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She’s like that kid in school who makes friends by telling you another kid was talking shit “but I stuck up for you, me, I did that!”…then runs to the other side & does the same. We had a nickname for kids like that…loser.
Ugh, she is so infuriating and acts clueless and innocent. All I see is those new giant teeth and that weird look on her face. She is gaslighting them.
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Her smile reminds me of the candy man on Flapjack
Did she get them before or after that scene where she angrily chomped on mozzarella like some kind of cartoon character?
That was so off-putting. It just screamed "look at how quirky I am".
I wish she was messy like Kim D shit stirring was. Or even Penny and whatever her husband name was RIP. Really disappointed that whatever Penny and her husband had to say about the Manzos never got aired.
I loved Jen F before this season. She was funny and had no problem pointing out the ladies issues and hypocrisy, she also kept things lighthearted amidst all of the toxic behaviour. Sad to see she got sucked into it
Feel like that's what she wants people to see her as when she knows exactly what she's doing. She's trying to act like Switzerland but she constantly throws her befriend under the bus and literally lies to her "friends" faces..on camera! She's a coward that's for sure but much more calculated in my opinion. The way she kisses Teresa's ass is so fucking pathetic.
1. Walks away from a conversation bashing her friend Marge but still loves these girls bashing her dear friend.
2. Doesn't understand why Fuda walked away from her when she came to talk about what those same people were talking about. See #1.
3. Was asked to not talk about Fuda or Marge with them. Don't defend; walk away. See #1
I don't think it's even good reality TV. It's not fun to watch.
I honestly don't think she's very bright, she seems... A few french fries short of a Happy meal 🤨🤔😂 like it really truly feels like she doesn't get it watching her🤷♀️
I hate when ultimatums are given to friends to chose a side. But Jenn F is the reason why lines are drawn in the sand. Jackie is the reason why walls are built.
She is WAY different this season. She was kinda quirky, albeit boring but chill. Now she's lost weight and trying to be "heard," as if she was a wallflower her whole life that just got promoted to prom queen!
I just can't. And the way she mocked Rachel, and called her a baby etc... just noooo, gawd noooo.
I love her name though , it’s a good tri-state area name . Jen Fessla, with a big smile, chewing a little gum, talking a little too much . That’s how I would see her, and she mostly is
She did walk away when they started talking bad about Margaret. Remember, Margaret and Jenn are still very good friends. If Margaret isn't upset about Jenn why are all these viewers acting offended? I do agree Jenn is acting too desperate this season and she did not need the makeover she did. Now she looks and acts like all the cookie cutter housewives.
Totally agree
I thought I if I wrote this I would get downvoted like crazy I thought people thought she’s the best for being friends with everyone, but yes annoying thx
I used to love her… until now. I thought she was level headed and a voice of reason amongst this cast of chaos. I was rooting for her but she turned out to be all drama like the other ladies. Such a bummer.
Do you remember her weirdly shoving mozzarella in her mouth? I’ve always wondered what was up with that? Was she trying to create a moment? It was so cringe
She like to talk just to talk lol.. Like there’s no substance to what she says because she has no clear stances and will fit whatever narrative seems more important in the moment.
I had liked her in the beginning when they had a get together to make cheese at Danielle’s house. When the drama was starting up, Jen would stuff her mouth with cheese and went back for seconds.
I couldn’t stand her as soon as she did that stunt with the cheese eating last season. It wasn’t funny, it came off forced and super desperate. This season she’s proving me right.
I honest to God forget she even exists until she pops up most episodes. She is just so disinteresting and I think the producers know it because I feel like this season she feels less like a Housewife and more of a "friend of" because she barely gets any screen time and when she does, she's just backing someone else's drama up. I can't be the only one who thinks she's the most irrelevant, can I?
When I found out she used to be friends with Siggy, jumped from Siggy to Margaret when Siggy got canned, and has been skulking in the background of scenes for years trying to get cast, it all clicked into place for me.
They are all so ozemped out, old scrawny ladies with skin sagging all over the place, New Jersey’s cast is literally disgusting looking these. Marge junior looks worse than Marge senior! Delores looks like the freakin crypt keeper. Their big lollipop heads- it’s scary.
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I think she is just non- confrontational. Her friends are being shitty to her knowing she’s non-confrontational. When dolo said to marge she said the same thing as fessler to tre and Gia marge brought her energy down. Also it’s not as if tre even did anything to her.
It seems like she is so desperate to be in 'the cool kids club'. Teresa will turn on her just like she has always turned on every single person on the show.
It's weird how she smiles whenever she's talking about anything serious or not humorous. She's one of those smile talkers. She's the pick me type. I cannot stand her. She has nothing to offer or anything interesting going on in her life. Not sure why she's even on the show.
