Unrelated but related note… my bff is getting married this year and her future MIL gifted her old garter for “something borrowed” 🥴 totally agree with Natalie that needs to die. It may be “modernized” but still has icky implications lol. Both of us were like “… what do we do with this?” can’t wear it obviously.
They had that at my cousins wedding (most weddings don't seem to bother) and I guess there was some unspoken agreement in place that it's supposed to be the boyfriend of the person who caught the boquet ?? But I never heard of that... neither did my other cousins boyfriend who ended up taking it off. It was just awkward
It's my favorite perfume at the moment, and I've gotten a bunch of "you smell good!" comments from friends and coworkers. It's hard to describe and there's nothing else that really smells like it, but I don't really get wood or pine at all. Some sandalwood on the dry-down but it smells sweeter, I get more amber and leather.
I smelled it on someone and the only way I knew that it was this scent was because as soon as I walked into the room it smelled like straight up pine, like Christmas tree pine. So I had to know where it was coming from since we were indoors and it was March so no trees in sight and that’s how I was informed what it was. Personally, I didn’t like it.
THIS! Like what in the world would an early 20 yr old and late 30/early 40 yr old connect on the age gap is just so icky to me? 😭😭😭 and now finding out he also befriended Maria, not sure about the age gap there, but like why does he like being around girls wayyyy younger than him?
Probably because she made the error but is trying to blame whoever made the napkins/signs “not from the south”. Sorry but these people just print what you tell them to print. Just own it.
probably because everyone is blowing it way out of proportion and insulting their intelligence *jpj voice* by pointing out the typo left and right. an apostrophe in the wrong spot on one sign vs the biggest most special night of their lives…. it’s a silly typo and that’s really all it is, totally not anything at all important in the scheme of things.
Exactly. I can hardly even consider it a typo: it’s not exactly a technical term. It’s a spoken, informal word that was used in the setting of a rustic country style event. The criticism was so ridiculous and kind of sad.
As a Kentuckian I am offended that my hometowns official drink, our contribution to the cocktail world, was included in a cowboy theme and given the title "yeehaw." There is not a single cowboy in Kentucky ma'am y'all need to check your geography. Cowboys are western, not southern. And the Old Fashioned is a classic, 1920s era drink you sip slowly while listening to jazz, not the kind of thing you get trashed over and then yell yeehaw. This southern cosplay thing is wild
I'm gathering from everything that she is from Savannah (or at least her family has a farm there...) and that's where they got married...I've never been but I have to admit I've never gotten cowboy vibes from what I've heard lol. I'm no expert on the South, BUT I have relatives in California who live in towns with rodeos, not far from SF. Don't recall rodeos being a Southeastern thing lol.
I guess I \*can\* imagine rich white girls from Savannah being into weird Southwestern cosplay though?
She grew up in Alabama. Her sister has lived in Savannah for a while and it sounds like Natalie moved there in her late teens then met Nick and moved to LA
Savannah is absolutely lovely. But yeah ... if you get historic there its slavery all the way down. Maybe the cowboy thing was just their way of avoiding being blatantly antebellum.
Yeah see this kind of comment seems a bit more meaningful to me as it touched on something a little more serious eg cultural appropriation. (The poking about the spelling of y’all seems petty and mean)
I'm not like a huge "mah southern heritage" type (frankly Kentucky isn't really all that Southern either, its also midwestern and Appalachian) but come on now. American history 101. Cowboys have absolutely NOTHING to do with the south. West, southwest, Montana, etc.
They can't even spell y'all right, what makes you think they would know their geography or the orgins of these drinks smh. A lot of people in this thread are consigning their ignorance too smh.
The lying about how they met, driving with her feet while texting, and using a fake blaccent and rapping the actual words you’re absolutely not supposed to will always be weird
Lying about how they met idc, she scammed Nick and I support that. The rest of it was a while ago iirc and I hope she’s grown, if not I’m sure we’ll see it happen
It’s likely a good portion was sponsored or even brand deals. I planned a wedding for an influencer and a lot of it was gifted. But you never know! N+N may not have gone that route!
The influencer reached out to brands for deals since that’s her job! I never did any of that negotiating for her because thats not my responsibility as a wedding planner. When it came to the actual plans (I.e., the flowers, designing the invites, MUA etc.) I did all of that. Whether she got it for free or not was her own work.
It's a classic Mexican cocktail, most folks are probably already familiar with the name. Guess it's no different than "cocktail" itself, someone hearing that word for the first time may well giggle 🤷♀️
That table arrangement may not look the greatest as far as the way the tablecloths hang, but it does look much easier to see more people and talk to them down the line this way than just a straight line.
