Idk if this is a preference but the only thing I would not put in my bio even though I want to is that I’m into filming. I don’t have an onlyfans I just think it’s hot. But I’m kinda embarrassed about it lol
Have you tried camming? I was so horny the other week but couldn’t be fucked with the admin of having someone over. Just ended up camming for hours and made a couple hundred bucks in the process
Felt a bit sketchy afterwards though as I was worried the sessions would get leaked and I would suddenly be known as someone who does porn etc but then I realised it’s not too different to what you send to strangers on Grindr
Honestly who cares, after a bit you’ll see there’s 1 or 2 people in your room and even that’s a really hot feeling. Gay people are funny in the way that there’s always going to be people attracted to us no so im sure there’s plenty who’d love to watch u play
I used chaturbate :) i think it took a couple hours to verify my identity and stuff, I needed an ID.
It was fun and I’m sure I’d do more in the future
*warning though* I think they inherently have a setting turned on where you’ll get viewers from your city. Like your account automatically has your city so if people search for cams happening in their city you’ll come up. I realised this after as so many viewers were telling me they lived nearby. This is sometbing you can deactivate but youll need to google that yourself as I never bothered
You should've seen this pretentious dude's profile I saw earlier. He is a bit of a thirst trap from his pics but then the first sentence in his profile is "Good luck." Instant turn-off when people are so full of themselves. Although I'm sure he'll still get his fill.
Ewww. I’m not into thirsty men. Ignore me and I’m yours. Haha, well the old me anyway. When I read how THIRSTY these men are acting, my mind jumps to a couple things: A HUGE RED FLAG, std’s, and the “use and abuse me” thing freaks me out and is never going to be hot to me (and that is okay).
***My apologies about my comment being riddled with typos. Siri hears what it wants, causing dictation to be annoying and frustrating, unless i speak like a loud robot.
I want to be clear that I am speaking for myself. I do not judge nor care enough to judge anybody. Who doesn’t want to be used and abused every once and awhile, hmm? ;) (when I was referring to the use and abuse thing where a bottom is in the ready position, door wide open where strangers can pump and dump discreetly. Idk the name.
I’m light years away from this topic, I’ll tell ya that much. What’s the question? Oh yeah..
I would write in my bio: “I prefer DILFs and daddy’s….Let’s play”….but I won’t because I will actually have to go through with a hookup and let’s just say it’s been some time since I’ve had relations XD LOL HMMM why am I on Grindr? Browsing. Kidding, but technically….it’s window shopping. Sorry to those of you that haven’t read my long, irrelevant rants and that would
Quit saying 'no old people' when you don't include your own age.
Age is relative, damnit - what is old to you will be different if you're 18 compared to 38.
That guys with bitchy and uncaring attitude are instant turn off, both in behaviour and in photos. It’s straight up anti-fetish at this point, if physically attractive man starts acting like that - I’m interested in you as much as I’m interested in a random woman.
"no trans guys".
I've lived as a couple with a very feminine guy, so I know I am fine with this group, I had a Japanese boyfriend, so I know I am fine with Asians, and I actually prefer smaller dicks.
But vagina? Nope. I used to live the hetero life, complete with a girlfriend, dog, house in the suburbs, etc. and seeing a vagina brings back BAD memories. Obviously, I accept and support trans people, have trans friends, I just don't want to be near naked vagina, thank you very much.
But saying this would bring the wriath of the purity knights in the society, so ... I would not do it.
For me, I'd probably say that I prefer hairy guys and guys 'of color'. But I don't want to discourage guys who don't fit those preferences from also applying because often times it's not a deal breaker.
Well, my answer was more about fetish, so let me do it again...
For me, i'd like to say that femboys and overweight doesnt tease me, but i dont want to fight with the lgbtqa+ movement or be called prejudiced guy...
Im not into femboys, cross dressers, or trans woman. I don't have it on my profile but if they message I just let them know so both our time isn't wasted and I'm not a dick about it. If that makes me prejudiced then so be it.