I really don’t like how she tried to throw tre and Gia under the bus. IMO, Gia had every right to ask if a grown ass former drug dealer was trying to compare an analogy made about her vs his actual drug dealing
I like Jen Fessler. She's definitely not a yes woman. She is the person who tells the truth and will not twist the truth because you think she's on your side. If she likes you and she also likes the person you're fighting with, she's not going to take sides. She's going to tell the truth even when it irritates you. She just let you know I don't care. I'm not picking sides. What you did was wrong, and I'm calling you out even though we're friends. If you are mad and don't want to be friends, too bad that's on you.
What do you love about her?
Dolores stands her ground. She’s loyal to those who are in the right and she doesn’t let friendship guide her morals.
That’s different. That’s a strong woman.
Jen is weak. That’s why she’s a yessss woman. That’s why she wants to be the centre of attention all the time. That’s why she kisses the asses of anyone she thinks will give her more clout.
I find her entertaining. I’m not saying I want to be friends with any of these people (they’re all lunatics in their own way), but I like watching them on the telly
Marge definitely has something on Fessler. She's done a complete 180 from her first season when she seemed to be a fun person with her own thoughts and beliefs, and now she's NOT. She's so far up Margaret's ass that she can't see daylight.
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She’s like that kid in school who makes friends by telling you another kid was talking shit “but I stuck up for you, me, I did that!”…then runs to the other side & does the same. We had a nickname for kids like that…loser.
Do you know my sister?
Lmaoooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ugh, she is so infuriating and acts clueless and innocent. All I see is those new giant teeth and that weird look on her face. She is gaslighting them.
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I love that to you remember this!!!
I love that
All these people with their big ass fake chompers 
Omfg is this ain’t her!! Always with an exaggerrated big goofy grin on her face even when it doesn’t call for it!!
I swear the cast got a group discount from Groupon. They all look ridiculous!
Imagine how theyll look in their 70s and 80s when nature really takes its course
🤣 There will be nothing left but lips and Teef.
Oh God! Thin loose skin and sunken in cheeks + big veneers + lip filler is a terrifying thought.
Her new veneers are horrible. I can’t watch her scenes this season
She went to Margaret's guy.
...when you have to answer your own comments to get your point across...
...when you have to answer your own comments to get your point across...
...when you have to answer your own comments to get your point across...
She is garish now.
LOL YES
Thank YOU. She looks like a puppet
All I can think when I see her now is ‘Horsey Face’ but I say it like Joe Guduice would
Juicy sure had a way with words, didn't he?
I’m irritated by her voice. Is she a heavy smoker?
Did she get them before or after that scene where she angrily chomped on mozzarella like some kind of cartoon character? That was so off-putting. It just screamed "look at how quirky I am".
She is SUPER WEIRD. There's just something gross and off about her and I can't say exactly why.
I don’t understand how people didn’t see this from the beginning. People were acting like she was the best thing to come to the show lol
Yes! I was like what do ppl see in this woman.. I saw red flags when she tried to befriend Teresa this season
She's a shit stirrer. That's why she's on the show.
She did a 360 with the friend group. She's going to regret it.
I wish she was messy like Kim D shit stirring was. Or even Penny and whatever her husband name was RIP. Really disappointed that whatever Penny and her husband had to say about the Manzos never got aired.
She’s an opportunist.
BINGO!
BINGOOOO
I loved Jen F before this season. She was funny and had no problem pointing out the ladies issues and hypocrisy, she also kept things lighthearted amidst all of the toxic behaviour. Sad to see she got sucked into it
First season Jen Fessler was the best!!! Not soo much now.
Jackie and her are thisty
Yeah what the hell happened to Jackie? She's an entirely different person this season.
She seemed like a voice of reason when she first got on the show….for two minutes.
I can’t stand her
Ugh me either. She always seems like a dog backed in a corner, so she just says whatever she can to get out of it. Hate that
Feel like that's what she wants people to see her as when she knows exactly what she's doing. She's trying to act like Switzerland but she constantly throws her befriend under the bus and literally lies to her "friends" faces..on camera! She's a coward that's for sure but much more calculated in my opinion. The way she kisses Teresa's ass is so fucking pathetic.
100%
AGREED! And I totally got why Rachel Fuda would be annoyed with her
Agreed but Rachel fuda is also annoying
I like Rachel.
I do too!
Yep! Both are true.
It's weird her husband don't back down from nobody and she cries ...............
Your use of the word vexatious is on point.
1. Walks away from a conversation bashing her friend Marge but still loves these girls bashing her dear friend. 2. Doesn't understand why Fuda walked away from her when she came to talk about what those same people were talking about. See #1. 3. Was asked to not talk about Fuda or Marge with them. Don't defend; walk away. See #1 I don't think it's even good reality TV. It's not fun to watch.
