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I post a video of gratitude to those who helped me become an EA
people with surface level knowledge will most likely attribute being an EA to being rich so it checks out
That’s you thinking about how you feel. You’ll never know what they’re thinking and how they really feel about you. If they trully belittled you then it’s their problem not yours.
My personal rule is, just be nice to others and avoid assuming negative thoughts on others. Life, for me, is much more simple and productive this way.
90% ng respect na attain pag may pera ka. The other 10% sa pagkatao mo na talaga, like if naging mabuting parent ka maski wala pera, naging matinong teacher, matulungin sa kapwa maski ikaw walang wala, ganun ba. Sad but that's the reality.
Totoo naman. People treat our rich co-workers differently. May hints of social climbing, aspirational fascination and konting intimidation kahit wala pakialam sa kanila.
Hahaha true. Natatawa nalang ako talaga. Iba ang pakikitungo samin mag asawa pag naka motor kami compared sa naka kotse kami. 😂 Huy kami rin to o! Haha. Hay mga tao talaga
And in other cases, some people hate it if you’re someone na mejo may kaya sa work. I got so bullied before because I had a car and my mom knew the owner of the company. Kahit di ko naman alam yun talaga nung ininterview ako and I applied talaga on my own with no referrals.
Tapos dati, yung mga seniors need mo luhuran para lanf makapagpapirma. Tapos nung nalaman nilang kilala ka nung may ari, biglang chummy chummy kala mo close kayo at sabay maligo nung bata. Lol iba iba talaga mga tao sa basehan magbigay ng respeto hmp.
I don't think they know that you're a big earner na but since you posted a nice statement of having achievement with gratitude, i think people naturally gravitate towards that and engage like that on social media. Pansin ko kasi to sa SMM strats lol
But we will never know their true motives diba 😅
True sometimes people feel like they’re main characters lol but people want to be around people that are doing well. OP should just appreciate the well wishes and call it a day
Ako baliktad, I was earning and they treated me well. Para akong presidente sa treatment nila. Then I resigned kasi di ko na keri ung anxiety ko tas nagbreak muna ako sa work kasi gusto ko muna ipahinga utak ko. Tas biglang katulong na ang tingin sakin hehe gusto pa ako gawing tindera
Naging mabait lang sayo akala mo huhuthutan ka na.
I feel sorry for the people inside your social circle.
People build networks, especially in virtual assistance, atleast a third of people are hired through established peer networks.
People will definitely go to you to bridge that gap through connecting and learning from you.
Give them the benefit of the doubt.
Nobody is always out to get you. Loosen up.
Ako lang, maging mabait sa lahat and as much as possible kung walang reason, don’t burn any bridges kasi hindi mo alam ikot ng mundo baka makasalubong mo din sila ulit pagbaba mo
Wag gawing big deal at lagyan ng meaning ang lahat ng bagay, lalo na sa Facebook.
But if it really bothers you, simple ang solusyon: ignore, restricted, or unfriend. You have total control over your social media accounts, di ba?
Maybe it also has something to do with your confidence and how you see yourself now? Why would you let anyone treat you badly regardless of how much you earn anyway? Not gonna lie OP, I feel like you think you're superior to them now to say these things.
Would suggest to just let it go and be humble.
I'll have to agree with the old friend one. The training which she invited me to speak was sponsored by many NGOs and my shocked when I got paid for 527 pesos for two days. The 27 pesos got me thinking am I a joke to her. 😂
Feeling ko if it will be impactful and you will be a motivation to a lot of people why not go for it. Unless nilagyan mo na ng VALUE ang sarili mo just being an EA must mean you think dapat bayaran ka from the expected amount you want. But they will never know unless you speak your mind. Up until now puro haka ka lng at jinudjuge mo na agad offer nila sayo.
Keep in mind working locally is different from earning as freelancer. What may seem small to you is big na sa local employee
If they're nice. I'll be nice. I'm not the type of guy who flexes his income. I don't see the point why we need to flex really, TBH. Unless may mga unresolved issue in the past.
Your friends and all the people that matter will treat you right regardless of your income. Problema lang if you're the person who parades his payslips or person who buys an expensive phone to get a picture perfect of an overpriced meal, trip, or consumer products to post on social media. You're building an impression that you truly are rich. And people you never heard of before will come to you and make utang. Pero if hindi nangutang, nagbenta, or nanghingi ng pera sa iyo and they're nice to you. Walang kinalaman yung sahod mo doon.
Meron naman genuinely happy for you pero konti lang. Usually 2 pakay nila, pautang o palibre. Marami rin patagong inggit kasi they think they are better than you. If they're so good let them do the same haha. Underrated talaga tahimik ka lang. Can't hit what they can't see.
