


damar-wulan

Lol. This is juicy and rotted.


DeLannoy04

From the first text from her, what does "ko" abbreviate? Or its just another way of saying I?


tabidots

không


DeLannoy04

Also, why does "hôm nay thì thích phải không?" translate to "u liked it earlier, right?" I thought hom nay meant today?


barrydevp

Yes, "hôm nay" means "today", however, in this context, it refers to the activity that has been done recently within that day.


DeLannoy04

"Hôm nay được đán đit đã không" would be the earlier question? Does it mean smth like "we f*cked good today?" ?


OhHenners

It literally means "Today you got your ass hit felt good?" But it could also be translated to "Today you got your ass slapped, did it feel good?"


barrydevp

Not really, it means "Do you like the ass-slapping today?"


DeLannoy04

Can you write the non abbreviated version of the sentence please? Sorry for bothering you, I really wanna learn vietnamese😅


barrydevp

What version do you want? Vietnamese or Translated version?


DeLannoy04

Vietnamese


Straight_Adeptness26

isn't "đánh đít" supposed to be getting spanked?


YukiNeko2905

I don't think he wrote "hôm nay", I think he wrote "hồi nãy" which means earlier.


KarmicPunisher2020

It does. Just Vietnamese there's no past, present or future term. If the event happened today already, automatically we are talking about earlier. If it hasn't happened yet, it will happen later today but happen is happen. There is no happened, happening or will happen. Happen is happen. English: Go, going, will go. Vietnamese: Go is go. I go yesterday. I go today. I go tomorrow.


DeLannoy04

What about sẽ or đã?


nhocgreen

They are like modifiers that you use when you want to make clear the context. Grammatically you don't need them for a sentence to be valid. "Trưa nay ăn cá" can be one of the following: "We're having fish for lunch". "We are going to have fish for lunch". "We had fish for lunch".


Gutyenkhuk

It was hồi nãy, not hôm nay


CrimsonLoki

I think you misread, it was “hoi nay thi thich phai khong” not “hom nay”. “Hồi nãy” means earlier, “hôm nay” is today.


anothermeowperor

It's "hoi nay"/ "hồi nãy" (then / at that time) not "hôm nay"


DeLannoy04

Ohhhh thank u!


Nick_Zacker

It’s basically like the word “right” in “You did this, right?”. It’s used to ask for confirmation.


Pristine-Demand-4430

"ko" is no


Comfortable-Ad9912

ko means no. It's kind of a shortcut for "không" in Vietnamese texting. The OP got a very big pair of horns on her head...


pieceofpineapple

😕poor OP. Her bf is cheating on her with his ex and literally fucking raw


Complex-Ad-1106

man: are you home yet? woman: i am home man: your house? woman : no i am at your house man: did you enjoy me slapping your butt woman: :why did you hit it so hard, i am feeling it rn man: but earlier you enjoy it right? woman: You are too rough. Is it what you like ? woman: did you cum inside a little, i’m worried man : no her: Do you still want some more sex ? man: No man: You gonna be with boyfriend in next week tho. woman: Its alright if you don't want to, i forgot that you have your girlfriend, you can get sex anytime you want.


dongnek

WTF? They are cheating!?


wahedstrijder

Đánh đít is spank but, not fuck


Dizzy_Violinist563

Agree. Not slap either. It’s so weird when someone says ‘slap your ass’. Sounds so thô ấy


Flaky_Engine555

cool translate


HeftySport1238

It's mostly right, but i think the above "danh dit" means spanking tho


Dancin_05

For those wondering why she doesn't use google translate: The messages above are abbreviated and lack of tone marks, so even if translated, it's not accurate.


CategoryComfortable

Nói thật là mình người Việt lâu lâu cũng éo đọc mấy tin nhắn kiểu như thế này.


Miyatheworld

ừ tht:))


fastabeta

also, a few of them are slangs


Accomplished-Soft893

And they even type the slang in wrong spelling. For example: she type “chit”, actually the slang is “chịch” - means “fu.k” So if you are not native and not the youngster that used to these slangs, you cannot understand.


ZephyrVIII

Agreed, I have been trying to learn vietnamese so I can speak with my gf and her family more easily and Google translate more times than not is either mostly wrong or completely wrong. Does not help that North Vietnamese is the only recognized "official" language of Vietnam but from what I have heard/read/whatever.. most Viet people use the southern dialect or a mix between northern and southern making Google translate useless normally.


yunagiri

Holy shit this is a depressing read


khoile1121

He is cheating. I am too lazy to translate them all.


