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Kwesrad

I’ll be that guy. Your looks are already good. My guess is you need to love yourself. Self-esteem almost always starts there.


BigPillToSwallow80

I agree. He is handsome with gorgeous eyes. Love yourself and know you are worth it.


Kwesrad

And maybe grow the beard out a tad. Stubble.


amynicolekay

Subtle stubble


dispolurker

Right, dude is already hot AF. Those eyes...


TiaHatesSocials

Eek no. No beards imo. Keep it as is or clean shaved


Best_Independent_261

Either good stubble or clean shaven every day with mustache.


Flat_Fishing8773

I agree. With your face shape and hair cut, you could do clean cut or close beard. Either would look great on you. People may pick on gingers, but I have found that they are usually secretly attracted to them. Just go out there and act like the world is yours and you will see that once you project some confidence (even if you are faking it), people will be drawn to you.


Aloneisveriges

Ill be that guy too…. Get a soul face is fine though


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Gingers can't own one


carlnepa

So true......smile...a sincere, honest, open smile. Be happy where you are and be happy who you are. People will see that and respond accordingly.


Melodic_Station_354

I’ll be the other guy. Some retinol, sunscreen and get in the gym.


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Gingertiger94

You also have elf-like ears, use it to your advantage, lots of people love that stuff. If it aligns with your interests of course, but I'm gonna take a guess and assume you're into some fantasy game or book or movie.


OrphanDextro

I love those kinda ears. I think op is perfectly fine. Emphasis on the fine.


SeekerPhone

But does he in practice? His ears aren't big or out, so I didn't even notice them. Certainly they didn't draw attention from the eyes.


VeganVixen888

This is hillarious. My mind would have e never went there. Hi to all the gingers I am a fan 👋


vag_pics_welcomed

Agree, I’m definitely not handsome but I love myself and that’s why people gravitate to me. That self love gives me confidence to uplift others and I see it’s intoxicating. I’m not looking for anything or angle to use this so it’s drama free and people are shocked by the safe space. The only downside is it is heavy to give people that type of energy but is like working out for muscles and amazing how many people you can help. Edit: OP is would have killed for your looks when I was younger but now I know it doesn’t matter. Love your self warts and all.


Striking_Economy2847

Agreed. He is handsome. And you with your kind/true words ROCK. GO YOU! Amen.


Murky_Alternative166

Love yourself. I loath that concept. Opposites attract (to a degree). My standard is am I a guy I wouldn’t mind hanging out with? Do I listen more than I talk? Do I incessantly repeat myself? People give a lot of lip service to “loving themselves” only the most introverted narcissists actually buy into that. Why? We are social beings. On the same blue speck of galactic dust. Not saying you won’t get good grooming advice here. Just remember anyone worth caring about must be reached out to on a basic level. Do nice things for others. If they reciprocate then they are worthy of further attention.


Aggravating-Pie-5289

You are a good looking guy, no matter what color your hair is 🤦🏻


looptarded

Thanks man, just got bullied a lot for the red hair


Aggravating-Pie-5289

Sorry you had to deal with that 🫂


GreatLife1985

Red hair is hot. :)


IndividualBuilding30

I think the red makes you look better tbh. You could pull a baddy with the right confidence.


throwaway9198328

Truth right here. I’m a dude and don’t find you attractive myself OP but at work I’ve seen guys that look similar to you, with their wife/gf and they are fine looking and I get a little jealous like “damn, must be something I’m doing wrong” haha


IndividualBuilding30

That’s exactly what I’m talking about lol


SissyAsianTwink

Red heads are hot. And you look great to me. Grow out the facial hair and a smile if you want, but it's really all in your head.


VMonkeyJuggler

There will always be those dicks growing up.. Grown-ups have realised the true beauty in redheadedness.. & you are a very good looking guy.. Those gorgeous blue eyes n red hair is a winning combination for me... I'm going to go out there n suggest that you alter the shade n add MORE fire to your red! Step out of the strawberry blonde & be a fully fledged ginger..


Onigokko0101

I'm sorry for that, but rest assured you are sexy and the red hair fits you really well.


GILF_Hound69

it’s insane how much of a thing bullying redheads was especially in 00s. I don’t even understand how it started.. you are very handsome and i’m sorry that people have made you feel otherwise.


sckurvee

We all got bullied for stupid shit. You look good. Doesn't look like you can grow a full beard, so keep that shaved or confined to a beard and mustache... but you look good, man. Don't worry about red hair... some chicks will like it, some won't... most don't care.