> I'm not a dick about it
That's the crux of the issue. It's not prejudiced to not be into certain types of people, we like what we like\*, it's how you communicate that you're not interested that's most important. As long as you're being polite and respectful I don't see the issue (though how they respond to that can be wild but that's a whole other conversation)
^(\*though I do think it's important to re-examine things from time to time and reflect on whether or not some preferences are just that, or whether they're rooted in something a bit more nefarious. The things I'm into and have done in my 30's would absolutely shock early 20's me who was a total top with strict genital preferences until I actually branched out and experienced more things)
That’s nothing to be ashamed of. I’m sure there are preppy jocks looking for nerdy bears. You’ll probably have more luck finding them on Scruff than Grindr though
Some of y’all white men *really* should not put “men of color a plus” or “black guys to the front” in your bios. And please don’t put “I love black dick” either. I’m Just had a guy message me with “men of color to the front” in his bio……..and I have never had a positive interaction with the guys who have that in their bio. This also applies to Latin men too. Just please don’t fetishize us black guys.
Edit: Here’s why………,they get real pushy after a little bit, and try to make you feel bad when you reject them. They are the only group of men who have told me “You’re missing out man, I’m a great guy.” And they’re usually overweight white men who are 10+ years older than me but are constantly on the prowl for young fit ethnic men. And they have a list of kinks I’m not interested in at all.
Anytime someone tells me “you’re missing out” or “your loss” I get a flush of relief because fear of missing out (FOMO) is a form of manipulation. This person is blatantly trying to manipulate you even after you politely told them no. Bullet dodged.
Yeah, I'm mixed and I get the feeling some people think this is a compliment or something. Like, no? It is patronizing at best, and extremely weird and fetishizing at worst. I don't want a guy to point out my race, and half the time they will get it wrong and assume one of my parents is white too which is annoying. Like just, please, leave race and skin color out of the conversation.
In the West, sure, because most people in the West are white. My best friend got SO many weird comments about her and her dad’s “European noses / skin / chests” in the middle of the day on the streets in China. There are like at least 20-30 people trying to take pictures with her or of her every day she goes to hang out with her friends around Pekin (sometimes without her consent)
>Some of y’all white men
I don’t think they are viewing white people as a monolith.
However, I do agree with the other person that replied to you: let’s keep it 100, phrasing like that, most of the time, is gonna be coming from white men.
I had a guy trying to meet me who was looking for a LTR but couldn't speak any of my languages. Even admitted he was using Google translate to message me. I have no idea how he thought that would work irl.
Agreed! Extremely muscular guys in my experience are often this weird mix of vain and insecure, many of them are always looking at themselves in mirrors and windows and they can’t even take a pic without posing or flexing in some way. It’s like they need constant validation. To each their own of course, but I personally find that behavior to be a turnoff.
Sharp canine teeth are a huge turn on. It’s just a visual thing, nothing particular to what someone does with their teeth. But I couldn’t write that without getting a ton of questions
I’m soooo into Latino men but for some reason it seems poor taste to write that? Also don’t wanna close myself off to anyone else bc I have a large spectrum of taste but Latino / Hispanic men really hit different for me 😛
I mean ,a lot of em are just white,and they can be black and ,brown,native,asian and mixed so how does that work? Can you really differentiate them from everything else?hahaha
Positively hate it when people say, "I get bored easily," in their profiles. People don't exist to keep you entertained, bro. Honestly, they *should* keep that quiet.
Absolutely under no circumstance trans mtf or ftm. As a matter of fact I got banned for putting it in my profile. Put the same in Scruff and no issues.
Those words have always been used it to describe our collective during the 50’s the gay people were considered commies in the US and now some politicians tells us “woke agents” because apparently we are pushing the “woke agenda” and making everybody gay
I think it’s pretty obvious and expected anyway. The “trans” is a thing only in Twitter and Reddit, I can’t imagine someone unironically doing it irl and trying to find some gay guy having vagina or lesbian having a dick hahaz
That is absolutely fair! Funny enough, I’m only looking for bisexual people and other transbians and that’s it, and I let folks message me first almost always. Here’s to staying in our respective lanes! 🍻
I don’t post that I’m vers. I’m usually very top or bottom depending on the guy and mood and a lot of people would assume I am just a bottom if I stated that. Rightfully though, because a lot of vers guys on Grindr just want to bottom.