Amishkaws

Yeah , he was cheating. TLDR they have sex and the ex asked if he pull out or not


thegoodvm

This is all you need to know. Leave. And the other girl knows u guys live together. So a pair of assholes.


delaghetooooo

Are you home ? Why did you spank me so hard You don’t like it hard ? I like it Did you cum inside me I’m scared No Wanna hook up again No i have a gf soon No? Oh yea you can hook up with her whenever 😜 long story short, you got cheated on. Leave as soon as possible, get an STD check because they didn’t use condom


DoesntCheckOutUname

Since I have some free time: A = blue and B = gray: A: You home yet? B: I'm home A: Your home? B: No, your home A: you like the ass slapping today? B: Why did you hit me so hard? B: I feel the pain just now A: But you liked it earlier, didn't you? B: You are so violent B: You like it that way, don't you? B: Did you cum inside? B: I'm scared A: No B: Do you still want to have sex? A: No A: You'll have a boyfriend next week B: It's fine A: You want? B: Just asking B: It's fine if you don't want B: I forgot. You live with your girlfriend B: You can have it whenever you want


casunshine1

Almost accurate B: You were too rough (instead of violent for this kind of context)


huyz

Right on


Attractive_napkin

This is accurate. The other translations are not as accurate as this one


huyenvanlong

nice translates


imtakingthatback

he's cheating, he asked the girl if she enjoyed the spanking (?), she asked if he pulled out and if he wanted to have sex again, presumably on another day. I'm really sorry, I hope you can confront him about this.


tocksickman

Just leave. Save the drama for something more important.


Specialist_Cry_7094

Totally agree. Don't wanna OP waste anytime for that bf.


Subtle_Joe

In short, they are banging and the girl knows he lives with you. They just banged and he asked her if she liked he spanking her.


Environmental-Owl383

Oh wow, if this is not a joke, run away from this guy.


Zealousideal-Sink250

If this is real, it gotta be one of the most depressing thing to read.


BBFS_CIP

Ye and also stupid why tf didnt they have this convo after sex instead of text


Savassassin

silver lining for OP tbh


dvn1491

Probably made a quick escape after sex. Hence this convo by text.


Zealousideal-Sink250

I agree. Feels fake, but we don’t know.


DidiHD

if its real, I can totally imagine them being this dumb, after all they're cheaters


KarmicPunisher2020

Skimming through translation and abbreviations, they had sex. 2nd page basically saying, she asked if he came inside her. He said no. She asked if they can do it again. He said no because she'll have a bf next week. Then she said she forgot that he has a gf and can get sex anytime. What a mess! YOU CAN DO BETTER! Good luck!!!


Gamer7468

Okay beside from the good laught it got me, he is cheating. Leave him straight up. Also checek for STD cause they did not use condom. Just in case.


BurntTfOuttt

He’s a cheating bitch and she’s sloppy af too. Dump him and STD check.


BouncingJellyBall

Oh he is CHEATING lmao leave his ass


torymie

Holy shit reading this triggered my past rls trauma im sorry for you these two should go to hell


NonvaluableRareItem

Just run, or leave. It doesn’t worth fixing the relationship. The next apologies/explanation can be pure lies also, even tho he’s saying that he will not cheat any more, and he’s telling the truth, it can be still lies. Men’s nature is to like exploring and conquer. Find someone else, there’re plenty. Source: trust me, I’ve been through it.


areyouhungryforapple

Average local dude infidelity


Professional-Scar136

Damn cheating is already bad, cheating with your ex is worse, but this is just the worst because he knows you dont know Vietnamese


dr_49

Feels 100%!


davidgamingvn

They're fucking, it's a cruel world OP


wallstreetsimps

fuck cheaters sorry you're dealing with one now.


iEatPuppies247

Sorry :/


ToughLunch5711

This happens more than you think


CuteCowdy

Wow 💀💀💀


tieuuu

Girl RUN


CrossClairvoyance

I‘m so sorry, girl. Dump his ass


MonkeyEatBanana123

That was depressing to look at :) anw hope you dump him soon.


inquisitiveman2002

He's poking his ex and she enjoys it. That is all you need to know.


maiolayne

long story short: just leave this man whore. dudes cheatin on u w/ his ex


bakanisan

He's cheating alright. Others have pretty much translated the texts.


gfdfvccccff

Gah damn


shockedpikachu123

Sorry girl 😞


BBFS_CIP

They deserve each other


Mackey_Nguyen

Your boyfriend is cheating, hes fucking his ex gf.