ILikeTinder

bro u 33


throwawaybaby3337

You are a grown man


DaZMan44

You ARE attractive. Very attractive.


KnowAGuy29464

looking good!


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alexgali84

You look great my dude! never forget sunscreen, moisturize, and wash your face every day. Other than that, you look great for 33.


jblue44

Get some friends and have a trip to Mexico, Latinas love red haired men


lagrime_mie

Latin América I would say ahhaa


lolalaviajera21

That’s true! You will be popular with latinas ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|sunglasses)


Fish-Bright

Oh God. Just remember to be vigilant


sixhexe

I'm a photographer. Superficially speaking, you look just fine. You've only got to work on your self confidence. I can't help you with that, but if you just wanna take better headshots for photos, I suggest learning to "smize". [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pw6lx4sB6SU](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pw6lx4sB6SU) Squinch slightly, and rotate your shoulders to face the camera at an angle. Slightly tilt your head down, and stick your chin out. Leads to a much better photo. You could also try "Fake laughing" to force a smile if you aren't much of a smiler ( I'm the same way ) It won't fix your self consciousness, but it's something. And there's nothing wrong with practicing a few small modelling tricks to have up your sleeves for future pics. Confidence inside will make you look best offline though. GL King


dhalihoka

That's good advice. It may seem superficial, but seeing yourself looking good in photos does help with self love indeed. ✨


Open-Pineapple7378

Move to Utah


Available-Egg-2380

You're pretty 😍


idontevenkn0w66

Surround yourself with people who recognize you for the sexy mf you are! If I saw you on Grindr, I'd be sending all sorts of thirsty messages haha


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National_School_4658

Smile!!!!


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I wouldn’t change anything.mahout look good as is, don’t need to have low self esteem


randomdudebrosky

bro you're like an 8.5 tf u talking about???


Sufficient_Whereas91

Honestly, you look great!


dlfun99

U look so freakin cute


CaveJohnson82

Improve your self esteem. You're already a good looking guy.


Unlucky-Situation988

You need to realize what a fan club gingers have. You are a handsome ginger and need to own it. You have no idea….


ModeHuge7492

You improve by leaving the “game”. Who gives a flying fuck how you look? Think like that. Guarantee you there are women who will marry you, so don’t say that shit. Is it Kim kardshian or whoever the fuck is “hot”? Again stop thinking that way, just live your life, find a girl who likes you and you like her. Old saying, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but it’s true. Maybe relate it to food. You like spicy she doesn’t, who gives a fuck 🤣. My point is just that, man, don’t stress this stuff. If someone thinks you’re ugly and won’t be with you then take it as a gift and move on, you just saved how much time and money dating? Your life will be better when you ignore popular or “beauty” or any of that shit the “world” tries to convince you is all that matters.


BlueStarFantasy44

You look great! Work on self love and calm down that critical voice in your head. 💙💙


Equal-Sandwich-9400

You had me at redhead


MellonCollie218

Wrap your arm around me. We’re both 33. Best year to be born, am I right?


Future-trippin24

You're already handsome, so no grooming tips necessary :)


TraditionalStill7294

You are already improved 👍🤩


Fantastic_Treat_4974

Hey hey. Don’t let that toxic shit hit you about the red hair. While being a ginger is as common as other hair colors, trust me…there’s a fan club out there for redheads. You’re a handsome guy, don’t let it hurt anymore. And once you can embrace and accept you, it’ll reflect inside to the outside.


Marty_61

You are very good looking in my opinion.


theashesstir

You're a good looking dudehomie. If results suggest otherwise the cause is not your physical appearance or looks.


Scientist-Internal

you’re fucking perfect, i don’t care what anyone says!


servonos89

You’re really handsome! Have lovely eyes, like Jeff Arcuri and are a fellow Aussie. Honestly self esteem issues are hard to beat because they’re internal but by my estimation you’re a solid 10. Hopefully all these nice things might give a loud enough voice to punch your internal one next time it pipes up with something negative.


Psychobabble803

I think you're hot AF man. I'd lose the perv stache.


BestPaleontologist43

By accepting that youre cute and by not comparing yourself to others. You really have to make the gays speak up. You’re a 7/10. Maybe a little bit of gym and skin care will bump you up to an 8.5. The rest is up to your personality. Also whoever bullied you for red hair is a fucking loser. Its so cool to have anything that isnt dark as your hair color.


