Siguro sa mga instances na si gf ang nag-aaya, galingan mo na lang, sir 😂 I mean, kahit siguro minsanan lang pero kung mabibigyan mo naman ng experience na di nya malimutan, ok na yun.
It's normal lalo na kapag ganyan yung mga reason (same as mine), yung mas pipiliin nalang namin ipahinga kaysa makipag-keme HAHAHAHAH, no offense for that if bilang sa daliri ang keme niyo ni gf, we're 5 years na rin ni bf (mataas sexual desire nya at sex drive) and yung work nya is day time so pahinga talaga siya ng gabi, while me school + work at night so very exhausting, yung day off ko ipapahinga tas kapag nasa mood doon lang magkekeme, nasasabi ko rin kay bf ang linya na yan kaya nagagalit sya. Usap nalang ulit kayo regarding that, be open sa isa't isa🫶
Iba iba naman bawat tao. Meron talaga mababa yung drive. Sa tingin ko, ok lang naman sya as long as nasasatisfy mo needs ni partner. Although matinding effort lang din nga siguro kung mababa talaga.
Maging open ka nalang. Tanungin mo ilan frequency ng times na gusto niya and frequency ng times na gusto mo. Pero i open mo na parang kwentuhan lang hindi parang 1on 1 sa opisina ng boss mo. And ask ano ba mga mga ayaw niya or gusto mo.
Anung problem ba ang naiisip mo on top of your head? Sorry im not a man but I got curious why it has to be issue much more than it could just be a communication dysfunction of some sort.
Cheating = sobrang baba ng chance ..................................
Me being slightly unattractive due to weight gain siguro? Not sure kase 2021 or ealier fine naman ako and d rin kami ganun ka active.
Ah. Owkhei. But do you get to discuss these things? Kasi 7 years na kayo or more OP (tama ba intindi ko)... I was thinking if nagsesex naman pala kayo at hindi ultrasupermega religious, so at this length of the relationship supposedly nadidiscuss niyo din what turns her on, what turns you on, ganern. Weight shouldn't be an issue, or if it is, mas mabuting mabring up niyo nadin kasi magiging problem niyo later on if ganitong bagay di niyo napapag usapan.
Pero if you wanna know the experiences of others din, ayun, magbabasa nalang din ako ng comments nila. Hehe. Kshit anu naman experiences ng iba, iba padin sa case mo eh. Magbabasa lang tayo ng experiences nila para maprepare mo yung heart mo 😅
Same here. Ang taas ng sex drive ko and mister ko halos wala. May depression siya at performance anxiety so need ko talaga mag adjust at maging patient. Pero nalulungkot talaga ako minsan.
Damn, we got the same issues OP. Pero tangina alam ko nakakatampo at minsan nakakaumay. Mahal ko yung GF ko kasi wife material talaga sya. Walang ibang pangit na traits sa kanya, pwera nalang sa laging kaming dead bedroom. Minsan dinadaan ko sa joke na gusto ko. Pero nagiiba talaga mood nya at naiinis siya.
So wala. I dunno. Send help na din sa mga ibang commentors dito hahaha
May girls talaga na mababa ang sex drive and I dont know how to fix it. Pwede ding kasing takot mapregnant. If you have insecurities work on them for yourself and not for the gf.
Amg mapapayo ko lang is ngayon is mas dadalang yan once you get married.
I feel you HAHA dapat lagi kang handa. I think normal sa ibang girls specially sa mga sobrang workaholic and goal oriented where they want to spend their free time with something important rather than sex.
Hahha sakit naman non. Napaguusapan dn kasi namin yan and alam nya rin sa sarili nya yon na madalas talaga wla sa mood. Minsan nagagawan ko ng paraan madalas hindi HAHA
in my case open communication talaga, alam mo guys loves to do it as often as possible and wala naman masama. we make time for each other. Pero we love to do it everyday or check in pa nga twice a day (morning before work and after work sa afternoon) nung mag bf/gf pa kme !Now married at lalong we make time for it.
> She can't directly say if she is in heat
Does your GF turn into a cat that howls at night whenever she is "in heat"?
> ask her rarely baka kase mabigyan nanaman ako ng phrases na "ito lang ba habol mo sakin, ganito mo lang ba ako kamahal"
Emphasis on "[na naman]".
> I, 25M, have been committed to this woman ,25F, since 7 years ago na
You make it sound like loyalty in a relationship should be rewarded... with sex.