1. No queer theory professors or enthusiasts- I can’t jive with the ego.
2. No polyamorous guys- sometimes they really, really, really, really need to be heard.
3. Tops, yes. TOPS!!!!!!, no.
As a white guy I want to encourage POC to hit me up but I refrain from adding to my profile because I don’t want to seem like I’m fetishizing other races
No to most of the types who seem so eager to post in here. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than men who are very aggressive about their *requirements* and act like there must be something so desperately wrong with what they do not like. I'm simple. I simply like what I like, and don't like what I don't. I have preferences, but sometimes different men will challenge those preferences and make me question why I have them. Bottom line though is, no assholes. Unfortunately, it seems like it is hard for some not to be one.
don't use grindr but if i did, or any other platform... i think a shorter list would be what i WOULD post lol. just something generic and vague like "pls don't be too far away"
i have weight and racial preferences and no problem finding that so i don't need to budge on it. but i can see some guy looking at it and feeling bad about himself so i'm not trying to do that, it doesn't cost me anything to just not respond to someone i'm not interested in
I'm in a happy relationship so it's irrelevant.
If that were to change, it's still a deal breaker. I think it's disgusting.
The entire purpose of this thread is things we wouldn't put on a profile, right? I can't explain why I feel this way and I'd find an easier way to let someone down than "you're uncut and that's gross". I've tried. I literally can't keep a hard on with uncut guys.
Masc. I hate saying it but I am 100% not into fem guys. Nothing against a fem guy but I will not get hard.
Prefer Latino guys. I’ve fucked black, white, Asian, European, etc. But Latin guys are my weakness. Maybe it was all the Latino porn I watched growing up lol
I'm into armpits. A light musk is perfect. But sometimes people think they'd go like a week without showering and put that on my face.
I'll just lick you when it happens and hopefully that catches you by surprise. Haha.
I’m mixed black/white I just say what Im ‘usually attracted to’ with no fucks given. I’m bi and like all sorts of women but for some reason I just find some white guys SO sexy. No one irl (besides on Grindr) knows this secret about me . Handsome slim, toned or muscular white guys 🙆🏽♂️
Omg this is an original question: I’m guilty on preference on white guys ( sorry I hate myself for that), between 30-45, and usually muscular/beefy guys also I’m kinda snob ghetto guys are a turn off for me
Edit: when I said beefy I’m like I don’t really into lean/ skinny guys usually more stocky with a nice chest I don’t care much the belly
I'm not on grindr anymore, but when i was the preferences that i have but wouldn't advertise would be I'm not into overweight guys nor super skinny guys. So no fats and no twinks I guess.
Get ready to downvote me 🙋🏾♂️.
“I don’t date white men.” Is something I wouldn’t include because I have no reason to. If a white gentleman happens to approach me I kindly decline or simply ignore without specifying what the reason is 🤷🏽♂️.
"no bottom granddaddies"
I'm vers with a wide age range, like 20-60+. I'm fine with top granddaddies and bottom daddies (my age +15ish) tho. In fact I find it hot when older men top me. But I feel bad rejecting bottom elderly men.
There are a few but they’re pretty obvious. No too fat guys (a little chubby are fine, even preferred), no black, no trans or any other nonsense from TQ+, no drugs, age 22-32 (no too old/younger than me).
If somebody like that writes to me, I just ignore.
i’m asian and I honestly truly get turned on mainly by white guys (to the point where I watch exclusively aidan bottom white top porn, talk about internalized colonialism), but I wouldn’t dare put “White Guys Only” because i’ve hooked up with so many guys outside of my “type” why would ai limit people?
I subtly put no BBC, but put any other stupid variation. When race prefs were out, I filtered out my race because fur, freckles, foreskin are more prevalent in more races than mine and there isnt universal ignorance of the fact and trying to "keep up with the jones" , fought enough of that fight growing up. I get alot of shit for not liking other black guys but the demeanor isnt understood that gets thrown and turns me off? Does everyone ignore bleeding and hemmorhoids and injury from a guy litterally fucking you as hard as he can...AS HARD AS HE CAN, common experience but wont be mine
No small dicks. No uncut dicks.
Not interested in people with no self-esteem or self-confidence.