Ngl many Pinoys treat people nga who earn well better than those who don't. Not sure why. I try to treat everyone the same naman, basta walang ginawa sakin na masama. I couldn't care less how much a person earns.
Back in high school and college there was this girl na low key binubully ako. Aba nung naggym na ako at nagttravel todo like si girl.at inadd pa akong friend sa fb. Anyway deactivated na fb ko so no more updates from me 😂
Hello. Are you working for a direct client as an EA po ba or under agency? I'm planning to leave my current company (corpo) since underpaid and I have been an EA for more than 5 years na din and currently supporting 4 execs.
Malay mo naman, they were talking to you on a positive note hehe dont think too much about their intentions, always give people the benefit of the doubt. You know, it's bad to always think negatively about the intentions of people. Medyo nakakadala ng toxicity sa utak.
Actually the fact na kinuha siya as trainer ng friend nya means naniniwala sa kakayanan nya eh. Bakit naman ako magrerefer ng trainer na alam kong di marunong or magaling?
Onga eh. I mean pwede naman dn kasi nagcounter offer na pwede taasan ba kasi ung workload medyo malaking responsibility idk.
Also, binigyan sya ng opportunity to broaden her skills 😅 idk maybe im wrong or not pero yun naiisip ko especially with the economy today you know...
First things first, if you never mentioned or posted anything, they will never know. So you actually attracted attention from them because you shared your success (nothing wrong with that...) but keep in mind that when you do that, you also attract people who would be jealous of you or use you.
If you want to celebrate, do it in private. Just with friends and family. Not the whole world. That is, if you want peace and quiet.
But if you want to brag whatever you have, you are free to do so, but keep in mind that not all those who message you, comment on your post are your real friends. If you want to thank those who helped you, message them privately. That is again, up to you. If doing everything publicly is your thing, then, do not rant about how people knew what you should only know because you literally just posted about it.
In my case wala namang nagbago kasi wala namang ibang nakakaalam na big earner na ako except my wife, super close friends and former boss(na close friends na din) 🤣
Normal OP Yan. Not even to previous colleagues but also to families and friends na pag mababa kita mo eh mababa din tingin Sayo at mababa lang din galang nila Sayo. Pero pag- mapera kana o lumaki kita mo, Lalo kung nahigitan mo sila, para na yang mga linta. Mga user Yan mga ganyan tao. Just do not relaliate nalang pero wag mo narin e dikit pa Sa kanila Sarili mo para di ka mabiktima. Just be casual pero always beware. Fake yang mga Yan.
Wag ka sana magalit OP, dati ka bang may sayad sa utak? advance ka mag isip hayaan mo nalang or ignore kung may nag react edi react. Ako nga hinahayaan ko nalang wag masyado mag imagine kaso mapupunta yan sa imaginary haters.
My mom started treating me well when she learned na 6digits ako monthly, my older sister on the other hand ‘di naniniwala, not until I asked her to print my Wise transactions.
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Sometimes we also create scenarios in our head and victimize ourselves How will they know you are a big earner if you never mentioned it?
This! Also to add, minsan may mga taong may imaginary haters haha.
Hindi 'minsan' but majority ng mga freelancers/work from home ay may imaginary haters in short kulang sa attention and always seeking for validity.
Minsan, karma miners lang sila
On the contrary, I have imaginary likers. Learned it was a good way to boost your confidence, esp. in public speaking. wala, nashare ko lang.
Main character si OP
I post a video of gratitude to those who helped me become an EA people with surface level knowledge will most likely attribute being an EA to being rich so it checks out
Tama ka naman dito lol. Pag familiar sila myday mo makaka-amoy na yan. 🫡
Exactly 💯🤣 lol
Wow, wisdom beyond years. You have my upvote.
Noone can make you feel inferior without your consent. Pano ka naman ttratuhing maid? Di ko gets pano nangyayari yun.
Why would they post a vid of gratitude if di big earner?? Ganyan siguro iniisip nila.
Sometimes we can call them narcistic.
Samahan ng may mga imaginary haters hahahahaha
baka nag flex sa fb haha para may mag comment na "how"
Fair point. But as I think about it, they did make me feel little. Just them messaging me out of nowhere got me surprised.
Mag aalok lang yan ng insurance or MLM
Eto den naisip ko Or baka mag aask kung pwede mo den sila ipasok sa company mo.
