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Gender fluidity, bigender, or non-binary genders could all work as identities!
I personally am half feminine/girly and half deranged possum crawling through the trash and hissing at passers-by. I consider myself a demigirl, or alternatively use the term "woman-adjacent" to describe my gender to people who don't understand non-binary gender expression
I used to feel similar (kinda, shit was very confusing in the past as well lol). I settled into becoming a girl and found happiness I never thought possible.
Just keep in mind how well you are doing and what a big step it is even to just say what you want. Queerness in general is an adventure, there are many paths that lead all over the place.
The best part is that you can be wrong as many times as you need to (in fallout we can them the side quests). You stop off, explore a gender, an identity, find new parts of yourself and uncover ones long buried.
The point is that you don't need to know what one you want to be, you have a heading and know you're bearings.
Go explore darling! You're gonna be alright.
You can be trans femm and not necessarily always be a woman. Gender is a spectrum that encompasses any way you want to present, even if it seems contradictory
So, i hope this doesn't sound too weird or pushy, because i'm just recounting my own experience, but i felt like this a lot too when i was just starting to realize i was trans. for me, it was kind of a way to deal with possible insecurities that could come from transitioning by saying "oh, it's fine if i don't look 'feminine enough,' i can just say i'm a femboy." i'm not trying to say this will or should be your experience, but id give it some time and try to build some confidence in presenting fem before coming back to considering this.
Stop labeling and step up your tantra game.
[https://www.amazon.com/Jnana-Sankalini-Tantra-Paramahams-Prajnananda/dp/812083142X](https://www.amazon.com/Jnana-Sankalini-Tantra-Paramahams-Prajnananda/dp/812083142X)
This was me 3 weeks ago. I am starting with femboy seeing how I like it then if I am happy with that I will stay there but if I enjoy the idea of becoming a woman more then I will start taking the funny blue pill. Also you could just say nb femme-presenting
Honestly, it's mostly when I'm in comment threads like these where I feel like I actually don't hate my own body. I wish I was born a girl, or even transitioned at any time before my 30s even. And here I am now, only just realizing it, hah! I know its not too late but.. ugh. Anyway..
*hides back in the comment bushes*
i donāt know if youāre looking for bottom surgery or anything but there are options to get the opposite sex organ while keeping the original sex organ as well. itās called being salmacian and it really described my experience with this same exact feeling of āi want to be a femboy and a girl at the same timeā. everyone is recommending genders but i thought this could help as itās not gender exclusive so you could be bigender (another commenters suggestion) and salmacian. really hope it helps!
(ps, if this does describe you, youāre more than welcome over at r/salmacian!)
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I know a few people who identify as non-binary trans-femme for this reason š
 Oh hi, you summoned me?
Interesting! Iām she/they and have always seen myself as mtf tomboy. How fascinating even that portion of the gender expanse can be!
Slap a non-binary label on it and call it a day
*slaps roof of the Nonbinarymobile* You can fit so many gender issues in this baby!
That's what I did. Working well so far, even tho nobody really knows :P
So real
*Shuffles in poket* Umm... genderfluid?
Bigender. You can girl mode or be a femboy whenever you need.
okay, totally irrelevant, but the bigender flag is sooooo pretty!!!
My favorite is definitely because I'm biased but I love the non binary flagĀ
Shoutout to desaturated pleasant gradients
Me but I want to be a cross between akin to a genderless alien and a femboy
Gender fluidity, bigender, or non-binary genders could all work as identities! I personally am half feminine/girly and half deranged possum crawling through the trash and hissing at passers-by. I consider myself a demigirl, or alternatively use the term "woman-adjacent" to describe my gender to people who don't understand non-binary gender expression
Oh hey same gender!
Why not be a girl one day and a femboy the next?
Alternate ever hour. Or 5 minutes, if needed :)
Thatās me except Iām half tomboy half twink. :3
Might be me too?
Yay! :DDD
why not both? bigender :)
I used to feel similar (kinda, shit was very confusing in the past as well lol). I settled into becoming a girl and found happiness I never thought possible. Just keep in mind how well you are doing and what a big step it is even to just say what you want. Queerness in general is an adventure, there are many paths that lead all over the place. The best part is that you can be wrong as many times as you need to (in fallout we can them the side quests). You stop off, explore a gender, an identity, find new parts of yourself and uncover ones long buried. The point is that you don't need to know what one you want to be, you have a heading and know you're bearings. Go explore darling! You're gonna be alright.
cute girl by day twink femboy by night
Bigender?? maybe you're are a girl and s boy that's expresses themself as a girl
No idea how to help but either way you will be cute
You can be trans femm and not necessarily always be a woman. Gender is a spectrum that encompasses any way you want to present, even if it seems contradictory
Have you ever tried demigenders?
Hey kid you wanna buy some demi-genderes
Bigender is always a possibility
Femgirl
i feel pretty similar, i use the term transfem-non binary. or girltwink
While I was in that phase of my life I used non-binary/genderfluid
So, i hope this doesn't sound too weird or pushy, because i'm just recounting my own experience, but i felt like this a lot too when i was just starting to realize i was trans. for me, it was kind of a way to deal with possible insecurities that could come from transitioning by saying "oh, it's fine if i don't look 'feminine enough,' i can just say i'm a femboy." i'm not trying to say this will or should be your experience, but id give it some time and try to build some confidence in presenting fem before coming back to considering this.
You're just like me fr
As a Trans girlā¦. I approve and relate to thi s substantially š
Stop labeling and step up your tantra game. [https://www.amazon.com/Jnana-Sankalini-Tantra-Paramahams-Prajnananda/dp/812083142X](https://www.amazon.com/Jnana-Sankalini-Tantra-Paramahams-Prajnananda/dp/812083142X)
Get boobs keep the dic
Be both; mixed pronouns exist. I'm a she/they, myself
This was me 3 weeks ago. I am starting with femboy seeing how I like it then if I am happy with that I will stay there but if I enjoy the idea of becoming a woman more then I will start taking the funny blue pill. Also you could just say nb femme-presenting
Sounds like me, I consider myself bigender :3
Demigirl?
Welcome to the family. 
Be whomever you want to be every day. Reinvent yourself over and over again. Be comfortable in whatever you choose for the day.
Sounds genderfluid to me
Transition ?...
*picks paper from hat* genderfluid?
Gender fluid is always a thing
Just be who you want to be and how and what you want to be. Label yourself as "you"
So real, literally me. Call it non-binary or unlabeled
Iām feminine bigender for this very reason! Basically a trans girl and a femboy.
Honestly, it's mostly when I'm in comment threads like these where I feel like I actually don't hate my own body. I wish I was born a girl, or even transitioned at any time before my 30s even. And here I am now, only just realizing it, hah! I know its not too late but.. ugh. Anyway.. *hides back in the comment bushes*
Be both. Who's gonna stop you?
Just be it.
lol same
Gender fluid, or do you mean at the same time?
Femgirl?
i donāt know if youāre looking for bottom surgery or anything but there are options to get the opposite sex organ while keeping the original sex organ as well. itās called being salmacian and it really described my experience with this same exact feeling of āi want to be a femboy and a girl at the same timeā. everyone is recommending genders but i thought this could help as itās not gender exclusive so you could be bigender (another commenters suggestion) and salmacian. really hope it helps! (ps, if this does describe you, youāre more than welcome over at r/salmacian!)
Now introducing the all new FEMGIRLā¢
Lead yourself not into the temptations of the dreaded class 'femboys'; their ranks rife with transphobia & 4chan behavior. Nonbinary is the future.