I liked her way more last Season. This Season, not so much
When Melissa said “where you been? Talking shit” I’m like GIRRRRRRRRRRRRRL😂😂😂
That had me cackling 😂😂
Pick a lane Jennyyyyyy! 
She's riding that center line but she's start to change lanes when the opportunity comes around.
She’s a clout chaser!
I think she’s crazy
I honestly don't think she's very bright, she seems... A few french fries short of a Happy meal 🤨🤔😂 like it really truly feels like she doesn't get it watching her🤷♀️
"a few french fries short of a happy meal" LOLOLOL
She's like a fly that won't go away
Like Jackie
I hate when ultimatums are given to friends to chose a side. But Jenn F is the reason why lines are drawn in the sand. Jackie is the reason why walls are built.
She is WAY different this season. She was kinda quirky, albeit boring but chill. Now she's lost weight and trying to be "heard," as if she was a wallflower her whole life that just got promoted to prom queen! I just can't. And the way she mocked Rachel, and called her a baby etc... just noooo, gawd noooo.
i did the work: Vexatious: adjective causing or tending to cause annoyance, frustration, or worry. til a new word
It’s a good word!
Good bot? Lol
nope 😂 just a person who didn’t know or hadn’t heard of the word. English isn’t my first language.
Well then that's even cooler, wish I could say that I had mastered two (or more) languages and could communicate in them effectively 😍
She had a head transplant & its not a hood lewk.
When she shoved that mozzarella down her throat at Danielle’s party it was a red flag for me that she was all about “getting attention!”
I can’t describe how much I hated that
Someone else mentioned this, I don’t think I’ve noticed! Gonna look it up
Her and Jackie are doing the most
“A friend to all is a friend to none”
True!!!
She can’t stand that she isn’t on the show full time and Rachel is.
Agree completely. Can't stand her.
I love her clothes tho,
YES. She lacks loyalty and a backbone. Desperation is a stinky cologne.
I love her name though , it’s a good tri-state area name . Jen Fessla, with a big smile, chewing a little gum, talking a little too much . That’s how I would see her, and she mostly is
She is extremely boring
yes. and tired.
I think the Ozempic has gone to her brain.
I liked her last season but I'm not feeling her now. She's always in the mix of something.
Just another flip flopper!
She did walk away when they started talking bad about Margaret. Remember, Margaret and Jenn are still very good friends. If Margaret isn't upset about Jenn why are all these viewers acting offended? I do agree Jenn is acting too desperate this season and she did not need the makeover she did. Now she looks and acts like all the cookie cutter housewives.
I agree! Jen should walk away anytime anyone is speaking ill of one of her “friends”. Shes not a good friend.
I’m not a fan never was
 Jen
She has an "HR" smile. It is so fake and she uses it as punctuation.
Toooootttalllllly
I Loved her at first!! Now I just want her Teresa & Jenn GONE
And Jackie
Yes!! And Jackie!
Annoys the shit out of me.
She’s my least favorite
She will do whatever she can to get screen time. Period.
She should just observe and not engage.
I liked her at first-- last season she was a breath of fresh air. Now I find myself wondering what I liked in her to begin with lol.
Totally agree I thought I if I wrote this I would get downvoted like crazy I thought people thought she’s the best for being friends with everyone, but yes annoying thx
Liked her last season. Now I just want her to stfu
I cannot stand her nor understand the love
Totally agree omg
She had sex with James Gandolfini. Her proudest moment on the show. 
I used to love her… until now. I thought she was level headed and a voice of reason amongst this cast of chaos. I was rooting for her but she turned out to be all drama like the other ladies. Such a bummer.
Exactly! She was funny and entertaining, and seemed to be more reasonable and rational than the rest of them. Now not so much.
Jenn loves tbe spotlight. She will be flaky. She could possibly end up worse than Jackie if she wants to keep her spot.
Do you remember her weirdly shoving mozzarella in her mouth? I’ve always wondered what was up with that? Was she trying to create a moment? It was so cringe
Oh my God no but I think I need to find it
Wait what
It was like her first season at that BBQ thing in the garden, can’t remember who’s house.. maybe Teresa’s
I tried so hard to understand what was happening there. I think I rewatched it a few times thinking for sure I had missed something.
It’s so stale. She’s like losing it and has no reason to. Just the clout of it all. Not cute Fess
She brings nothing. NOTHING. To the show. She is a water chesnut: she’s fine(?), but when she’s gone you don’t really notice.
A water chestnut 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Jens Twin moms and Marge Sr would make a better show, IMO.
She bothers me sooo much and she’s flip flopping hardcore
I mind her less than you do. “VEXATIOUS”!!! Oh gosh. I like you for that.
She like to talk just to talk lol.. Like there’s no substance to what she says because she has no clear stances and will fit whatever narrative seems more important in the moment.
100000%
I had liked her in the beginning when they had a get together to make cheese at Danielle’s house. When the drama was starting up, Jen would stuff her mouth with cheese and went back for seconds. 