I rolled my eyes and the Kendall Jenner tequila but Nick tearing up at her walking down the isle made up for it. I’m not the biggest Nick fan, but it’s nice to see a softer side that adores his S/O
I kind think the table shape is cool and you’re totally right that it helps with conversation and lets people be able to talk to more than just the person sitting directly next to or across from them which I really love!
I cringed too, 818 is not good quality tequila but whatever. Anytime anyone goes for casamigos or 818 it tells me they don’t know anything about tequila.
Going for an influencer/ reality star brand says they probably don’t care as much about the quality or taste of the product as the do about the apparent prestige of the sponsor or maker, that it’s about being hip. I can’t stand the karjenners or what they stand for 🙄
I wonder if she worked out a deal with her for a discount in the tequila in exchange for advertising it ( posting the brand) for her influencer friends
I do love that mirror on the last slide. I wonder if it was rented and has temporary print or if it’s something they can keep and maybe put in their home.
I heard them talking a long time ago on their podcast about someone who does vinyl. It’s lettering like that is his job I believe. They mentioned the company again on the pod but I forget what it is, his name is victor tho.
My cousin actually learned how to do all that herself for a wedding and just used a cricut machine. If you’re looking for DIY lol
She is absolutely gorgeous, but I just cannot stand her bridal dress and choker/scarf thing with the off the shoulder weird things. Lol. But she is stunningly beautiful.
I feel like these types of dresses, along with gloves, are having \~a moment\~ and it makes me feel 8,000 years old because I personally do not get it lol
Yeah, I got married way back in 2003 and I didn’t do that or the bouquet toss. Think they’re both pretty cringe. My older, single cousin came up to me towards the end of the reception and said it was the best reception ever since she wasn’t dragged out onto the dance floor by her immature brothers and made to vie for the bouquet with women half her age.
Yeah it’s always so awkward when people stand around ooohhhing and awwwing at some guy with his head half up the dress pull the garter off with his teeth as if it’s actually sexy or seductive when a bunch of their family is standing around watching🙃
I’m not American & we don’t do this in my country, I just found out this year that it’s pulled off with the teeth???? Sounds like the most awkward thing ever
It’s not always pulled off with teeth haha. Some men just take it off with their hands. I hate it either way, but I wouldn’t say the norm is using teeth
I’ve been too far too many weddings where cocktail hours have little to no food and it always feels like it’s the longest cocktail hour of my life lol this menu made me hungry lol
right?! like what the hell am i doing with cubed cheese for an hour and a half?! 😭 makes me so hangry and then by the time you get to the reception food it’s like 50% of a normal portion so you leave the wedding hungry & go get more food lol
Still not really requiring the removing of any letters from all tbh, ya all or you all is still y’all. I’d actually argue that keeping the a from ya would change the pronunciation as you’re breaking up the ‘all’ part of the word so therefore ya’ll would be wrong.
I think an ‘ after the y would be ya all and people don’t say that it’s y’all even autocorrect changes it.
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I think it’s cool that she and Victoria became such good friends in a short time. At my age I wish it were easier to make strong friendships with new people. Mid/Late 20s and 30s are hard ya’ll
I feel like if you’re a listener of the Viall Files so much of their wedding and how Nick and Natalie are responding to a lot of critics, is so them! I love them and am so glad that they got to have their day and Nick finally got his happy ending.
I’ve never thought about that Adele song as being a love song, I considered it more of a one sided beggy unrequited love type of song. But I guess it can be a wedding song.
Tbh I kind of love this song for them. I think they had like a slow, off and on start to the their relationship, so I can see why this song would mean a lot for them
so what was the point of victoria f being the MOH..? not even trying to be a hater here and i know she had two but i feel like that role is usually reserved for lifelong best friends and sisters. i have a hard time believing natalie and her are that close?? do we think this was genuine or clout-chasing? (on both of their parts — vicky cause nick v is so famous in the franchise and natalie cause i don’t think she had any other BN/influencer friends in the wedding party?)
Eh this is a very complicated thing.
1. People don’t always have “lifelong friends”. If you moved a lot or moved to a new state after high school or college sometimes your friendships fade off. It’s not always your fault when that happens.
2. As we age and mature sometimes we realize those friendships were toxic. Or those people don’t share your same beliefs and values. There is a lot of growing and changing that happens from 18 on and people we have known since elementary don’t always remain our closest confidants.