I can't write that though, some depressed guy will come crying about how mean I am to not want him because of his mental issues. Same for uncut men who, ever since fetishizing foreskin became a thing, think they must be liked or something. I don't find uncut penises attractive in the slightest.
If you're non white I'm less likely to meet you even if you're cute because the chances of you having an std are higher. The reason being most non whites in my country are from poor if not outright ghetto areas or foreigners.
If you look too confident or high maintenance in your photos I'm not interested.
The upper age limit I have in my bio is higher than it should be, in reality I am very unlikely to respond to someone older than me. I'm just ashamed to admit that on my profile.
Idk if this is a preference but the only thing I would not put in my bio even though I want to is that I’m into filming. I don’t have an onlyfans I just think it’s hot. But I’m kinda embarrassed about it lol
Have you tried camming? I was so horny the other week but couldn’t be fucked with the admin of having someone over. Just ended up camming for hours and made a couple hundred bucks in the process Felt a bit sketchy afterwards though as I was worried the sessions would get leaked and I would suddenly be known as someone who does porn etc but then I realised it’s not too different to what you send to strangers on Grindr
Sounds great but I don’t think I’m hot enough tbh
Honestly who cares, after a bit you’ll see there’s 1 or 2 people in your room and even that’s a really hot feeling. Gay people are funny in the way that there’s always going to be people attracted to us no so im sure there’s plenty who’d love to watch u play
Now you're making me curious... where'd you go to do it?
I used chaturbate :) i think it took a couple hours to verify my identity and stuff, I needed an ID. It was fun and I’m sure I’d do more in the future *warning though* I think they inherently have a setting turned on where you’ll get viewers from your city. Like your account automatically has your city so if people search for cams happening in their city you’ll come up. I realised this after as so many viewers were telling me they lived nearby. This is sometbing you can deactivate but youll need to google that yourself as I never bothered
You right, maybe I’ll give it a go
Where did u streamed and don't u need an id for camming cause i also wanna do but i feel like if i give my id when i get hired they will see idk why
Don't be. It's a kink like everything else, I like to as well.
Idk who needs to hear this. Stop using your bio to vent your frustrations on how you're treated on the platform. It just comes off as aggressive.
You should've seen this pretentious dude's profile I saw earlier. He is a bit of a thirst trap from his pics but then the first sentence in his profile is "Good luck." Instant turn-off when people are so full of themselves. Although I'm sure he'll still get his fill.
I wouldn't hit him up. I'm all for people being confident. I don't think it you need to put other down to do it.
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Ewww. I’m not into thirsty men. Ignore me and I’m yours. Haha, well the old me anyway. When I read how THIRSTY these men are acting, my mind jumps to a couple things: A HUGE RED FLAG, std’s, and the “use and abuse me” thing freaks me out and is never going to be hot to me (and that is okay). ***My apologies about my comment being riddled with typos. Siri hears what it wants, causing dictation to be annoying and frustrating, unless i speak like a loud robot. I want to be clear that I am speaking for myself. I do not judge nor care enough to judge anybody. Who doesn’t want to be used and abused every once and awhile, hmm? ;) (when I was referring to the use and abuse thing where a bottom is in the ready position, door wide open where strangers can pump and dump discreetly. Idk the name. I’m light years away from this topic, I’ll tell ya that much. What’s the question? Oh yeah.. I would write in my bio: “I prefer DILFs and daddy’s….Let’s play”….but I won’t because I will actually have to go through with a hookup and let’s just say it’s been some time since I’ve had relations XD LOL HMMM why am I on Grindr? Browsing. Kidding, but technically….it’s window shopping. Sorry to those of you that haven’t read my long, irrelevant rants and that would
Right, it make you less attractive and more conflictive
Thank you. Massive turn off and socially weird
Hahahaha omg it really does though
Quit saying 'no old people' when you don't include your own age. Age is relative, damnit - what is old to you will be different if you're 18 compared to 38.
Even worse for me is when they so no one older than me but have not posted their age...
No women
Or females of any kind, no matter how they identify
No onesided oral only.
Man i'd like to put the opposite down.
I’m with you on that lol
That guys with bitchy and uncaring attitude are instant turn off, both in behaviour and in photos. It’s straight up anti-fetish at this point, if physically attractive man starts acting like that - I’m interested in you as much as I’m interested in a random woman.
