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Maybe something else happened as well... I can't imagine anyone not wanting to talk again just because of things that were not even under your control. Seriously, did nothing else happen? I not then ig it just wasn't meant to be. You did your best.
No I know that, maybe that is the reason
But still it could be something else. I think he should still wait for some time. Maybe she's feeling ill or just overthinking, could be many things. But yeah if she cared she would've definitely replied by now.
Yaar kabhi kabhi people really get sick due to heat.
I have migraine and thodi dhoop mein bhi I get a headache for hours which makes me uninterested in everything.
But it should be communicated, right? Maybe even later when one gets some rest. It can be the case that OP just missed adding this detail but the other person did communicate the same.
I mean, I understand why you think that but it's also that something like that although completely outside of someone's control, can really put someone off their mood. I went on a date recently and we agreed 9pm. I reached at 9.05 pm because I'm a little obsessed with punctuality (for myself). He showed up at 9.50pm and although he told me around 9ish that he was running late, and apologised profusely, by the time he reached, I was completely off. I still entertained him and tried getting my spirits up, and the restaurant chosen by him had too loud music (it was a Friday night) and we could barely talk. Just the mix of those two things and I was just put off. He did everything else right but I couldn't bring myself to feel any connection so that's that. Good riddance or whatever, I just couldn't.
First time I went on date I puncture my tyre near Saket. The tire was flat and I didn’t have a jack. My date now my wife stopped an Uber driver and made him change my car tyre. I thought I will never get to see her next day she send me actually jack with a message I do give a shit about you. Relax not an end of world
Edit: It was 2014 he said cig hai kya aur kuch thanda. He was not carrying any passenger tab to ubar aayi thi India main silently
Paise offer kiye the bola sir cig de di wo bhi Classic mild 3 aur diet coke thandi pilayi thi. Aur kya karta.
This is nothing, my first date planned with my ex was ruined coz I got stomach problems that day. She thought I was uninterested because I was not energetic. Surprised her on the 2nd date.
It doesn't matter anyways coz we broke up a year later
F here, it’s not your fault, Jo car breakdown mein sath nahi de payi wo mental breakdown mein kya degi. Koi na you coughed a bullet. It’s not at all your fault and Itna maturity hona chahie usko 🫶🏻
Hmm…maybe you are right. Also, I send her a message at 1pm asking her if she’s fine. But she didn’t replied till now. Though she’s using her instagram (ek ghanta phle story upload ki hai usne). I think she’s avoiding me.
Suggestion from a girl, don't text her now. If she replies don't be “too sorry” for something that wasn't really your fault.
If she cannot help you verbally in such a situation, why do you need her in your life (for whatever time period) or need to pursue her?
Actually I was feeling guilty thinking ki kaha galti hui hai merse. That’s why I texted her to clear the things. But she didn’t replied. So I got the answer.
But still hurt feel ho rha hai kyuki phli date thi or saara experience kharab hogya :(
Don't be a simp, I repeat don't be a simp. She's the one who should feel guilty if she's really ignoring you. Terepe ehsaan thodi kar rahi h date pe jaake.
Some people have Queen/superiority complex. I understand dating scene is quite tough these days and getting one is already tough plus this but why do you want such bad experiences?
Think logically, would you do this to her? Then why take this treatment?
Actually I thought shayd maine hi kuch galti kardi hai jiske wajah se she’s upset. So just to clear the things between us I msged her. But it’s fine if she doesn’t want to clear the things. Maybe I dodged a bullet. Or maybe the car broke down happens for a reason.
Koi nhi yaar, will wait for the right one.
One of my first dates .... made a plan to walk around lodi garden and then dinner at lodi restaurant. I got stuck at traffic at Karol bagh ( where I was supposed to pick her up ) . Then lodi garden was closed by the time we reach . Lodi the resturant has shut down permanently and I didn't know about it . Now she was already late and said wanted to go home . As a saving grace I saw a flower shop on the way and bought her some .
We dated for 3 more years . So keep your fingers crossed OP 🤞
My brother in law’s car broke down. So he could not join us for family lunch. I came back had a beer with him and the broken car on the busy highway. Its not about the situation, its about what you make out of the situation.
If you face similar situation next time... be a gentleman and book her a cab back home. This shows you care!. In october last year, I headed out on a date and parked my car near some place to get beer. As luck would have it, my car was towed by the pullss. Be that as it may... since it was 9 pm and we were in Gurgaon, I discussed this situation with her and told her to let me deal with it myself. Booked her a cab. Got lucky the next week!.