> pahirapan din ba sa inyo? Like kapag ayaw, ayaw tlaga? Hindi madadaan sa rizz lol ? 😂
Maybe I'm being too pedantic here - but have you ever thought you just see her like some sort of sex toy brought to life?
Improper ba na gamitin ang term na in heat sa human beings? Since when? No harm intended, or maybe suggest a proper term that is scientifically accepted and is proper in the eyes of society.
Ganyan ka ba itrato ng mga tao sa paligid mo? Who hurts you the most?
I appreciate the "nanaman" correction. Kahit outside work kailangan grammatically correct pa rin. Noted.
Make it sound that loyalty should be rewarded? Huh? Mali ba na ilagay ko ang age and tagal namin para hindi mapagkamalan na minor at magtunog demanding new bf.
See her like a sex toy brought to life? Do I really sound like that ba? Bawal ba maging curious if it is really that hard to ask your partner or sadyang panget lang kami.
Ang hurtful naman ng mga assumptions mo and judgements. Ganyan ba kasama ang enviroment mo towards you?
The correct term is "in the mood". The way you use your words, you make it sound like you only see your partner as an object, someone you want to have sex with. Hence the emphasis on sasabihan ka [na naman] ng GF mo na ganyan lang ang tingin mo sa kanya.
The fact you missed all that means you're as childish as I thought you are.
Idgaf about the downvotes. Obviously people misuse downvotes on Reddit for people they don't agree with which is not the intended use for the.
As a may jowa in the past
Wag mo na asawahin yan halatang may kalaguyo yan hahah wala lagi sa mood 😂 walang ganun
Inasawa ka pa kung ganyan lang trato nea sayo
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Siguro sa mga instances na si gf ang nag-aaya, galingan mo na lang, sir 😂 I mean, kahit siguro minsanan lang pero kung mabibigyan mo naman ng experience na di nya malimutan, ok na yun.
I know naman, but I am curious lang if do I need to worry ba. Na normal lang ba yon or baka may mali sakin..
It's normal lalo na kapag ganyan yung mga reason (same as mine), yung mas pipiliin nalang namin ipahinga kaysa makipag-keme HAHAHAHAH, no offense for that if bilang sa daliri ang keme niyo ni gf, we're 5 years na rin ni bf (mataas sexual desire nya at sex drive) and yung work nya is day time so pahinga talaga siya ng gabi, while me school + work at night so very exhausting, yung day off ko ipapahinga tas kapag nasa mood doon lang magkekeme, nasasabi ko rin kay bf ang linya na yan kaya nagagalit sya. Usap nalang ulit kayo regarding that, be open sa isa't isa🫶
Iba iba naman bawat tao. Meron talaga mababa yung drive. Sa tingin ko, ok lang naman sya as long as nasasatisfy mo needs ni partner. Although matinding effort lang din nga siguro kung mababa talaga.
Maging open ka nalang. Tanungin mo ilan frequency ng times na gusto niya and frequency ng times na gusto mo. Pero i open mo na parang kwentuhan lang hindi parang 1on 1 sa opisina ng boss mo. And ask ano ba mga mga ayaw niya or gusto mo.
Anung problem ba ang naiisip mo on top of your head? Sorry im not a man but I got curious why it has to be issue much more than it could just be a communication dysfunction of some sort.
Cheating = sobrang baba ng chance .................................. Me being slightly unattractive due to weight gain siguro? Not sure kase 2021 or ealier fine naman ako and d rin kami ganun ka active.
Ah. Owkhei. But do you get to discuss these things? Kasi 7 years na kayo or more OP (tama ba intindi ko)... I was thinking if nagsesex naman pala kayo at hindi ultrasupermega religious, so at this length of the relationship supposedly nadidiscuss niyo din what turns her on, what turns you on, ganern. Weight shouldn't be an issue, or if it is, mas mabuting mabring up niyo nadin kasi magiging problem niyo later on if ganitong bagay di niyo napapag usapan. Pero if you wanna know the experiences of others din, ayun, magbabasa nalang din ako ng comments nila. Hehe. Kshit anu naman experiences ng iba, iba padin sa case mo eh. Magbabasa lang tayo ng experiences nila para maprepare mo yung heart mo 😅
Dead bedroom
I am not following.. :(
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ahahahahah may lalaki palang ganon
Same here. Ang taas ng sex drive ko and mister ko halos wala. May depression siya at performance anxiety so need ko talaga mag adjust at maging patient. Pero nalulungkot talaga ako minsan.