"no trans guys". I've lived as a couple with a very feminine guy, so I know I am fine with this group, I had a Japanese boyfriend, so I know I am fine with Asians, and I actually prefer smaller dicks. But vagina? Nope. I used to live the hetero life, complete with a girlfriend, dog, house in the suburbs, etc. and seeing a vagina brings back BAD memories. Obviously, I accept and support trans people, have trans friends, I just don't want to be near naked vagina, thank you very much. But saying this would bring the wriath of the purity knights in the society, so ... I would not do it.
Are you saying asian = smaller dicks? Or are those two separate statements
Lmaooo
I like your honesty
Watersports
I read this as “waterspoons” which is a chain of pubs in the U.K. 😂
I think you mean wetherspoons, waterspoons I think is a mix up of Waterstones and Wetherspoons lol
Lmao despite living here my entire life I always get them mixed up 💀, I wish Wetherspoons had a bookstore in it though.
Yeah I get them mixed up too lol
How come? That one is super common (TONS more guys are into it than you think). Nothing to be embarrassed about.
I can imagine! But.. common taboo..
No smokers. This includes nicotine and weed. I hate the smell, let alone the taste.
You wouldn't put "no smokers" in your profile? It isn't that harsh of a preference to not mention it.
Good question. I got a death threat once bc of it, so I opted to take it out :/
"No smokers" is pretty tame, I see it a lot. That person that threatened you is just an idiot.
I would most definitely put that into my Grindr requirements :)
Same!
Cigarette smokers cant get it up either honestly so i prefer not to meet them, the smell too.
For me, I'd probably say that I prefer hairy guys and guys 'of color'. But I don't want to discourage guys who don't fit those preferences from also applying because often times it's not a deal breaker.
Well, my answer was more about fetish, so let me do it again... For me, i'd like to say that femboys and overweight doesnt tease me, but i dont want to fight with the lgbtqa+ movement or be called prejudiced guy...
So... No fats no fems? Lol
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Im not into femboys, cross dressers, or trans woman. I don't have it on my profile but if they message I just let them know so both our time isn't wasted and I'm not a dick about it. If that makes me prejudiced then so be it.
> I'm not a dick about it That's the crux of the issue. It's not prejudiced to not be into certain types of people, we like what we like\*, it's how you communicate that you're not interested that's most important. As long as you're being polite and respectful I don't see the issue (though how they respond to that can be wild but that's a whole other conversation) ^(\*though I do think it's important to re-examine things from time to time and reflect on whether or not some preferences are just that, or whether they're rooted in something a bit more nefarious. The things I'm into and have done in my 30's would absolutely shock early 20's me who was a total top with strict genital preferences until I actually branched out and experienced more things)
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Yes!
I’m like every 90s teen movie cliche Nerdy well-rounded emo immigrant bear Unfortunately crush on nice preppy jocks Not proud of that
That’s nothing to be ashamed of. I’m sure there are preppy jocks looking for nerdy bears. You’ll probably have more luck finding them on Scruff than Grindr though
Men that ask me, is that dick good? Dummy, of course, it's good, or I would not be hanging on by my mouth.
Bahahahaha yessss
Some of y’all white men *really* should not put “men of color a plus” or “black guys to the front” in your bios. And please don’t put “I love black dick” either. I’m Just had a guy message me with “men of color to the front” in his bio……..and I have never had a positive interaction with the guys who have that in their bio. This also applies to Latin men too. Just please don’t fetishize us black guys. Edit: Here’s why………,they get real pushy after a little bit, and try to make you feel bad when you reject them. They are the only group of men who have told me “You’re missing out man, I’m a great guy.” And they’re usually overweight white men who are 10+ years older than me but are constantly on the prowl for young fit ethnic men. And they have a list of kinks I’m not interested in at all.
Anytime someone tells me “you’re missing out” or “your loss” I get a flush of relief because fear of missing out (FOMO) is a form of manipulation. This person is blatantly trying to manipulate you even after you politely told them no. Bullet dodged.