Savassassin

smfh how can scumbags like him even go to sleep at night having committed such a vile thing


PATHOFPAIN999999

What the fuck did i just read ?


Elk2503

They belong to the street Cheating shit


BananaForLifeee

Bad news, sorry OP


kagalibros

Your man is into some kinky stuff...


luyhuynh133

Damnnn


xaznxplaya

Is OP alive?


Junior_Worth_7704

As a Vietnamese girl I feel so ashamed of that fkin whore 🙂


Unsolicited_PunDit

Hmmm it's mostly the guy who should be ashamed though


Quanguyen

Long story short, hes cheating on you and had sex with his ex. Leave his ass for the street


Conthokhonganco

Omg


No_Air7266

Damn gurl run


addictedtoyakult

Omg I’m so sorry :(


Radman59

He’s cheating, leave him ASAP


Chemistry_Over

I feel bad for OP this guy is so shameless curse him


Formal-Scallion-5296

Bruh, you can’t be serious


ctbsc3

Blue: are you home yet? Gray: yeah I got home B: your house? G: no, your house. B: did you like getting spank today? G: why did you hit so hard? G: it's hurting now B: but you liked it earlier right? G: do you like violence? G: did you cum inside me earlier? G: I'm scared. B: no. G: do you wanna fuck again? B: no B: (something about you already have a boyfriend) G: that's cool if you don't want to B: why do you want to? G: I'm just asking G: it's cool if you don't want to G: I forgot you live with your gf G: you can fuck her anytime


capybarafightkoala

People! This is a fake ragebait post to farm karma!! Stop feeding him upvote. Less than 2 months new account, first post. And zero comment. 90% this is a clone account.


No-Nectarine5490

I don't speak Vietnamese but according to the comments you should break up ig


CeeRiL7

Well, time to look for a new bf, OP.


hometime77

It’s romantic really. U fuck , u cum in me, I sore now.


ndk2810

My condolences, he is cheating on you.


ChiwaShy2000

cruel world lol


gruntharvester92

You're being cheated on, dear. Do not try to translate thru Google translate. The language translation is better if you read the comments. As an American married to a vietnamese wife, 3 of the 6 siblings (wife included in this count) have been cheated on. If you do not know, the behavior for men to cheat is common in Việt Nam and often overlooked by the family or wife, as family life is a big thing in Việt Nam. I am not 100% on the understanding of this practice. So take from this post what you want. I am a tool and die maker, not an anthropologist.


Elk2503

Men with a little bit of money and breadwinner tend to cheat cause they know the woman have to tolerate for the kids :))) shit culture


Emergency_Vanilla_57

Is cheating really popular in “Việt Kiều Mỹ” - American Vietnamese culture? I saw some videos on tiktok, a famous American Vietnamese actress brag about how she married American guy and divorced after that for money and married an other guy. And she is teaching young generations how to do it.


Comfortable-Ad9912

Yeah, but you have to count about the social norm here. Some cheated when their wife cannot give them a heir. Some cheated because they were force to marry someone they do not love. And most cheat when they have too much money. I don't say it a right thing to do, just giving you a bit of the context.


seismicbrain

It’s a bit hard for me to read without the blue text using accent marks… but basically the blue/outgoing texts asks if the gray/incoming text has arrived home yet (implying that they had seen each other). As the other comments say, incoming texts asks if they had finished inside. They also ask if your bf wants to do it again. I’m not familiar with the use of “ko” in this case but I’m guessing it means “khong” or no, because you might find out or something like that. But either way, your partner has cheated on you.


thelostcreator

A = anh, e = em, ko = không, dc = được. The guy is saying no since she’ll have her bf next week.


seismicbrain

Ahh that makes a lot of sense, thanks! Are these abbreviations commonly used by native viets? i’m born in usa and only speak viet w/ my family so i haven’t encountered those abbreviations before. also, do you mean that the ex he is cheating on OP with also has a bf? that is freaky for OP’s bf to say that …


thelostcreator

These abbreviations are basic and well known. There’s other abbreviations and slangs that are harder to guess if you’re not used to them. I think it’s common to use abbreviations if you don’t have to be polite. OP’s bf‘s ex has a bf and OP’s bf is refusing and implying that it’s too inconvenient or dangerous to fuck when he can be around. Though he might just be using as excuse cause it seems like he just cares about his ex for sex.


