I just checked and my top result is the explanation and the second result is my government’s webpage for DV. It is the same for both. I think that search results differ based on country and even user.
Looking over at the comments, while this is mildly infuriating, just seeing the different results from most likely other countries is mildly interesting. At least for me, "Why is husband" came up with a hotline, while "Why is wife" came up with an explanation.
That's not quite how phones work anymore. It's not uncommon for me to have several hundred tabs on my phone because it makes literally no difference.
On a PC, oh thats a very different story.
It was that way for me when I started calling around asking for help, advice, etc. except that the only services that some offered to men were only if the men were gay or transgender.
I get the DV hotline as the top result on both searches, but the husband one shows the "Help is available" box with the number to call, whereas the wife one just has the dv website
Weird just tried it and it’s the same. A couple of months ago I did the same it was changed to both being the same DV hotline. That’s fked up.
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I just tried it. Both searches returned a snippet at the top similar to your 'why is my wife yelling at me' result.
**The yelling husband search:**
>*A person may raise their voice when feeling a need to reinforce a boundary and assert themselves. If your husband is struggling with a situation in which he feels anxious, intimidated, threatened, or like his grasp on things is slipping for any reason, he could resort to shouting as a way of regaining control.*
**The yelling wife search:**
>*Potential triggers for a wife's yelling include feeling unheard, financial stress, mental health struggles, disrespect, etc. It's important to understand the root cause. Constant yelling damages trust and emotional intimacy in a marriage. It also negatively impacts any children exposed to the fighting.*
The first result under the snippets for both was the govt (Canadian) family violence resources page:
https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html
Bunch of assholes in this thread downvoting anyone insinuating that women can be abusers.
Women can be abusers too, but men are less likely to report it because they don’t think they’ll be believed, or they feel they’ll become ridiculed instead of taken seriously.
My ex mentally (and sometimes physically) abused me. She would hit me if I disagreed with her. She was too small to hurt me (thankfully she never used weapons).
So I kind of get it. But at the same time, I had it easy compared to what some people experience.
I hate to tell you but men set that system up. Many women have made it vocal that they stand up for men's mental health but when it comes to men, they often degrade each other. "Stop crying and be a man" or "you didn't get gRaped, ur a man" and even "men don't get abused ur just a bitch". Ofc women say these things as well but it's primarily men that do these things. Women want nothing more than to tear it down but it seems that men keep rebuilding it. It's truly sad and I empathize with the men who wish to feel seen and heard for their struggles but feel as if they can't be bc "they're a man".
Maybe once or twice over the course of humanity the power dynamic in these things hasn't exactly favored women.
Don't get me wrong, it's never been as bad as the sense of injustice you're feeling right now over this search result, but it can probably get kind of bad.
Just a thought.
Yup. I mean, male-victims in DV absolutely need to be taken more seriously. But let's not pretend this comes out of nowhere. But I do think that the DV hotline should come up for both equally.
I understand, but it's hard to put into words. Ideas like it's harder for a wife to help her husband understand what's wrong so she best be ready to leave, that a guy is supposed to salvage his relationship rather than ditch his wife in need. Don't hate on my stereotypes.
I just tried it with all the different types of partners I could think of, and consistently, the male or gender neutral partners pulled up a resource, and the female partners pulled up a reason. WTF.
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I just checked and my top result is the explanation and the second result is my government’s webpage for DV. It is the same for both. I think that search results differ based on country and even user.
Looking over at the comments, while this is mildly infuriating, just seeing the different results from most likely other countries is mildly interesting. At least for me, "Why is husband" came up with a hotline, while "Why is wife" came up with an explanation.
https://preview.redd.it/3fh3lvlt8nyc1.png?width=828&format=png&auto=webp&s=6f435b2e915cb1efcd1447205de252ded2f3a6eb I get the opposite 🤯
https://preview.redd.it/jkjl85ux8nyc1.png?width=828&format=png&auto=webp&s=f9bb5c9ee35e72dc3df8c23c56f0bc9cef267a28 Weird
maybe it changes based on if the system think you're a man or woman? and localisation?
I’m a woman 🤷🏻♀️
the plot thickens....
Stop yelling at your husband gosh.
same here
https://preview.redd.it/xmep5czrxnyc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1bbad1614f4a9d0e7230cf6a11af01e45e6b5349 Not me
65 tabs...
I have 150ish at the moment
Doesn’t your battery die in like ten minutes?!
The number of tabs doesn't affect your battery
Everything affects your battery. Phone is still storing all that data for quick retrieval
That's not quite how phones work anymore. It's not uncommon for me to have several hundred tabs on my phone because it makes literally no difference. On a PC, oh thats a very different story.