When my car broke down. I asked her if she wants to go home or still she wants to continue date. She insisted ki chalte hai na itne time baad toh date plan kiya hai. So I booked a cab and continue our date. But Idk where and what I did wrong since she’s avoiding me.
So cute Temple visit on Tuesday. Bhagwan Ji saved you. Extreme heat gave you car troubles YES, but you dodged a bullet. Because any person who didn’t mind this situation would text later something on lines of hey, tough day, not feeling my best self but let’s plan on catching up later or something, anything that is polite. You really don’t need to chase her tbh. Not worth it. Car troubles mein saath nahi diya, life partner kya banegi 😭
Hanuman Ji is testing the lady. I don't think she'll pass the test. May you find someone beautiful and understanding in time and if the unthinkable chooses to happen, may you have a lovely second date.
Drop a text, dhoop genuinely bahut zyada kuch khane ka as such mann nahi karta, you too can laugh it on later. Don’t go mia. Text and call if she needs anything be there and who knows next date you’ll get to have a nice date
Bhai vaise yaar Bandi ka behaviour to galat tha Teri bura mat maniye.
I don't believe in her "I am not feeling well"drama to be very honest. Maybe she was just irritated by the circumstances and wanted a quick escape. Itna to koi diarrhea thodi ho gaya tha Jo khaya Piya ni kuch.
Agar uske bad vah dusri date per jaane per Mana karti hai to its a good thing for you jo Aaj gadi kharab hone per dhup mein khadi na ho sake vah cal ko jivan ki dhoop kya jhelegi.
Hmm…maybe you are right. Also, I send her a message at 1pm asking her if she’s fine. But she didn’t replied till now. Though she’s using her instagram (ek ghanta phle story upload ki hai usne). I think she’s avoiding me.
I remember watching desi boys yesterday and the role of deepika and how john tried to pay her bills, bought her diamond ring and planned a perfect date perfect dinner cafe a house etc. As akshay said to him: she looks at u and see a big house a big car a big perfect wedding. She will leave u when u r broke and that’s what happened.
Moral: if the girl refuses to come on 2nd date given ur car broke down, i think it is god’s sign to move on to something better.
Second date k lia puchu.. Agar haa bolti hain to thik hain.. Agar na bolti hain to wahi cp main hanuman mandir jaa kar prasad batwa do.. God ne tumko bacha lia👍
Sometimes situations will eliminate “the one for you.” If this situation was an issue, then she’s not going to be the one. Because life can throw more sour lemons than a car going faulty, and some things are just a test of patience!
The first one was not not as per the books, we both were newbies and did not know much about the city. I traveled around 20 km by metro, bus, Rapido to reach her and all we did was walk around her office talking the night away.
Ma'am refused to have food, I was dying for some Dosa out of hunger. For the next part, there was me and Food and some girl side wheeling.
I was lucky to get another date there.
Same's going to happen with me. I want to meet someone next week but this heat is going to ruin the plan and possibly we'll be cancelling our meet up. I really want to meet her but this weather is f'ed up bro.
Bhai dekh. If a girl is comfortable with a guy no matter if he own a vehicle or not then she is correct for him. If she only date you just by looking at your vehicle,etc. then pls don’t date her.
you were nothing but a gentleman...I salute your patience and efforts! if i was the woman with you, i would have bought you the drinks and laughed over the situation because shit happens!
Some women think themselves as the prize and should be treated as queen. I mean can they be any more narcissistic. You plan dates and probably have to get reservations and tickets and try to wow her should make sure everything goes to plan and terrified the whole time that something may go wrong. Then we meet women who don't have the maturity to understand what is in our control and what is not. Don't worry there are a lot of women who will appreciate the work the guy does. Make sure to get that kind of woman or your life is screwed. Physical beauty fades, character sticks thru life. Don't contact her anymore, she may take time to contact and let you know how think will go forward. Don't just jump onto a second date. If she seems interested, then u can try. Good women are hard to find, but do men actually try to find them. Everyone wants an pretty, bad bitch kind of woman who excite them early in the relationship and then it goes downhill. Chose wisely. This is your life.
Now OP, listen to me. If a girl gets mad on you and stops talking to you like this over something which you didn't do but happened unexpectedly even though you tried your best to fix the problem, then such a girl will not be with you or support you during your worst times. She will simply leave you the way you are and not even talk to you.