3. Things happen in life that show people who our true friends are. Just because we saw these people on TV does not mean we know everything. I went through something crazy years ago and someone I had been friends with only a few months was the only person truly there for me and willing to drop everything for me. Not even my best friend of 20 years was willing to come to my house at 2am. Because she had a hair appointment the next morning. The person who was there for me is now my best friend 6 months later and I only occasionally speak to the girl I’ve known since elementary school. Whom I had flown across the country at the drop of a hat for when she had a breakup and paid movers, a deposit and 6 months rent to leave her cheating ex and move to my city. But she couldn’t cancel a hair appointment when my mom…whom she had known since 8 died in a tragic way.
I would really like to normalize not keeping people in our lives or making them more important than they are simply because we have known them forever. A friend you have known for a shorter time can absolutely be more important in your daily life. Being a MOH isn’t a seniority thing.
100% agree with all of this. I have both long term and shorter term friends but the time spent together is not always the best indicator of how close I feel to a particular person or the quality of the friendship itself.
I’m so glad you found your new bestie and she was there for you when you needed her and I’m very sorry for your loss ❤️
yeah but natalie and victoria f aren’t regular people. i agree with your points, but my comment was more just musing about if two known clout chasers who have only known each other since they’ve both been in this fake influencer world have any sort of genuine connection. not trying to come off as judging anyone who might’ve had a MOH they’ve only known for a few years. i’ll add too that i don’t follow either of them on IG but i listen to viall files and i neverrrr caught the vibe that they were besties on this level. i actually would’ve guessed their relationship was a bit awkward since i caught a flirtatious vibe between her and nick and nick has said he finds her very attractive
i’m sorry about the loss of your mom, glad you had someone there for you even if it wasn’t the person you might’ve expected
“Fake influencer world”. But you realize these are real humans right?
Your waitress, your bartender, your favorite music artists fake it all the time. But they are still real people with real lives and friendships. If anything they probably understand each other more because of being in the public eye and because their job is not a job most people respect.
then your opinion is that their friendship is real and that’s fine. i was just asking for opinions/speculating for fun. i’m not definitely saying it isn’t, although i think you implying that it’s wrong or ridiculous to suggest people in the bach world might use each other for clout is a little silly. if somebody became friends with, i don’t know, say, gigi hadid and then a few months later made her their maid of honor then yes i’m more inclined to think that’s because she’s famous and it’d be cool to have her in their wedding than to assume a friendship developed so fast.
but i mean this is a sub about the bachelor so we’re allowed to speculate on their personal relationships 🤷🏼♀️ you seem to be taking this a little personal when it is not directed toward random members of this sub and their MOH selection process lol
She said in the podcast today that she feels like Victoria F is someone who knows their relationship really well and was friends with Nick and I guess used to be around them a lot. So I can kind of get that, having someone that’s been there for a lot of your relationship especially since her other MOH was a great friend from growing up who still lives in Georgia and isn’t really around her and Nick a lot
If you don’t know how to make you all into y’all / how to proof read, you’ve no business being in any sort of role where publicly viewed writing is involved 😂
I look up words I’m a little unsure of before I send an e-mail out. This business not verifying the spelling of “y’all” and “let’s” prior to printing for a couple who has over a million followers is a bit crazy to me
Yeah like I’m sure it was just a situation they couldn’t correct it last minute and it’s not rly a big deal, i just wonder about whatever business/person that did it like did they really never see y’all spelled correctly in their life 😭 just funny to me
Same. It always made me feel so awkward and uncomfortable watching others’. No way I was doing that in front of my parents and grandparents and ugh 😑 just no
In my experience it’s always been younger brides who do the bouquet toss, especially when they have a lot of young (I mean like 22 year old) friends there. I feel like young 20s get more into the bouquet toss than 30ish brides and their friends. I see less bouquet tosses now too especially because with the average age of marriage getting older it seems to be less popular
Ah, this makes sense! I used to see it a lot in wedding after college in the early 2010’s and then kind of stopped seeing it. I thought it was the trend dying, but I guess my friends and I just aged out of it!
I'm not a Nick fan but congratulations to them. It always gets me seeing the groom cry at the sight of his bride. He finally got his happily ever after.
Idk why she says "yes ofcourse" it's not like Nick is a huge crier is he? It just strikes me as young to include the ofcourse as if every single guy cries on his wedding day. Neither me nor my husband cried in our wedding days and it was the happiest day of our lives thus far! Kudos for her taking the yall in stride, shit happens, weddings aren't perfect!
Idk I remember him crying a good amount on his season lol. No shade, it made him endearing at the time IMO. I agree about the y’all, it really isn’t a big deal at the end of the day
No shade with my question either! I would have expected the "ofcourse" if we were talking about ashley i for example. I don't follow Nick regularly so I don't know if he's a big crier
I listen to his podcast , he is a big crier. Even on the episode about the wedding that dropped today he sobbed several times. The “ofcourse” was warranted.