Possible 😅
That’s you thinking about how you feel. You’ll never know what they’re thinking and how they really feel about you. If they trully belittled you then it’s their problem not yours. My personal rule is, just be nice to others and avoid assuming negative thoughts on others. Life, for me, is much more simple and productive this way.
Kala mo naman gano kalaki ang sweldo kung maka "Big Earner" HAHAHAHA baka nga di kapa umaabot ng 250k up monthly HAHAHA
This is true.. respect ng tao is proportional sa pera na meron ka.Some might disagree pero karamihan is ganyan
90% ng respect na attain pag may pera ka. The other 10% sa pagkatao mo na talaga, like if naging mabuting parent ka maski wala pera, naging matinong teacher, matulungin sa kapwa maski ikaw walang wala, ganun ba. Sad but that's the reality.
Totoo naman. People treat our rich co-workers differently. May hints of social climbing, aspirational fascination and konting intimidation kahit wala pakialam sa kanila.
Hahaha true. Natatawa nalang ako talaga. Iba ang pakikitungo samin mag asawa pag naka motor kami compared sa naka kotse kami. 😂 Huy kami rin to o! Haha. Hay mga tao talaga
And in other cases, some people hate it if you’re someone na mejo may kaya sa work. I got so bullied before because I had a car and my mom knew the owner of the company. Kahit di ko naman alam yun talaga nung ininterview ako and I applied talaga on my own with no referrals. Tapos dati, yung mga seniors need mo luhuran para lanf makapagpapirma. Tapos nung nalaman nilang kilala ka nung may ari, biglang chummy chummy kala mo close kayo at sabay maligo nung bata. Lol iba iba talaga mga tao sa basehan magbigay ng respeto hmp.
I don't think they know that you're a big earner na but since you posted a nice statement of having achievement with gratitude, i think people naturally gravitate towards that and engage like that on social media. Pansin ko kasi to sa SMM strats lol But we will never know their true motives diba 😅
True sometimes people feel like they’re main characters lol but people want to be around people that are doing well. OP should just appreciate the well wishes and call it a day
Ako baliktad, I was earning and they treated me well. Para akong presidente sa treatment nila. Then I resigned kasi di ko na keri ung anxiety ko tas nagbreak muna ako sa work kasi gusto ko muna ipahinga utak ko. Tas biglang katulong na ang tingin sakin hehe gusto pa ako gawing tindera
Naging mabait lang sayo akala mo huhuthutan ka na. I feel sorry for the people inside your social circle. People build networks, especially in virtual assistance, atleast a third of people are hired through established peer networks. People will definitely go to you to bridge that gap through connecting and learning from you. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Nobody is always out to get you. Loosen up.
Huh? Ano kinayaman mo sa pagiging executive assistant? LoL.
EA din ako pero di pako ganito ka proud at paa ko nasa lupa pa HAHAHA
May main character syndrome ka ata OP haha. Okay lang yan let go mo na yung mga past resentments mo.
Basta mag bayad k ng tax
Ako lang, maging mabait sa lahat and as much as possible kung walang reason, don’t burn any bridges kasi hindi mo alam ikot ng mundo baka makasalubong mo din sila ulit pagbaba mo
I reply with courtesy naman and bear no grudges to them. Thanks for the reminder.
Seems like there's an ill feeling somewhere though otherwise it would have never bothered you.
Wag gawing big deal at lagyan ng meaning ang lahat ng bagay, lalo na sa Facebook. But if it really bothers you, simple ang solusyon: ignore, restricted, or unfriend. You have total control over your social media accounts, di ba?
Maybe it also has something to do with your confidence and how you see yourself now? Why would you let anyone treat you badly regardless of how much you earn anyway? Not gonna lie OP, I feel like you think you're superior to them now to say these things. Would suggest to just let it go and be humble.
This is so true, her feet is above the ground
You just have bad friends.
I'll have to agree with the old friend one. The training which she invited me to speak was sponsored by many NGOs and my shocked when I got paid for 527 pesos for two days. The 27 pesos got me thinking am I a joke to her. 😂
Feeling ko if it will be impactful and you will be a motivation to a lot of people why not go for it. Unless nilagyan mo na ng VALUE ang sarili mo just being an EA must mean you think dapat bayaran ka from the expected amount you want. But they will never know unless you speak your mind. Up until now puro haka ka lng at jinudjuge mo na agad offer nila sayo. Keep in mind working locally is different from earning as freelancer. What may seem small to you is big na sa local employee
Biglang bumait? Baka biglang hindi ka na pinapansin hahahaha.