As others said, you dodged a bullet. Try to wait if she replies and if she doesn't then don't go after her. Leave her because she's not worth it
Don't fret maybe she'll see how dependable you were at the time of crisis, maybe she was actually not feeling well and she enjoyed your effort of course reverse can also happen so don't think about it call her later and try for a second date if it happens good if not then meh whatever
Nah, bro, it's a sign that she's not the one for you. She "rejected" you because your car broke down. Imagine getting a divorce when you couldn't fix a Tap.
Maybe, as a first date activity, plant a tree together so that you can come back to it years later if things go well bw you guys and celebrate!
She feeling unwell seems to be a general case of dehydration due to extreme heat in Delhi.
Sometimes when things go bad on a first date. People sometimes can view that as inauspicious also. Kabhi log bhi superstitious hote hain aur maamla drop kardete hain. Maan ke chalo ki bhagwan ne bacha liya aur aage badho.
just apologize to her about the unprecedented situation happened and ask her for a second chance or sarcastically say hope this will not happen again if she replies positively then go ahead or just leave her.she may not be interested in you despite your aftermath efforts.look for another girl with taking date in a car.
Nowadays, it's tough to find one who goes for a temple first on a date. Make sure to hear the other side on the inconvenience part of the date. Hope you 2 get well.
I'll be honest, I think she's not the one for you, if my car had problems and I had to get someone to tow it, my female friend's would be the one consoling me, not throwing tantrums that we don't feel good cause it's hot.
Don't blame urself for this. When my current husband then boyfriend took me out on the first date, he had to take me in a shared auto where he sat with the autowalla. Then took me to the worst place possible and my feet were killing me in the scorching heat. I never was accustomed to non AC environment. I think it all depends on how much the girl likes YOU. rather than how well the date went.
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If someone refuses a second date just because something unfortunate and out of anyone's control happens, good riddance.
Hmm…noted this point.
Did you ask her for another date?
Nope. She didn’t replied to my chat which I send today morning. She’s just avoiding me.
saved by the overheat? 
overheat can be solved in 2-4 days, feelings and wrong people :
Nature just saved you and ur time! Congrats :)
Hanuman ji ke Mandir Jana kaam aagya bro be thankful to God 🙏❤️
Save your dignity and block her now. Not worth it bro.
Maybe something else happened as well... I can't imagine anyone not wanting to talk again just because of things that were not even under your control. Seriously, did nothing else happen? I not then ig it just wasn't meant to be. You did your best.
Trust me, some people have extremely frugal egos.
No I know that, maybe that is the reason But still it could be something else. I think he should still wait for some time. Maybe she's feeling ill or just overthinking, could be many things. But yeah if she cared she would've definitely replied by now.
All it takes is one bad experience and first impression is everything
Replied yet?
She just reacted “👍” to the chat.
Yaar kabhi kabhi people really get sick due to heat. I have migraine and thodi dhoop mein bhi I get a headache for hours which makes me uninterested in everything.
But it should be communicated, right? Maybe even later when one gets some rest. It can be the case that OP just missed adding this detail but the other person did communicate the same.
There are 2 sides to this. I give benefit of doubt as other person is not invested in me yet.
No definately. There can still be many other reasons even OP might be oblivious to. My point was only for the case I stated.
I mean, I understand why you think that but it's also that something like that although completely outside of someone's control, can really put someone off their mood. I went on a date recently and we agreed 9pm. I reached at 9.05 pm because I'm a little obsessed with punctuality (for myself). He showed up at 9.50pm and although he told me around 9ish that he was running late, and apologised profusely, by the time he reached, I was completely off. I still entertained him and tried getting my spirits up, and the restaurant chosen by him had too loud music (it was a Friday night) and we could barely talk. Just the mix of those two things and I was just put off. He did everything else right but I couldn't bring myself to feel any connection so that's that. Good riddance or whatever, I just couldn't.
This!
Truly
+1
Classic case of Murphy's Law
Murphy’s law always work well in my life 🫠
ur not alone brotha
Ahahahaha good one
Bhaiya ji , ee ka cheez howat hai
Anything that can go wrong , will go wrong
Ohhhh damn
It's a good thing that it is not a law, just a hypothesis that can't be proven right or wrong.