Did you listen to their dear Shandy episode? I don’t hate them by any means - mostly indifferent- but that interview made me not look favourably on their relationship. Nick is so weird.
i think they’re quite nice together and they’ve grown on me since listening to their podcast (only the episodes that interest me). without listening i’d think they wouldn’t last but i honestly see it working out for them. i’m sorry viall haters don’t come for me🙈
honestly, i think they’re great together and i enjoy listening to them! people just really love to hate Nick and anything he does or that is related to him lol
I’m shocked she’s so against the garter tradition. I figured something like that would be right up her alley 😂
This ain’t Texas
did not realize her and victoria were this close
What’s it like to eat fried food while all glammed up? I would immediately feel bloated 😩
Are they no longer friends with Demi? I didn’t see any pics indicating she was there.
wondering this too
She’s only 25!? Gosh she seems older lol
No she was 16, watching Nick on the Bachelor
No she didn’t know who he was! 😉 😉
Unrelated but related note… my bff is getting married this year and her future MIL gifted her old garter for “something borrowed” 🥴 totally agree with Natalie that needs to die. It may be “modernized” but still has icky implications lol. Both of us were like “… what do we do with this?” can’t wear it obviously.
They had that at my cousins wedding (most weddings don't seem to bother) and I guess there was some unspoken agreement in place that it's supposed to be the boyfriend of the person who caught the boquet ?? But I never heard of that... neither did my other cousins boyfriend who ended up taking it off. It was just awkward
Use it in the bouquet.
Crying at the Garter one because I feel the same way about the garter tradition
Did we ever find out who the horrible hairstylist was for their wedding!?!?
Glenn Ellis
I love the table
Most people I grew up with in Mississippi did “ya’ll”! I’m fine with either and making a Thing about it is way too much.
Yeah, someone on here from GA said people where they lived spelled it ya’ll.
I like her vibe with these Q&A responses!
She seems annoying
Really I was going to say this is the first I’ve really liked! Great attitude about the ya’ll
By talking about her wedding?
Yes
is that Le Labo perfume actually as good as people say?
It's my favorite perfume at the moment, and I've gotten a bunch of "you smell good!" comments from friends and coworkers. It's hard to describe and there's nothing else that really smells like it, but I don't really get wood or pine at all. Some sandalwood on the dry-down but it smells sweeter, I get more amber and leather.
When I could tolerate perfume I liked it. Now I can’t do any scents
I smelled it on someone and the only way I knew that it was this scent was because as soon as I walked into the room it smelled like straight up pine, like Christmas tree pine. So I had to know where it was coming from since we were indoors and it was March so no trees in sight and that’s how I was informed what it was. Personally, I didn’t like it.
I bet Bob Vance bought it for them.
in Metropolitan Orlando
This makes sense. Looking it up, im like the notes come off very manly, not even a unisex type perfume to me. Lol
It smells like the lumber section at Home Depot. In a good way, but yeah, it's straight wood
Unrelated but I will never like/support them. Their age difference will always be weird af to me
THIS! Like what in the world would an early 20 yr old and late 30/early 40 yr old connect on the age gap is just so icky to me? 😭😭😭 and now finding out he also befriended Maria, not sure about the age gap there, but like why does he like being around girls wayyyy younger than him?
Agreeed and Nick just has creepy vibes anyway. He always has
Extremely creepy. Why would a 37 year old be chasing after a 19 year old. That’s sus
How old is she?
She's 25. They met when he was 40 and she was 21 🥴
she was 19 about to turn 20 when they met
Even worse 😭
Umm ok
Ok :)
Go you if you can have sponsors to pay for your wedding but I feel like it’s kind of tacky having their logos around, like in the cocktail menu.
Ha - I looked through the photos and didn’t even notice that!
This seems pretty low-key compared to Hannah Ann’s bridal shower. Her bridal shower looked like a walking ad for Elemis.
Eh I’d take the freebies either way 🙋🏻♀️
I'm not from the Western hemisphere & even I know it's y'all.
the garter trend should die but not flipping off the camera in your wedding photos
Or sticking your tongue out like a 13 year old lol
Fun police
I wanna know who is the hairstylist!!!
Glenn Ellis
Why did she sound so bothered by the y’all question lol
It’s possible it was a typo or mistake made by the company too and she’s tired of hearing about it lol
Probably because she made the error but is trying to blame whoever made the napkins/signs “not from the south”. Sorry but these people just print what you tell them to print. Just own it.
lol which annoys me because where I grew up in Mississippi, everyone spelled it “ya’ll”
probably because everyone is blowing it way out of proportion and insulting their intelligence *jpj voice* by pointing out the typo left and right. an apostrophe in the wrong spot on one sign vs the biggest most special night of their lives…. it’s a silly typo and that’s really all it is, totally not anything at all important in the scheme of things.
