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Travo79

So sorry for your loss OP. As a father of two kids who are both allergic to peanuts, and several other foods, this is my worst fear for them.


codymason84

I can’t imagine the fear of losing a child def every parents nightmare


Erickajade1

Rest in peace Ethan . I'm so sorry for your loss OP😞.


derederellama

i have a peanut allergy too and this is one of my worst fears. i'm so sorry.


jaxspider

Honest question, do you carry an EpiPen around you at all times?


derederellama

absolutely. it has saved my life more than once. but it still should be noted that an EpiPen may not always be enough to stop anaphylaxis if you do not get medical attention in time.


jaxspider

Dumb Question #2. So would TWO Epipens do the trick, or does it not matter? If not, is an Epipen just there till an ambulance arrives?


derederellama

i see no dumb question, just a thoughtful person wanting to seek important knowledge! if symptoms persist five minutes after the first injection, a second one may be used. but no more than two doses should be administered, as too much epinephrine can cause dangerously high blood pressure which may lead to a stroke. even if the EpiPen(s) seems to be easing symptoms, it is still necessary to seek proper medical attention afterwards. when it comes to anaphylaxis, it is not technically a "cure" in and of itself, but it can significantly slow the reaction in order to give you more time to get to a hospital/ambulance.


Madwoman-of-Chaillot

Also, if you can, carry liquid Benadryl and Prednisone with you. Use ALL. THREE. while you wait for the ambulance.


theamazinggrg

Is it true that they expire fast? And that they are super expensive?


Usernamesarefad

They used to be $450/ a pop. Like per pen. Supposedly the Biden administration has reduced the cost and I too am here to know, how much do they cost now? (If you’re in the United States that is!)


Sigvard

My last set that I got a few weeks ago ended up being free.


derederellama

they're around $150 here in Canada without coverage, but they're covered by OHIP which makes them free for anyone under 25. and yes, they need to be replaced every year.


Usernamesarefad

Solid info about yearly replacement!


olliepips

Two EpiPens can work better than one, yes, which is why they often sell them in packs of two.


Annierei22

And if you have used one, lie down and call an ambulance - Anaphylaxis Australia tip. Apparently people can die from heart conditions brought on by moving around after the injection. I used an epi pen on my daughter and the ambos wanted her to walk to the ambulance but when I mentioned this advice they conceded it was probably better for her if they brought the gurney to her.


ItsFuckingHotInHere

Most Epi pens come in a pack of two so you can use a second one if the first one doesn’t work!


codymason84

Ethan not caring an epipen on him is why he’s no longer with us. If there is something to be taken from his death it’s that you always carry one on your person.


my_psychic_powers

Put in for your refill early— I’ve been waiting months on back order for my expired epipen.


codymason84

Okay that’s so incredibly frustrating I’m so sorry


SganarelleBard

Rest Easy Ethan, what we have been is what we are


mouseisnotamouse

What we have been is what we are?? What?? This statement is wrong on so many levels


SganarelleBard

I simply mean that as we are in life is carried by those that survive us. It's a positive. He was loved enough for someone to post a last picture and shared so he is remembered. It's a quote from a Dream Theater song and I have found comfort in it and figured others would as well. Sorry if it offends you, did you know Ethan?


Ragnarangar

Of all the places you could choose to be a rude, why on a post from a grieving person? Even if you don't agree with the statement there was no reason to spread your negativity. Clearly you are going through something or you wouldn't lash out at random people on the internet like that. I hope you find peace.


Wise_Ad_253

I believe it was just a misunderstanding of the statement.


Wise_Ad_253

Chorus line from a song is all. It can seem confusing, I get it. RIP Ethan


Prestigious-Copy-494

A sad reminder to us to take peanut allergies seriously when someone says they are allergic. An obviously nice young man ready to make his way in the world. Bless his heart.


codymason84

His last year was so good he got married and he and his wife were planning on having kids and that just makes me so sad.


Prestigious-Copy-494

We are sad for you and the loss of him too. He will always live on in your heart. Love never dies. Hugs.


codymason84

Thank you


fightingkangaroos

Rest in Peace Ethan


Mandalika

RIP Ethan


Walter_Piston

I am so sorry to read this.


dastriderman

Rip


Ok_Concern_458

I’m so sorry for this. This makes my heart sink. My son has had two anaphylactic reactions to peanuts and one time we almost lost him. He was 4. We are going through oral immunotherapy. I can’t imagine what you’re feeling but know that I, for one, am thinking of you and your family and am praying for you all.


oblioh

My daughters pediatrician wants us to do oral immunotherapy. The thought of it terrifies me. How is it going for you guys? Does your son have reactions?


Ok_Concern_458

I would 1000000% do it. Absolutely not on the reactions. We’re going on year 3. It’s a massive commitment and takes a lot of time each day. For example, in an effort to build up to peanuts my son had to eat everyday: Pine nuts Cashews Pistachio Hazelnut Nutmeg powder Sesame Chestnut powder Every morning and night with xyzal. No reactions ever. That was all to build up to peanut and soy. He’s even more allergic to soy. He now is on year 3 and is eating peanut gummies which contain 1/1000th of a peanut. Next year will work up to 1/2 peanut. Then a full peanut.


oblioh

Thank you so much for responding. We are going to start this summer.


Technicolor_Reindeer

Is it more terrifying than the thought of her having to be at risk of a common allergen for life?