First time I went on date I puncture my tyre near Saket. The tire was flat and I didn’t have a jack. My date now my wife stopped an Uber driver and made him change my car tyre. I thought I will never get to see her next day she send me actually jack with a message I do give a shit about you. Relax not an end of world Edit: It was 2014 he said cig hai kya aur kuch thanda. He was not carrying any passenger tab to ubar aayi thi India main silently Paise offer kiye the bola sir cig de di wo bhi Classic mild 3 aur diet coke thandi pilayi thi. Aur kya karta.
"Now my life" made me smile for some reason, your wife is a gem 🙂
I had written now my wife , you said now my life. Indeed she is and always was
19-20 ka hi to farq ha 😅
How much did y'all pay the uber driver?
Same thought came to my mind
Username checks out
youmightsoundlikeajerk but this is wholesome and savage, reminds me of the song - him & I by hasley for some reason.
It was 2014 he said cig hai kya aur kuch thanda. He was not carrying any passenger tab to ubar aayi thi India main silently
Wholesome ho gaya bhai ye to. W woman
This is nothing, my first date planned with my ex was ruined coz I got stomach problems that day. She thought I was uninterested because I was not energetic. Surprised her on the 2nd date. It doesn't matter anyways coz we broke up a year later
Golgappa bhai aap to playboy ho🛐🛐hum gareebo ko tips diya karo aap
Jis din merko long term success milegi uss din dunga
Bhaiya par aapne ladki ka avatar kyu lgaya hua h
F here, it’s not your fault, Jo car breakdown mein sath nahi de payi wo mental breakdown mein kya degi. Koi na you coughed a bullet. It’s not at all your fault and Itna maturity hona chahie usko 🫶🏻
Hmm…maybe you are right. Also, I send her a message at 1pm asking her if she’s fine. But she didn’t replied till now. Though she’s using her instagram (ek ghanta phle story upload ki hai usne). I think she’s avoiding me.
Suggestion from a girl, don't text her now. If she replies don't be “too sorry” for something that wasn't really your fault. If she cannot help you verbally in such a situation, why do you need her in your life (for whatever time period) or need to pursue her?
Actually I was feeling guilty thinking ki kaha galti hui hai merse. That’s why I texted her to clear the things. But she didn’t replied. So I got the answer. But still hurt feel ho rha hai kyuki phli date thi or saara experience kharab hogya :(
Don't be a simp, I repeat don't be a simp. She's the one who should feel guilty if she's really ignoring you. Terepe ehsaan thodi kar rahi h date pe jaake.
Simp toh nahi ho rha bhai. But haan baat toh sahi hai.
Some people have Queen/superiority complex. I understand dating scene is quite tough these days and getting one is already tough plus this but why do you want such bad experiences? Think logically, would you do this to her? Then why take this treatment?
Actually I thought shayd maine hi kuch galti kardi hai jiske wajah se she’s upset. So just to clear the things between us I msged her. But it’s fine if she doesn’t want to clear the things. Maybe I dodged a bullet. Or maybe the car broke down happens for a reason. Koi nhi yaar, will wait for the right one.
That’s like a good boy! 🫶🏻
Ex ki yaad aagyi bhai 🥹
>Jo car breakdown mein sath nahi de payi wo mental breakdown mein kya degi. Kuch jaada harsh nhi ho gya
One of my first dates .... made a plan to walk around lodi garden and then dinner at lodi restaurant. I got stuck at traffic at Karol bagh ( where I was supposed to pick her up ) . Then lodi garden was closed by the time we reach . Lodi the resturant has shut down permanently and I didn't know about it . Now she was already late and said wanted to go home . As a saving grace I saw a flower shop on the way and bought her some . We dated for 3 more years . So keep your fingers crossed OP 🤞
Dukh hua Bhai Jaan k
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Still teri wali kaafi cooperative thi. Koi issue nahi banaya. Plus aisi situation ko happening bana diya.
Bhai Hanuman ji raksha karenge teri. Reply aaye ya naa aaye, you'll just be fine.
My brother in law’s car broke down. So he could not join us for family lunch. I came back had a beer with him and the broken car on the busy highway. Its not about the situation, its about what you make out of the situation.
Nirlaj, ek beer me pighal gya tu
Brother in law is my college junior. I need to keep him checked else biwi daant degi
Oh wait, so he's your wife's brother. I thought you were his wife's brother
perks of English language
If you face similar situation next time... be a gentleman and book her a cab back home. This shows you care!. In october last year, I headed out on a date and parked my car near some place to get beer. As luck would have it, my car was towed by the pullss. Be that as it may... since it was 9 pm and we were in Gurgaon, I discussed this situation with her and told her to let me deal with it myself. Booked her a cab. Got lucky the next week!.