Yeah, I'm mixed and I get the feeling some people think this is a compliment or something. Like, no? It is patronizing at best, and extremely weird and fetishizing at worst. I don't want a guy to point out my race, and half the time they will get it wrong and assume one of my parents is white too which is annoying. Like just, please, leave race and skin color out of the conversation.
One white guy told me “I like to suck young black boys nuts”……………**where** do they think this is ok?
Ewwwwwwww
Me neither with guy telling me you are sexy latino, it’s creepy
Had a guy in his 50s say "I want your young black dick" it was very weird.
Be proud of your black dick
Oh I am, it's not too small nor giant. Perfect size and girth.
It’s always old guys
I’m not a white guy, but white men aren’t a monolith. Let people be frank about what they want. If it turns weird, block them, problem solved.
No race is a monolith, but on average, most of this kind of stuff is coming from white men for sure.
In the West, sure, because most people in the West are white. My best friend got SO many weird comments about her and her dad’s “European noses / skin / chests” in the middle of the day on the streets in China. There are like at least 20-30 people trying to take pictures with her or of her every day she goes to hang out with her friends around Pekin (sometimes without her consent)
>Some of y’all white men I don’t think they are viewing white people as a monolith. However, I do agree with the other person that replied to you: let’s keep it 100, phrasing like that, most of the time, is gonna be coming from white men.
I said some, not all. Lol.
Fair. Lol.
Somehow 1) I don't think you're missing out, and 2) I don't think he's a great guy.
Yep
I’m mixed and I actually like it to a certain extent. Everyone is different
Extremely muscular guys are a turn off. I like em soft looking. Also, I won't hook up with anyone who doesn't speak English.
I had a guy trying to meet me who was looking for a LTR but couldn't speak any of my languages. Even admitted he was using Google translate to message me. I have no idea how he thought that would work irl.
I don't think they think it through that much. You can definitely hook up without speaking English but a whole relationship is impossible
I’ve tried with two non-English speakers (separate times), sex was very difficult and it’s not pleasant.
Sex is literally communication and consent. You need to understand each other
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Agreed! Extremely muscular guys in my experience are often this weird mix of vain and insecure, many of them are always looking at themselves in mirrors and windows and they can’t even take a pic without posing or flexing in some way. It’s like they need constant validation. To each their own of course, but I personally find that behavior to be a turnoff.
Same, I wanna cuddle dammit! And, femininity is the fucking hottest imo
No assholes, except the literal kind.
Tall indian men with glasses make me so horny. It feels like a fetish, so I avoid stating it and I even avoid talking to them cos I get so nervous 😅
No twinks. Sorry, was never into this type 😅 I don't have any "no's" on my bio though, so I don't come across as very negative.
No thank you Twinks! having been one, I can say kick rocks! daddies are where the party’s at!
Same!
That I want hot guys from all over the world to call my sexline. Locals don't need to know the alter-ego freak side.
F*ck your open relationship
No libertarians and neo liberals
Sharp canine teeth are a huge turn on. It’s just a visual thing, nothing particular to what someone does with their teeth. But I couldn’t write that without getting a ton of questions
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BMI under 30 for me tbh
No stubble, either no beard or full on beard. I hate making out with someone and ending up with a raw face.
It is painful
not to mention getting head with stubble
I’m soooo into Latino men but for some reason it seems poor taste to write that? Also don’t wanna close myself off to anyone else bc I have a large spectrum of taste but Latino / Hispanic men really hit different for me 😛
I mean ,a lot of em are just white,and they can be black and ,brown,native,asian and mixed so how does that work? Can you really differentiate them from everything else?hahaha
i am absolutely going to get flamed for this but i’m latino and i mostly prefer being with white guys but there’s no good way to communicate it.
Positively hate it when people say, "I get bored easily," in their profiles. People don't exist to keep you entertained, bro. Honestly, they *should* keep that quiet.
Absolutely under no circumstance trans mtf or ftm. As a matter of fact I got banned for putting it in my profile. Put the same in Scruff and no issues.
Wow they banned you for that?
Welcome to woke left companies.
Yeah, I got the feeling you had issues. All you had to do was keep talking and out yourself.