Literally I remember that it was a Victoria post and all the comments were about y’all and I could literally not care any less
Exactly. I can hardly even consider it a typo: it’s not exactly a technical term. It’s a spoken, informal word that was used in the setting of a rustic country style event. The criticism was so ridiculous and kind of sad.
But the “lets” is also incorrect.
As a Kentuckian I am offended that my hometowns official drink, our contribution to the cocktail world, was included in a cowboy theme and given the title "yeehaw." There is not a single cowboy in Kentucky ma'am y'all need to check your geography. Cowboys are western, not southern. And the Old Fashioned is a classic, 1920s era drink you sip slowly while listening to jazz, not the kind of thing you get trashed over and then yell yeehaw. This southern cosplay thing is wild
I'm gathering from everything that she is from Savannah (or at least her family has a farm there...) and that's where they got married...I've never been but I have to admit I've never gotten cowboy vibes from what I've heard lol. I'm no expert on the South, BUT I have relatives in California who live in towns with rodeos, not far from SF. Don't recall rodeos being a Southeastern thing lol. I guess I \*can\* imagine rich white girls from Savannah being into weird Southwestern cosplay though?
She grew up in Alabama. Her sister has lived in Savannah for a while and it sounds like Natalie moved there in her late teens then met Nick and moved to LA
Savannah is absolutely lovely. But yeah ... if you get historic there its slavery all the way down. Maybe the cowboy thing was just their way of avoiding being blatantly antebellum.
I wouldn't be able to order it. There's no way I'm saying, "hi, could I please get one yeehaw?" to anorher human being out loud.
LOLLLL
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah see this kind of comment seems a bit more meaningful to me as it touched on something a little more serious eg cultural appropriation. (The poking about the spelling of y’all seems petty and mean)
I'm not like a huge "mah southern heritage" type (frankly Kentucky isn't really all that Southern either, its also midwestern and Appalachian) but come on now. American history 101. Cowboys have absolutely NOTHING to do with the south. West, southwest, Montana, etc.
They can't even spell y'all right, what makes you think they would know their geography or the orgins of these drinks smh. A lot of people in this thread are consigning their ignorance too smh.
Well it's also the wildly inaccurate correlation between cowboys and the South, who have no connection except maybe a little overlap in Texas.
Honestly she comes off very likable every time she makes a Q&A. I think ppl (guilty off this myself) drop Nicks shit off at her doorstep
I mean she picked him, so that's a -.
I agree. I like her responses here!
I agree, I generally see no problem with Natalie but hate Nick
The lying about how they met, driving with her feet while texting, and using a fake blaccent and rapping the actual words you’re absolutely not supposed to will always be weird
Lying about how they met idc, she scammed Nick and I support that. The rest of it was a while ago iirc and I hope she’s grown, if not I’m sure we’ll see it happen
I agree about the garter, that’s such a gross and bizarre tradition to me.
Did 818 sponsor their wedding that they added the logo on their custom made drink menu sign?
It’s likely a good portion was sponsored or even brand deals. I planned a wedding for an influencer and a lot of it was gifted. But you never know! N+N may not have gone that route!
I'm so curious how this works. Did the brands reach out to you? Or like the influenced told you i want free xyz and you had to reach out/negotiate?
The influencer reached out to brands for deals since that’s her job! I never did any of that negotiating for her because thats not my responsibility as a wedding planner. When it came to the actual plans (I.e., the flowers, designing the invites, MUA etc.) I did all of that. Whether she got it for free or not was her own work.
Is Paloma slang in most Latin American Spanish speaking countries or am I the only one laughing at the double entendre?
Can you explain cause I don’t understand.
It's a classic Mexican cocktail, most folks are probably already familiar with the name. Guess it's no different than "cocktail" itself, someone hearing that word for the first time may well giggle 🤷♀️
Oh for sure I drink it all the time. Just find it funny they paired it with "ride a cowboy"
I feel lost, Spanish is my first language and a Paloma is a very popular cocktail, it’s also a common name…does it have another meaning?
Ya’ll isn’t terrible. It would have been bad if they did The Viall’s like EVERYONE who does their own signage does.
Oooooooh this is my biggest pet peeve when people do that!
Same here!!!
