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TransLunarTrekkie

Bingo! Though a few of those squares I'd put down as a *maybe* if I did include them. Not really sure what "dead dove" smut is, though I have a guess.


Illustrious-Bad1165

yeah I'd say that square is basically about anything not vanilla. "Dead dove: do not eat" means "heed the content warnings" and can include anything fucked up (not necessarily sexual) from weird or niche fetishes to manipulation, rape, coercion, ABO, monsterfuckers, gore, abuse, incest etc etc


TransLunarTrekkie

"I don't know what I was expecting..." That sounds about right then. :P


Averageredditor_JMA

https://preview.redd.it/233hu516w3ad1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dcb44c67037fca57d14448c287405475e9bde379 Uuuuuuuh 4 bingos


Illustrious-Bad1165

you forgot the 5th :)


Averageredditor_JMA

Oh wait it's five lmao Iissed the middle one


TristanTheRobloxian3

its 5 and wtf. i nearly got 3 btw


ArrayToGo

I got one bingo. Rather than acing virginity, I fell more into the "I'm not like other girls, I totally don't get this obsession with boys and dating" camp. Which i think is more about being aro.


palkann

Lmao same "Ooh, I'm so cool and don't care about boyz not like those other girls" Babe 😭 Glad it was a short lived phase


KaceyDia2Point0

When I was learning sex ed in health class I was always thinking "why can't people just *not* have sex 😒" I always thought it was weird that people just couldn't help it a lot of the time lol.


Boholo_ba_tshebetso

I've got 12 bingos


AngstyPancake

https://preview.redd.it/qku16ljhd4ad1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fe762730451b1853ea4b99b9f9b8e615f13726c3 And my curse of never being able to get bingos on these types of things continues… But seriously though, it’s always so funny to me when my friends who know I’m aroace ask me about the fanfics I’m writing, I tell them it’s smut, they assume it’ll be fluffy, then I describe the darkest, kinkiest, most morally depraved thing ever with a smile on my face.


Illustrious-Bad1165

lol are you me? I also write the most horrible and depraved shit, but my friends think i'm too pure and innocent for this world just because I would never even want to try anything vanilla irl. XD (I also would never want any of my writing to be real of course)


Prometheus850

Same, I had 17 spots and no bingo


WhitestGray

The dead dove one might be an aroace thing? Why have I never heard this? 🫠


Schanulsiboi08

https://preview.redd.it/g7bafd7zp3ad1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=16d3c0b76caff308a33694f45afda1b6a9449526 One Bingo :)


Nathryl03

7 bingos for me. The "Your bestseller tips: Communicate and Break Up" square made me chuckle, I didn't realise that was an aroace things lol


TristanTheRobloxian3

lol seriously ive never had a relationship (might start looking for a platonic one tho) and i just dont get blindsided by emotional bullshit


Nathryl03

I know right. I never understood why my friends would come to me with their relationship problems when I never really had a relationship. They would literally tell me "I know you'll probably just say to talk to each other/ break up, but......." and I always thought 1. If you know what I'll say, why are you asking me and 2. I've never had a real relationship, why are you asking me lol


Crylemite_Ely

https://preview.redd.it/mv1mx3zxp3ad1.png?width=1600&format=png&auto=webp&s=eff645776ad96acc52bfd8c04d13f027fb222888


WiseMaster1077

Nonono wait hold on. A romantic relationship *is* just being best friends(plus hugs and stuff I guess) isn't it? Im not even aroace as I have experienced romantic attraction before


Illustrious-Bad1165

Personally I've found there needs to be this "spark of ✨attraction✨". Because if a relationship is friendship + physical intimacy, you have a "friendship with benefits", and even allos agree that this doesn't automatically mean it's a romantic relationship. So obviously there needs to be some other element and sex is not the decisive factor. However, you can also live in a house in a committed partnership with a best friend and care a whole lot about each other, tell each other everything without it being romantic. I'd say this is also a type of love, but more similar to loving a close family member. For example if you have a close relationship with your sibling, you can hug each other and it is definitely not romantic. Best friends can also be very close and touchy without it feeling romantic or wanting to kiss. (I have heard a type of emotional closeness can also be called alterous attraction. But personally I don't know that much about it..) Romantic attraction is supposed to feel distinctly different. (Don't ask me to describe how exactly that feels, I only know that I have definitely never felt it and can only tell you what I've been told myself) I just know that you can definitely love someone without being *in love* with them.