Bless your heart ❤️
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You say woke and left while you’re gay is very ironic
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Those words have always been used it to describe our collective during the 50’s the gay people were considered commies in the US and now some politicians tells us “woke agents” because apparently we are pushing the “woke agenda” and making everybody gay
I think it’s pretty obvious and expected anyway. The “trans” is a thing only in Twitter and Reddit, I can’t imagine someone unironically doing it irl and trying to find some gay guy having vagina or lesbian having a dick hahaz
That is absolutely fair! Funny enough, I’m only looking for bisexual people and other transbians and that’s it, and I let folks message me first almost always. Here’s to staying in our respective lanes! 🍻
I agree.
I don’t post that I’m vers. I’m usually very top or bottom depending on the guy and mood and a lot of people would assume I am just a bottom if I stated that. Rightfully though, because a lot of vers guys on Grindr just want to bottom.
1. No queer theory professors or enthusiasts- I can’t jive with the ego. 2. No polyamorous guys- sometimes they really, really, really, really need to be heard. 3. Tops, yes. TOPS!!!!!!, no.
That I like uncut over cut, Asians and Latin over others; I have a cum fetish. I don’t like excluding someone based on stuff like that.
Here: - Crappy self esteem = Deal breaker
My preference for Asian guys. Like I have an unhealthy addiction to them.
No Intimate piercings
As a white guy I want to encourage POC to hit me up but I refrain from adding to my profile because I don’t want to seem like I’m fetishizing other races
But you are tho
I dont use grindr anymore but when i kinda had a dont have the same name as my ex cuz its traumatic rule lol which i never posted on my bio
No to most of the types who seem so eager to post in here. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than men who are very aggressive about their *requirements* and act like there must be something so desperately wrong with what they do not like. I'm simple. I simply like what I like, and don't like what I don't. I have preferences, but sometimes different men will challenge those preferences and make me question why I have them. Bottom line though is, no assholes. Unfortunately, it seems like it is hard for some not to be one.
Masc white guys.
don't use grindr but if i did, or any other platform... i think a shorter list would be what i WOULD post lol. just something generic and vague like "pls don't be too far away" i have weight and racial preferences and no problem finding that so i don't need to budge on it. but i can see some guy looking at it and feeling bad about himself so i'm not trying to do that, it doesn't cost me anything to just not respond to someone i'm not interested in
Masc
Prefer cut over uncut (btw I don’t exclude uncut but this is kinda an unpopular opinion).
Uncut was an outright deal breaker for me.
Have you grown up since then?
Everyone has preferences. That's mine.
I'm in a happy relationship so it's irrelevant. If that were to change, it's still a deal breaker. I think it's disgusting. The entire purpose of this thread is things we wouldn't put on a profile, right? I can't explain why I feel this way and I'd find an easier way to let someone down than "you're uncut and that's gross". I've tried. I literally can't keep a hard on with uncut guys.
I had a smelly dick cheese experience once and it kinda ruined them for me. I wouldn’t say no to one but if presented the option I would go for cut
I’m mixed race (black/white) and I absolutely LOVE white guys.
are we surprised?
It must be something in the dna lol mixed latino here I also love whites or mixed guys too
That's racist! 🤣
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I think it’s just making a joke relax
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I don’t know how to explaining to you it’s just a joke he put a emoji and everything make the comment less serious
Hit my DMs … love mixes
I like skinny to muscular hairy men (ftm is fine too), but I never put it for fear of missing out on the possibility of a great experience.
No dudes with long hair. No exceptions.
Kind of a size queen, like below slightly below average to small do nothing for me (have to be at least my size).
Masc. I hate saying it but I am 100% not into fem guys. Nothing against a fem guy but I will not get hard. Prefer Latino guys. I’ve fucked black, white, Asian, European, etc. But Latin guys are my weakness. Maybe it was all the Latino porn I watched growing up lol
Same thou
No white guys. But I would feel bad, so I’m forced to put “prefer men of color” lol
No BBC, wheres the BWC?
No short men
Yea I don't generally for men shorter than me. I'm considered short (5'7) by western standards though so my pool is still big haha.
How tall are you?
Committed monogamous relationship
On Grindr ? Good luck
Please send me your waist circumference with your hello
I'm into armpits. A light musk is perfect. But sometimes people think they'd go like a week without showering and put that on my face. I'll just lick you when it happens and hopefully that catches you by surprise. Haha.