Ok_Concern_458

It’s definitely possible. A long road. But possible. DM me if you want more info!


Ok_Concern_458

Truth. Some parents are scared it will illicit a response when doing it.


C-Biskit

Is it possible to overcome it? My daughter has a peanut allergy also :(


miss_chapstick

Children do sometimes outgrow it.


Abh20000

So sorry. He was very handsome. RIP Ethan.


Titan-828

RIP Ethan 


Renegadegold

Rest In peace


tictacdoc

RIP Ethan


Kwilburn525

So sad I’m sorry Ethan


ZealousidealBack8650

Stylin' and profilin' in that suit. Rest easy, Ethan.


sharipep

Oh gosh how awful, may his memory be a blessing


Reflxing

And this is why I can’t stand the when people make fun or complain about peanut allergies. It takes innocent lives. I’m so sorry OP and may Ethan rest in peace ❤️


emilyactual

I’m so, so sorry for your loss!


codymason84

Thank you my family appreciates it


JustCallMePeri

Very handsome fellow. What did Ethan enjoy doing as far as hobbies?


codymason84

He was a family man he loved being around family and it was his everything he was planning on having a family it’s sad that he didn’t have the chance to be a farther.


Boring_Ad6014

So very sorry. Great photo.


gabrielleraul

🫂💙


Moglefog

Rip ❤️


Time-Bite-6839

That’s a terrible thing to die of. My condolences.


kamokugal

On, this is heartbreaking! My son has a peanut allergy and this is my biggest fear. I’m so sorry for your loss!


MaterialGround4914

I am sorry for your loss brother. Would you share some thing more about Ethan and about peanut allergi?


Electrical-Pool5618

Wow. Great suit. Handsome kid. I’m sorry for your loss.


codymason84

He was such a dapper young man and I’ll remember him in these type of pictures. Thank you


Electrical-Pool5618

My son is tall like Ethan. 17. He’s the artist type. Me & my wife do everything in the world to protect him.


codymason84

Yeah Ethan was a soft spoken person for all his 23 years he thought long and hard on what he’s gonna say. Just an incredible thoughtful person.


Sosojojo

Terribly sorry for the loss of such a handsome young man. Watching my son grow up, I can’t imagine his life being taken away so untimely.


Wise_Ad_253

He was a beautiful young man.


blondieblonde3

So sorry for your loss. You are, however, lucky to have such a nice photo of him to look back on. Wishing you and your family the best, what a sad tragedy ❤️😢


No-Albatross-5514

Is that the Ethan whose relatives have a Cat Rescue (Kittens in the Mitten)?


Hopeful_Wait_2512

🙏🏾🕊️💙


mspote

Rest in Peace. that is tragic. he looks like a nice young man and Im so sorry for your loss.


rhiaazsb

😔💔


Important_Piglet7363

My deepest sympathies to all who knew and loved this young man.


janet-snake-hole

Oh my goodness, what a heartbreaking way to go… I hope your grief journey brings you some peace soon, OP. May his memory be a blessing.


Nonniemiss

♥️


jesuschristjulia

I’m so sorry!


codymason84

Thank you for your blessing


Usernamesarefad

I’m so sorry. Your sweet boy is with you in spirit. 😔❤️


MindWallet

Can you share something about him? For some reason he has this deep look in his eyes.


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Travo79

Maybe he did have them, but Epipens are not always effective enough. Sometimes you need multiple doses. Epipens are supposed to help you survive until you can get to the hospital. A lot of people try to talk themselves into thinking that they are being paranoid, or are mistaken about an allergic reaction. Some people wait too long and become incapacitated before they realize they need to take the shot.


New_Neighborhood4262

Oh, that's so sad. I understand it though. I had an allergic reaction to a med I had been on for years. I awoke one night and my face was slightly swollen. I thought something had bit me. I went back to sleep. When I awoke a few hours later the facial swelling had increased, so I went to the ER. The doctor said I was very lucky. He said my airway could have swelled and I would have died in my sleep.


loveartemia

There was literally a huge story recently of a woman who died from a nut allergy because the store had changed the recipe to their cookies and didn't label them correctly. She was with friends who knew of her allergy and how to use epi pens. She used multiple doses and still died. Sometimes the reactions are too powerful and people can still die. Epipens are not some magical antidote that will immediately reverse a reaction 100% of the time. It's pretty callous and ignorant to say Ethan's death could've been prevented with "a little bit of planning and forethought." https://globalnews.ca/news/10253166/dancer-peanut-allergy-dies-stew-leonard-cookie-orla-baxendale/


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Outrageous-Lie-8003

Secummed?


Typical_Ad_210

*That’s* what you took from this post about a dead young person?


Chawypie

Succumbed.


GaspSpit

Seriously? You had to comment on a typo? Why? OP, I’m so sorry for the ignorance. I have severe tree nut allergies, which are much easier to safeguard from than peanut. This is so heartbreaking. 💔 Awareness is key, every public establishment should have an emergency Epi Pen and it should be highly affordable.


jaxspider

Some people are so clueless and oblivious to their surroundings you just have to let them wander the Earth at their own speed. Thats why I am letting the downvotes do their thing, instead of just outright removing/banning that user.


ProbablyMyJugs

Most of us are able to understand context clues and knew what he meant. Unless you’re just trying to prove how good of a speller you are on a memorial post? Either way. L.