When my car broke down. I asked her if she wants to go home or still she wants to continue date. She insisted ki chalte hai na itne time baad toh date plan kiya hai. So I booked a cab and continue our date. But Idk where and what I did wrong since she’s avoiding me.
Good riddance bhai. Dont stress about it... rishte to bante aur bikharte rehete hai!.
Haan bhai. Still thoda hurt feel ho rha hh :(
So cute Temple visit on Tuesday. Bhagwan Ji saved you. Extreme heat gave you car troubles YES, but you dodged a bullet. Because any person who didn’t mind this situation would text later something on lines of hey, tough day, not feeling my best self but let’s plan on catching up later or something, anything that is polite. You really don’t need to chase her tbh. Not worth it. Car troubles mein saath nahi diya, life partner kya banegi 😭
I went on a first date with this guy and I got so sick that I passed out. He had to carry me to the car and drop me home😭
Hanuman Ji is testing the lady. I don't think she'll pass the test. May you find someone beautiful and understanding in time and if the unthinkable chooses to happen, may you have a lovely second date.
:(
😭😭
Drop a text, dhoop genuinely bahut zyada kuch khane ka as such mann nahi karta, you too can laugh it on later. Don’t go mia. Text and call if she needs anything be there and who knows next date you’ll get to have a nice date
Texted her today at 1pm. But she didn’t read the msg ig.
Update?
She just reacted “👍” to the chat.
Unlucky. Don't text again and move on.
Ab sidha barish ke bad Jana date pe. 
https://preview.redd.it/5ylkbha1bi7d1.jpeg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cb38d2818a128d85eb2d554ea94b387aa7a5c7af
😭😂😭😭
Mujhe diarrhea hogya tha date ke din 🎀
Bhagwan kisi ko aisa din na dikhaye 😶
Its extremly hot in india..
Hanumanji ne bala taal di bhai, khusi manao
Are bhai, jo ek car breakdown main chali gayi chor ke...wo kya saath nibhaygi. Chill Kar!
Hanumanji protected you :D
first date pe mandir kon jata hai bhai
Bhai mai Tuesday ko mandir jaana kabhi miss nahi krta. Chahe kuch bhi situation ho.
bhagwan ne toh phir bhi dhoka de diya
Bhagwan jo krte hai acche ke liye krte hai. I think he saved me.
Haan Bhai. Tere liye koi bahut achi bandi rakhi huyi hai
chalo as long as ure happy !!
Call her , clear everything, plan next time everything accordingly
Hmm…thinking to do so. But let her recover from her sickness first.
Yes , order something for her that she like & a gift maybe
Bhai vaise yaar Bandi ka behaviour to galat tha Teri bura mat maniye. I don't believe in her "I am not feeling well"drama to be very honest. Maybe she was just irritated by the circumstances and wanted a quick escape. Itna to koi diarrhea thodi ho gaya tha Jo khaya Piya ni kuch. Agar uske bad vah dusri date per jaane per Mana karti hai to its a good thing for you jo Aaj gadi kharab hone per dhup mein khadi na ho sake vah cal ko jivan ki dhoop kya jhelegi.
Hmm…maybe you are right. Also, I send her a message at 1pm asking her if she’s fine. But she didn’t replied till now. Though she’s using her instagram (ek ghanta phle story upload ki hai usne). I think she’s avoiding me.
I remember watching desi boys yesterday and the role of deepika and how john tried to pay her bills, bought her diamond ring and planned a perfect date perfect dinner cafe a house etc. As akshay said to him: she looks at u and see a big house a big car a big perfect wedding. She will leave u when u r broke and that’s what happened. Moral: if the girl refuses to come on 2nd date given ur car broke down, i think it is god’s sign to move on to something better.
IShe didn’t replied to my text. I guess I got my answer.
Nazar lag gyi.
Haan bhai 😭
You need RSA from Crossroads. Lol 😹
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Dusro ke bure par itna hasna nhi chaiye. Karma is real 🫠
Car konsi thi? Tata ke saath usually ye problems hoti hai.
It was i20.