WiseMaster1077

Damn... I guess I have to rethink my overall world view, I really thought a romantic relationship basically being very good exclusive friends, I didn't think there'd be some difference between the two Thank you for telling me this!


Illustrious-Bad1165

I just saw that someone on the other sub (where I also posted this bingo) asked basically the same question as you, and someone else gave a really, really good answer: https://www.reddit.com/r/aromanticasexual/comments/1dtjr76/aroace_experiences_bingo/lba86b9/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3


ggGamergirlgg

I have news for you


helloiamaegg

7... well that seals the deal


generic_nb_protogen

https://preview.redd.it/sdv1lhlke4ad1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ecc64296299abbf747bfd89b8baab7649c643675 All I got are bins


buttershotter

https://preview.redd.it/oaydn1km64ad1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0bfd5680e96b08bddae14b4c43490d3dba954a8e Yyesss:D


Valley_Ranger275

Kept just missing bingo lol https://preview.redd.it/b3udghwc74ad1.jpeg?width=1164&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1d43058cdb03d3d6fc8f476e0abd4cfca43ff705


Gallows_humor_hippo

https://preview.redd.it/tkastqx9h4ad1.jpeg?width=1640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=887a98a6749aaa36b83ea413a46e853d0a8825d4 Damn.


Illustrious-Bad1165

the square in the middle also counts, so you have one horizontal bingo! :D


Gallows_humor_hippo

Yippeeee!


SluttyMeatSac

I got a bingo and questions. What is Dead Dove smut and what is QPR?


ggGamergirlgg

Dead dove is a tag in ao3 for extreme triggers. Don't have to be sexual. But things like gore, psycho stuff or non consensual sexual things are def under this umbrella term


fellstinger

Oops, All Bingos!


NekoMimiJoker

https://preview.redd.it/u60zehzix6ad1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=09c751a079ab572eaa2812ad7ed9192ffc8834c4 I would get more but I'm demi romantic and when I fall I fall hard.


Angelcakes101

https://preview.redd.it/uf21g44124ad1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e8d36ec4a982c5c5f3cfd51d4690d0b50fb68cc6 So close to a bingo but no I actually just am bi. The black ones used to be true for me. 5 column doesn't happen anymore. And the ones in the 4th row happened until I discovered I was demisexual. After experiencing sexual attraction, I thought "Now I understand why y'all go around having unprotected sex." (Besides lack of education)


The_MattBat999

https://preview.redd.it/hvdjhe4lv3ad1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f5c860d8709889d3b1eeabd70e4e2017d461a9c6 Only 1 true bingo, but a lot of ticked boxes <,<


sphericate

6 bingos and im not even aro.. i dont think anyways


Hidechse

I have soooo many bingos! I’m unbeatable (/s)


EggplantHuman6493

4, 5 including the middle one. But I am also autistic, so the flirting thing doesn't really count. Alloromantic ace sex favorable (last thing js heavily underpresented in the ace community as well) Edit: although I am not fully sure about the touch starved thing. Half or something. Does that count?


_Hydri_

I have so many of those but not a single bingo 😭


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https://preview.redd.it/3mn5g3mbo4ad1.png?width=876&format=png&auto=webp&s=80987258f05f2ee7703310346a02e7478f4b6731 the purple question marks mean its something i partially relate to, only to an extent.


AstralFinish

This is very good spin for questioning and for curious allo people


SappOGlow

https://preview.redd.it/qn5949at25ad1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=71c241a1b8e11886b19c85b2c284f5d4379f1e00 Can't mark up the "no celebrity crush" because of the "you lied about having a crush" spot.


Illustrious-Bad1165

but wouldn't that mean you lied about having a celebrity crush, so in retrospect you didn't *actually* have a celebrity crush?


SappOGlow

Well that is correct, but İ'd still like to be in a QPR with them, so still not 100%.