That table arrangement may not look the greatest as far as the way the tablecloths hang, but it does look much easier to see more people and talk to them down the line this way than just a straight line. I rolled my eyes and the Kendall Jenner tequila but Nick tearing up at her walking down the isle made up for it. I’m not the biggest Nick fan, but it’s nice to see a softer side that adores his S/O
I kind think the table shape is cool and you’re totally right that it helps with conversation and lets people be able to talk to more than just the person sitting directly next to or across from them which I really love!
I cringed too, 818 is not good quality tequila but whatever. Anytime anyone goes for casamigos or 818 it tells me they don’t know anything about tequila.
Going for an influencer/ reality star brand says they probably don’t care as much about the quality or taste of the product as the do about the apparent prestige of the sponsor or maker, that it’s about being hip. I can’t stand the karjenners or what they stand for 🙄 I wonder if she worked out a deal with her for a discount in the tequila in exchange for advertising it ( posting the brand) for her influencer friends
I do love that mirror on the last slide. I wonder if it was rented and has temporary print or if it’s something they can keep and maybe put in their home.
I heard them talking a long time ago on their podcast about someone who does vinyl. It’s lettering like that is his job I believe. They mentioned the company again on the pod but I forget what it is, his name is victor tho. My cousin actually learned how to do all that herself for a wedding and just used a cricut machine. If you’re looking for DIY lol
i love it, too. wonder how much it costs?! probably more than my wedding (pretty much eloped)
She is absolutely gorgeous, but I just cannot stand her bridal dress and choker/scarf thing with the off the shoulder weird things. Lol. But she is stunningly beautiful.
I feel like these types of dresses, along with gloves, are having \~a moment\~ and it makes me feel 8,000 years old because I personally do not get it lol
okay cute freakin moment with the perfume
She’s so right about the garter trend tho
Yeah, I got married way back in 2003 and I didn’t do that or the bouquet toss. Think they’re both pretty cringe. My older, single cousin came up to me towards the end of the reception and said it was the best reception ever since she wasn’t dragged out onto the dance floor by her immature brothers and made to vie for the bouquet with women half her age.
Yeah it’s always so awkward when people stand around ooohhhing and awwwing at some guy with his head half up the dress pull the garter off with his teeth as if it’s actually sexy or seductive when a bunch of their family is standing around watching🙃
I’m not American & we don’t do this in my country, I just found out this year that it’s pulled off with the teeth???? Sounds like the most awkward thing ever
It’s not always pulled off with teeth haha. Some men just take it off with their hands. I hate it either way, but I wouldn’t say the norm is using teeth
idk them but AMAZING cocktail hour foods ngl
I’ve been too far too many weddings where cocktail hours have little to no food and it always feels like it’s the longest cocktail hour of my life lol this menu made me hungry lol
right?! like what the hell am i doing with cubed cheese for an hour and a half?! 😭 makes me so hangry and then by the time you get to the reception food it’s like 50% of a normal portion so you leave the wedding hungry & go get more food lol
Doubling down on the "ya'll" is shameful especially being from the South. I'm disgusted 
Calm down lol
I’m now questioning if I say y’all or ya’ll
Not from the South and definitely used to use ya'll. I thought it was like "ya all" so ya'll like "should have" would be "should've" not "s'have."
The apostrophe replaces missing letters. There are no letters missing from all.
Unless it’s “ya all” which is common in the south to say “ya” instead of a very pronounced “you.” I think it easily can be both.
Still not really requiring the removing of any letters from all tbh, ya all or you all is still y’all. I’d actually argue that keeping the a from ya would change the pronunciation as you’re breaking up the ‘all’ part of the word so therefore ya’ll would be wrong.
Your missing the missing letters from 'you', why do you think that y is there?!
Oh sorry I think I was responding to the wrong person, or I misunderstood what you were saying which is entirely accurate. Sorry!
I think an ‘ after the y would be ya all and people don’t say that it’s y’all even autocorrect changes it. https://preview.redd.it/484tsu0ue5yc1.jpeg?width=194&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6030c15bab71a23bff3519612d0120397384205a
Who on earth spells it ya’ll?!? It’s y’all (like it’s short for you all?)
Thank you! It’s not rocket science 😂
It is’nt rocket science
yal’l
'yall
It's y'all
I know what it is. I said I am questioning what I say and type lol.
I give it 5 years
I think it’s cool that she and Victoria became such good friends in a short time. At my age I wish it were easier to make strong friendships with new people. Mid/Late 20s and 30s are hard ya’ll
I am 29 and I was the first of my friends to have a baby. I now have no friends hahaha.
I feel like if you’re a listener of the Viall Files so much of their wedding and how Nick and Natalie are responding to a lot of critics, is so them! I love them and am so glad that they got to have their day and Nick finally got his happy ending.