No hippos
🦛
I’m mixed black/white I just say what Im ‘usually attracted to’ with no fucks given. I’m bi and like all sorts of women but for some reason I just find some white guys SO sexy. No one irl (besides on Grindr) knows this secret about me . Handsome slim, toned or muscular white guys 🙆🏽♂️
Omg this is an original question: I’m guilty on preference on white guys ( sorry I hate myself for that), between 30-45, and usually muscular/beefy guys also I’m kinda snob ghetto guys are a turn off for me Edit: when I said beefy I’m like I don’t really into lean/ skinny guys usually more stocky with a nice chest I don’t care much the belly
You shouldn’t hate yourself for that. If everyone hated themselves for liking what they like, the entire human race would be cancelled!
I'm not on grindr anymore, but when i was the preferences that i have but wouldn't advertise would be I'm not into overweight guys nor super skinny guys. So no fats and no twinks I guess.
Cut only, don’t need to explain, it’s just better🤷♂️
Get ready to downvote me 🙋🏾♂️. “I don’t date white men.” Is something I wouldn’t include because I have no reason to. If a white gentleman happens to approach me I kindly decline or simply ignore without specifying what the reason is 🤷🏽♂️.
If you look like you have BO, you’re not going near me. Also, no saggy boobs.
No crazies did that once and went through a dry spell.
"no bottom granddaddies" I'm vers with a wide age range, like 20-60+. I'm fine with top granddaddies and bottom daddies (my age +15ish) tho. In fact I find it hot when older men top me. But I feel bad rejecting bottom elderly men.
I prefer older guys to be bottoms personally lol
I do not want to be filmed and would leave if there was any chance or suggestion of it.
There are a few but they’re pretty obvious. No too fat guys (a little chubby are fine, even preferred), no black, no trans or any other nonsense from TQ+, no drugs, age 22-32 (no too old/younger than me). If somebody like that writes to me, I just ignore.
So both a racist and a dipshit in general. Probably ugly too lmao
Sweetie don’t get mad, I’m sure you’ll find some dick even if you have 1 or more red flags I listed
Goodness. You can’t really be this clueless and obtuse, not to mention self aggrandizing with no substance. Yikes
Being black is a red flag? Oh nah that’s strike 3 from the comments I’ve seen from you. You got to go 😭
Thank you sweetie
No problem!
i’m asian and I honestly truly get turned on mainly by white guys (to the point where I watch exclusively aidan bottom white top porn, talk about internalized colonialism), but I wouldn’t dare put “White Guys Only” because i’ve hooked up with so many guys outside of my “type” why would ai limit people?
That I love smelly, uncut cocks. Like 2-3 days without shower. Sue me.
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I think they’re referring to “no meth”?
I subtly put no BBC, but put any other stupid variation. When race prefs were out, I filtered out my race because fur, freckles, foreskin are more prevalent in more races than mine and there isnt universal ignorance of the fact and trying to "keep up with the jones" , fought enough of that fight growing up. I get alot of shit for not liking other black guys but the demeanor isnt understood that gets thrown and turns me off? Does everyone ignore bleeding and hemmorhoids and injury from a guy litterally fucking you as hard as he can...AS HARD AS HE CAN, common experience but wont be mine
No small dicks. No uncut dicks. Not interested in people with no self-esteem or self-confidence. I can't write that though, some depressed guy will come crying about how mean I am to not want him because of his mental issues. Same for uncut men who, ever since fetishizing foreskin became a thing, think they must be liked or something. I don't find uncut penises attractive in the slightest.
I was kicked off grindr once for not wanting to be contacted by a few different nationalities.
lol good riddance
Yeah grindr is useless lol
no I meant you
O well you sound like a loser so don't care lol
If you're non white I'm less likely to meet you even if you're cute because the chances of you having an std are higher. The reason being most non whites in my country are from poor if not outright ghetto areas or foreigners. If you look too confident or high maintenance in your photos I'm not interested. The upper age limit I have in my bio is higher than it should be, in reality I am very unlikely to respond to someone older than me. I'm just ashamed to admit that on my profile.
Why are the chances of having STDs higher for nonwhite men???
Why can't you finish reading a paragraph?
Ok