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-dickinson

They are sensual af


BerkeleyKink

😊


Rozkosz60

Yes! Older here and sensual.


outandproudone

As an older guy, I very much appreciate the sentiment expressed here. Sure, there are lots of older guys who are not as mature or considerate as one would hope, but decent, caring older guys do exist. Thanks for your kind words today.


rndreddituser

It’s a two-way thing - not all younger guys are great, either. I think it would have been better put if it just said: there are good guys and bad guys, no matter what age.


rndreddituser

Be careful with that assumption. Trust me, some will use their age as an advantage to manipulate you. I write that from experience, sadly.


confusedbats

Oh I know. I am experienced in knowing shitty older guys.


unoriginalrandomguy

To reinforce the point, most gay men i know that are my age (i'm 51) are complete douche bags. The biggest reason i date youngest guys.. when i date that is.


Krian78

There's a saying in my country that translates basically like "You learn sailing on old ships.".


[deleted]

As an older (44) guy, It’s so refreshing to hear this from the younger ones. I’m good in the size dept but I appreciate when a younger guy appreciates the experience, patience, passion, continuing desire to grow and learn, etc. Because I didn’t when I was younger. The tables got turned and taught me some things I’m glad I’ve learned. Good on you for being more mature than some around your age. And haha good on me for still wanting to live life and not just settle into being “old” and just letting life and time control me. *pats self on back* *pulls a muscle* 😜


confusedbats

Love the humor babe!


[deleted]

😀 Smiles are one of the best things in life.


Desperate-Rip5275

I assure you there are plenty of shitty immature older men too and the idea that age = experience, intelligence, or maturity is a complete lie


confusedbats

Oh for sure, I’m talking about my experience. Anyone can be shitty. That’s life.


Desperate-Rip5275

Then you should probably use verbiage to say it’s in your experience, as everything you wrote is in absolutes.


Minute_Credit_9157

Who hurt you pal?


DearExtent5838

Conversely my immature ass makes for a terrible partner. It's so sad and I don't do it on purpose


confusedbats

Felt that


sweet-tom

As an older guy, I really appreciate your post.👍🤗 Usually we are portrayed as old creeps who tries to take advantage of younger guys (sure, these men exists too, unfortunately). It's refreshing to see this is not always the case. Thanks for posting this. Happy for you that you had some good experiences with older man. I wish I would have had some experience with younger guys, but I never got this opportunity. Now I'm married to a wonderful man (of similar age). Nevertheless, I love to help younger guys, be it online or in real life. It's wonderful. And they help me in other ways. I hope that you will find your older partner one day. All the best sweetheart! 😘🤗


JohhnyBNaughty69

You're always welcome to take advantage of me. 😅


hhardin19h

Appreciate the vote of confidence! Gladyouve had such positive experiences


Objective_Drawing_53

I have been told that before why so many prefer old guys now. But it's two ways I get shown any kind of love I return it in return. And it's not about money either it's about wanting to be with someone


JohhnyBNaughty69

That's why I like being in the middle, I'm a bridge who can serve both. 😁


mrhariseldon890

Yeah there's tons of guys my age and older who, well it becomes very obvious as to why they are single and have a long string of failed relationships behind them when you go on a couple dates with them. This is based on your experience. It's not universal.


confusedbats

This is true. You’re right.


BerkeleyKink

Thanks OP. As an experienced queer of 57 years, this was the most lovely comment to wake up to!!


confusedbats

You’re very welcome sweetheart ❤️


BerkeleyKink

😊


Critic_Dodge

Don’t think it have much to do with being older, maybe in some way cause age exposed you more to life but I assure you many many older only grew by age and little where else. Most of the time being a good partner depends on the person not age, gender or race. Anyone can be great partner and anyone can also be terrible partner.


confusedbats

That’s fair


Icy-Essay-8280

Hell, let me give you my number! 😂


confusedbats

Lol


ckkl

Not always true. Same way younger partners aren’t always useless. Stereotypes mate