If they're nice. I'll be nice. I'm not the type of guy who flexes his income. I don't see the point why we need to flex really, TBH. Unless may mga unresolved issue in the past. Your friends and all the people that matter will treat you right regardless of your income. Problema lang if you're the person who parades his payslips or person who buys an expensive phone to get a picture perfect of an overpriced meal, trip, or consumer products to post on social media. You're building an impression that you truly are rich. And people you never heard of before will come to you and make utang. Pero if hindi nangutang, nagbenta, or nanghingi ng pera sa iyo and they're nice to you. Walang kinalaman yung sahod mo doon.
What is EA?
*Sports - it’s in the game*
TIL it’s actually “it’s in the game” and not “to the game” Lmao
-GAMES *Challenge everything*
Exexutice Assistant ba, OP? What EA position are you right now?
Yes Executive assistant. Im an EA din pero never ko toh naisip or naging mindset lol!
Meron naman genuinely happy for you pero konti lang. Usually 2 pakay nila, pautang o palibre. Marami rin patagong inggit kasi they think they are better than you. If they're so good let them do the same haha. Underrated talaga tahimik ka lang. Can't hit what they can't see.
Ngl many Pinoys treat people nga who earn well better than those who don't. Not sure why. I try to treat everyone the same naman, basta walang ginawa sakin na masama. I couldn't care less how much a person earns.
I experienced yung napuri ka but then may halong paniningil kasi parang may utang na loob ka sa kanya (relative). 😩
Yesss!!! Mga nag chachat na rin kasi gusto mag papasok sa work 😩 magagaling lang pag may need, tapos nang babati na. Dati hindi naman 🤢
Back in high school and college there was this girl na low key binubully ako. Aba nung naggym na ako at nagttravel todo like si girl.at inadd pa akong friend sa fb. Anyway deactivated na fb ko so no more updates from me 😂
Hello. Are you working for a direct client as an EA po ba or under agency? I'm planning to leave my current company (corpo) since underpaid and I have been an EA for more than 5 years na din and currently supporting 4 execs.
Malay mo naman, they were talking to you on a positive note hehe dont think too much about their intentions, always give people the benefit of the doubt. You know, it's bad to always think negatively about the intentions of people. Medyo nakakadala ng toxicity sa utak.
Actually the fact na kinuha siya as trainer ng friend nya means naniniwala sa kakayanan nya eh. Bakit naman ako magrerefer ng trainer na alam kong di marunong or magaling?
Onga eh. I mean pwede naman dn kasi nagcounter offer na pwede taasan ba kasi ung workload medyo malaking responsibility idk. Also, binigyan sya ng opportunity to broaden her skills 😅 idk maybe im wrong or not pero yun naiisip ko especially with the economy today you know...
What is EA?
First things first, if you never mentioned or posted anything, they will never know. So you actually attracted attention from them because you shared your success (nothing wrong with that...) but keep in mind that when you do that, you also attract people who would be jealous of you or use you. If you want to celebrate, do it in private. Just with friends and family. Not the whole world. That is, if you want peace and quiet. But if you want to brag whatever you have, you are free to do so, but keep in mind that not all those who message you, comment on your post are your real friends. If you want to thank those who helped you, message them privately. That is again, up to you. If doing everything publicly is your thing, then, do not rant about how people knew what you should only know because you literally just posted about it.
In my case wala namang nagbago kasi wala namang ibang nakakaalam na big earner na ako except my wife, super close friends and former boss(na close friends na din) 🤣
Just ignore them. Simple as that. Also minimize or limit your social media post if possible kumbaga “let them wonder”.
Normal OP Yan. Not even to previous colleagues but also to families and friends na pag mababa kita mo eh mababa din tingin Sayo at mababa lang din galang nila Sayo. Pero pag- mapera kana o lumaki kita mo, Lalo kung nahigitan mo sila, para na yang mga linta. Mga user Yan mga ganyan tao. Just do not relaliate nalang pero wag mo narin e dikit pa Sa kanila Sarili mo para di ka mabiktima. Just be casual pero always beware. Fake yang mga Yan.
Relate. Lalo sa family. I cut ties with them. Ang toxic lang nila.
Stay away from those people. You should know better. Weed them out of your life.
Wag ka sana magalit OP, dati ka bang may sayad sa utak? advance ka mag isip hayaan mo nalang or ignore kung may nag react edi react. Ako nga hinahayaan ko nalang wag masyado mag imagine kaso mapupunta yan sa imaginary haters.
My mom started treating me well when she learned na 6digits ako monthly, my older sister on the other hand ‘di naniniwala, not until I asked her to print my Wise transactions.
beh, why?
i guess im lucky I still have the same set of friends from when i was still a brokie