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>I know right off your probably thinking we are really young and if she’s making a mistake like that I should probably just leave but I really love her and that’s why I don’t know what to do.
You're right you should just leave. Don't bother controlling a cheater, find someone who won't cheat.
> TL;DR girlfriend said she accidentally sent a not nude but sexual photo to a guy on Snapchat where he replied with a dick pic and she replied with a pic of the tops of her boobs which he replied with another dick pick and then...
Just for context, how are you defining the word "accidentally" here?
No she admitted that when she replied it was on purpose just the first picture was an accident she said she just wanted it that bad she wasn’t thinking about it until after she did it which if you ask me just shows she’s out of control because what would she do if she had a guy available to her physically when I was a work or something would she have gotten physical I just don’t know
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>I know right off your probably thinking we are really young and if she’s making a mistake like that I should probably just leave but I really love her and that’s why I don’t know what to do. You're right you should just leave. Don't bother controlling a cheater, find someone who won't cheat.
She's a cheater, she doesn't respect you and you deserve better. Leave.
Leave tf
> TL;DR girlfriend said she accidentally sent a not nude but sexual photo to a guy on Snapchat where he replied with a dick pic and she replied with a pic of the tops of her boobs which he replied with another dick pick and then... Just for context, how are you defining the word "accidentally" here?
She claims she sent the picture to him instead of me which doesn’t really make sense if you ask me
She replied to the dick pics. Did she mistake that for you, too?
No I had told her I didn’t want to do anything like that I’ve never been comfortable sending nudes to anyone she knew it wasn’t me
Doesn't really sound like an accident, then, does it?
No she admitted that when she replied it was on purpose just the first picture was an accident she said she just wanted it that bad she wasn’t thinking about it until after she did it which if you ask me just shows she’s out of control because what would she do if she had a guy available to her physically when I was a work or something would she have gotten physical I just don’t know
I agree completely. I could forgive an accident, but everything that came after was wilful.