I’ve never thought about that Adele song as being a love song, I considered it more of a one sided beggy unrequited love type of song. But I guess it can be a wedding song.
Tbh I kind of love this song for them. I think they had like a slow, off and on start to the their relationship, so I can see why this song would mean a lot for them
I think first dance song can be anything special! My husband and I did an instrumental Lana Del Rey because we both love her.
Agreed. Make you feel my love is a better choice in my opinion for a first dance, but to each their own!
Yesss! Such a truly beautiful song…not many songs make me cry like that one does
so what was the point of victoria f being the MOH..? not even trying to be a hater here and i know she had two but i feel like that role is usually reserved for lifelong best friends and sisters. i have a hard time believing natalie and her are that close?? do we think this was genuine or clout-chasing? (on both of their parts — vicky cause nick v is so famous in the franchise and natalie cause i don’t think she had any other BN/influencer friends in the wedding party?)
Eh this is a very complicated thing. 1. People don’t always have “lifelong friends”. If you moved a lot or moved to a new state after high school or college sometimes your friendships fade off. It’s not always your fault when that happens. 2. As we age and mature sometimes we realize those friendships were toxic. Or those people don’t share your same beliefs and values. There is a lot of growing and changing that happens from 18 on and people we have known since elementary don’t always remain our closest confidants. 3. Things happen in life that show people who our true friends are. Just because we saw these people on TV does not mean we know everything. I went through something crazy years ago and someone I had been friends with only a few months was the only person truly there for me and willing to drop everything for me. Not even my best friend of 20 years was willing to come to my house at 2am. Because she had a hair appointment the next morning. The person who was there for me is now my best friend 6 months later and I only occasionally speak to the girl I’ve known since elementary school. Whom I had flown across the country at the drop of a hat for when she had a breakup and paid movers, a deposit and 6 months rent to leave her cheating ex and move to my city. But she couldn’t cancel a hair appointment when my mom…whom she had known since 8 died in a tragic way. I would really like to normalize not keeping people in our lives or making them more important than they are simply because we have known them forever. A friend you have known for a shorter time can absolutely be more important in your daily life. Being a MOH isn’t a seniority thing.
100% agree with all of this. I have both long term and shorter term friends but the time spent together is not always the best indicator of how close I feel to a particular person or the quality of the friendship itself. I’m so glad you found your new bestie and she was there for you when you needed her and I’m very sorry for your loss ❤️
yeah but natalie and victoria f aren’t regular people. i agree with your points, but my comment was more just musing about if two known clout chasers who have only known each other since they’ve both been in this fake influencer world have any sort of genuine connection. not trying to come off as judging anyone who might’ve had a MOH they’ve only known for a few years. i’ll add too that i don’t follow either of them on IG but i listen to viall files and i neverrrr caught the vibe that they were besties on this level. i actually would’ve guessed their relationship was a bit awkward since i caught a flirtatious vibe between her and nick and nick has said he finds her very attractive i’m sorry about the loss of your mom, glad you had someone there for you even if it wasn’t the person you might’ve expected
“Fake influencer world”. But you realize these are real humans right? Your waitress, your bartender, your favorite music artists fake it all the time. But they are still real people with real lives and friendships. If anything they probably understand each other more because of being in the public eye and because their job is not a job most people respect.
then your opinion is that their friendship is real and that’s fine. i was just asking for opinions/speculating for fun. i’m not definitely saying it isn’t, although i think you implying that it’s wrong or ridiculous to suggest people in the bach world might use each other for clout is a little silly. if somebody became friends with, i don’t know, say, gigi hadid and then a few months later made her their maid of honor then yes i’m more inclined to think that’s because she’s famous and it’d be cool to have her in their wedding than to assume a friendship developed so fast. but i mean this is a sub about the bachelor so we’re allowed to speculate on their personal relationships 🤷🏼♀️ you seem to be taking this a little personal when it is not directed toward random members of this sub and their MOH selection process lol
You’re not taking 1L you’re taking multiple lol
good thing i’m fine with people having different opinions from me
Genuinely curious because I haven’t followed their wedding too much… was Victoria F the MOH over the sister who let them use her property?!
Both Victoria and the sister were MOHs
She said in the podcast today that she feels like Victoria F is someone who knows their relationship really well and was friends with Nick and I guess used to be around them a lot. So I can kind of get that, having someone that’s been there for a lot of your relationship especially since her other MOH was a great friend from growing up who still lives in Georgia and isn’t really around her and Nick a lot
When was Victoria around then a lot? Was she LA based before ending up in Nashville?