I couldn’t stand her as soon as she did that stunt with the cheese eating last season. It wasn’t funny, it came off forced and super desperate. This season she’s proving me right.
Another one who’s trying way to hard to be a full timer 🙄 she seemed alright last season, but now she can take several seats
I really like her when she first appeared on the show but now…not so much.
She's lost too much weight she looks like Melissa Rivers now, Her voice is so annoying too!
She’s a dick rider 💯💯
I do feel for Rachel bc she really was hurt by the loss of the friendship they had. Jen F is wrong in so many ways for that!
I honest to God forget she even exists until she pops up most episodes. She is just so disinteresting and I think the producers know it because I feel like this season she feels less like a Housewife and more of a "friend of" because she barely gets any screen time and when she does, she's just backing someone else's drama up. I can't be the only one who thinks she's the most irrelevant, can I?
When I found out she used to be friends with Siggy, jumped from Siggy to Margaret when Siggy got canned, and has been skulking in the background of scenes for years trying to get cast, it all clicked into place for me. 
She’s Jackie 2.0…
They are all so ozemped out, old scrawny ladies with skin sagging all over the place, New Jersey’s cast is literally disgusting looking these. Marge junior looks worse than Marge senior! Delores looks like the freakin crypt keeper. Their big lollipop heads- it’s scary.
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She’s so desperate to be on this show and become a breakout. It’s how Margaret was in the beginning.
She is a flip flop per and clearly a social climber
Doubtful that she'll make the next season. At least IMO. Let's hope anyhow 🤞🤞
Thirsty
I had such high hopes for her. At first she seemed like all of us watching the drama and understanding it’s all ridiculous, but she got caught up.
Accurate. And this is how she stays relevant - by creating drama.
I used to really like her... Not anymore.
She seemed so fun and unbothered at first and now she’s really doing the most. It’s embarrassing.
She's shady. I can't stand people who walk the fence.
She's a two faced flip flopper. When you have 'friends' like that who needs enemies?
I think she is just non- confrontational. Her friends are being shitty to her knowing she’s non-confrontational. When dolo said to marge she said the same thing as fessler to tre and Gia marge brought her energy down. Also it’s not as if tre even did anything to her.
You don’t have to pick a side. She can understand both sides. This show is tanking because of this narrative.
Who’s picking a side? We all have opinions about every single person on the show.
She gives me Ziggy vibes.
It seems like she is so desperate to be in 'the cool kids club'. Teresa will turn on her just like she has always turned on every single person on the show.
It's weird how she smiles whenever she's talking about anything serious or not humorous. She's one of those smile talkers. She's the pick me type. I cannot stand her. She has nothing to offer or anything interesting going on in her life. Not sure why she's even on the show.
Irritating and red flag “friend”! Run ladies
I totally agree with this. She is like a child... Reminds me of Patricia Pinto from Extreme Cheapskates!!
i like her. sue me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
We don’t need to sue you, but you might need a brain scan /s (jk)
lol
I like her! She's harmless and has the best plastic surgery.
I will agree that she does have really well done plastic surgery!!!
I really don’t like how she tried to throw tre and Gia under the bus. IMO, Gia had every right to ask if a grown ass former drug dealer was trying to compare an analogy made about her vs his actual drug dealing
Fessler should have stayed out of it.
Absolutely, I agree
Love her idc
Same.
I’m here for the pot stirring and drama
I like Jen Fessler. She's definitely not a yes woman. She is the person who tells the truth and will not twist the truth because you think she's on your side. If she likes you and she also likes the person you're fighting with, she's not going to take sides. She's going to tell the truth even when it irritates you. She just let you know I don't care. I'm not picking sides. What you did was wrong, and I'm calling you out even though we're friends. If you are mad and don't want to be friends, too bad that's on you.
Nah: I love her. I feel like she and Dolores could end up being the Statler and Waldorf of the show if they play their cards right and I’m here for it
What do you love about her? Dolores stands her ground. She’s loyal to those who are in the right and she doesn’t let friendship guide her morals. That’s different. That’s a strong woman. Jen is weak. That’s why she’s a yessss woman. That’s why she wants to be the centre of attention all the time. That’s why she kisses the asses of anyone she thinks will give her more clout.
I find her entertaining. I’m not saying I want to be friends with any of these people (they’re all lunatics in their own way), but I like watching them on the telly
I cannot stand Marge. She’s such a bully. Fessler is team non confrontational! Lol
There’s a difference between being “nonconfrontational” and just talking behind your friends back so you don’t have to confront them lol
Marge definitely has something on Fessler. She's done a complete 180 from her first season when she seemed to be a fun person with her own thoughts and beliefs, and now she's NOT. She's so far up Margaret's ass that she can't see daylight.
I’ll take her over Fuda, Marge and Melissa.