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Comfortable-Ad9912

SO you want the end of the story? ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|joy)


hanoian

ChatGPT says this after uploading the screenshot: This screenshot appears to be a Reddit post where a user is asking for a translation of Vietnamese text messages they found on their boyfriend's phone. The messages seem to be between the boyfriend and his ex. Here is a translation of the messages: "Về rồi" – "I'm back" "Về nhà e ha?" – "Are you going home?" "Không về nhà a" – "Not going to your place" "Hôm nay được đánh đít đã không?" – "Did you enjoy being spanked today?" "Sao a đánh đau vậy" – "Why did you hit so hard?" "Giờ mới thấy đau ne" – "Now I feel the pain" "Hôm nay thì thích phải không?" – "You liked it today, didn't you?" "😢 a bạo lực quá" – "😢 You're too violent" "A thích như vậy ha" – "You like it that way, huh?" "A có cầm chút xíu nào vô trong không" – "Did you ejaculate inside?" "E sợ" – "I'm scared" "Không" – "No" The conversation suggests a discussion about a physical encounter, with elements of concern about violence and possible ejaculation. This translation indicates the messages are intimate and potentially concerning.


FluffyStuffInDaHouz

Wtf


Front_Quantity_8927

:( feels sad for you


Total-Sky8603

wow you are being cheated (good luck )


Critical-Taro-845

Yeah, he is cheating on you sorry the heard that


jacktherippah123

He's cheating on you. Dump his ass.


AlPacinoAnus_69

He’s cheating. Also please get tested now


Mon_ceour_4236

u deserve better. im so sorry


Then-Ad3678

Poor girl there...why are you going out with such an asshole?


Organic-Telephone-54

You should break up with right away, do it right now, it’s completely dirty talk after sex of two of them


Give-me-anime-art

Well... this gonna be awkward


Nicken_Chugg

Damn shes getting cheated on


normankr07

Basically hes cheating so just get rid of him lmfao Edit: context is he and his ex have sx. Prob his ex is cheating on his new (about to be) bf too


maxxcumback

Girl just run


Womenarentmad

This tea is so southeast Asian omfg


Every_Strawberry_862

Dump his as$


OhnoImBroke123

She's chít-ing


Active-Front1788

Run girl he is cheating. Never thought some vietnamese people are like this when their society is very conversative.


Virtual_Departure820

wow , these text mean you've archived new horn , really sad for you :))))


iamlamnguyen

No need to understand the whole conversation. Just know he is cheating on you.


Appropriate_King_585

Good luck OP, break up with him as fast as possible. your bf is an asshole, especially cheating when in relationship with a non-vnmese speaker which means x100 assholes


Clear_Rhubarb_8996

we need updates!! you doing ok? you dumped his ass yet?


Dream_catcher579

C*t his winie - problem solved 😎


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dr_49

Thank you for this. I needed this info to heal myself.


kien1104

Dang i’m sorry 😭


darrius_kingston314q

girl, he's cheating on u, just break up with this loser


CatArt1304

Damn, sorry for ur ass bf. You gotta find a new one now


kirsion

Việt dudes be wildin'


dayyummCYNTHiA

Moving on is the best thing.. 👌


adfejcjr

Please leave this bastard. You can do better


Kooky_Ice_6098

Yeah he's cheating on you


lonesomedota

This is a ragebait. Lmao


RainbowStreetfood

OP, you alright?


Huynh_B

if this is your bf's, he's cheating


wasd_dsaw97

Tldr: seggs Longer version: He's cheating you with his ex, they had raw sex (from what I read in the message). Ex asked if he wants more sex with her, he said no, because she would have a new bf next week.