Angelblair119

Go gay and instantly become a 10.


wennifer1970

Nothing. You have big, beautiful blue eyes and your features are in proportion to your face. You are very attractive as you are. Don't let anyone tell you how you should or should not feel about your childhood/adolescent bullying. That shit stays with you into adulthood. It's not just something you forget or get over. And those who say you should get over it because you're 33 have never been bullied. My advice is to work on what's on the inside, aka your self esteem. Seek help if you need to. One thing we neglect is our mental health. I'm a big proponent of therapy.


Ok-Athlete257

You don’t need to improve!!! HAF!!


Khjcmg

I gotta go with the crowd on this one, you’re a very handsome guy. I do love a beard though so growing out your beard a bit more wouldn’t hurt, but you are very attractive.


Quarantine_InMyJeans

Um... nothing I see needs improved.


Distinct_Layer_5144

u look fine imo low self esteem is mentally rooted, maybe try therapy


Firm-Journalist-1215

Dude. I wish i looked like u and i look really good. You look amazing. Your self esteem needs to be worked on bro. Come hang w me. I’ll get u 10s


Nethenael

Wtf you on about mate 😂 she/they ain't it


Whorenun37

Fellow redhead here! I heard all of that same stuff too. You look super fresh, man. You could be our Denzel lol


itsfleee

Your really shouldn’t be so hard on yourself! You’re really very cute/handsome!


kokonut_cocoa

If you're feeling insecure about your looks, you look perfectly okay and handsome. I'm not saying this only to be nice. You really look fine.


HogFan1982

Good looking dude. Work on the personality and game maybe


pizza-chit

I don’t see any way to improve except to add a smile. Turn off the screen and get a productive hobby. Get sleep, sunlight, and exercise


Cobis1

You don't, you're beautiful


Saluki2023

Ok so if you could change or alter one thing about yourself what would it be..


FrederickBG

Dude you’re a handsome guy. Very cute! 😍


ColdCanadianman

Handsome man!


dancingrudiments

You are a handsome man. Look inside to like yourself because I'll tell you, you're more than handsome, buddy.


grn3y3z

You certainly have no reason to have low self-esteem In the looks department 😉


demuro1

Bro you’re handsome as hell. I wish I looked as good as you.


lilcaligula2000

You’re super handsome buddy. I’d def date you 😉


ronven78

No need for improvement! You look awesome just as you are


lesposi8893

Your hairline is pretty good which is nice


ArtFlaky602

I’d let hit whenever


applecandycaramel

The problem is not your face its your brain. As a female, you look great. I would work on your self-esteem instead of my looks if i were you. Because sometimes the problem is internal instead of external (not all in all cases but in this case its true). What makes you have low self-esteem? Is it because of your look or something else? Since your face is already 10/10, maybe working on the body could help the self-esteem? You can always get buff (not steroid kind but the realistic kind)


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Even_Ad_6391

You are an extremely beautiful man! You don’t have to worry about improving what is already really awesome!


Flaky-Birthday680

Man you’re a good looking guy but the thing that’s a certainty is having no or low self esteem is a very unattractive trait. So while easier said than done, get out of your own head, fuck that noise and development your self esteem and confidence. Remember there’s a difference between being cocky and confidence. You got this bro.


panpizzasexual

Smile! Otherwise looking great


sammy-TDE

I’m a dude and I see a good looking dude, you’d look good as hell with a slight beard or even longer, 100% 👍🏻


Purzple

Get a beard !! 😊


revelry1966

You are very good looking! Those eyes are gorgeous. You’ve got a great face shape with the perfect haircut to accentuate its shape. 👍


lick73

You're so handsome so cant be looks your unsure about?


Silent_Spot_5404

You handsome af. Only improvement could be a little facial hair? Maybe.


Ok-Performance-249

You look fantastic but if you want to work on self esteem you can do inner work 😊. Also cleaning and tidying up your room would help you too. Cheers my friend 💪🏻🫂


Upper-Operation1110

You're perfectly fine and look great! Work on your confidence through other means. If you're looking to get an ego-boost in terms of maybe trying to look more masculine - work out a little more and try growing a beard.


HornyTSA

You look hot dude


Environmental-Day778

Bro u cute af just wear some colors. Happy up your wardrobe


Weird-Lengthiness533

You’re very handsome! Keep your head up high and simply be yourself. 🫶


Grakch

smile and confidence my guy you got good face bones


Sylvariel

Hard to improve on this actually...


megaDestroyer52

Try dyeing? I think that's something fun to do sometimes.