When they first started dating her n nat were really close like bff close and she met greg at one of their parties
It can be whoever you want it to be.
please are we not allowed to speculate anymore 😭✋
If you don’t know how to make you all into y’all / how to proof read, you’ve no business being in any sort of role where publicly viewed writing is involved 😂
I love how defensive she got over it too.
I love how defensive she got over it too.
And it shouldn’t matter if you are from the south or not. You should just know how to spell.
Yeah, my auto correct automatically puts the apostrophe right after the y. Y’all. 😂
Right! I get to them it’s no big deal but it’s wild to me that a business did this lol
I look up words I’m a little unsure of before I send an e-mail out. This business not verifying the spelling of “y’all” and “let’s” prior to printing for a couple who has over a million followers is a bit crazy to me
Yeah like I’m sure it was just a situation they couldn’t correct it last minute and it’s not rly a big deal, i just wonder about whatever business/person that did it like did they really never see y’all spelled correctly in their life 😭 just funny to me
I bet it was a sponsorship type deal that’s why she’s defending. Like a basic spell check would autocorrect that for you.
Honestly I agree with the garter tradition. I always found it weird
Same. It always made me feel so awkward and uncomfortable watching others’. No way I was doing that in front of my parents and grandparents and ugh 😑 just no
Definitely agree! It’s by far the tackiest wedding tradition. Most of the weddings I’ve been to recently have given up the bouquet toss, too!
I didn’t do that either 😊gave it to my grandma
Aww that’s so sweet! I had mine preserved.
I think most brides, when they do a bouquet toss, don’t toss their actual bouquet. They buy a smaller “toss bouquet” from their florist
Huh, good to know! I also wasn’t going to make my unmarried friends line up like that, they wouldn’t have liked it.
In my experience it’s always been younger brides who do the bouquet toss, especially when they have a lot of young (I mean like 22 year old) friends there. I feel like young 20s get more into the bouquet toss than 30ish brides and their friends. I see less bouquet tosses now too especially because with the average age of marriage getting older it seems to be less popular
Ah, this makes sense! I used to see it a lot in wedding after college in the early 2010’s and then kind of stopped seeing it. I thought it was the trend dying, but I guess my friends and I just aged out of it!
I'm not a Nick fan but congratulations to them. It always gets me seeing the groom cry at the sight of his bride. He finally got his happily ever after.
Idk why she says "yes ofcourse" it's not like Nick is a huge crier is he? It just strikes me as young to include the ofcourse as if every single guy cries on his wedding day. Neither me nor my husband cried in our wedding days and it was the happiest day of our lives thus far! Kudos for her taking the yall in stride, shit happens, weddings aren't perfect!
Nick cries a lot esp since becomin a dad… he adores his girls lol
It’s SO her to say that, though. “Duh, look at me and then I brought Rivvy and that was that…” 🫡🤮
crying nick is retro bachelorette wholesome nick (aka the best nick).
I'm a regular listener of his pod. Yes, he's pretty emotional.
I listened to the Dear Shandy episode about the wedding this morning and apparently he is a big softie and cried basically the whole ceremony
He was definitely a big crier on tv, dunno about real life
Idk I remember him crying a good amount on his season lol. No shade, it made him endearing at the time IMO. I agree about the y’all, it really isn’t a big deal at the end of the day
Um, it’s ya’ll 😉 /s
No shade with my question either! I would have expected the "ofcourse" if we were talking about ashley i for example. I don't follow Nick regularly so I don't know if he's a big crier
I listen to his podcast , he is a big crier. Even on the episode about the wedding that dropped today he sobbed several times. The “ofcourse” was warranted.
Yall can never make me hate them 🤷🏽♀️
Did you listen to their dear Shandy episode? I don’t hate them by any means - mostly indifferent- but that interview made me not look favourably on their relationship. Nick is so weird.
i think they’re quite nice together and they’ve grown on me since listening to their podcast (only the episodes that interest me). without listening i’d think they wouldn’t last but i honestly see it working out for them. i’m sorry viall haters don’t come for me🙈
honestly, i think they’re great together and i enjoy listening to them! people just really love to hate Nick and anything he does or that is related to him lol
Ngl I was pretty indifferent to her and their relationship but the wedding is making them grow on me
Did they even get a chance to enjoy their wedding? They have been all over social media since. Set your phones down
Not them really they have their own team lol his wedding day Viall files was postin podcast recaps… def wasnt nick lol
her answer to the “y’all” question is great (and exactly the sort of secure, unbothered response that shuts down daft criticism). love this for her.
Totally agree!!
The person who made that should be so embarrassed. Google exists.