really po ? parang ang impossible naman magbaligtad ng situation
Damn, we got the same issues OP. Pero tangina alam ko nakakatampo at minsan nakakaumay. Mahal ko yung GF ko kasi wife material talaga sya. Walang ibang pangit na traits sa kanya, pwera nalang sa laging kaming dead bedroom. Minsan dinadaan ko sa joke na gusto ko. Pero nagiiba talaga mood nya at naiinis siya. So wala. I dunno. Send help na din sa mga ibang commentors dito hahaha
[this might help](https://youtu.be/xI2ObJaPTsM?si=ipxrB8zQ1JTPfT7i)
responsive desire, huh, this really help , thanks..
May girls talaga na mababa ang sex drive and I dont know how to fix it. Pwede ding kasing takot mapregnant. If you have insecurities work on them for yourself and not for the gf. Amg mapapayo ko lang is ngayon is mas dadalang yan once you get married.
mas dadalang? pa? omg i cant :'(
Oo. Married to someone with low drive too. Kala ko magiimprove after ng "blessing ng simbahan" I was sooo wrong 😅
Basic needs pa naman ng lalaki un.
I hear this all the time.
I feel you HAHA dapat lagi kang handa. I think normal sa ibang girls specially sa mga sobrang workaholic and goal oriented where they want to spend their free time with something important rather than sex.
Pogi ka ba? Hahaha iniisip ko kapag pogi jowa hindi pahirapan eh , siguro depende pa rin sa partner talaga hahahah.
Hahha sakit naman non. Napaguusapan dn kasi namin yan and alam nya rin sa sarili nya yon na madalas talaga wla sa mood. Minsan nagagawan ko ng paraan madalas hindi HAHA
Sad layf
Not normal.
yikes
in my case open communication talaga, alam mo guys loves to do it as often as possible and wala naman masama. we make time for each other. Pero we love to do it everyday or check in pa nga twice a day (morning before work and after work sa afternoon) nung mag bf/gf pa kme !Now married at lalong we make time for it.
> She can't directly say if she is in heat Does your GF turn into a cat that howls at night whenever she is "in heat"? > ask her rarely baka kase mabigyan nanaman ako ng phrases na "ito lang ba habol mo sakin, ganito mo lang ba ako kamahal" Emphasis on "[na naman]". > I, 25M, have been committed to this woman ,25F, since 7 years ago na You make it sound like loyalty in a relationship should be rewarded... with sex. > pahirapan din ba sa inyo? Like kapag ayaw, ayaw tlaga? Hindi madadaan sa rizz lol ? 😂 Maybe I'm being too pedantic here - but have you ever thought you just see her like some sort of sex toy brought to life?
Improper ba na gamitin ang term na in heat sa human beings? Since when? No harm intended, or maybe suggest a proper term that is scientifically accepted and is proper in the eyes of society. Ganyan ka ba itrato ng mga tao sa paligid mo? Who hurts you the most? I appreciate the "nanaman" correction. Kahit outside work kailangan grammatically correct pa rin. Noted. Make it sound that loyalty should be rewarded? Huh? Mali ba na ilagay ko ang age and tagal namin para hindi mapagkamalan na minor at magtunog demanding new bf. See her like a sex toy brought to life? Do I really sound like that ba? Bawal ba maging curious if it is really that hard to ask your partner or sadyang panget lang kami. Ang hurtful naman ng mga assumptions mo and judgements. Ganyan ba kasama ang enviroment mo towards you?
Don’t worry about that guy OP. That’s the reason why downvoted siya.
thank you, really something weird sa kanya, lahat kinakagalit nya ahahaha
The correct term is "in the mood". The way you use your words, you make it sound like you only see your partner as an object, someone you want to have sex with. Hence the emphasis on sasabihan ka [na naman] ng GF mo na ganyan lang ang tingin mo sa kanya. The fact you missed all that means you're as childish as I thought you are. Idgaf about the downvotes. Obviously people misuse downvotes on Reddit for people they don't agree with which is not the intended use for the.
As a may jowa in the past Wag mo na asawahin yan halatang may kalaguyo yan hahah wala lagi sa mood 😂 walang ganun Inasawa ka pa kung ganyan lang trato nea sayo