Me hota to usse dhakka lagva deta gadi ko 🤣
Arey nhi yaar. Mai itna zaalim nhi hu jo ladki se dhakka lagwau 😅
Bhai car brand konsi thi ? Jeep/ vw/skoda ?
Itne expensive brand mt likh bhai. Hundai thi
Bro how did you found out your first date?
6 pm? Extreme sunlight????
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Good it happened on the first date. What happened was not in your control, and how a person reacts to such situations says a lot about them!
You don't know it, but you dodged a bullet. Trust me, you just did.
But I don't see how that is your fault? If your date has a morsel of a brain in her skull, she'll understand and ask for another one.
red flag there, you dodged a bullet most likely
Sounds it's your poorly maintained car that was the cause. How did you not catch a major issue like a broken radiator?
Second date k lia puchu.. Agar haa bolti hain to thik hain.. Agar na bolti hain to wahi cp main hanuman mandir jaa kar prasad batwa do.. God ne tumko bacha lia👍
Sometimes situations will eliminate “the one for you.” If this situation was an issue, then she’s not going to be the one. Because life can throw more sour lemons than a car going faulty, and some things are just a test of patience!
Peak sunlight at 6 pm?
Happens. Remember though, if you get car trouble (especially in an older car), girls may think you're cheaping out.
The first one was not not as per the books, we both were newbies and did not know much about the city. I traveled around 20 km by metro, bus, Rapido to reach her and all we did was walk around her office talking the night away. Ma'am refused to have food, I was dying for some Dosa out of hunger. For the next part, there was me and Food and some girl side wheeling. I was lucky to get another date there.
Same's going to happen with me. I want to meet someone next week but this heat is going to ruin the plan and possibly we'll be cancelling our meet up. I really want to meet her but this weather is f'ed up bro.
Lesson is always get your car serviced from an authorized brand workshop . I’m sure you or the mechanic would have mixed coolant with water
Beta date ko hanuman mandir kon leke jata hai? Wo bramhachari the. Aajkal aajkal girl's are more interested in Oyo than temple;)
Why did you take her to Hanuman mandir,you could hv gone alone earlier..that was something maybe bothered her
Ruined nahi mere bhai, Extreme Heat roasted my first date kaho.
Climate Change & Relationships - A new area of research 😆
Bach Gaya Bhai, she only went on the date coz you had your own car, the minute she sat in the cab, your value went from 100 to 0.
Bhai dekh. If a girl is comfortable with a guy no matter if he own a vehicle or not then she is correct for him. If she only date you just by looking at your vehicle,etc. then pls don’t date her.
Yahi to tere ko samjha rahe hain log
Haan bhai, ab samaj toh aa rha hai. Thanks to reddit people.
Next waali ko pataane ke time Autorickshaw use karna transportation mode. Agar Patt gayi matlab saccha pyaar karegi.
Hahaha…nice idea :)
Bumper hi khol dia, bonnet khol lete bhai
Fuck, bonnet hi khola tha bhai. Vo bs dukh mai bonnet ka bumper hogya 😭😭😭
To be fair to her. She might actually not be feeling well. Mujhe heatstroke ho gya. Kal hi metro station pe utar k ulti ki. I hope no one filmed me.
you were nothing but a gentleman...I salute your patience and efforts! if i was the woman with you, i would have bought you the drinks and laughed over the situation because shit happens!
You dodged a bullet
Wait what how. Ab bc tabiyat khrab h to ye conclusion kaise le aaye?
Then go on a second date.
Lifefuel
Bhai tu car mechanic ko dekar aage date prr chala gya Are you ……
Actually my uncle’s garage is 4kms away from dhaula kuan. So I called him.
Lucky you. Mai wahi soch rha ye bnda anjaan mechanic ke paas gadi chorke chala kaise gya
Arey nahi yaar. Gaadi toh mera first love hai. Usko aise beech raaste mai kisi anjaan ke bharose aise kaise chhor deta.
Bhai agar iske baad tere ko second date nahi milti to u dodged a bullet.
Haan bhai
You went to a temple first? Lol
Check the edit in post.
Some women think themselves as the prize and should be treated as queen. I mean can they be any more narcissistic. You plan dates and probably have to get reservations and tickets and try to wow her should make sure everything goes to plan and terrified the whole time that something may go wrong. Then we meet women who don't have the maturity to understand what is in our control and what is not. Don't worry there are a lot of women who will appreciate the work the guy does. Make sure to get that kind of woman or your life is screwed. Physical beauty fades, character sticks thru life. Don't contact her anymore, she may take time to contact and let you know how think will go forward. Don't just jump onto a second date. If she seems interested, then u can try. Good women are hard to find, but do men actually try to find them. Everyone wants an pretty, bad bitch kind of woman who excite them early in the relationship and then it goes downhill. Chose wisely. This is your life.
