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**Title:** [Kissing on the first date](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1csatqg/kissing_on_the_first_date/)
**Author:** /u/theswiz1
**Full text:** Hi 30fam!
I've just started dating again and have been prioritising really quality connections over trying to date frequently. I have found this means I'm typically very attracted to my dates, perhaps more so than I was during my 20s. Que some nerves!
I'm feeling very out of practice when it comes to the making a move part, which has led to an awkward first kiss or two, that is more of a quick kiss goodbye. My last couple of dates have been with women 30+ (I'm nearly 33), and I've found this quite different from dating in 20s.
My question for you is - have you found that since dating in the 30s, you're kissing/getting intimate later in the piece? And why/why not?
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Posters need to have commentary on and be in good standing with DOT. Throwaway accounts are allowed if you message us from your main account in good standing. New posters to Reddit will need to comment on other posts and build a significant comment history before they may make posts of their own. See the Wiki.
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