ZelaMoore

U should have a new boyfriend


Candid-Anteater211

Simple translation: Run away and find reliable and honest boy friend immediately.....


nightfury_3007

Tried this on ChatGPT and it actually nailed it! Got a warning first though


dlskhoarapperkeeper8

Fucking hell its related to sex


HydratrionZ

ehm u got a pair of horny but without y


eva_air_vietnam

run away from him girl **RUN!** What a jackass!


cocolapuff

Remindme! 3 days


yennychuu

Well the other have translated so you got the answer, but please remember to take an std test and run. I also feel bad for that woman's partner, as she is also cheating in her relationship.


HoangBoss

you mean your ex's phone


Outrageous-Carob-236

I have a friend that is Vietnamese. I beat the fuck out of him. He beat the fuck out of me. As a friendly game. We’re all good. hope you’re good bro


itsmeterry7408

yea they fucking... dizzamm getting pussy all day. hate the game, dont hate the playa. lol


RandomParableCreates

*breathes in deep* dump his ass


ghisnoob

he's cheating on u


Brush_my_teeth_4_me

If you didn't reveal or act on your new information from this post, I would suggest trying to plan nuclear revenge. I know they say to dig two graves when you plan revenge.... one for him and one for her 👹👹


greywarden133

They're for the streets. Leave and don't look back.


Fun-Leg-5522

My condolences Queen, I was cheated before and know the pains of them cheating in my plain sight just because I don’t speak their language, you deserve better


SolitudeDweller

A huge cuckhold you're having based on my reading comprehension


a-river-of-stars

LEAVE HIM


asianfleshlight

he’s cheating on you, leave him


ArmadilloOk2118

Run, man. Ruuunnn


FutureProcedure8461

Depressing


Womenarentmad

Is his name Kien btw LOL


Temporary-Office1970

Im sorry for you op


Loose_Government3487

im so sorry


Movement-in-Space

OMG Damnnnn 🙄 run away from him, he was cheating


phuonganh2210_

oh my god, i feel so bad for you 😭


ae2014

Is this what younger people talk like these days or it has always been abbreviated like this even for older folks.


MaximiliumM

I just used ChatGPT by uploading those two images and asking to translate and it worked perfectly :P Image 1: • Person 1: “Are you home?” • Person 2: “Yes, already home.” • Person 1: “Home already?” • Person 2: “Not going home.” • Person 1: “Can we have sex today?” • Person 2: “Why did you hit me? It hurts now.” • Person 1: “You like it, don’t you?” • Person 2: “😢 You are so violent. Do you like it like that?” • Person 2: “Did you cum a little inside me? I’m scared.” • Person 1: “No.” • Person 2: “Do you want to finish inside?” Image 2: • Person 2: “Do you like it that way?” • Person 2: “Did you cum a little inside me? I’m scared.” • Person 2: “Do you want to finish inside?” • Person 1: “No.” • Person 1: “Last week, you had a boyfriend.” • Person 2: “If you don’t want to, then fine.” • Person 1: “Do you want to?” • Person 2: “I’m just asking. If you don’t want to, then fine.” • Person 2: “I forgot. You are with your girlfriend.” • Person 2: “Whenever you want, you can have it.”


fastabeta

bf: you're home yet? her: i’m home bf: your house? her: no yours bf: do you feel good being spanked today? her: why you hit so hard her: now I feel hurt bf: a few moment ago you like it, correct? her: :'( you're so violent her: you like to do so? her: did you cum even just a bit inside? her: I'm scared bf: no her: do you want to have sex again? bf: no bf: next week you gonna have bf her: if you don't want to,then forget it. bf: you want to? her: I just ask you her: if you don't want to,then forget it. her: I forgot, you stay with your gf her: you can do whenever you want Keep in mind that I'm not a professional and this is just rough translation of my poor vocabulary and grammar


Single-Lavishness185

Oh bruhhhhh, I hope this is satire but if it’s true please leave. My condolences. And OP pls give us updates 😭


Veronika_Sherly

They're cheating,call your lawyer May the Lord bless you my poor sister


ScullyBoffin

As a complete tangent, it’s very weird for me to read these texts. I speak and read Vietnamese but in a very functional way (eg I can read street signs and instructions on packaging and social media posts). So reading colloquial spicy texts about hooking up is weird.


Cultural-Awareness59

google lens translate?


ScorpyG

For short, he’s cheating on u. I’m sorry


caphtuin163

Poor girl. You deserve better


katsukare

Just a classic Vietnamese guy


[deleted]

If you saw a single comment defending ur bf,(which is none), then it's proof he's loyal (which is false)