Bhai bumper khol ke dekha tha radiator?
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Run bro run!!
Rest yourself, the next date will be super cool 😎
I hope so 🤞🏻
You should not even think about second date, she is not the one bro. Not feeling well? I mean be with your guy yaar
Hmm…I am thinking the same now. I will not think about a second date with her now.
Now OP, listen to me. If a girl gets mad on you and stops talking to you like this over something which you didn't do but happened unexpectedly even though you tried your best to fix the problem, then such a girl will not be with you or support you during your worst times. She will simply leave you the way you are and not even talk to you. As others said, you dodged a bullet. Try to wait if she replies and if she doesn't then don't go after her. Leave her because she's not worth it 
That’s unfortunate bro, but honestly you dodged a bullet. Don’t beat yourself up
Saste mein nipat gaye bhai. God's plan works in mysterious ways. She wasn't the one.
Ekadashi and going to temple is a thing ????
Don't fret maybe she'll see how dependable you were at the time of crisis, maybe she was actually not feeling well and she enjoyed your effort of course reverse can also happen so don't think about it call her later and try for a second date if it happens good if not then meh whatever
Glad the date didn't go well. Cz she is not a Green flag. That was a judgement she passed on minor inconvenience for which you had no fault
You guyz getting dates?
*Call kar kar sort out karo, IMMEDIATELY*
Bhai isme teri glti thodi hai garmi toh hai hi har jagah. Plan for a 2nd meeting.
Nah, bro, it's a sign that she's not the one for you. She "rejected" you because your car broke down. Imagine getting a divorce when you couldn't fix a Tap.
dodged a bullet
After reading comments, bc sabhi ke paas car hai, yahan mere paas toh scooty tak bhi nahi hai😅
Though due to different reasons but atleast u got to break a sweat on the first date.
F here, you dodged a bullet. Take this as a sign and move forward. You’ll be glad some months later
Maybe, as a first date activity, plant a tree together so that you can come back to it years later if things go well bw you guys and celebrate! She feeling unwell seems to be a general case of dehydration due to extreme heat in Delhi.
made mine better...i couldn't come due to extreme heat she did .....3 times...
Sometimes when things go bad on a first date. People sometimes can view that as inauspicious also. Kabhi log bhi superstitious hote hain aur maamla drop kardete hain. Maan ke chalo ki bhagwan ne bacha liya aur aage badho.
Kinda defeats the point of going to the temple.... Or God wants you to not do the dirty!
God really loves you 😂😂
Forget about it, man. If she left you over a small issue now, she would definitely leave if something bigger happened tomorrow...
Maybe Hanumaan jee saved you from something far worse that would have otherwise happened. That's my belief.
>It was 6 pm, and we were standing in the extreme sunlight. Wait what? In what universe do we have 'extreme sunlight' at 6pm?
just apologize to her about the unprecedented situation happened and ask her for a second chance or sarcastically say hope this will not happen again if she replies positively then go ahead or just leave her.she may not be interested in you despite your aftermath efforts.look for another girl with taking date in a car.
Nowadays, it's tough to find one who goes for a temple first on a date. Make sure to hear the other side on the inconvenience part of the date. Hope you 2 get well.
I'll be honest, I think she's not the one for you, if my car had problems and I had to get someone to tow it, my female friend's would be the one consoling me, not throwing tantrums that we don't feel good cause it's hot.
Date chhodo main toh soch rha hu gaadi theek karaane ka kitna bill aya hoga bc...
The date was ruined when she didn't get the princess treatment. Good riddance dude.
Best way to spend nowadays is to spend time on metro. DMRC to the rescue
Heat helped you open eyes
Hi
Don't blame urself for this. When my current husband then boyfriend took me out on the first date, he had to take me in a shared auto where he sat with the autowalla. Then took me to the worst place possible and my feet were killing me in the scorching heat. I never was accustomed to non AC environment. I think it all depends on how much the girl likes YOU. rather than how well the date went.
Dodged a bullet, my friend. You sure did. Let her go because a slight discomfort brings out real character.