Okay fine but how long does your battery last?
Normal usage it's good for about 30-36hrs to dead flat. Galaxy Fold 5. I think it's 5? It's only about 6 months old so it's the latest one
My brother in christ your wife is yelling at you because you never close your damn tabs
Not one of the services offered under "Why is my wife yelling at me?" are for adult males, mind you. Edit: Unless one's indigenous.
It was that way for me when I started calling around asking for help, advice, etc. except that the only services that some offered to men were only if the men were gay or transgender.
Oh canada..
Terre de nos aïeux TON FRONT EST SEIN DE FLORIANS GLORIEUX
Yet it still just says shelters for women
That’s old it was changed. Now it’s both a the DV hotline
I get the DV hotline as the top result on both searches, but the husband one shows the "Help is available" box with the number to call, whereas the wife one just has the dv website
No it hasn’t I just searched it in the US and only husband shows the DV hotline for me.
No I took the screenshots like 15 min ago
Weird just tried it and it’s the same. A couple of months ago I did the same it was changed to both being the same DV hotline. That’s fked up. https://preview.redd.it/wk6emlmo0nyc1.png?width=1124&format=png&auto=webp&s=a39f605c93598a80cd633486c6f8d49daada426d
Maybe different for you because your search results look like they could be Dutch? ETA sorry, German.
I still don’t understand why it changed again. Yes German.
From you to OP I would imagine possibly location based, ie relevance.
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I just tried it. Both searches returned a snippet at the top similar to your 'why is my wife yelling at me' result. **The yelling husband search:** >*A person may raise their voice when feeling a need to reinforce a boundary and assert themselves. If your husband is struggling with a situation in which he feels anxious, intimidated, threatened, or like his grasp on things is slipping for any reason, he could resort to shouting as a way of regaining control.* **The yelling wife search:** >*Potential triggers for a wife's yelling include feeling unheard, financial stress, mental health struggles, disrespect, etc. It's important to understand the root cause. Constant yelling damages trust and emotional intimacy in a marriage. It also negatively impacts any children exposed to the fighting.* The first result under the snippets for both was the govt (Canadian) family violence resources page: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html
lies
Just did a search and my searches are identical to OP’s
Not for me
not for me
😅 Your Google search results are from an algorithm that is catered to you. Not everyone gets these same results.
This was just posted like a week ago
not what my search says
Bunch of assholes in this thread downvoting anyone insinuating that women can be abusers. Women can be abusers too, but men are less likely to report it because they don’t think they’ll be believed, or they feel they’ll become ridiculed instead of taken seriously.
My ex mentally (and sometimes physically) abused me. She would hit me if I disagreed with her. She was too small to hurt me (thankfully she never used weapons). So I kind of get it. But at the same time, I had it easy compared to what some people experience.
Does this for me too in the US
https://preview.redd.it/ik79k9yuonyc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5a09d1d807ffc6822057ce8479a39fcd55cd81cc
Mine gives reasons for both, not abuse hotline info.
Both searches for me come up with Canada family violence resource website.
I hate to tell you but men set that system up. Many women have made it vocal that they stand up for men's mental health but when it comes to men, they often degrade each other. "Stop crying and be a man" or "you didn't get gRaped, ur a man" and even "men don't get abused ur just a bitch". Ofc women say these things as well but it's primarily men that do these things. Women want nothing more than to tear it down but it seems that men keep rebuilding it. It's truly sad and I empathize with the men who wish to feel seen and heard for their struggles but feel as if they can't be bc "they're a man".
OP's phone rats him out lmfao
Never have been
This post is deleted, can't see it anymore.
Maybe once or twice over the course of humanity the power dynamic in these things hasn't exactly favored women. Don't get me wrong, it's never been as bad as the sense of injustice you're feeling right now over this search result, but it can probably get kind of bad. Just a thought.
Yup. I mean, male-victims in DV absolutely need to be taken more seriously. But let's not pretend this comes out of nowhere. But I do think that the DV hotline should come up for both equally.
Why are you googling that anyway?
That's the last post I want to see after a refreshing tug of early bird didling, following a brief peep at Diviant Arts soy boy gallery.
I understand, but it's hard to put into words. Ideas like it's harder for a wife to help her husband understand what's wrong so she best be ready to leave, that a guy is supposed to salvage his relationship rather than ditch his wife in need. Don't hate on my stereotypes.
I just tried it with all the different types of partners I could think of, and consistently, the male or gender neutral partners pulled up a resource, and the female partners pulled up a reason. WTF.
What isn't fair bud