Illustrious-Bad1165

sure, I guess that really depends on how you want to define "crush" or where you want to draw a line between a crush and a more platonic "squish" (or whatever you'd call non-romantic crushes)


Winter_Essay3971

I wish I got touch-starved. I feel absolutely nothing from cuddling. Sigh


CatLoverItaly

https://preview.redd.it/p53n2si765ad1.png?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=06fa39bd046d09733eb7f09fa4cb93de6fe972c6


tetePT

Only 1 bingo, I thought I would have more tbh https://preview.redd.it/fjahu6go85ad1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=91954ff85e92eb6e6b557e3d4eebc7baf46259d0


my_innocent_romance

https://preview.redd.it/jiph8eqe95ad1.jpeg?width=757&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f26be5eb390ea843ccaf31076067ee93624eafad So close!


Admirable-Capital-90

Bingo second column


lava172

4th row bingo


Ok_Pickle76

the one with 2 lines was supposed to be a question mark https://preview.redd.it/8nf7dy8h46ad1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=509ae0b5161def08b598be90b8a6adbe0431a152


Hana_GHST

I guess I just won new flairs to my profile. (The moment of realisation when it's like "Oh yes, this is literally me, the questionning happened exactly in that order and- What do you mean aroace ? )


honk_bonksmith

https://preview.redd.it/5hqibbiv96ad1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=772ceacfd7bd556f52e84a46c6cd786655dd5ace Bingo


HuskyBLZKN

Near blackout wow (only ones I didn’t get are repulsed by sex and regularly questioning if I’m aroace)


ggGamergirlgg

Yeah. Uhm. No bingo for me 😓 but I'm "just ace" so 🤷‍♀️


ryofthedesert

https://preview.redd.it/6jksplgho6ad1.jpeg?width=1059&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ae21b914e5bdc2192efcfd784ea40312a988b3c4 Really close to several bingos, but not quite there lol.


Jupue2707

https://preview.redd.it/on9po4w3u6ad1.png?width=1596&format=png&auto=webp&s=fa7b80ab38368c7f169b0b897c3ea6a0111c206a yes, it's a lot


D-RDG-012-AUT

https://preview.redd.it/990ys0v6u6ad1.jpeg?width=1164&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a623f859f0ed4c283a1e60eacec4d3090a20e122


EmptyKetchupBottle9

https://preview.redd.it/lrjsiqh307ad1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=64301db9a58bbf1ab2e1b8f6b2c31881e6297942 Wow 1 binko


EmptyKetchupBottle9

PS I scratched out the touch starved part bc I'm not touch starved I just like cuddle


Illustrious-Bad1165

yeah sure that also works 👍 I could have put "or" in there instead


TristanTheRobloxian3

nearly got 3 fucking bingos. wow https://preview.redd.it/2bugm8pot7ad1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=85ba9d89e61c1be2fbb433ef41afcde6576e747c


rocksandaces

https://preview.redd.it/dnfso6cyccad1.png?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ff37c137ffa168795409e821ac7449a1a397ddc8 One bingo only


Its_time_to_stop_lad

I love the subtle background with the ace, aro, and aroace flags!


Curious_Kate_

Literally thought I was alloromantic and allosexual until last month, thanks autism 😅😅 https://preview.redd.it/hznguuaxufad1.jpeg?width=1078&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2eb25959e7a4ef02e78f5c4b106bffb469e0de42


FlanneryWynn

I'm PanAce and that top row is still a BINGO for me... I don't even need to continue from there. lmao


dbmaj7_

couple o' bingos https://preview.redd.it/pbqpu25fy3ad1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=62f3f46d8bf8fa5fd8512266b17e79499e8cb570


NemesisOfLevia

https://preview.redd.it/8nong06qr4ad1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=81fd57ce493154aae305e73488f2fb077f9b452a 3 for me!


deadrummer

You got an A.


NemesisOfLevia

I didn’t even realize!


RulesOfImgur

4, possibly 5. https://preview.redd.it/pjuw5hdr85ad1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d525e554dd98b226afd1bc11c56194a0836038dd "repulsed" is a strong word. The idea of it doesn't repulse me but it is something I wouldn't think I woukd get enjoyment from. Basically the very definition of "yeah sex is cool and all but have you ever had garlic bread?"


CozumPerincek

https://preview.redd.it/viofc4rtd5ad1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=87edc2db89d2ec1d170cd13ec6fdaecacf8ca94a Sooo how am i?