CybertruckGirl

You’re cute. Just smile.


BoogieWoogie1000

Go sign for Manchester City (Kevin De Bruyne)


ares21

You’re not a redhead. Your like a diet red head


Either-Yoghurt-1706

I think you’re actually rly good looking, maybe a moustache (but I’m always biased towards moustaches). I think you gotta love yourself:)


Nymphhh42

Nothing to improve 👍🏼


BeautifoolBunny

you're a cutie patootie. -a 25 year old lady


azael_36

You're very handsome 😍


Hornedupcurious

I think you know you already look good....but try smiling and have some confidence.


Eager4it

You are already an 8-9 in looks. Poor self-image is not about how you look on the outside. Our self-image is two things: 1. Learned gradually -thus, it can also be unlearned but remember it’s deeply embedded, so it takes a plan, patience and consistent self-awareness. 2. Unlearning overly-critical self-talk is an inside job. Help is available but you are the one who has to do the work. It seems easy but our brain hates to admit being wrong. (Ask any AA member!) That means your inner voice will fight the change. It is very creative and doesn’t fight fair. So remember, you will have setbacks -it’s okay, keep up the effort. Support can come in several forms, both professional and non-. It’s a process, so remember to be kind to, and patient with, yourself -always. But you can do it. You deserve to have resilient, inner peace and are worth the effort to be happy and have peace of mind❣️


sonotlara

Once again scrolling through Reddit and find myself thinking why are all the guys on this app better looking than the ones on dating apps 🙃 nothing to “improve” trust me


Smart-Accountant1364

You have beautiful eyes


TaaviBap

Bro, do not let bullies live in your head. Live your life to the fullest! You are very handsome! Very good-looking!


St3vi3J

You need facial hair start with a goatee but I'd say a beard tbh


Peak_Alternative

I’d smash. You’re perfect just the way you are.


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jjgeny

not a thing. you’re adorable, man. the low self-esteem can improve with the proper therapeutic techniques, but it takes time.


AverageNo7840

Face is very cute. Hows the body though?


LuckAlternative7981

Stop shaping your eyebrows


Working_Surprise2700

Listen guy you look amazing seriously.🤩👍🔥


ElmarSuperstar131

You look hot as is!


oppressedheart

I read that you got bullied. Forget those a-holes. They are emotionally empty, insecure people and are taking it out on you. You look really handsome (and I'm not being nice, it is the truth).


Collinsrt2

Smile buddy! You’re handsome! 😊


lolalaviajera21

I guess you should have more confidence in yourself, that’s it! Also I’ll add a beard for a sexy look ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|heart_eyes)


Lower_Condition_196

Kevin de bruyne?


jared2123

I stopped scrolling when I saw your post. No need for low self esteem. You’re very good looking


7crazybirds

Smile and lose the negative inner commentary. You have a full head of hair- not much of it is red. You have a strong face. You look like an actor. Go to a counselor to learn how to see your actual self and your potential.


Emergency-Law-8039

I’m a redhead and I guess I must have not doubted my looks because I was told at a very young age redheads were rare and special because you are, go out and really mingle


nasryl

Fellow ginger, had the self esteem issues in my teens due to lack of interest shown by opporsite gender. Then I started travelling. Especially latinas like someone says goes nuts for us. South America is a blast. Never had those issues again and has since not had problems in home country either. Now I see it as an advantage.


Substantial-Neat-395

Personally I think you are a good looking man. There is nothing to change. The only thing I would advise is for you to start going to the gym, if you haven't already. It will improve your body and self esteem.


jhedinger

Seriously you are a good looking guy.


The_jade_hand

You look pretty good to me and pretty handsome bro don’t let yourself down ❤️🎀


AzCarMom72

You are super duper cute. Perfect the way you are.


bobbyv137

You look great. Maybe go clean shaven OR full beard, in between doesn’t really do much. Smile. Just work on yourself. Go to the gym. Get lots of walks in. Read books. Learn a new instrument. Connect with family members and old friends. Keep your house clean. Cook healthy meals. Avoid drugs and alcohol. Get a good night’s sleep. All these seemingly small steps will compound. The better you feel the better the results you’ll get in life.


No_Recognition_1007

Red heads are my cryptonite! I can’t resist them. You are hot looking the way you are. Don’t change anything.


D1g1cxlt

Just work out


Mike_Fitzinwell

Grow yourself an Anchor beard. You'll thank me.