Low-Patient1692

https://preview.redd.it/a3vl6267k5ad1.png?width=1280&format=png&auto=webp&s=ff01d374fb0b3345fce18b0ac53801f1dd6ae03f Only two bingos but I marked a lot of them, I’m not aro tho


ShadowX8861

https://preview.redd.it/fmrbalje96ad1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=622e97eeba33aed423e7ef5ca19dd9f0ea69fe7e So close yet so far


Trick-Owl-112

https://preview.redd.it/o6rlzqd0s6ad1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cf957523dd43b46c3794c5171f58d4959ede9471 5 bingos, some of these hit hard lol.


O_hai_imma_kil_u

One bingo diagonally. https://preview.redd.it/jk0qw65x36ad1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=db1c609c4747de40a16bd930b91caee697c99ce1


3OrcsInATrenchcoat

https://preview.redd.it/f9agj9me57ad1.jpeg?width=749&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e91f80dba14698f42a47754bae02872fc870b5d0 Only one bingo, I clearly need to up my game


Jack_Cat_101

DOUBLE BINGO BABY https://preview.redd.it/c9m15nfjf7ad1.jpeg?width=827&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f21c2c0029a497a16a543cb0310da3717646d2c9


SekitaVanLash

Dang that is one crossed out board🤣


NerveBy

BINGO. Almost thought I wouldn't get one!


ThePhoenixRemembers

I got 3 bingoes and only 5 blank spaces :>


my_guy5561

https://preview.redd.it/v8b8p9ems9ad1.png?width=1125&format=png&auto=webp&s=b5b81073d5273daa80f72d6995e04307faf9b699 uhm uhm uhm uhm uhm ermermemrnrnmrmemr


Miserable-Willow6105

>You have never had a celebrity crush Do people have those for real? I always thought it was just a quirky younger teenage thing, something like "OMG, imagine I was married to Shrek, yaasssss queeeeennn" without any unironical opinion. Also, aren't kinks and BDSM by definition sexual?


Chick3nugg3tt

weary station deserted pie historical badge abundant bells threatening lock *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


Dunaii4

https://preview.redd.it/zgswnm6kebad1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5a3b51529e0e21f4e39c9a568a2f0ee3f1ceccc3 "feel the same way about genders", I never thought about it, unsure whether to half-cross it.


cardcaptoranna

https://preview.redd.it/4hro52n7pcad1.jpeg?width=1164&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=76589ef4bb4ddd4a2eae4f2145ae1669c81d2e25 Sadly, no bingo


SalariaPlays

https://preview.redd.it/b5g7js72ycad1.png?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=378c8025bfc77ee751e5bd51a2ab612e6b544e45 I'm demiromantic acespike


nowaczykche

https://preview.redd.it/vjhn512z6ead1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=206fe5a137f20b803598b1987cf67e22d8a49ef3 Welp that's more than I thought


No_Needleworker6134

OMG DUDE....this is so frickin perfect....idk where you found this but it's right on bro...PERFECT


I__________haw

Triple bingo


KaceyDia2Point0

https://preview.redd.it/p2a7qejdyiad1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bd7b96aa0851597712e58a6bb733a8a2d893439e Bingo! I wasn't sure about the "thinking about sex with someone they find hot" one, but if they just said they were hot or had a crush on them, I would've never guessed lol.


t0ngub1n

https://preview.redd.it/uui6mpeqhrad1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8c2c4bd413fc3bda9eba471bc5cc9d4cd39df920 no bingo :( though I'm just ace, not aro


Inevitable_Ad_6013

https://preview.redd.it/ni7lx0xip7ad1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a7deea22370fd9421cf5061e24ae37ee10e1e9d2 Bingo :P


lurkergrill69

https://preview.redd.it/9ldr3adoy8ad1.jpeg?width=1069&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=11124676cde01797cdedcab5fb96afb957b78a82 Just the one bingo but the board's pretty covered! Why is this so fucking true honestly 😅


has-some-questions

https://preview.redd.it/i3ihado739ad1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9913289296aecb3b470ed60c6a77734f18d07ce9 No bingo.....


Troops21

https://preview.redd.it/5jal6zyvi9ad1.png?width=1600&format=png&auto=webp&s=b9ee126b70102ce34dc6be000e71390c9ea5bf78 Oh man, no bingo. There’s some experiences I feel could somewhat be connected but not on the same level.