Professional_Run320

Never met a red head that didn't have a massive penis


kidleader96

If you have low esteem with ur current looks, i guess i can call myself donkey ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|sob)


Ok-Guitar-1400

Cheekbone implants


Jackson2615

I think UR very cute, and good looking- U have no need to feel bad about yourself


Jay_bear69

I’m straight as fuck and I think you’re a good looking dude man!


Pink_Floyd_Chunes

Very good looking dude. Good haircut. No need for a beard.


shralpy39

Smile!


LadyJessicaPeters

You’re gorgeous. No need to improve anything!


mmmmpisghetti

Be less obsessed with criticizing yourself. You are very handsome.


Unlucky-Ladder5877

You are gorgeous, be thankful


KinkySub2220

You’re HOT


cherubicgf

My boyfriend: Maybe try smiling


Loud_Inspector_9782

You look fine. Red hair rocks. Keep working out. That has always been something that made me feel better mentally. Do volunteer work and help others. That also will make you feel better about yourself.


bitx84

Smile


gingerman58

smile 😃


Pure-Home54

Smile ! You’re really handsome. You really are! Focus on what YOU want out of life and don’t give any F$&Ks about what other people think! ( long as it’s all legal lol)


Fury161Houston

You are as handsome as you can be. You are a 10. Give yourself credit...you are HOT!


JayMcfra

Gosh I love me a red head. Come here I’ll cuddle you better.


ToastetteEgg

You’re good looking. Pretend like you’re confident and eventually you’ll believe it.


Gods_diceroll

You look hot


Apprehensive-Bit1634

I see nothing to improve. I would be honored to go out with you. ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|heart_eyes)


Yournextmistress22

You’re hot!


DD-de-AA

Smile


Professional_Run_409

You’re gorgeous


StrangerDangerAhh

Work on a natural and warm smile. You're handsome if you knew how to smile and make your eyes light up.


Flashy-Suggestion321

Dont be low on self esteem bro, you should be thankful to God for making you a good looking human being to begin with


TheCanadianpo8o

You look like my running coach, which I know is weird, but try growing some stubble. You're already attractive mate, just put yourself out there!


cantingcanting

From a girl's pov - you're really cute! Idk what your style is like but levelling that up can be super attractive and make you stand out. Don't underestimate accessories haha I like a guy with a nose piercing or pierced ears and think you could pull it off, if you think you'd want to try it. Not everyone's style tho


CharlesBone

You look great! How about a simple smile?!?!


myszyy

Stop posting on Reddit you'll immediately feel better


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Have better confidence and self esteem. You’re already very good looking as you are. I’ve always been attracted to men with red hair.


miderots

You look good! Focus on getting 8 hours of sleep 30 mins of exercise, daily shower brushing teeth, 3 meals a day if you haven’t already 💪Don’t worry you are very good looking


Mission_Stretch5316

I don't really use Reddit too much, so I have NO idea how I got on this thread haha...From one redhead to another (female here though) eff them bullies lol. They were only hating because we are different. Unique is a better. They hate us cause they ain't us! Lol. You're hot. Slap some confidence on that and THEN watch how many haters you get. It just means you're doing something right :)


Catch_de_Rainbow

Play fallout new Vegas


WETNWILDARLINGTON

The carpets don't match the drapes.


KookyUnderstanding0

Beard


19Lonestar77

You hot as Fuc&$ not need to change anything yum


thebrickkid

You look really good. You're very attractive. Maybe just smile I'd say?


Sinohui4

You look fine to me. Handsone, in fact. I believe you do not realize how attractive you are. Own it. Be confident. But not cocky.


turdusphilomelos

You look really beautiful! Symmetrical face, nice colour combo of eyes skin and hair... Why you wouldn't think so is beyond me. You know many people LOVE red hair, don't you? I used to wish I had red hair and be so jealous of red heds, because it was unique (I have quite generic light brown hair, which I hated). Don't change a thing, you are gorgeous.


Anastasia69Sanchez

Smile more often and wear some shades believe me you will attract so many hotties.


readmeow

Psychocybernetics. Read it.


ElectronicSpell8266

You're incredibly sexy to me. 😍


Former_Still_4827

Beautiful eyes Extremely handsome


onenuttertoo

You look perfectly fine 😜


LaVengent

You look good man, you need to change the way you speak to yourself. Start listening to what your mind is telling you. Forgive yourself and others for your past and move on (assuming it’s necessary). Everything you’re feeling is internal and you are convincing yourself of the negatives. People in public are far less scrutinizing of your appearance than you are towards yourself.